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2014.07.20 23:24 ldgoisdhgio Fan Dubs: English Anime Dubs by fans!
This is a subreddit where you can offer to join up with other users to dub anime. I had this idea when I found out a few tricks for dubbing over episodes. For releasing of dubbed over content legally. I believe we'd have to make a you tube video with just audio that can be synced up to the video. I hope this takes off. It can be great fun for anyone who wants to become a voice actor.
2023.03.22 22:57 xx_alanaspice What a silly situation
I’m in an open marriage. My husband isn’t into the physical act anymore so I can dilly dally as I please.
About 6 months ago, I met my MM AP. I’m his first outsider. He’s a total dream boat. Handsome, smart, funny. We might even be a little in love with each other.
Except.
The man refuses to fuck me. We do the sexting. We hang out in person. But no sex. I’m in an EA with kisses.
And I can’t be mad, since we click on all levels and I know it would be incredible sex but he’s too afraid to pull the physical trigger. So now I have two men that I totally love hanging out with… and no outlet for my hormones. How silly.
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2023.03.22 22:57 Extra_Negotiation Looking for input lag table comparing popular controllers - is this even the way to shop now?
I'm controller shopping for a Retroarch (NES/SNES) / CEMU (BOTW) setup. PC with a 2700x CPU and a RX 580 GPU (Windows or Linux - dual boot). Would be playing a lot of side scrollers, puzzle, racing and 3rd person perspective adventure (like Breath of the Wild).
A while back I installed retroarch and had technical hiccups which seem to be resolved now, years later, so I'm back in the game! There used to be a table showing input lag tests for a collection of controllers. I can't find it anymore, and I'm also not sure how up to date it would be, what with the various firmware updates etc. I'm also aware this might not even be the best way to compare controllers now.
Is there an input lag table available? Is there a better way of determining the best controller for me?
Open to stuff like 8bitdo (pro, ultimate I guess?), ps4/ps5, etc.
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2023.03.22 22:57 Small_Cow_9322 I got love bombed by my crush and she's still in my class...
Okay so here goes...
I'm gonna start by saying I'm not really the type of guy that puts out his fears and frustration on the internet. As someone who hasn't had social media for over 2 years now, it's pretty new for me to put such a personal story as this one out on the open for everyone to read. But as I am so desperate for just a few new perspectives I'm trying everything I can. This is also gonna be a really long post so I imagine not many people are going to read through all of this but, oh well.
I am a 21 year old male and I am currently doing my second year in college in motion design. For a little backstory I must say I didn't have the best time when I was in high school. I wasn't bullied or anything but I always felt like an outcast as I was always 'the white kid' and my interests never aligned with what the rest of the kids liked. In my fourth year of high school I made a lady friend who became a really, really close friend of mine for about 1,5 years. But of course I had to catch feelings at some point so I kind of ruined the friendship. Even though that was 4 years ago already and now we're back to talking again and are even closer then before, those 3 years we were in class together- not on speaking terms- were the hardest years of my entire life. I know I screwed up our friendship and I kept having dreams about her (not in a romantic kinda way but just because I really missed our friendship as she was really the only person, I felt like, ever REALLY knew me). It really messed me up and I have never felt more alone in those years in my life.
Flash forward and I'm starting my first year in college now. I had a few relationships and felt like college really was a fresh start for me. That summer I also started dating a girl but as soon as college started I broke up with her. This may be a bit cruel to say but I just wanted a fresh start from everything that I could possibly 'leave behind' and I felt like she was still kind of part of my 'old life'.
Although I was a bit anxious at first, college quickly became the way I realised and since I first stepped foot in that school, those have been the 1,5 happiest years of my life. For the first time I was able to really connect with multiple people and groups with people that I felt really understood by. Everyone was also much more mature and our interests aligned way better. I was so happy.
In this time I also really did not want a relationship because I was having so much fun with all my new friends (and my old lady friend from high school that I finally made up with a few weeks after school started) and just 'fun' with random girls. After I left my ex I also found out she cheated on me with my best friend from at the time as well, so that was another reason I didn't want to open up to many people for a relationship. That's coming from a guy who's biggest dream, these years before, was to just have a girlfriend who'd love him back. But there was this one girl in my class that I always, since day one, just felt really special about. She was my CRUSH. It was just something about the way she looked, spoke, the energy she was giving off... I really didn't want a relationship but somewhere deep down I always thought: If I'm ever open to step into something serious again, it MUST be with this girl.
I never really made a move because I just didn't really want or need anything serious and I would always make that clear as well to every girl I ever dated in that time. But one day my crush from class sent me a message and SHE asked ME out. I was really flabbergasted as I didn't think she was into me but apparently she was. So we started to chat a little bit and at the start of Winter break we had our first date. Before we ever went on the date she also started to send me good morning texts and goodnight texts and would say she was looking for something serious (it kinda threw me off at the time as we didn't really knew each other that well at that point in time, but she was still my crush for over more than a year so I was too excited to brush her off for that reason alone).
We went on the date and it was literally perfect. We had a platonic connection, we had a romantic image of each other and a sexual attraction as well. Everything was just perfect but I didn't get my hopes up too much because I knew deep down that if this wouldn't work out and I would be too invested, I would be utterly devastated (spoiler alert...). I tried to let it come from her side as much as possible to see if I was just a rebound or experiment, or to see if she was genuinely interested in me as a person to build a relationship with. After the date she texted me she had a really great time and she wanted to see me again soon. She became more and more enthusiastic and fast forward 2 months of no school, we went on about 10 dates or something. We did all the classics. Went to the cinema, played boardgames she even briefly met my parents and we watched a movie at my place so she even was at my house as wel.
Everything was just too perfect. She was into me and after a long time of thinking everything trough and finally opening myself up to a relationship again, I got dumped by her...
When the current semester first started again (about 2 months ago) literally ALL of my friends switched classes. I had at least 10 people I could hang with during the classes before but none of them did the same class I'm doing currently. But this girl I was dating was still in my class and ALL of her friends were also still in this class as well. So on the first day (after the usual good morning texts from her and happy, enthusiastic texts) I went up to their table before class started and tried to make some small talk with everyone just to be ignored and looked at funny by everyone (including her). I thought that was really weird as she knew me and on our dates she was always so open and enthusiastic and via text as well. So I thought by myself; maybe I just think they're ignoring me because of my high school trauma's and actually they're just tired or didn't know what to say back to me. So I tried again. Just to be ignored again. I tried one more time, but even the third time had no succes.
I felt really shitty about that situation because if I was in her place I would try to involve my date as much in my friend group as possible, because I like her. Especially when I know all her friends are gone.
So class started and we all got an assignment so we were working on that assignment. It was about 11:30 (break is at 12:00) and I had to use the bathroom. I was sitting next to my date and I went up, left my stuff and went to the bathroom real quick. Mind that all my stuff is still there and it wasn't noon yet. I was gone for like 2 minutes max and when I came back into the aula, everyone from that group, including my date, just left without saying anything. I went back to my seat and, because of the loneliness I've experienced for years before in high school, every emotion just came back and my heart dropped to my stomach. I felt exactly like that kid again in high school with no friends, that loner who was always by himself and overthought every minor action he was doing around people.
After class I told her I didn't really feel welcome as they all ignored me and then went up and left in that one minute I went to the bathroom (I still do believe I had every right to say I felt that way) and she took it really defensively and 'broke up with me'. Her reasons were that I 'always make drama' and that I waited too long to make a move physically.
Her first point I found really strange as that was literally the first time there was ever any kind of 'drama' between us and it was also very hard and personal for me as well so it's really mean imo to just sweep it off like that and blame it on 'me being dramatic'. And the second reason was because I was thinking so long about starting something serious again with someone because I really felt that she could be the one for me. Also, if I waited too long for her liking, why didn't she just made a move then? It all felt really strange and after 2 months being so hyped for me and saying she wanted 'the good and the bad things' that come with me, I thought this was a very sudden change of heart.
In the time we were dating I also made a drawing from here and I even framed it and bought some personal gifts because she had a surgery coming up and I wanted to give all these things when she went out of this surgery (that was how sure I was she was the one). But this rejection came before the surgery happend so I asked her if I could drop off some gifts I had for her as otherwise they would just be laying here and I had put a lot of effort and money into these gifts. She said that was fine so the next day I drove all the way to her place (it's quite a drive) and she didn't even come outside to take on the gifts so I left them on her letterbox.
I was (and from time to time still am) utterly devastated from this rejection. I am a guy in my 20's so it's not like I'm not used to getting rejected all the time (lol) but this one just felt like I lost the love of my life. It was harder than ANY break up I have ever been through and that's weird because we were never officially in a relationship.
So anyway, I'm still in class with her now for this semester and for the first time in almost two years I feel really unhappy again. I feel just the way I did in high school when I had that tension with my lady friend that ruined my mood back then. I hate going to school now and it's so hard seeing her (and everyone else for that matter) seeing having fun and being in a close friend group in class, while I'm just 90% of the time sitting alone and watching her move on with her life while I am still so much in love with her.
I'm also pretty sure she's seeing someone else now so I don't feel any hope or need to get back in touch with her. But I still have to see her every time I go to school so I can't rally give my mind a break here.
There are probably a lot of details I'm forgetting in my thread but this is the basic story and the way I feel about it.
I know this post was really long but for ANYONE who read through all of it, any tips of what I can do or how I could feel better?
Thanks!
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2023.03.22 22:56 Live-Worldliness-210 AITA for not staying overnight at my dads place since I'd have to share with my stepsisters?
My (17f) parents divorced three years ago. Technically the custody is 50/50, but they pretty much let me decide who I want to stay with and for how long. They stayed in the same town, and stayed close so I could take the bus to and from school to either place, or bike between them.
Last year my dad married his new wife, who also has my stepsisters (9,7) They're good kids, but you know it's awkward and aren't really sisters, but I'm open to that changing. The plan before was that they shared a room, and got one of my own. Issue is rent went up and they had to downsize.
Now at the new place I'd have to share with both my stepsisters. It's not that they don't behave or anything, I just like my privacy, and I'm a light sleeper. So since the move I'll come over for a few hours a couple times a week, then I bike home, I don't stay overnight.
My dads been really upset, but isn't making me go. My mom thinks I should go, but I really don't want to share a room with two kids.
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2023.03.22 22:56 ForSacredRussia1 In Sept 2022, Olga Simonova died as a hero during the offensive, liberating the Ukrainian land in the Kherson region. An interview with the heroine, which she gave to our publication in 2018.
| In memory of Olga Simonova - a Russian woman who became a warrior of Ukraine Resonance Censor . NET Society Author: Vika Yasinskaya https://preview.redd.it/8kr6x9qbobpa1.jpg?width=650&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5a8c75713227e14f89b086589b53059e354ccbb6 Olga Simonova died as a hero during the offensive, liberating the Ukrainian land in the Kherson region. An interview with the heroine, which she gave to our publication in 2018. A fighter of the 24th brigade, Russian Olga Simonova: "If a kid joins the army, he is, by definition, cool, until he proves otherwise, and a woman comes - she is, by definition, a whore, until she proves that this is not so" Warning: The text contains profanity. https://preview.redd.it/1avt3xocobpa1.jpg?width=650&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3128c5efeeeaf6993f545913b680ecfba5c71f95 In memory of Olga Simonova - a Russian woman who became a warrior of Ukraine 01 I am from Chelyabinsk. Engineer by education. From the age of 11 in sports, the main direction is contact martial arts. At first I studied for myself, then I began to perform tightly at competitions, up to the European Championship. I changed coaches, directions - I didn’t stop at one, but again, without jumping back and forth. I live by the rule: faster, higher, stronger. I don't like to lose. There is a phrase: "Die, but do" - it's about me. In addition to sports, I was engaged in everything related to outdoor activities - basketball, hiking, mountaineering, bicycles, rafting, and so on. At some point, I realized that I needed to go professional. Perhaps somewhere further to break through, but just happened 14 years - and I left for Kyiv. Although I didn’t immediately understand what was happening in Ukraine: I don’t watch TV, I don’t have time for this - 9 workouts a week. While there was Maidan, I delved into it superficially. When I saw that the government was being overthrown, I thought that well done. But during the annexation of Crimea, many around were happy that Crimea was ours, I thought it was unhealthy. She said, people, 98% of you do not know where this Crimea is, and most of you will never go there in your life, from Kyiv to Chelyabinsk - 2500 km. And then in the summer of the 14th year, on Lenin Peak (In Tajikistan since 2006 - Peak named after Abu Ali ibn Sina. One of the highest peaks of Central Asia, located in the Pamir mountain system - ed.) at an altitude of 5200, I met a group of Kievans. And when they told me that there was a war going on in their country with Russia, that regular Russian soldiers were fighting in the Donbass, I felt uneasy. I came home, started looking for information, it was closed, but I managed to find something. I also had a friend from Kharkov, with whom we had not communicated for 6 years before, I wrote to her - and she said that she was already a volunteer, studying tactical medicine. When you know the truth, you have two options: look at it all and say, “Well, what can I do?” Or do as I do - take it and leave. Then everything in my life came together for the second option: there were problems at work, - and I worked in the field of trade - goods for mountaineering, - it had to be changed, I got injured in sports - I didn’t practice for a month, there was time to think everything over and plus I wanted to help somehow. I understood that while I proudly stood under the Russian flag, as an athlete, there was an "Ilovai cauldron" in Ukraine, shelling from the territory of Russia, fake republics arose that called Putin, thinking that he would change their lives. And my friend lives on Sakhalin Island - a gas field, but they don't have it in the village. https://preview.redd.it/eqf206odobpa1.jpg?width=650&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5510ba5897bfd2d6e5263c7e7bdfa279da5d0a94 Russia and Ukraine are not fraternal peoples at all. The mentality is different. Here people fight for their families, die, and in Russia they go to identify a mercenary in order to receive compensation. Russians are tougher and lazier. It's every man for himself. It is not clear to me how you can sit on a "point" in a wooden toilet and shout that we are a great country. Yes, I have one homeland and I love it, but my homeland is my mother, this is my cat, which is 17 years old and which I will never see again, this is nature: I grew up in the Urals, and there is nowhere like the taiga no more. But what Russia was doing did not fit on the head. And here, in Ukraine, the right movement has begun. And at the level of sensations at that moment, I could not make another decision. My relatives did not know where exactly and why I left. I arrived in Kyiv in December 14th. I had a certain amount of money, a backpack with things and some connections. I knew that there were volunteer battalions here, where Belarusians and Russians were fighting, and I understood that I could also apply myself in this vein. Among other things, I had a sports interest: can I? The war was another round of testing myself. In Kyiv, I found a hostel. I wanted to get into the Donbass battalion, but I didn’t get through to them and ended up in the Sever battalion with the Golden Gate volunteer battalion. It was a separate group, which was trained from December 14 to March 15, with a focus on intelligence. There was a very cool team there, recently a fighter Dima Syskov, call sign Conductor, from the 58th brigade died at the front, he also trained with me in that group. In general, we got good knowledge there, but the most important thing is that everyone was very motivated - and rushed to the forefront. And the fact that we didn’t get it was the first hard scam in Ukraine. We were stupidly disbanded. Behindthat was the moment when there was nowhere to live. There was nothing to eat. At that time, I studied to become a UAV operator, but I didn’t have to fly at the front. It so happened that the path led me to PDMG (First Volunteer Medical Hospital named after N. Pirogov, - ed.). And since I was interested in tactical medicine and had some knowledge behind me, I decided that I would try myself in this direction. I took a course in combat stress, medicine - and in the spring of 15 I got on a rotation in Artemovsk (Now Bakhmut, - ed.). As part of the evacuation brigade, we were stationed in the village of Luganskoye. We had a crew closest to the front line, we had a wonderful doctor with us, from whom I learned a lot. Everything we did was important and necessary work, but I realized that it was not mine. I wanted to fight. Batt "Dnepr-1" stood with us, as a guard and reinforcement, - and they lured me to them. I left for Pesky. Frontline jitters come when you don't know what to do. There is a phrase that in a critical situation you will not rise to the level of your expectations, but will fall to the level of your preparation. But you just can’t panic - everyone is looking at you. Although this happens to everyone. In war, there are certain algorithms and commands that reach automatism - a set of actions that you use. And when an emergency situation arises, at the first moment you don’t know what to do, you look at more experienced people and repeat after them. Plus, experience accumulates - and then you rely on it. When it was extremely scary, the enemy mortar was working, we understood that now the position would be covered, and overhead there was only a net-netting with roofing material. The mines lay closer and closer, and there is only one thing - they will not arrive. Then I sat and played marbles on the phone. After the rotation, I could no longer play this toy. But I didn't panic. It is important to be able to manage your emotions. If “Grad” is tight, and you climb out to see where it’s from, it’s stupid, but when you use your fear as an impetus for the necessary actions, for example, to deepen a trench, it’s reasonable. And I try to follow these principles. In general, I am afraid of two things: dentists and phosphorus mines. You can hardly hide from the mines, if you have some kind of small halabuda, the mine burns everything for one and a half meters - and you just burn out. And dentistry is a childhood trauma, and there is nothing I can do about it. https://preview.redd.it/ksaxnw2fobpa1.jpg?width=650&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4bba4e57f523572c13a9a452b358c0393b152842 In the early autumn of 2015, we were registered with the national security headquarters of the Dnepropetrovsk region. There were rotations in Adveevka, Vodyany. Part of the time in Krasik (Krasnoarmeysk, now Pokrovsk, - ed.) sat. And then the volunteer battalions began to withdraw from the front line. For a while I stayed at Dnepr-1, and in the spring of 16 I realized that things would not work: I would not be officially registered, and I didn’t want to stand on the 3rd line of defense, just being in this Ministry of Internal Affairs movement. And I went to my brothers in the 128th brigade. Then I managed to work as a civilian: for about a month and a half in a store related to outdoor activities, mountaineering and tourism, but I realized that I had nothing to do in peaceful cities. Lived with friends. It was not possible to rent an apartment, but to smile at the people who came and said that they were going to the Crimea, tell us something, I definitely could not. Once she did not compromise with her conscience, and even more so the second time. I wanted to try to return to the sport - I went to training, but my head and heart was in the army. Although leaving professional sports is very painful. Now I try not to come to civilian life - I have nothing to do there. Everything is alien. I don't know how people can care about the color of the cups he buys for his home? Why do you need to stand in line? Why, if you got a boor, you can’t come up and beat him for it? And I don’t want to think about what I will do if I do return there someday. For what? Another half of the contract is not served. It's like sitting in a position and dreaming about a sauna, a porcelain toilet bowl and a piece of pizza - and you feel so bad. Frozen, you understand that there is dirt around, and you really want to wash yourself - and your mood drops. Why sit and think about what you don’t have at the moment and won’t appear tomorrow. In the best case, somewhere in a week it will turn out to go to the city to eat belyash. I have not been in Ukraine illegally for a single day - I have been extending the terms of my stay all the time. When it was necessary to do some things that one would sew up, I was helped by friends and volunteer funds. Then I got a temporary residence permit - I also extended it. I had attempts to ask for citizenship, but it ended in nothing. And when the list of documents for foreign citizens came out, it became clear that you need to do everything yourself. True, Gennady Druzenko, the head of the PMGP, helped me. And in the autumn of 1916, I signed a contract and left for the east as a soldier. True, at first no one knew how to register me, because I am a foreigner. But my thenthe company commander harnessed himself very strongly for me - and they still issued me. But the funny thing is that having the citizenship of Ukraine, and I received it in the fall of 17, I still serve under a contract for foreigners. I was offered that let's sign a new one, but then it turns out that what I served before does not count. And no lawyer knows what to do with it. There are no precedents in the country for a serviceman to change citizenship. And there is no mechanism how to break this contract or renegotiate it. To set off the time that I have already served, you need to go to court. And now I have been suffering with a leg injury for two months - I go to hospitals. And in principle, being in the east, I have no time to do this. Therefore, I simply continue to serve on a contract for foreigners. I really wanted to get into the 93rd brigade, but they didn’t give me an attitude - and I ended up in the 24th as the senior shooter of a motorized infantry company. We were standing in the Lugansk region in a not very noisy place, where all the venality of the highest ranks and all the agreements became immediately visible. And zarobitchans rush into such places, it’s cool for them there, because you don’t have to fight. When it became extremely sad for me to look at all this, six months later, having managed to serve in a reconnaissance platoon, I transferred from that battalion to another battalion to the post of orderly. But in fact, my brother and I, with whom we fought together for more than a year, were a machine gun crew. We then stood near Popasna. I loved my machine gun. Any fool can click, but if this is your weapon, you must be able to shoot. Know the corrections, maintain - it must be clean, lubricated and you need to know what to do when the machine gun does not fire. It is important to love your weapon. KPVT and DShK are my little happiness. I know how to work with it, but I'm always learning something new. https://preview.redd.it/1wae22fgobpa1.jpg?width=552&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a9c5fda7cf06184128b852570b756c544683090c In the army, I feel at ease and I am sure that this is mine. I have practically no girlfriends, I'm always in the men's team. This feature that friendship between a man and a woman is impossible is not about me. I clearly separate my personal life and what I do. It used to be in sports: you go to the gym and work - and no training romances. Now it's the same at the front: we work with men on an equal footing, my brothers can call me "bro". I have never experienced any discrimination. I was never given favors. Now I am a BMP gunner-operator in the same second battalion. We have an excellent crew, and we work normally. We are standing in the Donetsk region. But if I like to fight, it does not mean that I like everything that happens in the army. I am very straightforward - and often voice that at this stage there is a total sabotage of the army reforms. The owl returns. You can't lure people who used to go to war with a "carrot" to the front. I read somewhere that it was savagery for foreigners, how a person cannot break a contract of his own free will. It turns out that this is something akin to slavery. Why do we serve according to the charter of the internal service of the Soviet Union prescribed for conscripts? That is, there is a contradiction between the contract that we sign and the statute to which we are obliged to obey. Our statute is not a code, but a punitive document. The system resists and stubbornly clings to the old guard, which is subject to total reduction. When a zhinochka, a doctor, tells me that I served in the army for 25 years, I tell her directly: “So it’s like you ruined it and sold it?” - and for some reason she takes offense at me. But this lady is used to the ball, and she attached her daughter, and everything is fine with her and fuck it. But now the system can no longer withstand such a number of beneficiaries, when UBI was distributed left and right, because of this there is already a sea of conflicts, people are starting to die. How many plans can be put to the military registration and enlistment offices, they recruit everyone in a row? And the country needs professionals. I think the time for heroes is over. A heroic deed is an indicator of the unprofessionalism of everything else. When a man threw himself naked ass at a tank - and bent his muzzle, yes, he is really a hero, he is handsome, he got his bearings in this situation, it cost him his life, but this is about everyone else. But if we form a professional army, then we need to change the principles. We should have 40 generals, just like if we are forming a new country, then we should have 40 deputies in the Verkhovna Rada, not 450. I often hear the question, where are we going to put them and so on? To lustrate, let them go somewhere x # yar to another place. After all, behind this whole shobla, worthy people are simply lost. It’s bad that we are now trying to deal with the consequences without defeating the cause, but we need to change the statute, recruitment for a contract and training. Why, in training, a contract soldier is in the barracks regime and does complete garbage there: he covers the bed under a thread with slippers flush, wears a machine gun with the barrel up, with a gas mask at the ready. But when we, the servicemen of the combat brigades, sent from the front line to the Desna training camp, tried to make a claim there, we were told that herethere is the headquarters of the ground forces, they give us a lesson plan - and we can't do anything. With regards to women in the army, it is also a huge issue - I believe that by removing 80% of the female staff, the army will not lose combat effectiveness. Many women go to the army, knowing that they will have freebies and raspberries there. Although here it is rather necessary to ask men who see a woman in a woman, and not a soldier. If she came to the combat position of an AGS grenade launcher, then the first thing you need is to give her a shovel and force her to dig a position under the AGS. Main, spare and false. And if she does it badly, then write her a p#zdyulina. And we begin endless flights, but, having become pregnant, a woman continues to occupy a combat position for a certain amount of time while she is on her decree. And this should either be prohibited by law or prescribed in the contract. Yes, there are women who really serve, but they are few. But in general, this situation turns out: a boy comes - he is, by definition, cool, until he proves the opposite, a woman comes - she, by definition, is a whore, until she proves that this is not so. But in principle, professional selection is needed for everyone, now if people are fired for non-compliance, then half of the personnel simply will not exist. For example, a soldier, being at his platoon stronghold, must be able to shoot from all the weapons that he has in this position. And if he doesn’t know how, it’s either a screw up of the commanders of the GP, or the soldier himself. It seems to me that Ukrainians are too loyal in this regard. Well, now he got drunk for the third time, but you still need to give him a chance. And so everywhere: you can agree, bend, here you can’t fight - transfer. And this is all very wrong. A soldier may not be a grenade launcher, but he must be able to fire one. The same with medicine: everyone should be able to provide medical care. And when they accept a medical girl, but she can’t stand standing in armor - is that a platoon orderly? If we talk about desires: I would like to be a sergeant. I don’t know about the officer - there is too much paperwork and some unnecessary checks, although on the other hand: why not. In this war, far from everything is over - there is something to do. We have a wonderful company, a combat commander, call sign Sapsan, - this is a war man, followed by the whole company - volunteer boys, mobilized, who fought in the 14-15th year and a minimum percentage of migrant workers who, under pressure from the environment, begin to work. But in general, I am proud of my company, my brothers. The main thing is that everything is in order with my health, because so far problems with my leg are preventing me from living. Nobody needs a sick man and a sick soldier. And I want to be in combat readiness, to return to the front line. I do not like to play, if I have a task, I have to complete it. And here without options. I'm trying to live up to my choice now. In the same way, the country should be determined, what do we need? You can't look to Russia, have a business there, go to work - and at the same time talk about European development. If you rush about, then there will be no result, but this country has every chance for a worthy future. https://preview.redd.it/6xvla1tkobpa1.jpg?width=552&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=64ab19b6b1cbafd4ddb1268617972895285f66d0 Text and photo: Vika Yasinskaya, Censor . NET Source: https:// censor . net/ru/r3060775 submitted by ForSacredRussia1 to FreedomofRussia [link] [comments] |
2023.03.22 22:56 Impossible-Ebb-878 First time buying used
I’ve decided to come back to drumming after a long absence, and it’s time to buy my first kit. I missed out on 2 reasonably recent Tama Superstar Classic sets near me that were both priced around $1k and included $5-700 in cymbals, based on Reverb sold comps.
I’ve found a 2002 era Pearl Export kit with all new heads, batter and reso. Double bass, snare, 3 rack toms, but missing the second floor tom that I believe would have come with the second kick drum. Included is about $600-650 in Meinl classic custom dark cymbals, a few low tier Zildjians, and a bunch of stands. No throne. No second kick pedal, but an “amazon double pedal.”
It’s listed for $1500, but the seller did confirm that they were open to offers. What do you all think is fair to offer? The dark cymbals sound amazing, but are they going to limit my style choice too much? Is it going to be hard to find the missing floor tom? TIA!
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2023.03.22 22:56 Xhenoud BTC Hits 28.9k - Binance CEO says “those who attack BITCOIN will fail”
BITCOIN is on an Upward Trend YTD. Many investors are losing faith in the banks and personally I feel like it’s a bad investment to go all into a bank stock right now. I feel like it has been obvious that banks are going down yet people are still talking about buying them I feel like it’s an obvious or was an obvious put option if you were playing options these past weeks.
Anyways currently many crypto owners are HODLing onto their BITCOIN right now, I bought in before the massive run in 2021 and I sold some but I started investing and DCA’ing on BTC because I believe there is plenty of utility for crypto in the future. I’m holding and buying every week “down cost averaging” and with the strategy from previously buying back in around 40-50k and then for the past year I have been buying it every week, I am now in the green and have no plans on selling it any time soon atleast this bull run is nothing compared to what I’m willing to sell for. The day trading of bitcoin doesn’t really matter to me unless I’m playing call options on miner stocks. Anyone have some good ideas and clarity to share with people the potential of BTC? Here is one:
If the bank account ever gets low it’s so easy to transfer my money from BTC to Canadian or whatever currency then back into my account. Why isn’t worldwide adoption being more talked about and why haven’t more countries with failing currencies opened up to crypto currency or is that in the works and we’re about to see some major changes? Any thoughts?
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2023.03.22 22:55 AdOwn5976 Unhappy wife
Hi all ,this is my first post here and a long one so sorry about that. TL;DR.
I have been married for 12 years now. We both were looking for stability in life when we married. We dont argue ,fight and look like a happy married couple. But I'm becoming increasingly unhappy in my marriage.
I have never seen my husband naked , he has seen me naked when I had my babies but not in regular life. When I asked him to take bath together few years back he refused as he likes his privacy. It bothered little then but it bothers a lot now.
I know he is a bit insecure guy as he is short and thin built and men in my family are all tall and well built. He had asked me in the starting of the marriage how I choose him and I told him I liked his personality, which was true.
My husband would do things which no guy I had been before with did ,he would tie my shoe lace if it was opened without bothering about people ,I used to think's only guys in drama do that but he did it on our second meeting. He is also very respectful and never made fun of me. But the truth is he is also very docile. I remember I was eve teased and cat called by a guy in initial days of marriage and my husband kind of ignored it. I'm sure my last boyfriend would have punched that cat caller.
He was short did not bother me that much but I feel he has always been conscious about that. He hates when I tell about my crushes ,even celebrity ones. I like one singer whom I had a crush since I was 16 ,he came to our city for a tour and I went for his concert. My husband told me ,you are so excited about him, all the guys you like are tall and robust I don't know why you married me ?
He says he did not have any crush on even any celebrity after marriage as that's a sort of cheating ??? Like really ??
I feel like I'm always watchful near him ,I dont show him my real emotions so that I should not hurt him.
We always had vanilla sex and never tried any thing fun or exciting. He closes all the curtains and likes to have sex either with lights off or under a blanket. I have never told him that I don't orgasm most of the time as he finishes even before I get into mood. Once I showed my displeasure and he was not intimate with me for months.
I was quite good looking as compared to him and his own family teased him that he lucked out ,I feel he is conscious because of that. I have gained weight and have my struggles ,so I would like my spouse to make me comfortable in my skin but he avoids being naked so much that I feel may be he does not like my mommy body and it grosses him. I want a man who is confident in his skin and knows he is good and does not need his ego to be boosted again and again.
We won't divorce due to religious beliefs but I'm so unhappy in my marriage. I like to spend time watching Netflix and reading books than be with him. I masturbate thinking about all the exciting things I would do with my partner. I avoid sex with him as it never satisfies me and I feel I become more dissatisfied with him. If I have satisfy myself also why go through sex. I was watching sex/life and I can relate to the main lady so much. My husband is similar stable guy except that I don't have a hunk ex boyfriend. Lol. Seeing that series confirmed my belief even more than leaving the stable marriage will not make me happy. I just hope I can fix my marriage somehow.
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2023.03.22 22:55 First-Philosophy-299 Female Seeking Long Term Role Play Partner.
Hello,
I have been in and out of roleplaying for many years now, all in all I've been doing it for around three or four years. I got into at University but after I graduated I fell out it and now I am looking to get back involved in the "Roleplay scene".
A little about me before we get into.
I am twenty two years old, living in The United Kingdom, I work most weekday and weekends but I will get back to you as soon as I can.
The type of roles I'm looking to do are mainly fantasy/action bases roles but there is room in their for romance/smut. I'm not really into Slice Of Life roles anymore as they all seem the same after a while, the same goes for Fandom Roleplays they really aren't my thing.
I don't really have a reply limit and I usually match my partners reply length and the level of detail, I don't expect rapid responses as that would be a stupid thing to expect in the current economic climate. All I want is to keep an open dialog of when we will and wont be available.
I play in first person and on discord, so I think I've covered everything all that's left is for me to post my ideas below so you can get a feel for what kinds of roles I'm into.
Demon-Human Roleplay
For the setting I think its best if we set this in like fantasy medieval era if that’s okay?
The land of Rhurn has broken out into anarchy, after then passing of the last high king of Rhuru local Barons and Lords have all made attempts to grab as much land as possible, all of them vying to be the next High King of Rhuru.
In the midst of the chaos a cult know as “The Daughters of The Blood Moon” have been able to grow in strength and influence. Many of the peasants have turned away from their traditional gods and turned to the demonic side of beliefs.
The cult only wishes the bring order to an orderless world. A young lady who’s pure blood who has yet to be tainted by the chaos outside the guard of the cult is the one who’s blood will finally summon a great demon who will bring order to the world through conquest of the land using an army of the damned.
Long term-Action-Adventure-Romance
Spy lovers
Its the Cold War, the USA and USSR are searching for anyway to get one up on the other by any means necessary but while that has been going on, in the shadows the Peoples Republic Of China have been building there strength and now they’re able to challenge America and Russian hegemony and be the undisputed number one global super power.
This leaves the CIA and KGB in a precarious postion knowing the only way to stop the PRC is to team up.
Vintage Hollywood
It’s the late sixties early/ early seventies Hollywood is in its pure rock and roll vase.
You’d play a older married A list movie star and I’d be your lesser known forgiven costar who knows very little of the temptations that Hollywood has to offer. Over the course of our whirlwind and taboo romance both of our lives and careers will be changed forever.
Serial killer-Obsessed Fan
So bare with me on this, I haven't really fleshed this idea out too much but ill do my best to set out the limited back story I've come up with so far,
It's the early to mid fifties, the US economy is booming and everything seems great, but one morning the corpse of a woman is found in the town square, this would be the start of a bunch of grizzly murders that would shake the small tight knit community to its core, the bodies begin to pile up, the only thing connecting the murders is a solitary black balloon with a red satanic cross printed on the balloon.
Neighbours no longer have cook outs, everyone suspects everyone and in the midst of this chaos and confusion the killer moves unseen, The whole town living in fear all expect one, this girl is obsessed with the killer hoping one day she'll meet him or her and they would allow their biggest fan to join their rampage.
Red ridding hood- big bad wolf.
In the deepest depths of a misty forest lay a village surrounded by thick oak walls, but this forest was also home to ancient race of animal. Not much was known about them, some believed they were nothing more than simple wolves, others than they were once human who sold their souls to the devil in return for sheer power,strength and speed.
But one believed they were the guardians and protectors of the forest.
The vast majority of their kind had been hunted to near extinction, it wasn’t known how many were left but one thing for sure is the alpha of the pack was still alive and that’s all that was needed to take back the forest and for the wolf to take his rightful place as king of the wood.
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2023.03.22 22:55 Evening_Table6188 Should I try finding my Chinese siblings?
Hello, so this is a bit weird and long story. A throw away account.
I am from Austria myself originally, and on this new year, I flew back here with my girlfriend, Korean girl. It was first time she visited Europe, saw my parents, family and everyone. And my uncle also happened to be with us this time, he is my father's twin brother. Very extroverted, easy to talk, and quite a crazy lad when gets drunk. And everything was going well and cool, we were eating, my grandma was talking to my gf, mother was cooking desserts, nephews were playing around, aunt was helping my mother, my father went for smoke.
So I was alone talking to uncle, who got a bit drunk by this point already, and he asks me this: - So, is everything serious between you two, or are you just trying different flavors? - No uncle, everything is serious, can you please lower your voice? He laughs and says:
- It's good that your Opa is not alive, he would not approve of this you know? He did not approve of your dad's adventure.
(my grandfather was a ww2 ss vet, though he was sorry for his past beliefs, some habits die harder I guess; though from what I remember him, he could have been ok with my gf, she's very charming after all))
- Well...maybe yes, maybe no. What do you mean, what he did not approve of dad?
My uncle smiles and tells me to not tell my mother, that this is nothing serious. - You know that we traveled to across the world during the 90s, right? Visited Asia too.
- Yeah.
- So, the thing you don't know, is that your father forgot there not only his family ring, but a kid or two.
I am thinking he is talking some bullshit cause he is drunk and laugh a bit. He looks for his wife and my mom, gets serious and continues.
- During our visit in Hong Kong, there were these two Chinese ladies, and I am not sure how this goes now, but those times, Europeans were a rare thing in Asia, and wherever we went, we were treated like exotic animals, in a good sense though.
At this moment I am very glad my gf's German is quite bad and she won't understand anything he is saying, and my grandma hears almost nothing unless you scream.
- So, once. We were in a bar, and there were these two Chinese girls, very pretty, but quite dumb now that I think about it. We had some fun time while drinking, they had good English, after some time - they were straight and open, they wanted a child from your father - to have children with blonde hair and bright eyes or something. Obviously, a young, dumb, and not very responsible jock as your father agreed. Unfortunately I had dark hair.
He laughs like crazy, then thinks about that and goes silent, my mother brings food and then goes away. He continues more silently, I am seeing where this is going and just listen.
- You know your father was very attractive back in the day, even more than you. Very tall, long blonde hair, green eyes, and athletic. Basically a wet dream of Hitler. And of those Chinese girls. So, he did impregnate them and after that never met them anymore. The only thing we know is surname of one of them and picture with both from that night, I still have it somewhere around.
- Uncle .... I am not sure if this is some bullshit story or if you are telling the truth. No way my father would do something like this.
He laughs and drinks.
- Well, just don't tell anybody.
I am sitting there completely shocked, don't know what to do or say, and thinking about talking to my dad but don't know what to say or begin with.
Then few minutes later my mother runs in the room and asks my uncle harshly: What you were talking about here?
He acts overly surprised: What? About the winter and how warm it is this year.
Her:
- Don't lie to me, your wife asked me to talk to you.
Basically my uncles 13 year old niece went and told my mother and aunt whatever she heard from us, my mother did not understand of course anything she said and asked my aunt about it, she could not come up with a lie and asked to talk to her husband. Then my mother asked me, then him, again and again until my father came in. All in all, my father told her the truth but did not consider it anything serious or worth paying attention to.
My mother cried a bit, my girlfriend tried to calm her with my aunt and she later called me in another room and before I started apologizing she asked me:
- So, what are you going to do?
- What?
- Are you going to find about your siblings?
- What? But...
- Don't be like your father, please. I am not crying because he slept with someone else, we didn't even know each other then. I am sad how lightly they treat this thing. There are children somewhere that don't know about their father or family from other part of the world, you should definitely look for them and try to find them when you visit Korea next in April. Hong-Kong is not far from there.
My mother is a sweetheart, I know)
So, I did not really try to say anything to her cause I did not want her to be more sad. Whenever my mother calls me, she asks me about my plan, and over the course of these few months I've been ensuring her that I will look into this and try, but the chances are low and all. My father thinks it's a waste of time, but has nothing against it if that's what we want.
Now, the advice I want on this topic is: Should I really try to establish contact with these people? Maybe they don't want to know anything about their biological father, maybe they hate him? Maybe they are not interested? Or maybe they would be? Should I seek them out and just try to be friends at least with my biological siblings? (over the course of these months, I am pretty sure I know who they are and where they live, but I am not really eager to contact them and interfere with their life).
What do you think, reddit? Should I follow my mother's advice or should I just continue living without touching the ghosts of the past?
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2023.03.22 22:54 survivingspaghetti 30 [F4M] houston or anywhere. looking for my sweet potato
hola universe and people that might find me interesting. lol. i’m a fellow texan if you should know am i’m a very down to earth human with feisty tendencies. but i promise i don’t mean any harm 😊. now i should make note that i am not thin. i am on the curvyside but i’m also active 🚴🏽♀️. we all have our types so i’m helping you check if you’re with or not accepting of it.
so more about me ? sure 😁. i’m into games but not most games … most guys are into. i play little simulation or puzzle kind of games. Examples: inside, little nightmares, hotel renovation, and some others. whatever you’re into does not matter to me. just don’t try to force me to into certain games like co-op pew pew types or i’ll get sleepy and bored quickly. museums and art galleries are fun to observe in my free time … as well as the arcade lol. building “brick” sets or lego sets are a pass time i enjoy doing since i love organizing and putting things together.
now this part of me typing this explains more in depth of what i’m looking for. someone that is patient, kind, sweet, thoughtful, non-judgmental, open minded. with those qualities i listed… i would still like you to be you even if it’s a bit weird. as for the physical , i don’t have a preference… i just like what i like and it could be any kind of features because we all look different. all in all i do not have a type.
feel free to message me if this peaks your interest 🤎
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2023.03.22 22:54 IlliBois M.Eng vs MS for someone with no research experience
Hello all,
I'm not in the best of situations now. Got laid off at my small-sized company (they shut down). Job prospects are not looking very likely at this moment due to 1 YOE. I'm on a student visa in the US so I have limited time here.
I graduated from the University of Illinois Urbana Champaign with a 3.1 GPA in Computer Engineering, but I have no research experience in this time. I'm a COVID grad and have exponentially improved my skills and work ethic since I graduated. I'm taking the GRE and attempting a 330+ score to offset the low GPA. My LORs are coming from a professor I worked under as a Course Assistant and my former employer. I am open to both CompE and CS masters programs, as a buffer to weather out the recession in tech.
In my mind this information bars me from being a good MS applicant (although I do have projects). As a result, I have been looking at applying for M.Eng programs. My list is as follows:
Reach: Cornell MEng, Brown MEng, UCSD MS
Target: UIUC MEng, GaTech, Waterloo MEng
I need some safety colleges which I could apply to. My goal is to acquire skills I know will be useful in the industry while working on a large scale project. Are there any programs anyone knows of that would be a good fit for my profile? I would love to know even about MS programs that I could try to apply for. Long term my interests lie in Cybersecurity.
Thank you all for the help and take care!
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2023.03.22 22:53 asheliaffxiv [Multiple DC][LFG][Static][HC][WP][W1-Prog] Tank Looking for Serious Hardcore Week 1 Progression
Hi I'm
Ashelia, a tank main & I play on the
EU Datacenter and I live in Asia.
Accounts Ashelia Lightsbane (Ragnarok) Lala Hee (Phantom) What I'm Looking for - Serious Week 1 Progression, aiming for top 25
- Atleast 16 hours a day
- Group with mindset to improve and pushing each other beyond their limits
- Works together to come up with strategies and execute them correctly
My Goal I have a competitive nature and I am not happy with just a week 1 clear, I want to have cleared in a competitive time and I'm ready to commit and focus up to do so.
Overall, I am mechanically strong, with the ability to learn fast and become consistent at execution. My damage is also consistently on the higher side and I am able to work on cleaning up my gameplay as we pull.
Raid Experience I started
HC raiding in Abyssos and managed to achieve
World 43rd on
my first HC attempt raiding 12-14 hours a day. I was also playing Paladin and I was one of the first few Paladins to clear P8S. I am comfortable playing DRK, WAR and PLD & practicing GNB at present.
After my experiences with Abyssos and TOP, I feel like I believe I performed adequately and I definitely have improved since starting and gained a lot of knowledge and experience for further HC progression and self-optimization of the jobs I play. Most of all I have a feel for encounter design now.
I left a positive image with everyone I have raided with since starting HC and I am certain most of them would vouch for my ability to learn, take criticism and improve on top of that.
Below you can find my relevant experience
Abyssos (Savage) - World 43rd Overall clear / EU 12th
- I joined a HC group that was not racing but had intentions of doing 12 - 14 hours a day. We managed to keep pushing and worked together towards World 43rd clear.
The Omega Protocol (Ultimate) - World 97th / EU 14th, Week 4 (HC Week 1 and more casual week 2-4)
- 12-16 hours a day for 7 days week 1 into a more relaxed schedule till we cleared in week 4. Overall pull time was 98 hours. I felt I played consistently & once I understood mechanics I rarely made mistakes.
- Was quite flexible during prog playing DRK, PLD and WAR based on our requirements
Dragonsong's Reprise (Ultimate) - Week 6, sHC
- I joined one sHC group initially for week 1 & 2 but I was not satisfied with this group and ended up leaving them to pursue a more serious group.
- I subbed for another sHC group in week 3 and ended up as a permanent member as they felt I was good, communicative and consistent.
My first actual raid was
Delubrum Reginae (Savage) which made me want to try out Savage and Ultimate with the end goal of becoming a great tank.
I then did Eden's Promise where I started casual raiding and ended up loving the raiding experience. Since then I've been working on improving my skills as an individual and noticed I am a fast learner and I'm pretty consistent after I understand a mechanic with all the content I've done so far.
If you would like additional information or want to chat about my experience, through text or discord voice call, please feel free to reach out to me on
Discord: ShaunX2F#1900
What I bring to the table:
- Capable of playing PLD, WAR and DRK at high level, I am also learning GNB during patch downtime in case the group requires it during progression.
- Strong mechanically, I don't take long to learn mechanics and once I learn them I rarely make mistakes on them
- I believe myself to be a consistent player, I take our time very seriously and I try to minimize time being wasted by my own mistakes.
- During progression I record my own PoV to review mistakes and mechanics and I am also okay with streaming my PoV, private or public, and others streaming our prog.
- I am a serious player and I take raid very seriously while maintaining a friendly atmosphere. I never raise my voice and I am very positive when it comes to communication.
- I encourage feedback and criticism and will always take them positively.
- I do have an alt for split clears.
- I am Asian but I like to raid in EU timezones. My timezone is GMT +5:30.
- Open to doing WP/Serious HC with NA/JP group.
Please contact me on Discord and we can have a chat.
Discord: ShaunX2F#1900
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2023.03.22 22:53 wheres_thelambsauce_ feel like my partner is no longer supportive with my anxiety. TW// i’m sorry i’m advance for the long ramble
this is my first post and i’m sorry if it’s a little long and a bit here there everywhere….
my partner and i have been together for 9 months. due to housing and my mental health at the time, it was appropriate and decided i would move in with him for a little while.
we’ve known each other previously for many years before we started dating and have always been super close. we’ve lived together for 5 months now and things seem to have gone pretty stale and i don’t know how to leave without causing upset.
for the past month and and a half i’ve been suffering from a depressive episode with my bipolar. i haven’t brushed my hair in a month which is a usual occurrence when a depressive episode hits. my motivation for self care completely goes out the window and i stay in bed, endlessly scrolling through my phone while torturing my mind with memories of my shitty things that have happened- basically i fall in to a depressive hole. my partner completely understands this and use to be pretty supportive and helpful when i got like this- for example, he would help with getting the mattes out my hair and washing my hair when it gone unbearable, share a bath with me when showering was too hard.
recently i’ve been experiencing pretty bad night sweats where i wake up soaking the bed and my partner due to my anxiety. i also get pretty bad heart palpitations and start throwing up when it gets bad. my partner also suffers with mental health and anxiety attacks. today i got one and it got really shitty and wasn’t passing, (when i have panic attacks i don’t like reaching out for help as i feel a burden 99.9% off the time) i text my partner as we was on the game with his friends- he took his time to respond, as i started the message with ‘please dont rush but when you have a min’- because again i didn’t want to be a burden… he was sat 2 meters away from me with his back towards me.
he came off his headset and sat next to me and asked if i was okay. i explained what was going on and it was almost like he wasn’t really there or taking in what i was saying. i kinda try and make light of situations because if it’s properly acknowledged i begin to cry and the anxiety attack gets worse (again my boyfriend has had pretty bad panic attacks in the past) i asked in the text message if he could sit in the back garden with me as i needed air to help me calm down, which i then asked to his face and he answered with ‘it’s raining’ (i love the rain/storms and lightening calms me and he’s always known this) it was almost like he was rushing to get back to his game… i pretended the heart palpitations had passed and i was okay and he asked for a kiss and rushed back to his game to plug his headset back in… while the silent panic attack got worse.
my partner has experienced panic attacks pretty much the majority of his life, he suffered one not to long ago, where he sat with his head down the toilet and screamed his mum until she came up the stairs to assist (his panic attacks do get pretty bad) she came into our room and asked me if i had any ‘blades’ or ‘sharps’ she was going to take out the room to keep him safe- he’s always had his mum to help him calm down- where i didn’t have the best upbringing, my mum and step dad didn’t believe my mental health (even though it was diagnosed by doctors, they’d argue it with everyone) i never had a mum who’d sit with me until a panic attack or mental health break down would pass- i openly admit i am jealous of my partner and his relationship with his family. i grew up in a very toxic physically and emotionally abusive household and was kicked out at 17 years old.
we never go out or do anything fun, the most we do is walk into town to my doctors appointments… we don’t go for food, drinks or any sort of dates, it doesn’t even have to involve spending money- i’ve made suggestions plenty of times but we make plans and it always falls through. all he does is play on his playstation while i sit it bed endlessly scrolling through my phone (which i 100% take the blame for and know is wrong but rn i can’t even leave the house with my episode)
i decided to apply to study a degree with the open university which i got really excited about- i get excited over the smallest things and stupidly over share with my partner who always seems pretty disinterested and dismisses what i’m excited over… i’m hoping this will give me a little motivation and something to do and maybe help?
this seems like such a ramble, i needed to vent this and if anyone could share any advice or their views i would really appreciate it.
thank you x
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2023.03.22 22:52 shalyian_wench Relationship suffering after 5 years
Before I delve into this, I'm very much aware that I caused the start of the problem. We've since discussed it and have moved past my fuck ups.
So for a long time I (25f) was an asexual in denial. I would have sex because I wanted to feel close to another human, but I never actually enjoyed having sex. It didn't occur to me until about a year into our relationship that I just don't like having sex and I'm most comfortable with myself this way. Once I came out and told him (27m) this he was understandably pretty upset with me. We talked it out and all that already.
Well, now several years later the frustration seems to be building still. I've made a lot of suggestions, but nothing seems to help. He has a fairly high sex drive (would go everyday if I wanted to) but he always tells me he does not want to have sex unless I do. I get in the mood MAYBE once a year, so this wouldn't work. I've since just decided to suck it up and deal with it to make him happy, because whenever I tried in the past to tell him I don't like sex he always took it personally like it was entirely his fault.
I try to have sex with him once a month, but I just don't want to so I try to get it over with as fast as possible. The only issue is after about a week not having sex he starts acting really cold towards me. He says he isn't mad at me, just frustrated but him being so short with me and seeming uninterested in everything I say makes it even harder to get myself to have sex. I feel like I'm going crazy. Every other aspect of our relationship is damn near perfect except our sex life and I REALLY want to try to make him happy.
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2023.03.22 22:52 rockmeNiallxh I [24F] am having trouble finding someone to lose my virginity with, on my own terms
*I will be mainly talking about what has been going on for the last few months and not before*
I'm studying abroad this year and i'm in a school where most people are much younger than me. Because of the language barrier and other things, i haven't had a lot of success getting with any of the guys here.
What i'm looking for is someone that might be open to going slow with me, hanging out a few times first to see the vibe etc before getting intimate. I've been on tinder too, and i seem to have the same problem all the time: i tend to match with people that only want hook ups (i'm not against it) and that are also a lot younger than me (for some reason those tend to be more my type). The issue that i've had with them is that they don't want to go out first, they just want to have sex directly. To give an example, i've talked to 2 guys that were 20 and 19 (i know, very young and immature) and even tho we sexted before etc, they were not interested at all in seeing each other outside first. They wanted to come straight to my house. They literally told me "i don't want to see you out" and for some reason it hurts to hear that and bothers me a lot.
I feel like at this rate i'm never going to get over this... it's already happened to me once or twice in parties that someone i liked wanted to hook up with me and i couldn't do it because of this. So now i'm starting to question myself, am i making this into a bigger deal than it is and i should just get it over with? I tell myself that i want to go slow, but in the end i'm not sure what would happen if i didn't do that or how i would react because i've never been in that situation.
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2023.03.22 22:51 Varhalt Late pool 2 question
Howdy! I'm a relative beginner who's coming to the very end of pool 2. I'd like to know what I should do now: should I save all my credits and boosters until I have enough to open a whole bunch of collector's cache (and, correct me if I'm wrong, avoiding all those busted pool 3 decks), or should I just keep going down the collection path as normal?
Please advise!, and thanks!
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2023.03.22 22:51 Nikjoname The weirdest thing happened to me today while doing the Fort of the damned
It all started when we killed graymarrow. We got the key and opened the vault but it was empty. At first we thought it was a bug but then we noticed the beacons of the reaper chests and found all the loot stacked in one place behind the island. At that point me and one of my friends died from the kegs and randomly spawned at the outpost. Our brig hadn’t sunk but it had respawned at the outpost with the emissary still up and levelled but with no resources(just the basics one you spawn with). While we where sailing back our friend found out that the chest of legends was missing and one of the reapers bounties was zooming to reapers with no apparent ship to carry it(maybe a rowboat not sure). After we got back to the fort we found our old ships barrels in the water with the loot and a random mega keg where the ship was before. At that point our ship blew up twice in a short span of time with no apparent player on board and no apparent keg. The explosions didn’t even damage our ship that much. I was thrown in the water and that’s when I saw it, and invisible player had just appeared in front of me dropping a trident and doing the death animation. After that we didn’t have any other problem for now apart from some loot apparently appearing randomly in a place it was not supposed to be. Now we are doing another fort and seeing if something happens. This has never happened to me so it was very weird, sorry for the long story.
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2023.03.22 22:51 wheres_thelambsauce_ feel like my partner is no longer supportive with my anxiety. TW// i’m sorry i’m advance for the long ramble
this is my first post and i’m sorry if it’s a little long and a bit here there everywhere….
my partner and i have been together for 9 months. due to housing and my mental health at the time, it was appropriate and decided i would move in with him for a little while.
we’ve known each other previously for many years before we started dating and have always been super close. we’ve lived together for 5 months now and things seem to have gone pretty stale and i don’t know how to leave without causing upset.
for the past month and and a half i’ve been suffering from a depressive episode with my bipolar. i haven’t brushed my hair in a month which is a usual occurrence when a depressive episode hits. my motivation for self care completely goes out the window and i stay in bed, endlessly scrolling through my phone while torturing my mind with memories of my shitty things that have happened- basically i fall in to a depressive hole. my partner completely understands this and use to be pretty supportive and helpful when i got like this- for example, he would help with getting the mattes out my hair and washing my hair when it gone unbearable, share a bath with me when showering was too hard.
recently i’ve been experiencing pretty bad night sweats where i wake up soaking the bed and my partner due to my anxiety. i also get pretty bad heart palpitations and start throwing up when it gets bad. my partner also suffers with mental health and anxiety attacks. today i got one and it got really shitty and wasn’t passing, (when i have panic attacks i don’t like reaching out for help as i feel a burden 99.9% off the time) i text my partner as we was on the game with his friends- he took his time to respond, as i started the message with ‘please dont rush but when you have a min’- because again i didn’t want to be a burden… he was sat 2 meters away from me with his back towards me.
he came off his headset and sat next to me and asked if i was okay. i explained what was going on and it was almost like he wasn’t really there or taking in what i was saying. i kinda try and make light of situations because if it’s properly acknowledged i begin to cry and the anxiety attack gets worse (again my boyfriend has had pretty bad panic attacks in the past) i asked in the text message if he could sit in the back garden with me as i needed air to help me calm down, which i then asked to his face and he answered with ‘it’s raining’ (i love the rain/storms and lightening calms me and he’s always known this) it was almost like he was rushing to get back to his game… i pretended the heart palpitations had passed and i was okay and he asked for a kiss and rushed back to his game to plug his headset back in… while the silent panic attack got worse.
my partner has experienced panic attacks pretty much the majority of his life, he suffered one not to long ago, where he sat with his head down the toilet and screamed his mum until she came up the stairs to assist (his panic attacks do get pretty bad) she came into our room and asked me if i had any ‘blades’ or ‘sharps’ she was going to take out the room to keep him safe- he’s always had his mum to help him calm down- where i didn’t have the best upbringing, my mum and step dad didn’t believe my mental health (even though it was diagnosed by doctors, they’d argue it with everyone) i never had a mum who’d sit with me until a panic attack or mental health break down would pass- i openly admit i am jealous of my partner and his relationship with his family. i grew up in a very toxic physically and emotionally abusive household and was kicked out at 17 years old.
we never go out or do anything fun, the most we do is walk into town to my doctors appointments… we don’t go for food, drinks or any sort of dates, it doesn’t even have to involve spending money- i’ve made suggestions plenty of times but we make plans and it always falls through. all he does is play on his playstation while i sit it bed endlessly scrolling through my phone (which i 100% take the blame for and know is wrong but rn i can’t even leave the house with my episode)
i decided to apply to study a degree with the open university which i got really excited about- i get excited over the smallest things and stupidly over share with my partner who always seems pretty disinterested and dismisses what i’m excited over… i’m hoping this will give me a little motivation and something to do and maybe help?
this seems like such a ramble, i needed to vent this and if anyone could share any advice or their views i would really appreciate it.
thank you x
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2023.03.22 22:50 rockmeNiallxh I [24F] am having trouble finding someone to lose my virginity with, on my own terms
*I will be mainly talking about what has been going on for the last few months and not before*
I'm studying abroad this year and i'm in a school where most people are much younger than me. Because of the language barrier and other things, i haven't had a lot of success getting with any of the guys here.
What i'm looking for is someone that might be open to going slow with me, hanging out a few times first to see the vibe etc before getting intimate. I've been on tinder too, and i seem to have the same problem all the time: i tend to match with people that only want hook ups (i'm not against it) and that are also a lot younger than me (for some reason those tend to be more my type). The issue that i've had with them is that they don't want to go out first, they just want to have sex directly. To give an example, i've talked to 2 guys that were 20 and 19 (i know, very young and immature) and even tho we sexted before etc, they were not interested at all in seeing each other outside first. They wanted to come straight to my house. They literally told me "i don't want to see you out" and for some reason it hurts to hear that and bothers me a lot.
I feel like at this rate i'm never going to get over this... it's already happened to me once or twice in parties that someone i liked wanted to hook up with me and i couldn't do it because of this. So now i'm starting to question myself, am i making this into a bigger deal than it is and i should just get it over with? I tell myself that i want to go slow, but in the end i'm not sure what would happen if i didn't do that or how i would react because i've never been in that situation.
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2023.03.22 22:49 sickfee49 My company is asking me to pay them back part of my severance because they forgot to withhold for taxes.
I got two months severance paid to me in a lump sum nearly two months ago. They’re now asking me to pay back >10k because it was supposed to be withheld for taxes. Can’t I just pay that in taxes myself? What’s the risk of this not being recorded properly come tax season and I’m due taxes on that extra payment. Do I have a legal obligation to pay this money back?
It’s all very sketch and disorganized, it is all shady to me.
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2023.03.22 22:49 shrekrepublic My boyfriend (m 29) lied to me (27 f) about having an onlyfans and more
Warning! Sorry for long post. So some back story... (let's call my bf kenny), Kenny and I met up in 2020 starting of the pandemic. We hit it off nicely when we first met but but I was in the starting of my alcoholism during this time and was always drunk when meeting him. However he never said anything about it, because of this, we moved quickly. After a couple of dates we were a couple, and after a couple of months I said I love you (yes I was drunk). After some time we started talking more and hanging out more and we really started loving each other. After about a year and a half of him dealing with my alcoholism (which was getting worse everyday) I decided to go sober (1 year sober yay) he let me stay at his place rent free for about 8months to get back on my feet and save. About a month ago we decided to move in officially and split the rent.
Now here's the problem: we were moving in together but I was staying at his old place when I needed to email the landlord all my information. (It's been over 2 years and I have never snooped his information) I go to Gmail and thinking I was already logged in. However it wasn't mine it was his. And saw some emails from porn name here on patreon. I started clicking more and more and noticed he subscribed to her since 2021. When he came home I confronted him about this, he went full defense mode, denying knowing about it, saying he did that before we were together etc. I told him to open up his bank account so I could see if the same amount was taken off monthly. He opened it up and i was flooded with only fans purchases. (I was always okay with porn but never only fans. I never liked how you could msg these people for pics and videos. About a year ago I asked him if he had one and said no. I believed him and left it at that) that started a whole new fight. I told him I'm going to give him a chance to tell the truth. He told the truth about onlyfans but denied patreon girl.
So I went digging while he was at work. He logged into patreon while we were together, and when he came back, i confronted him about it. I told him he didn't tell me the truth and I'm going to give him another chance to tell the truth. He finally broke and said he knew about her, paid for her, and also went to high-school with her! He knew her personally and was giving her monthly money for nudes. I msged her on patreon and she said the account never msged her but they did talk early into our relationship and he addmited for the first 4 months he did this. I was heartbroken and defeated. I have my demons that he stuck through me with and these were his demons he's been keeping quiet for about 2 1/2 years. How do I move on from this?
TLDR: My boyfriend lied about having only fans and he also paid for nudes from a girl he knew in high-school
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