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2023.06.08 17:05 TimmyTurnersDad6 Hi, my name is *truck drives by* but everyone just calls me dad.
please don't call me dad.
But yes! Hello it's my first time on reddit! A little-lot about me:
- I first used reddit as of posting this about 2-ish weeks ago but I've shadowed Reddit for much longer. I never wanted to make an account due to shyness, confusing rules, and the dreaded censorship that seems to plague every platform. (Plz don't ban me reddit, I beg.) However due to my introvertedness taking over more and more, now seemed like a good a time as any!
- Yep! The name comes from a Nickelodeon cartoon, and if I have to explain from: ¹ how dare you. ² we can't be friends!
- I browsed over hundreds of subreddits, always thinking if I ever did join - where would I start? I had ideas of where, but not-so-much when...And given said strict rules, I always thought I had a knit and knack for sentence structure, spelling and grammar as I've been complimented on my penmanship and organization skills...yet, reddit I'm sure will truly test me on that. I've been out of an English class for many, many years now. So forgive me in advance I'll try my best!
- Speaking of many, many years - I'm not so young and not so old either! It's a mystery. And as per reddit guidelines to not share sensitive information - I suppose I will keep it that way. You'll just have to think of me as an enigmatic mr. magoo-like shape; formless in the hands of it's users, but an organized cut figure in staunch of his allies. Think of Inspector gadget except more mysterious. (And who trips on his own shoelaces.) So...basically Timmy's dad!
- I'm a gamer, hobbiest writer and photographer, and a perspective teacher (in my former years) and I plan on adding a bit of each into their respective subreddit categories in some form of time. I write amateur poetry from time to time, stemming from natural & creative to erotic prose gasp! and when I feel like it - short stories. I tend to also gravitate towards shapeable wordless songs and giving them my own spin (like ost's), as well as coming up with songs lyrics of my own. I went to a magnet school in my younger years for all of the above forms of writing as well as screenwriting and playwriting. All of this is fun to me and that's the extent of it. Nothing more. If you stumble upon any of my former pieces searching for an answer as to why I wrote some of the things I said, or why I said them...it comes down to just whatever floats into my peripheral vision in that given moment; sometimes it's music that inspires me, and othertimes it's just what needs to be said. And hey, sometimes I'm blindsided by my blindspots. And other, other, some times I stop using the word "time" so often! Grrr!
- As for games, I'm a replayer of not-so-old games that are not so timeless, but not-so new anymore eiGarrett! This is mainly due to financial tightness and that older games charm I can't forget. Games such as:
- Kingdom Hearts 358/2 days (and all it's entries, except Unchained X)
- Resident Evil 4
- Uncharted 3 (and all it's entries, except Golden Abyss)
- Breath of the Wild
- Sonic Advance 2 & 3
- Yugioh 5d's Wheelie Breakers
- Yugioh 5d's world championship 2011: Over the Nexus
- Yugioh Tagforce 4 & 5
- Destiny 1 & 2
- Apex Legends
(There are others, but these are some games I hold dear that come off the top of my head.)
I've found games sometimes help shape and induce flow-like states to help us ease into transitions of moment-to-moment actions defining our playable characters, some. Or in other cases, defining ourselves most when we need to caught between a rock and a hard place...like in a gunfight...(I'm looking you Apex Legends, Uncharted, and Destiny.) But yes, in those instances - I've found that what help shape me along with some of the game's life-lessons taught to our characters, did indeed help shape me into the person I am today. (Inb4 someone says I identify as Harumo-chan the master of hoe-jitsu), lol no I'm saying the best parts about our characters can help shape us sometimes without us even knowing it. (But Harumo-chan did help shape me Timmy, why can't you see that?) More power to you then. The best parts for some and the worser parts for others i suppose. :P
6½. What i mean to the last point is, part of my strength I've found is from when I draw strength from other strong characters I've seen and what they've been through; (or put you through and thus you're going through the sh*t-show together.) Characters that have really inspired me are probably namely Sora, Riku & Roxas from Kingdom Hearts, Nathan Drake from Uncharted, Sonic, and Yusei from Yugioh 5d's. I know, very adult of me right? Mm, I am interested however where others draw their strength from? Which form of medium do they choose, why did they choose it and who do they draw strength from if not in a show or game?
I could talk about why I choose these individual characters but I believe that's best suited for another thread/post. P.s. as for tv shows though? A huge inspiration i draw from is Rick, from the walking dead. I don't watch many new shows anymore. (As for why that is, maybe that's also best suited for another post.)
- Speaking of shows - I don't really have time to watch anime all that much but some influential ones I've grown to be very fond of are:
- Yugioh 5d's (subbed)
- Sword Art Online (subbed) and season 1 only
- Soul Eater
- Avatar: The Last Airbender (yes this counts lol)
- DragonBall Super (subbed)
- Soul Eater
- Golden Time (one of the first anime's I've cried to, though that was a long time ago, would be interesting if I have the same reaction rewatching it. All I remember is getting exceptionally emotional and invested which was out of the usual for me. Although I can't remember which part got me the most.)
There are others, and I've seen all series of Yugioh and DragonBall alike, but these in particular stood out to me. For DragonBall Super mostly due to the absolute insanity the tournament of power was and that last fight. I've seen other animes or stopped, started and stopped again as I couldn't get invested into them. That's why Golden Time really took me by surprise. Same with Yugioh 5d's and S1 of Sword Art Online. I am interested to see what other subreddits with differing views on what sorts of animes other people prefer or recommend I watch.
Same with games, music or movies.
To wrap up,
Tldr; you can call me Timmy (Timmm-aH!) For short, or even shorter than short - dad, just don't get weird with it, (unless?...no I'm joking, unless?...) and I'm here like anyone else to peruse reddit on useful or entertaining things!
Anything else I'll either edit this big jumbo post or add on later!
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2023.06.08 17:04 islesandterps Time Sync Issues on Some Domain-Joined Win10 clients after a few days
We're having some odd problems on some of our client workstations, where after several days of being on, we suddenly can't remote into the machines, reason stated being that the time/date settings are off. For some background on the environment, these machines don't connect to the internet. Our domain controllers sync time upstream (we've confirmed this works), and the clients then sync time with the domain controllers. This is all functioning as expected, and even when we're having this issue, the time on the machine does not appear to be wrong, nor does the date or DST settings. This also doesn't affect all of our clients (which are all in the same OU), and rebooting the system fixes it. But we need these computers on all the time so that they can be scanned for vulnerabilities overnight.
I'm thinking this has to be a client-side issue, but event viewer (Security log, W32Time log) isn't showing us anything that's been particularly helpful in our troubleshooting. We're going to try editing the UtilizeSslTimeDate regkey to 0 (per https://answers.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/forum/all/time-sync-issues-on-windows-10-domain-joined/03738fe4-a455-477e-8275-b100902418b7
), but does anyone have any other ideas as to what may be happening?
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2023.06.08 17:03 georgi_19993 Extrasystoles when lying down or bending over.
I have one personal question regarding the extrasystoles I get and they are scary for me.
For two years I was getting them from time to time. Let's say 10 to 20 times per month and didn't pay attention to them. It's started when I gained weight.
Four months ago, I returned from fitness and lied down to watcha movie. After 30 minutes I got two hard extrassytoles, I scared myself and my BP went to 180/110, my Pulse was around 140. To mention I didn't eat that day much, so I read about that this could be due to low blood sugar also. I was not sure so I called amblance and got to the ER. They watched my BP and pusle, they gave me NaBr and send me home with 140/90 BP and 90 Pulse.
After the next day I consulted with cardiologist who thought that they can hear extra tone in my heart. I got to get Echocardiography and this was ruled out. They gave me beta blockers (Nebiled) but when I took them my BP went to 100 over 60 and I felt drowned and dizzy so I stopped them. I didn't like the diagnose - there wasn't any.
However I started receiving cold sweats, hands and legs shakiness, and tachicardia with high blood pressure. Doctors told me that I have panic attacks. No back pain, jaw pain, or chest pain.
After two months going into doctors lasty I came along a clearly good cardiologist who told me that because of my stomach and overweight, gases in bowels push my diaphragm and in this place the diaphragm pushes the heart and I have panic attack because of this and also, because I have "Rabbit Heart". I looked over that and it turns out it means that I have tending to be scared easy. ECG and Echocardiography showed that my heart was very healthy.
ECG was done by two variants. First was when I was breathing normally and the second one whas done when I took deep breath and hold it for 30 seconds. The second variant was for exclude any pathologic structure damages or changes - that was what have been explained to me.
After that the cardiologist prescribed me Concor of 5 miligrams to take it 2x2.5mg for 15 days and then next 15 days to take only 2.5mg and after that when only in need.
Tried that but my anxiety is much bigger and after I stopped it two weeks after I started taking it again. I am taking also magnesium and potassium 200mg of each per day but I satrted feeling lightheaded after taking day for two days and stopped them today. Only taking magnessium 200 mg now. I am going to another cardiologist becasue the extrasystoles came back when I bend over and then there's pressure in my head and then my heart start "dancing" in my chest or when I am laying down on my left side. Also happens when I am stressed, so this can be due to anxiety. Now my blood pressure is 105 over 70. I am 29years old male, 175 cm height and 95 KG. I know I am overweight but I already lost 20 kilos in five months.
I am going today toa notehr cardiologist because yesterday I had spear pain in my left chest and where the heart was. It's duration was almost a second but made me anxious and very scared. I want to ask here if this can be caused by the following issues:
- Heart issue? Was ruled out 3 times already, today will be the fourth (I hope so!).
- It is my head, and my brain is doing this to me?
- Anxiety and panic attacks related?
- I don't eat correctly and this is causing low blood sugar and also point 3?
Also worth to mention that my stomach feels full of butterflies sometimes and them the symptoms start or sometimes when I eat I get them... This is starting to get me furious because I don't know what happened to me, becasue before 4 months I didn't have anything like that. I am starting to think that this is related to the fitness I started...
Thank you very much!
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2023.06.08 17:01 algeeezy My dog has gotten progressively reactive and I don’t know what to do
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I’ve had my dog Dobby for about 3 years now and everyone agrees he’s the sweetest, friendliest, most loving dog! He used to love going up to other dogs, sniff them, and be playful with them. He was exceptionally friendly for the longest time and made other dog friends quickly and easily. submitted by algeeezy to DogAdvice [link] [comments]
Over time, he’s held grudges with dogs to the point where he is kind of a bully on sight specifically towards Golden retrievers, black Labradors, and all puppies. He cannot stand them for whatever reason and will actively startle them unprovoked. He doesn’t bite but does run up, nip, and does an aggressive growl.
I’ve mentioned this when I drop him off at daycare and they’ve not reported any issues and continue to claim he’s very social. As far as I know he only acts this way around me.
About a year ago I took him to an off leash dog bar and while he was running around with other dogs, I turned around to get a sip of my drink, and suddenly heard him start wailing like he was injured. He’s limped ever since and he’s acted distinctively different ever since. I’ve gotten him multiple X-rays and they show no sign of injury. To this day I have no idea what actually happened but ever since he’s been really apprehensive of other dogs, not just goldens and labs.
As of now, whenever I have him on leash and another dog approaches, there’s an 80% chance he’ll do his little growl and startle the hell out of the other dog. I get surprised when he has a good interaction and I miss having him socialize with every dog he came across and I don’t even know how to approach this issue.
He’s been properly trained and has no other behavioral issues. I take him out for at least 3 long walks per day so gets plenty of exercise. Any advice is welcome.
2023.06.08 17:01 whats_inaname Where to get a professional check up?
F33 5"6 CW: 74kg GW: 68kg (UK-based)
I'm feeling so frustrated and demotivated at the moment and I think I need specialist advice so im coming out to reddit for any information on how to start that journey.
I' ve always been between 65 and 70kg, a UK size 10, and feel confident and comfortable there. I've always been active and done con sistent exercise - HIIT, running, strength training and loads of walking.
I've always had a consistent approach to food - most days I reckon to eat 1600/1800 calories, and all healthy stuff. Some days I eat under 1200 when I'm not that hungry. And maybe once or twice a week I'll have more than this- like a big bowl of pasta or a takeaway and some drinks.
If I ever felt like I was tipping over 70kg, I'd be able to correct this really quickly by watching what I eat mote then usual for a month or so then back to maintaining.
For the past 2 years, I've been furiously battling to keep my weight below 70kg, and its crept up steadily to around 74 (cant bring myself to step on the scales right now). No matter what I do I absolutely cannot lose weight but I can gain weight so quickly. I've never had this problem in my life.
I am still extremely active and feel I have really upped my game in the past 8 months in terms of exercise however I have gained around 2 inches on my thighs and waist - now a UK size 12 for the first time in my life and I HATE it.
With regards to food, I recently spent two weeks cutting (1200 per day) and NOTHING happened except I felt hungry, tired and low energy.
I don't know what to do anymore and I feel so uncomfortable in my own skin. It could be that my metabolism is slowing as I get older, or it could be that I started taking anti anxiety medication (venlafaxine) two years ago and this has caused a stop in weight loss. But I feel like I reached the end of my tether.
Any advice appreciated - I'd rather bypass my GP and go straight to paying for someone to have a look at me.
Thanks for taking the time to read this and foe your help!
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2023.06.08 17:01 AlternativeCold6175 Uncomfortable with sharing rooms on work trips
I started a new job, and as the title states, we are being told we are sharing rooms with same sex employees. This trip is 5 days, it will be training- so i don’t know anyone yet, and I’m fairly uncomfortable with this.
In any of my previous jobs I have always been given my own hotel room, a credit card with per diem for food expenses and such, and have NEVER had to come out of my own pocket for anything.
My flights were paid for. But not my Ubers- I’m being asked to save the receipt for reimbursement. Lunches are only provided and we are on our own for breakfast and dinners.
I’m severely disappointed. I wrote an email and was told that will not cover dinner as we eat at home and that sharing of rooms will be the expectation for all company travel (such as conferences)
I wouldn’t mind one night - but I feel like 4 nights is a lot to share a space with a stranger.
- I’m gonna have to shower and change around them
- I have crohn’s disease so I’m not happy that they are going to hear my flatulence and bathroom issues. And I don’t necessarily want to share this with the office either.
- I think it’s absurd that I’m being asked for front the bill for anything (Ubers) when I haven’t even gotten my first paycheck yet
- I’m disappointed that they won’t provide 3 meals a day. I’m used to the hotel providing breakfast, company providing lunch, and if we don’t have dinner as a company then that’s where the per diem with our work card would come into play.
I have not budgeted 4 Uber trips @ $60 each or 4 nights of eating out.
How should I go about this?
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2023.06.08 17:01 Anstopable I F30 am pretty sure he M36 cheated but won't admit it
This morning I woke up with a message from a stranger with print screen of her and my boyfriend arranging meetings and flirting... since February this year. I was in shock, we are together for almost 4 years, we are LDR but try to be together as often as possible, around 2 or 3 periods of a few days per month and holidays. I sent the print to him and expected him to apologize and confess. But he keeps saying this is fake, he never cheated, must be fake images. he knows the girl but is not friends with her. I asked him to send me a print as he said he never spoke to her on social media... he did send me those and were blank but I guess he could have deleted all the messages... All the dates could have happened, I was never with him...only one date seems kind of weird because he was with friends, one friend of his confirmed (he could have quickly asked him to lie?)
I don't know what to do now. I know rationally it's pretty evident he cheated and I won't forgive him. He knows I am not going to accept cheating, we always trusted each other 100%. on the other hand I still have hope we figure out this mess and we can live our life as I imagined... We were supposed to close the gap in January and I imagined myself marrying, having kids and growing old with him...
he also said I should forget this and trust him, that someone is trying to destroy our lives...I want this to be cleared and won't just forget about it. Any suggestions on how I can be sure? I told him we should go to the police if he says the prints are fake to which he agreed.
Sorry for long and maybe confusing text... I am still in shock
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2023.06.08 17:00 iced_kape_ I'm so confused with my ex's actions. Currently on the process of healing and moving on.
I feel like this is going to be a long post so please bear with me.
So, me and this guy have been dating for 2 years & broke up 2 months ago. He dumped me and t'was very one sided. He pushed me away and said a lot of things towards me that caused me so much pain. After the break up, I blocked him sa lahat ng social media platforms that I have and went no contact straight away (going 53 days NC).
After 2-3 weeks, he reached out to me a couple of times by texting me saying na he didn't mean it and that he broke up with me na lang because he can see that 'he's not good for me na daw'. Also told me that he loves and cares for me. He sent gifts like food, flowers, etc sa house ko. And because wala siyang makuhang response sakin, he reached out to my friends na lang and asked how I'm doing. Told my friends to block him.
What do you think he's trying to do? is he doing these things lang ba to make himself feel better after hurting me or is he sincere? I'm doing better now but he ruined it when he reached out to me again. Lurked through his socials a while ago, and I think he's starting to get miserable na and sharing these sad breakup quotes and songs online. 😬
Also, can you give tips on how to cope up or move on in a healthy way? What do you do when you're relapsing?
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2023.06.08 17:00 bedcrumbsart Surprise Summer Petsitting Betta??
So I just found out that I will be petsitting the class betta for a local school. Without being to specific, this school has a system alternate to grade levels- there were 4-5 year olds in this class this year and next year most of the students in this class will be returning ones from this year. This means that ~60% of the class will definitely remember the betta, as they went on a class field trip to purchase him and cared for him all year.
At this school he has been living in an unheated, unfiltered ~.5 gallon. I had a ~3 gallon critter keeper laying around to gift to the classroom as an upgrade before plans changed today. I know that he would be better in a 5+ gallon but considering his shockingly good health and general slow-movingness (hes a veiltail) I thought it could help. That and I don’t have anything bigger to give them, or the budget to buy anything atm.
It’s not a big deal for me to petsit him as I coincidentally have 2 empty ten gallons I just started cycling last week. I was going to wait months until adding any livestock but they’ll have to do. They only have a few small plants I’m waiting to grow in, but I have spare driftwood I can add as hides. My main concern is the shock of being put in a drastically different environment killing him… That, and when we return him, him no longer being able to live in a smaller tank after being used to the 10g. Righ now the plan is to leave him in his .5 gal tank for 2 days then slowly acclimate him to one of the 10’s. But I also worry because the 2 10g’s I’m cycling have an underlayer of remineralized topsoil (I followes the steps of aaron’s remineralized topsoil guide) capped with gravel. I wonder since it’s still so early in the cycle if there’s going to be an excess of nutrients or anything…
in an ideal world he’d have a heated, filtered 5+ gal when he returns next year. But I can’t think of a safe space in the classroom that would have room for plugs n all.
I understand that there probably wont be a perfect solution to this unfortunately. Priority #1 is that he acclimates without going into shock when he switches tanks, ensuring he has a better home when I return him is a bit further back in my mind. Also if anyone feels they can make an arguement for it being better if I just leave him in the .5 gal feel free, instinctively I feel like I should put him in one of my 10 gallons but idk
Oh, I also have a fully cycled (9+ months) 3 gallon cube. Would this be a better option? I just use it to grow moss and look pretty lol, it used to have a nerite for about a month until I moved it
PS: please refrain from negative talk about the school in regards to fish knowledge, while everyone has the responsibility to do their research, they were unfortunately ill-advised by a pet store employee. I happen to know the employees at that store arent allowed to tell customers how bad 1 gallon and smaller tanks are either :(
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2023.06.08 17:00 ThrowRa43love Should I (25F) get back with my ex (36M) after he got a rebound? I dont want to ask my friends because they have seen me cry the last couple of months
I (25F) broke up with my ex because i felt overwhelmed by his reactions during our fights, yelling at me, punching a wall, crying, kneeling on the floor. After breaking up i realized that i was at fault for most fights because instead of properly communicating my needs, i was acting upset and immature at times. Well i tried to get back with him, but not before him apologizing for causing me panic attacks and punching the wall, but he refused to talk to me and told me afterwards that we are not together because i have never apologized for abandoning him.
Well he got another girlfriend (23F) in a month, while i was trying to solve things out. Before discovering he is with someone else, he told barely responded to my texts, but told me that he still loves me and that he thought about crashing into a wall with his car after i left him, which made me feel afwul but i still wanted to hear from him that he realizes his behaviour was not ok. After some time he told me we're never getting back together, that he is sure of this, because i was tired of insisting for his apologizies and i just wanted to get back together.
I was devastated for 8 months. The first two months of his relationship we talked "for closure" lets say and to get my stuff back, he told me it wasnt meant to be, that he likes the new girl and that he had lost feelings for me prior to the breakup. Which also hurt me. Then he started to act weird, called me drunk to accuse me of cheating, sent texts and then deleted them, start conversations asking me how i am, and then one day he told me he has always loved me and doesnt understand why i act so cold towards him. We talked and he said that i was he one for him, that he was always mine during all this time, that the girl is nice but he doesnt love her. I told him im willing to take him back if he can be honest and if he would have come to be after breaking up with her and not sneaking and using me as a plan B. He said he's not doing that, i asked him if he wants to get back together, he asked me back and the ghosted me (lets say), never mentioned anything about us getting back together.
Then during 8 months he would call or text me one time per month telling me he loves me, that im special and that he doesnt love his new gf. But i always had doubts because they appeared so happy on social media, they moved together, she met his family, spent christmas together while i was at homr crying and im sure he only called me or conacted me when he fought with her. But during 8 months he told me that he doesnt love her, which made me confuse.
Now, he asked me if i would like to get back together and I dont know. I feel like he lied to me, that he loves the girl and only came back because there's something not going well between them. He has never apologised for punching the wall, and said i made him do it because i threatened to leave him and that he only yelled a couple of times which is not true and that its not like he harmed me. I fell confused because every fought ended in him screaming like crazy and now im asking myself if i exagerate it, if im one of those persons who provoke others and they cry when the other person is acting crazy. I do love him and i know its my fault that i left him and he had the right to get with someone else, so thats why im considering getting back together, because its not like he cheated on me.
Tl;dr: Should I (25F) get back with my ex (36M) after he got a rebound? I dont want to ask my friends because they have seen me cry the last couple of months
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2023.06.08 16:59 TopPomegranate4432 InvestEngine - free £10-£50 bonus when you invest £100
InvestEngine is an investment platform specialising in low-cost Exchange Traded Funds (ETFs).
They are offering a randomly selected bonus of £10-£50 for those who sign up via referral and invest at least £100 for 12 months. Yes, it's a long time but if you can lock away just £100, then this is an easy freebie. Even if you only get the minimum £10 bonus, that's the equivalent of a 10% interest rate, so an impressive return. My experience:
I successfully signed up via referral and received a £12 bonus. I invested £105 (just over the required threshold because I like to play safe), and 6 weeks after I signed up, I received an email to tell me that I could claim my bonus. It appeared as cash but since I have to leave it in there for 12 months (otherwise they'll claw it back), I'm going to stay an active investor for the foreseeable future, plus I have more than the minimum investment requirement (as per terms for both referrer and person being referred), so rest assured you’ll qualify for your bonus. If you'd like to sign up, you can find my steps below:
- Sign up using my InvestEngine referral link here
- Complete the straightforward registration questions (I was asked to enter my National Insurance number but no other ID was required)
- Choose your portfolio (I chose the DIY/Self-Managed option as there were no associated fees)
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- Click "Add Funds" to connect your bank account and transfer in the investment amount (I added £105 just to comfortably bring myself over the £100 threshold)
- Your randomly selected bonus will be revealed in 2-5 business days (mine took 6 weeks) but you'll still need to sit tight for 12 months before it clears
- That's it! Come back in 12 months, after which, you'll be able to cash out your bonus + initial investment, which hopefully will have performed well over the year too!
Terms say that if you withdraw any of the initial investment below £100, you'll be disqualified from cashing out the bonus, or if you attempt to withdraw the bonus ahead of time, they will claw it back from your funding account. So you'll definitely need to exercise patience! LINKS
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2023.06.08 16:57 Safe-Plankton-1174 What do you charge for custom cutting
I am a long term lapidary, it's how I make my living. I was recently approached by a customer who attempted to start their own business in gem rough a few years ago. They were not able to profit and ended up writing over 150k off as a failed business. My basic experience is mostly cutting and selling the stones, I only do cabochons, typically collector stones. I have, in the past, minimally cut for people, and these days I will only cut their material, not mine.
Anyway, customer comes to me with this massive amount of material, and told me they are looking to recoup their investment, am I interested in cutting their material, marketing it, and being paid per stone or parcel. I am, indeed.
Here is the problem, if there is one, I told the customer that my price for cutting the material out, and marketing it, is $35.
From my own perspective, it's a steal. I will be handling collector material, stones that are likely to sell upward of a 700 to 800 dollars, some of it could go for thousands. I am relying on my reputation as a cutter for 30 years, my equipment, my photography skills, my contacts. All of which this customer has none of.
So... why you may wonder if I am cutting and selling similar material myself, why would I cut for 35 dollars a cab.
It helps with cash flow and I genuinely feel for this person, we have been somewhat friends for a few years.
The issue is they think 35 dollars a cab is "extremely expensive".
I think I am underpricing myself, but maybe I have an ego. So I wanted to check and see what folks here think about the price of 35 a cab, the material is their, the expense of cutting and selling is mine.
I did tell them they should check around with other lapidaries to see what they are charging. They quickly said, oh no, I trust you!
Anyway, would love to hear what you guys think.
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2023.06.08 16:57 SneakieDad I’ve tried everything
I just need to get this off my chest. And I hope I can resonate with some others that may be in the “am I am alcoholic?” mindset.
So I would say I have been in and out of alcoholism for years, since college. Since the pandemic drinking became a 5 days or more thing for me. Never getting blacked out, but like 6 beers a night is a normal thing. On the weekends, like 10 beers minimum on Friday/Saturday and sometimes a day drinking Sunday. I’m a hypochondriac, and deal with constant (sometimes crippling) anxiety. I never put together that drinking is likely a huge contributor to how I’m feeling. I always took my annual blood work being fine as confirmation bias that I’m living a sustainable lifestyle. I’ve never hit a rock bottom physically per se, but mentally I feel like I have.
I’ve grown tired of being mildly hungover all the time. I’m tired of spending my Saturday’s and Sunday’s hungover. I’m tired of the only thing I look forward to being a beer when I get home. I’m fucking tired of being anxious all the time. I’m just sick of it all man. I want to be present for my wife and (in a few weeks) son.
I’ve tried “cutting back” and “limiting my drinking nights”. And that goes on for a few days and then im back to where I was.
I’m done with alcohol. Not doing this “cutting back” bullshit anymore. Minimizing and overlooking an issue got me here. Im an alcoholic, and there’s no minimizing that just because my consumption isn’t as severe as other people’s.
So I’m Trying to be positive, because I’m going to be a dad in a few weeks (: I’m looking forward to feeling great in the mornings, being healthier mentally and physically. Praying for strength, good vibes, or whatever you believe in for anyone in the same boat.
Love you all.
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2023.06.08 16:56 zel_bob Help deciding…. Please
I am basically in between 3 bikes right now. Zx6r - 2013 4,xxx miles, might need a new tires this year but at least next year. Full exhaust and small tune for exhaust . Clean bike never dropped or laid down. $7500. Runs great and started right up.
Cbr600rr non ABS- 2013 7,xxxx miles with a lot of after market parts including seat, mirrors grips and levers, and all fairings. All the stock ones come with it. New oil this year and tire will be good till about end of next year (depending on how much I ride). It started right up too. Only thing is I don’t like the fairings on it and will go back to the stock ones along with the mirrors and what not. Asking $7000
Gsxr 600 - 2014 with 6,xxx miles. Owner still owes a little on the bike (I think around $5000). New tires when he got it in March 2022, new oil. The only thing that he said was wrong with it was the clear coat on the paint was peeling off a bit, I couldn’t really see it in the video he sent to me to show it. This one has been on the market the longest. He’s asking $6900. I’m going to look at this one later today.
If money wasn’t an object I would’ve bought the ninja already. My max cash is $6500 maybe $6800 and that is a big factor for me. I don’t think the ninja would take it as he put in on the market 4 days ago.
Any advice please help!! Some other things to consider would also be good. Insurance I’m fine with all 3 already received serval quotes and I am ok with all of them.
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2023.06.08 16:54 DoneF0r D4 Endgame FrozenORB sorc build for T4
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First post here but hopefully a good one.
I've spent the days since launch with D4 sorcerer understanding each and every node/mechanic within and I'm here to tell you about it.
This build will help propel your sorc into endgame with a few uniques and unoptimized gear.
+High Damage, +Barrier Longevity, +High Vulnerable Damage
-Cooldowns, -Gives up damage for survivability
Check the skills, enchantments, paragon, and imprints here: https://d4builds.gg/builds/19c5218e-64a3-4712-ada4-ee2286ab57ec/
Some passive talk:
Required: ***Ice shard pierce 4 times with 20% less damage on each subsequent enemy***
***Iceheart Brais Unique Passive*** This will explode all enemies on screen.
Avalanche key passive applies to 1 additional cast (If you don't have this swap it for mothers embrace until you get a good ring)
The penitent greaves are optional here although it does give a boost to bosses who cannot be frozen. If you have a good pair of boots that give you good passives though it may be worth swapping penitent greaves out for those instead.
Some Stat PRIO:
Your gonna want a good mix of Vulnerable Damage increase, Critical strike chance, Critical strike damage, and either damage to frozen enemies (to help with small/medium mobs) or damage to chilled enemies (bosses) on rings like the below pic:
For other gear:
Guantlets: shoot for +Ranks on ice shards for the guantlet with crit chance and intellect
Chest: The most amount of damage reduction passives possible
Helm: Intellect, maxlife, cooldown, +ranks on ice shards or frozen orb (theres more possibilities here but shoot for what you can)
Weapon: Core skill damage > Vuln damage > Crit strike chance > DMG to frozen > Intellegence
Offhand: Critical strike change > DEX (other possibilities exist but prio these two)
RiNGS: Rings are a huge increase in damage especially in later nightmares. Prioritize these: Crit strike chance > Crit strike dmg> Vuln damage, DMG to chilled or DMG to frozen
Necklace: Mana Cost decrease > DMG reduction > Frost skill dmg (or other dmg like core etc.)
You'll want groups here, single-target is tough to keep and sustain mana. Your main objective to gather large groups of enemies, teleport in, freeze them all with frost nova, put on barrier, and spam ice shards.
Reasoning for this is because we took the frozen orb passive that gains mana per frozen enemy hit we want as many grouped frozen enemies as possible. Ice shards will consistently proc the frozen orb passive and bounce between enemies. With the mana regen from ice barrier and damage bonuses from barriers/frozen and explosions from iceheart brais there should be no issue spamming ice shards when enemies are grouped up.
When doing bosses you can use frost nova when they use their summons (Most every boss i've encountered does have 1-3 summons and some have more) Frost nova also pushes their stun meter up quite a bit so you can use it stun bosses. otherwise its spam ice barrier for mana regen and hit them with ice shards. If you mana gets to low use sparks to gain crit chance and go back to spamming ice barrier and ice shards.
GOOD LUCK! I hope some can improve on the formula here and give me more ideas for this build as im only lvl 67 doing T4 Nightmare Tier 24. I was disgusted at seeing every youtuber push the fire bolt passive as the best when it seems like they don't even know other skills exist and are readable. While it is a good build it seems to take time to burn enemies instead of exploding them. I've found this build gives me the satisfaction of destroying the screen with ice explosions. I've had to manage the survivability through barrier chance and generation but if enemies are grouped there should be no problem. The barrier generation from other passives and sources like the one on the chest piece help mitigate this as well and avalanche is fantastic especially with the avalanche passive on a ring. https://preview.redd.it/yc0e8h0xus4b1.png?width=941&format=png&auto=webp&s=a4b3c60a31f5710ed30f1a1ce5e74fd30c174b88
2023.06.08 16:54 dumb-throw-away1 I (30m) am on the precipice of getting my act together, and want to recconect with my ex (26f) that inspired this self awareness
TLDR: (probably slightly autistic) robotics engineer dated a beutifull artist. When the artist started to understand the world she had an identity crisis, when the engineer started to understand emotions he had an identity crisis, and they broke up. Its been 6-9months since the breakup, should the engineer pursue the artist again?
Last year I met and dated a lovely girl from new years day, untill the next new years day. After a few weeks, I met her dad, I asked her to be my girlfriend after this, but she said not yet but we agreed to date exclusively regardless. I made it a point that she would have to ask me to be her boyfriend when she was ready, I would tease her about it allot. She introduced me as her boyfriend to her friends that hadnt met me, so I'd tease her about it again to prompt her. We did very couply things, like meeting parents, all family events, my best friends daughters christening (she wasnt even christian, so that meant the world to me).
After a couple of months she was saying things like "I never even thought I wanted kids, untill I met you". The sex was amazing, when we we're first getting intimate I was pretty anxious because shes pretty much a 10, and she said it was super hard for her to orgasm (only one bf did before me did, and very irregular). After about our third time we had her hitting orgasm multiple times in a session. Was amazing.
BUT I THINK IM SLIGHTLY AUTISTIC AND DIDNT LET LOVE DEVELOP IN MYSELF UNTILL SHE ASKED ME OUT OFFICIALLY.
Anyway, after about 6 months, honeymoon phase was winding down relationship weight was on, and it was time for us to hit the gym for my best friends wedding in november. I was getting great results (because I think im slightly autistic and just treat my body like a machine), but she wasnt. Girls were hitting on me, even when I was holding her hand in public walking around. Wild, that shit had never happened to me ever before. It made her very self conscious, and filled me with toxic pride (I wasnt aware at the time).
She was very naive when we first met, and I enlightened her to allot of domains of life. She started having an identity crisis, at the same time she was becoming self conscious. During our mutual breakup conversation she said "when I met you, I had zero oppinions about anything, and now I feel like all my oppinions are just yours, in my head" - this isnt the outcome I wanted at all. I wanted to enlighten her and watch her develop her own oppinions, and hopefully they would align with mine.
By 11 months we still hadnt told each other the I love you words consciously (we had both said it a few times in bed when your like half asleep lol). I almost drowned kayaking in a raging torrent, and only just managed to save myself. I had a little freak out, rushed straight to her house for headpats and to tell her I loved her. She said it back and I thought it was sweet as. But it was not sweet as. She went into a massive anxiety spiral, thinking that I didnt think what she said was from the heart, because I was spaced out (she obviously hasnt had any near death experiences lol) - she didnt tell me this untill we broke up.
We decided to breakup because she wanted to find her own oppinions/identity and I wanted to work on more domains of life (business, gym, remodeling house and community building). She was pretty depressed, and I couldnt pull her out of it despite trying which is also why I wanted to go.
To maximise the domain of community building, I had to develop my communication skills. To develop my communication skills, I had to develop better emotional awareness. To build the emotional awareness I had to do deep self reflection. Ironically, this has lead to me having my own identity crisis. But instead of me having no oppinions like her, I had no emotional awareness and she unlocked that in me. This self awareness has allowed me to see allot of negative traits of my charecter I didnt even realise. Its allowed me to see and feel how she would of, when I was full of toxic pride.
I've knuckled down and got my shit together. I'm very well built now, and coaching a few men in the gym (this is how I have learned to manage my pride -- by building others up, I'm the hype man for everyone in the gym now). I've built a new community from the ground up with weekly catchups, that happen even if I'm not there. I've joined 2 other big communities and am quickly ascending the heirarchies. I'm on the verge of shutting my business down and taking a very good job, so I can focus more energy on community building and/or a relationship. I'm probably 12 weeks away from being house proud.
I've started dating again after my 6months of monk mode, but no women compare to her. And the pool I am drawing from now is way bigger than the pool I was in when I met her. After I conquer the last objective I set myself (house proud) I think I want to reach out to her and see if she is open to me pursuing her again, because I'm radically more aware and kinda different. I'm sure she has developed her own opinions and is different as well.
We caught up about 2 months after the breakup for her to pickup a camp chair she left with me, and my stupid subconscious took over and just flirted with her at max capacity because I missed her smile. She laughed and blushed lots. After I got her smiles, I managed to say "I really am sorry for turning into a dick when I hit the gym, all the break up is on me" she refused to accept it, but said "yes you did turn into a dick but its 50/50 on me too". I have better communication skills now though.
She sends me a snap randomly when ever she goes fishing (my hobby), I send her a snap when ever I see nice art (her hobby). No words or communication, just like a gesture of us thinking about eachother I think? I deleted all socials except for snap at the breakup, and have no intentions of ever going on them again (because of my toxic pride trait). I post a no context snap story of some new place in nature I discover every week (we both love exploring nature), she catches every single one. She hasnt posted any snap stories, unsure of insta as no access and not going to look.
The way I see it is I have two options,
Option 1: approach her for a coffee and see if we vibe again, then be clear with the fact I want to pursue her with all the learnings I have discovered and hopefully have a 10x better relationship that could be it.
Option 2: Or dont and just integrate these learnings into the next girl. I had a hard rule of never going back to exs due to an early, horrible experience lol. But this one is different, she makes me want to break my own rules.
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2023.06.08 16:53 xparadiisee Somewhat thankful I was raised by narcissists today.
I’m in the process of moving out and my roommate and I, who have been friends since 2020, are having a falling out because I put my foot down on one of their stupid boundaries that they randomly decided to set. When they refused to find a solution, they proceeded to get our neighbors involved and told me that because they neighbors were okay with it I HAVE to do it.
A couple days ago I said I was moving out soon, and they would need to find alternative solutions to the kitchen items as I would be taking them in two weeks. They really loved to use all my plates, bowls, cups and silverware and never wash them/put them away.
I was in yesterday morning to find two boxes packed of their kitchen stuff. Whatever, I decided to pack my kitchen stuff then because the last thing I’m doing is more of their dishes while I’m moving out!! As I continue packing, I notice a couple of my things missing.
Considering these boxes were in the living room, I decided to open them up and make sure my stuff wasn’t in there. And guess what was there sitting front and center in the first box I opened? A wine opener that they gave to me as a gift two years ago at my old place! I was like “of course!” so I continued to go through the rest of the boxes and they tried taking more of my kitchen stuff! I took it all back, but I’m currently missing a couple things; one of which is a wineglass from my great grandmother that I know my roomie LOVED to use because they’d take all 6 of them to their area all the time.
Anyway, when I confronted them they proceeded to gaslight me. Thank god I love to cook because I have TONS of videos/photos saved on my Snapchat of the items from my old place that they tried to pack! I even said one of the things I took back was a gift from them, and they proceeded to play dumb.
I’m too old for this shit, and I’m thankful I can recognize these narcissistic patterns because of years of therapy.
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2023.06.08 16:53 half2happy Protesting via reddit - next steps.
Per the mostly "yes" votes in this discussion: https://redd.it/141jqg2 ...we will likely join the protest against reddit's proposed changes to their API. If you're not sure what that means, check out the Explain Like I am Five thread: https://redd.it/142kct8
I'm going to put some durations as comments below in contest mode. You are welcome to add additional comments for alternate durations.
Please use upvotes to vote for a duration and downvotes to vote against a duration. Reddit based polls are skewed towards those who use new reddit and apps, other polling requires people to leave the site. Now for some FAQ:
How any changes reddit makes impact moderation here? I use old.reddit via desktop or occasionally mobile device, neither of which is currently impacted by access to the API. We do not currently use any additional bots in this subreddit beyond reddit's AutoModerator.
How will I know if the blackout is over if I'm boycotting reddit? There are alternatives, I'm partial to discord but I don't need to be the moderator if we go elsewhere. That will likely be another discussion thread in a few days.
I have strong opposition to what you're saying and doing but fear the downvotes, harassment, and brigading. Please message the moderators: https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/Visiblemending.
Edited for formatting and clarity.
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2023.06.08 16:53 IsThereLifeOnMars77 My first ghost!
Im very new to dating and the apps and just had my first initiation into the lovely world of ghosting LOL! I was hoping to get some perspective on the situation.
So, I met this guy on FB dating. We hit it off right away, met up and have been seeing each other for a little over 2 months. Our energies matched in terms of both liking to be in communication a lot daily (texts, calls, etc). It was flowing easily and naturally. He told me pretty early on that he deleted the apps and was only talking to me. I didnt ask, he offered this up. I told him the same but we never really had a clear conversation about being 'exclusive' per se.
Then this happened:
Sunday - had a SUPER fun date, he texted and called me when he got home as he typically did. told me he LOVES being with me, he respects me and how independent I am, thank you so much for such a lovely day, blah blah lol
Monday, Tuesday, Wed - communication kind of slowing down
Thursday - didnt hear from him all day, strange! My friend told me she saw him on Bumble 😳
Friday - I send him a text asking if everything is ok (he has a very ill family member on hospice). No response. 8 hours later, I send another text - are you ok, I'm worried? He responds apologizing, saying things got crazy with work, family, blah blah. I say no problem I'm here for you if you want to vent or whatever.
Saturday, Sunday, Monday - 👻 lol. nothing. I was trying to respect his space so I didnt reach back out since I did TWICE on Friday. Plus, I got the vibe he was avoidant and I DID NOT want to chase him.
Monday pm - I confirm his presence and active swiping on Bumble so I send him a text "hey, for what's it's worth I had a lot of fun with you and really enjoyed our adventures. Best of luck in your search!"
He hasnt responded. I didnt send that text hoping for a response. I figured it was best to 'end it' since he lied about being on the apps. It wasnt so much that he was on there, its the fact that he LIED about it.
But it is still hard and confusing? I truly dont understand why grown ass adults (hes 50!) have to lie and would just disappear like that. Granted, it was only a few months but still! How do you go from talking to someone every day to talking about meeting their kids next weekend to NOTHING. I would rather he had told me, look it's not a match, I'm scared of getting too close, I met someone else, whatever the case may be rather than fucking 👻. It's rude and hurtful.
This was my first dating experience in a very long time. Just looking for some perspective, tips going forward? Thanks in advance ☺️
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2023.06.08 16:52 fknmckenzie Mass transfer from pogo
Still kind of new to using pokemon home, just wondering a few things about the best way to transfer pokemon from pogo
I own pokemon let's go we've Sword and shield And scarlet and violet
Basically I'm kind of Wondering since pokemon go has that transfer energy that takes days to fill up Is it easier to mass transfer my pokemon into either let's go and then into pokemon home, or if I transfer them from pogo to let's go are they locked in to that game after I transfer
Or Is there an easy way to get my shinys out of pogo?
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2023.06.08 16:49 xCorty My AirPods Max V2 Review
There aren't a lot of reviews here on reddit, so i would like to take some time to talk about the about the Max V2, i would like to talk about: - Build Quality - Sound Quality - Shipping Time - Buying Process - Jenny's Help with some problems i had
Build Quality The build quality is nice, we all know that the cups are made of plastic and not aluminium but it's cool, even if i'm not really sure about the durability of the cups, i hope they don't get shiny over time, another small defect that i found was the mechanism to make the cups go up and down, it's pretty stiff and it seems like you are scratching the rod every time that you make adjustments, the button and the knob are also pretty cheap feeling, but beside that, the headphones are flawless, there are all the logos, and writings, i noticed some typo on the box but beside that is perfect, even if the charging cable seems cheap, but this are just some details, the smart case quality, is average, nothing bad but nothing good either
Sound Quality The sound quality is pretty good, i confirm that the sound is bassy, but i like it, it sound very full, and i love to use the headphones to work out, the knob is super useful, i love it, i was a bit let down by the spatial audio not working, i personally don't use eq because i prefer the audio as it is.
Shipping Time The shipping time was AWFULY LONG it took more than a month, at least it arrived in good conditions the box was without a scratch
Buying Process The buying process was ok, the problem was after, in fact i had to wait like two weeks to even have the tracking number
Jenny's Help As i said before, i had some problems with the spatial audio, and jenny did nothing lol, i wrote to her on whatsapp but she just said the headphones needs an update, and i need to wait, that's it
Conclusion i got my Max v2 some days ago, i like the sound of them, but the anc and trasparency mode are shitty af, i also have some 4.9TB and they are far way better from the point of view of the connections, supporting multi device and spatial audio, btw spatial audio does not work on my pair sadly, idk why, jenny said that they need an update or something, the sound quality is pretty good, the build quality also, but i'm scared that with time the plastic could become lucid and shiny, beside that i already have a mark on the plastic and i'm not quite sure how much it will take to scratch them, the smart case quality, is avarage, nothing bad but nothing good either
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