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2013.02.18 19:38 AFreakingUnicorn raisedbynarcissists: for the children of abusive parents

This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.

2023.06.08 10:29 Calgrin 27M looking for friends and chats!

Hi there, I’m from England and I’m looking for friends! I have trouble making friends irl because I’m so shy and introverted so I figured I’d post here. I’m into football, gaming (I’m really into the souls games) going for walks and just being outside in general, it helps with feeling trapped in my room where I tend to get quite sad and overthink, I used to draw stuff, I like watching films (just recently watched the POTC films with my gf), love cooking/baking, listening to music (I’m a metal head but I’ll listen to anything), I like plants too although I’m still very new to them, my gf has ma g and loves them and got me into liking them! There’s probably more I can’t think of but feel free to ask questions! If any of this sounds good to you then feel free to throw me a message! Preferably be in the UK just because it’s easier to connect because of time difference etc. but message me and let’s see where things go! No nsfw and please be 18+ cheers! Take care!
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2023.06.08 10:29 MihouSenpai My GirlFriend and I just broke up

After 7 years of relationship my gf and I broke up. It was the best 7 years of my life because, well, she pretty much saved my life more than once by giving me love, forgiveness, making me love myself and giving me a place I can call home. With her I had time to understand myself better and I came to the conclusion that all my sorrow comes from this body that doesn't belong to me. It wasn’t the first time, back to high school I knew I am trans and sometimes it came to hit me more or less harder. But that time I felt like I had to act and taking this feeling down once and for all. So, Monday evening, before going to sleep, I looked at my girlfriend and told her one more time “I’m trans”. She asks me a lot of questions and I answer all as I can. I was ready to take all the hate and misunderstanding that people usually throw at trans… but it never came. Instead it was a long silence. She finally told me that, if I become a girl she won’t be there, she can’t be there because she’s not attracted to girls. She did understand me because she’s not white, she’s not black, she’s a girl who loves doing man stuff so she never belongs. She had to fight for a place in this world but she got through this on her own because, that’s my girl and that’s what she did : being the strongest, best and prettiest girl of all. And then started hell : she was freezing and repeated “what should we do ?” “I’m turning 30…” “it's been 7 years”. She was really in pain. All that “talking” started at 11h30 pm and ended at 4h am. The next day we were both home. It was silent when we woke up, so I decided to go out for a walk and to cry where no one could see me. But at the moment I went to the door she was there watching me trying to go and crying. I decided to stay home with her. All day she was staring at walls doing nothing but cry, hitting herself. That scares me a lot and I also cry. The next day we had to go back to work. God, I was scared that she did something to her but she was ok. Since then everything’s backs to normal, like nothing happened and like we’re still together except that I can see in her eyes love faded away and sadness living in it. There is nothing I can do to change that because I can’t leave her but I can’t live in that body and we both know it. So all I do is hoping that transitioning worth the price of leaving the love of my life behind. I can’t picture myself alone in our appartment, without her by my side, knowing that we'll be together after work, sharing meal, feeling her presence in the room, the way she come to bother me in a silly way so I pay attention to her, all the nickname I gave her, all the travel we did and wish we do, all our project. In my head is like a non stop retrospective of all our live together with the good and bad moment, even the meanless one came back to mind. More than ever I hate being trans and see all the suffering that I have to deal with, either mine or from people I love
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2023.06.08 10:29 OldeEnglish800xx Dealing with intense existential nihilism, I need advice.

Just need some outside advice. I’m 19 and I’m dealing with substantial depression at the moment and nothing in life seems to have any inherent meaningful longevity to it. I’ve always suffered from these thoughts for most of my life, and due to my phlegmatic nature I tend to keep it dug in my subconscious. Alas, I feel as if I’m starting to really go under as I get older and it’s eating me inside. I can’t share my feelings with my parents or friends because it will only cause more problems in my life, and I can’t give into the allure of substance abuse because I have a history with alcohol and I don’t want to bring that back. I dont want to go to therapy because nobody will ever truly be able to know what I’m dealing with and I’m not fond of speaking in my inner thoughts with strangers in person.
Just need some sort of purpose or someone to help me brainstorm ideas to make me find some meaning to my existence.
Feel free to ask for details if you have questions. Thanks truly.
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2023.06.08 10:29 PseudonymFanfic [Other] My MC, Beckett. My Adventures in the Devildom.

[Other] My MC, Beckett. My Adventures in the Devildom.
This is the first time I've made something for my own MC. "Dear Love" refers to my IRL partner, whom I pretend to write to about my adventures in the Devildom.
I play the game as everyone's platonic friend. I am asexual and enjoy Queer Platonic Relationships for myself. I also play matchmaker in my own Devildom universe.
My attributes: average height. Black hair styled with a medium hold matte pomade. Brown eyes. Beauty mark under my nose. Dimple on one side of my face. Clothing: Prefer formal wear over casual. Suspenders over belts. Monochromatic colours or loud ostentacious patterns, no in-between. Comfy dress shoes in black or brown but open to other colours to match outfits; I'm wearing leather monkstrap shoes in the picture. Metal accents like tie clips are crucial. Got laser eye surgery but sometimes wears fake glasses to feel something on my face. Satchel contains good pens, quality paper, and workstation. Fitbit on my wrist to count every step I take to solve the problems of the day. Personality: wry and dry humor. Workaholic. Lifelong learner. The Parent Friend. Always happy to help. Frontline tendencies. Skills: technical writing, sewing and clothing construction, trades and mechanics, hair cutting, musician (piano and guitar), singer and actor (theatre), novelist, artist Likes: obtaining new skills and making new friends. Justice. Equity. Dislikes: misunderstandings, situations that could have been handled effectively but weren't. Unclear communication. Occupation before I got Isekai'd: director of operations Character I relate to the most: Lucifer Character I would date if I was inclined: Diavolo, because he reminds me of my actual partner. The reason I ship a certain ship so hard: I love my partner the most and this is a mirror to that, right down to situations and actual conversations we have had in real life.
My MC and OM Characters in my Devildom:
Lucifer: would smugly tell me that I've used a comma splice and I'd tell him to "shove a semi-colon in it". My bestest friend in the entire Devildom. We go to cafes and bookstores and go shopping for office supplies. I tell him to stop working so hard and he stares at me like "You're the one telling me this? The audacity." I needle him about possible his crush and he tells me to fuck off but his face is red.
Mammon: my other bestie but in a wildly different way. He brings out the shit-disturber in me. We play billiards together and play for treats. I disapprove of his gambling but am all-in on the shopping. He takes me out to all the best food places. "Try this, Beckett, you'll really love it." Meanwhile it's some sort of Devildom Atrocity, but somehow it's still good.
Levi: my nerd friend. I bring him offerings and leave them outside his door. We play games often with Mammon and I kick their butts at fighting games, but get wrecked when I have to make choices. We stay up hellishly late and I wake up with chocolate on my face. "Lets do this again: ive got the hottest new dating sim to try!" We are both groggy and destroyed and i have to go to work, but I agree to come back tonight.
Asmo: my favourite boy toy. He's stylish as hell and knows what looks good on anybody. Hes my personal stylist. I cut his hair in exchange. Just like with Mammon I go shopping with Asmo, except he knows all the good places for clothing and knows where all the thrift stores are. "It doesnt have to be new and expensive to look good honey!" I agree. I cuddle with Asmo the most because he loves touch.
Satan: my boy thirsts for knowledge and I do too. We skill-trade and fan over cats. Unfortunately I'm very allergic, but I appreciate them from afar and draw cats for him to hang in his book-filled room. "Do you want to come to the cat Cafe with me?" Oh Satan. He's his father's son alright, but he's just as much of a shit disturber as Mammon. He teaches me fun curses to use on people but I'm content with just knowing it.
Beel: when I'm tired Beel carries me back home and talks about the science behind calories and energy retention in relation to demonic body types. He enjoys cooking and I love testing recipes on him, but I have to swat him away from eating it before it's done. We do exercises together and buff up together. "I can almost see your six pack, haha".
Belphie: he's my sleepy boy. He can be irrational sometimes but I put a blanket over his head to shake him out of it and he snuggles closer. I play him songs on piano and guitar and sing him to sleep, but then I also end up quite sleepy. He's like a son to me and I lecture him often. I try to keep him and Satan from screwing with Lucifer too much. I'm a double agent in the anti Lucifer league lol
Diavolo: i enjoy it when he regales me with Devildom laws, traditions and customs. He speaks of how the executive branch and legislative branch operates in the context of his kingdom and I suggest to strengthen certain areas of his constitution to bring his vision of equity and interrealm relations to the forefront. I am also a shit disturber and needle him about his possible crush. "You are asking beyond your means, Beckett. Forgive me if I don't answer." Hm... yes, of course. Sorry.
Barbatos: I learn how to be the most efficient I can be from someone who is the most efficient. He is skilled in everything and I must learn from the best. I'm his best student and I'm a teachers pet so i love to hear it. He's been and seen everything and he is an excellent linguist. He is poetry personified in the every day. "Don't let Solomon ruin you too much." I won't!
Solomon: I use my knowledge of mechanics and trades and recontextualise it to be an artificier and create magical items. He is also one to bring out the shit disturber in me and I have almost become Thirteen just from the incidentally nonsense stuff I make. "Oh that's an interesting effect. I wonder what will happen if I give this to Barbatos". Solomon, dude. Do you want to get murdered. Is that what you're into.
Simeon: he is my sweetest and chillest boy. My bestie to talk about justice and relationality with. When I'm insecure and feel like people don't like me as much as they do, he reassures me and tells me stories of his own relationships. "There is nothing wrong with stepping back. Once you've regained your sense of self, you'll be able to pursue the path of friendship again and people will be ready to receive you."
Luke: he is like my son. I make sure he doesn't get nightmares because he seems to have a hard time acclimating to his demonic environment. He teaches me how to bake so that I can make some cakes that look like real inanimate objects and eat them in front of people, to their shock.
Mephisto: I am like Lucifer 2.0. He doesn't really like me but I have no hard feelings toward him.
Thirteen: my Bae. She's a delight but I have to make sure her shenanigans don't cause too much damage in the area or accidentally kill me. I would date her after Diavolo if I was inclined to do that.
I hope you enjoyed seeing my experience and interpretation of the game from my point of view. Everyone's MC journey is very personal to them and I do not believe there is a wrong way to enjoy the game. Thank you for reading. :)
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2023.06.08 10:29 DankuBot Might be too dark 😬

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2023.06.08 10:29 Rasha_0727 Husband cheated while 4 months pregnant with our 2nd kid

I, 32, was 4months pregnant with our 2nd child when I found out my husband, 28, was cheating on me. I noticed he wouldn't leave his phone even if he's in the shower. I find it odd because the last time he did that was when he cheated when we were still bf/ gf ( its a long story too but we were in a long distance relationship at that time, i forgave him as you can see we are now married). Its suspicious but maybe it was just my hormones messing up my mind and I cant even see his phone unattended so i cant sneak on it. But one time, he forgot and left it in our room because he went to a colleague. I thought that was the right time to sneak up on him. I opened Facebook Messenger, since i know the phone's lock code, but it has too many messages so i went to SMS instead and there i found the girl's name. Its the same girl he cheated with. (another backstory, he knew that girl because she was a prostitute) so this time he communicated with her to avail her services or any of her friends. I was too shocked, i dont know how i feel. And then i heard his footsteps so i just casually grabbed anything so he wouldn't think i touched his phone. He took it and went out again. I was too shocked. I searched the girl on fb and there it was at the reels she went out with her friends that time they texted. I scrolled thru my messages with my husband and there i called him several times and he didnt pick up, he didnt call me back or texted me until it was 5:40AM. ( i had to call him that time coz i am with my 1st born at my mother's house. It was 3 towns away) He didnt text or call me from 7PM to 5:40AM. That's when i felt so devasted but I cant bring myself to be angry because i thought it was my fault for not satisfying his "needs". I had low sex drive due to pregnancy and i thought maybe that was the case. But i still felt miserable. I thought I have to endure this cheating the whole time i was pregnant. It seemed unfair. I dont know what to do. I dont want him to know i was sneaking on his phone too. I really dont know what to do.
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2023.06.08 10:28 UnfairBill7482 My dog asks for rubs but after a minute or two becomes reactive?

So my 2 year old golden is a very sweet girl. We had behaviour issues with her in the first 18 months but, as I suspected, she's mostly grown out of them.
But one thing she hasn't grown out of is becoming reactive when people rub her for too long.
For example, yesterday when we were out walking her, I sat on a bench and was rubbing her a little bit and stopped as I know how she is.
A stranger came towards us and she became very excited, jumping on her and presenting her bum for a rub. The lady asked could she rub her and I said yes just don't go near her face as she doesn't like it.
The lady was rubbing her for a couple of minutes, my dog lied down on her side and seemed very relaxed as the lady rubbed her belly, side, bum, everywhere but the head really.
After about 2 minutes of this, my dog showed her teeth, then barked and gave a warning snap at the lady?
Why does she do this? She asks for rubs and is very friendly initially with people and loves strangers, but after a couple of minutes she's like "OK I got my rubs now get away from me before you lose your fingers".
This isn't just strangers, we've learned not to rub her too long at home either for the same reason. We'll give her a few quick strokes and then stop so as to not over stimulate her.
Has anyone else experienced this or have advice?
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2023.06.08 10:28 hojichalatte [USA][H] Theresia Nintendo DS, Luminous Arc, Trace Memory, Parasite Eve: The 3rd Birthday PSP, Capcom vs SNK 2, signed Valkyria Chronicles for PS3, other PS2, PS3, PS4 games [W] Paypal, Zelle

Hey guys, updated my list of games to sell. Looking to sell my very rare copies of Theresia and Luminous Arc, as well as other Nintendo DS games and some other PS2, PS3, PS4 games I have as well.
Nintendo DS:
Theresia (Brand new, sealed) - $130
Luminous Arc (Mint, CIB) - $70
Trace Memory (Mint, CIB) - $35
Trauma Center: Under the Knife (Mint, CIB) - $20, or best offer
Monster Hunter Generations (Brand new, sealed) - $30 or best offer
Parasite Eve: The 3rd Birthday (Mint, CIB) - $60
Capcom vs SNK 2 (CIB) - $55
Disgaea: Hour of Darkness (Sealed) - $50
PS3: Mass Effect 2 (CIB): $5 Mass Effect 3 (CIB): $5 The Simpsons (CIB): $55 Valkyria Chronicles (Signed by Ryutaro Nonaka, producer; opened so he can sign the cover never played or used): $100 Tekken Hybrid Collector's Edition (Mint, CIB): $70 or best offer Resident Evil 6 (CIB): $7
The Bioshock Collection (Brand new, sealed) - $20
Mafia 3 (Brand new, sealed) - $10
Tales from the Borderlands (Brand new, sealed) - $30
Battleborn (Brand new, sealed) - $5
Uncharted 4: A Thief's End Libertalia Collectors Edition (Mint, CIB) - $80 or best offer
The Order: 1886 (Brand new, sealed) - $15
Xbox 360: Guilty Gear 2 Overture (Brand new, sealed): $40
Also for trades, looking for Street Fighter 6 PC/Steam (Ultimate edition) as of now.
Prices are before shipping costs and prefer Paypal F&F but G&S is fine too. PM me to get an estimate on shipping cost with your zip code. If you need pictures, let me know. Hope to sell these to a new home!
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2023.06.08 10:28 Lerpyderpy Simple, cheap gym

I live on the east side of Cap Hill and would love to find a gym that is cheap but stays open late. Really, I'm only looking for weights/weight machines. I've found that a little bit of weight-lifting makes me feel so much stronger in my body, given that I have a very sedentary line of work. I'd be totally happy if I lived in an apartment building with a basic gym but alas, I love the house I rent.
The Y's monthly fee is outrageous ($91???). It looks like a lot of other gyms are running $75/mo on average. Which isn't worth it for my minimal use.
Any creative ideas? I'd prefer something in the neighborhood and I may just need to resort to buying some free weights and watching some videos.
Thanks good people of Reddit.
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2023.06.08 10:28 Minato-ku9 Hear me out, there is 2 different Miguel in the Spider-Verse movies

Its something that nobody suspect, wich is understandable because it would be more complicated. But let me cook.
The Miguel O'hara from post credit scene is not the same Miguel from Across The Spiderverse. Why ?
1) When Lyla informed Miguel about Into The Spiderverse events, she mentionned that Miguel could be the first person to do a multiversal jump, but that is something you say when it's like the first time you do it right. But we know that Miguel from across the spiderverse already went to another dimension to replace the dead Miguel from this universe and be with his daughter. Wich proves 2 points, there is variants of Miguel, and it wasnt the first time he travel through the multiverse so why would Lyla says "you could be the first person to travel through the multiverse" and "don't be excited" like okay but didnt he supposedly do that before ? why are you telling him that now Lyla ?
2) In the post credit scene, Miguel says "I was gone for 2 hours, what happened?" Wich makes sense because in the begining of the movie the Collider was activated (when Peter Parker was still alive) and that's why Miguel ordered Lyla to make up a "goober" the device to go through the spiderverse because he prob detected an anomaly in the spiderverse. Then here we are 2 hours later, he was gone for 2 hours and the goober is ready, and lyla says good news the multiverse was nearly destroyed, then Miguel proceeds to go recruit some spider-mens. And that's the reason he started Spider-society. Now, in Across the Spiderverse Miguel explain the reason he started to create the society is to protect the multiverse because he himself destroyed an entire dimension by mistake.
So chronologically, if the 2 Miguel were the same. It means he went to another dimension and destroyed it by mistake before the movie into the spider verse. Then Lyla would of completly ignore this incident, and not mention it the post credit scene like nothing happened. And then Miguel starts the spider-society. No it doesnt make sense at all. Only explanation is that there is 2 Spiderman 2099.
3) arguable, but they are not built the same, not the same suit, even their personality post credit scene Miguel seems more fun and is not angry whenever the multiverse was nearly destroyed like he never destroyed it once himslef, he literally took it as a joke. And I feel like the post credit scene Miguel looks like Edge of Time Miguel, same funny tone, they both use humor and sarcasm. And would make Beyond the Spiderverse more complex because the Miguel O'hara from Edge Of Time, broke his rule by saving MJ (even tho it could break the timeline) and this Miguel would of helped Miles bcs he grew up mentally when Peter in Edge of Time said "Whats important is allowing someone to suffer or die, because you do nothing. If you don't get that, then you don't know the first thing about being Spider-man" But thats would be taking the thing very far even tho I like it, I wish they bring these version of Miguel and Peter into Beyond the Spiderverse. Lemme hear you out, and Whats your opinion
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2023.06.08 10:27 Nerdygirlsc My brother cheated on his pregnant wife. She found out and he left her.

There's a lot to this so let me try to cliff note:
My siblings and I were raised in a high control Christian religion. You couldn't have friends or marry someone outside of the faith. I left when I turned 18, but my family was still very active.
My brother really wanted a wife at a young age. You couldn't even kiss until you were married so I'm sure him wanting a wifey was really just him wanting to get physical with someone.
He dated someone seriously, she found out he looked at porn, told on him to the congregation leaders, and dumped him.
He didn't handle it well, went on Instagram and started following other young women of the same religion actively trying to find a new gf
He met his now wife on Instagram. She was new to the religion, and they made her dump her high school boyfriend to join and she couldn't be close to her non religion friends. Weirdly enough we grew up with her grandma in our congregation. So they had that connection and started dating. Both she and my brother were lonely and found each other when they were really needing companionship.
Well I think they fooled around because they ended up doing a really quick courthouse wedding and she had my niece within the first year of marriage.
My SIL is really hard to like. I tried really hard to make her feel like a part of the family, but pretty early on she set the precedent of being super entitled and only interested in what I could give/do for her.
They've been together for 5 years, and she just gave birth to my second niece. I've tried really hard to be a nice supportive family member. Over the years I hated the way she treated my brother. She was condescending and rude, but he always seemed oblivious to it. I thought maybe he was just so happy to be a dad or something. But I honestly don't think she loves him, she just loves what she can take from him if that makes sense.
She's very flaky and never follows through with anything she says, and as I mentioned, very entitled. A good example of the level of entitlement is that when my mom died, she went over to my parents house without telling anyone and just took whatever she wanted. I didn't know until I was at my brother's house one day and recognized something that was mine. She took a lot of family heirlooms or things I had as a kid that I was planning on passing down to my kids, and she gave them to my niece.
She is flaky to the point of having a new dog every 3 months. She finds one on craigslist, keeps it for a few months, decides there's something wrong with it's personality, then turns around and sells it. It breaks my heart every time and I've talked to my brother about how dogs shouldn't be treated that way. He says he knows and tells her not to do it, but then he comes home and there's another pet.
She hasn't worked their entire marriage. She'll get a job at Starbucks, work for a week, then find some reason to quit.
She has literally financially bankrupted my brother. She steals his credit cards. One time he hid them and she sought them out and had spent 8k in 3 days before he noticed. Before he was married he owned a home and was very financially responsible.
They ended up getting a home on a more expensive side of town, and he ended up with 2 mortgages on that house and over 200k in debt. The 200k does not include the mortgages or student loans. He's a software engineer and ended up picking up a 2nd job as a forklift driver to try to get ahead. I've seen text messages she's sent to a mutual friend saying that she likes having him gone all of the time.
So fast forward to recent events. I get a call out of nowhere with her crying hysterically saying my brother has cheated on her for the past 4 years and gave her an std when she was pregnant.
This was a shock cuz 1. How we were raised 2. He always seemed like perfect dad/husband who did everything in his power to take care of his family.
She literally called everyone she knew and told them this while my brother was at work. So when he comes home and finds out, it just kinda sealed everything for him. He left and moved into my childhood home. He's filing for bankruptcy, and apparently has a girlfriend. He's just done and wants nothing to do with her.
This really threw me. Honestly I think his actions are horrific no matter how justified. I was 8 months pregnant and if something like that happened to me, I don't think I could get through it. I think if he was unhappy, he should have talked to her. The way everything went down is just cruel and I'm struggling with my relationship with him.
Well my SIL doesn't have very many friends from the way she treats people. She does have a very supportive family and I hope they are there for her to help her through this. My brother took care of them in addition to her. He let her mom and brother live with them rent free, always paid for them when they went out anywhere, and even took them on a cross country family vacation. Everyone is pretty devasted.
I can't shake the feeling though they they are just mourning the lifestyle with him and not necessarily him.
Anyways, she doesn't have many friends and called/ texted me a lot after out of desperation trying to make sense of it all. I tried to be supportive and understanding and spent a few weeks helping. I never trashed my brother, I just let her know that I understand how hard everything is to go through and encouraged her to take care of herself and to guide through the grief process with therapy.
I had my baby and we kinda stopped talking. I just didn't have the energy anymore and she was starting to really talk trash about my family be every time we talked and it was just too much.
Well it's been 6 weeks since I gave birth and my siblings and I went to the zoo together with the baby. I was really excited to get out of the house and it was the first time my brother was getting to meet my baby due to my nieces constantly being sick. Well SIL found out and I guess it triggered her that I was hanging out with my brother and she's been sending really long messages about how messed up it is that we haven't reached out to her and see how she's doing and that we're just acting like what my brother did was ok and that there's no consequences for his actions.
I'm just at a loss on how to proceed. Honestly the texts made me angry because I WAS there when it first went down and did try to help. I really just don't want to try to continue a relationship, but a part of me still feels awful at what she's going through. If it happened to me, I would really want people to be there for me ya know? I'm also worried that she'll use the nieces as a bargaining chip and hold the relationship with them hostage. I also kinda wanted the door open to potentially get my stuff back now that I have a baby.
What are your thoughts? How would you proceed?
Her current arrangement with my brother is that she keeps the house and he pays the mortgage, he gets the girls on weekends, and he gives her 46k allowance a year so she doesn't have to work while she's taking care of the baby.
At this point all she needs to do is take care of her emotional wellbeing, but that's obviously been a struggle.
I haven't responded to her texts because I'm debating whether to just walk away or try to salvage some sort of relationship.
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2023.06.08 10:27 AlteraScilla Lf: 1 female roomate

May nahanap nang room sa 878 3 incoming 4th year AMVians kami 20k rent including assoc dues 5k per head for rent (Estimated additional 1k each for utilities)
Move in: august 1
Pay 5k for 1 month advance and 10k for 2 months deposit
Pls comment if interested!
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2023.06.08 10:27 Sufficient_Potato876 I(23f) don't know if I should leave my boyfriend (20m) or stay with him after many toxic things have happened.

I (23f) have been dating my current boyfriend(20m) for about a year now. We started dating last year in July. Long post. Before I met my current boyfriend, let’s call him Andy, I used to do only fans it was a way for me to make money during covid but eventually I stopped doing it, I deleted my OF account about a year before Andy & I met but was still selling content to one or two clients who I had formed a friendship with. When Andy & I started getting serious I decided that I would stop selling content & just find a normal job because I could tell he was the type of guy who wasn’t too keen on it from prior conversations we had, so I never actually told him that I sell content. I had told my clients that I would be finishing soon & would do it one more time as like a “ closing down sale “They all agreed & bought one last round of content, I planned to completely stop and then tell Andy about what I used it, that obviously didn’t happen .. after a night out drinking I had left my phone unlocked on my bed & Andy proceeded to go through it, he saw the chats between me & a client & he took it as I was cheating on him & I was still sleeping with other guys, I explained the whole thing to him but I could see he was really hurt by it & didn’t really understand, keep in mind at this point we had only been dating for about 2 weeks maybe 3. I kept trying to tell him that it was just a job & I never meant for him to find out this way I could see how much it was affecting him so I tried everything in my power to try & gain his trust back & to try to fix the situation. I do realise I was wrong in this situation and it was up to me to try fix it, and that's what I thought I did. I have never really liked how he acts on social media and that was always something at the beginning of our relationship .. in about September we were laying in bed and he kept getting messages on Snapchat, I left it for about an hour of Andy and this Snapchat person talking till eventually I asked him whos he's talking to so much. He then said it was just some random girl on Snapchat that thinks he's cute and wanted to talk to him, I had a problem with this and asked him what the fuck? and how does he think that's okay? he said he's not flirting back with her so what's the big deal.. this turned into a huge fight and for the first time he threw the fact that I used to do only fans in my face. I knew it was bound to happen to I accepted it but still explained to him that I'm not okay with him talking to girls who are actively flirting with him especially if he's not going to tell them he has a girlfriend once again I thought we had resolved this issue. I then started to notice that he would like a lot of girls' posts and would comment under a lot of their posts commenting on their bodies and how they look. I again spoke to him about this and again he blamed him for doing it on the fact that I used to do only fans and again I just took it and tried to understand. I thought he and I were good until Jan of this year when I found out that he was talking to a lot of other girls as well as flirting with them and letting them flirt with him and was sending them topless photos of himself all the time as well as asking other creators if he can buy nudes from them. I was devastated when I found out and when I confronted him about it he again blamed me and the fact that I used to do only fans, at this point I had enough and told him he needs to stop blaming me for all the shitty things he does, I know I did a messed up thing by not telling him but he can't keep blaming me. This broke a lot of my trust in him as I had thought we had worked through those issues and had moved past them but clearly, we hadn't. He had been doing all of this all from September to November but I only found out in Jan. I had told him that he had broken my trust and that I would need some time to process all of it, and he promised me he would change & he realised how immature he was being. Over the next couple of months after Jan things seemed to be getting better but I did struggle to trust him which was causing even more issues between us but we were both determined to stay & make it work, I had full access to his phone and his socials and he had full access to mine... I thought we were doing fine until about 2 months ago when he had gotten a girl's number & saved it under a guys name, I asked him about it and at first he lied to me & said it was the girl's boyfriend's number then eventually told me it's actually her number that she was an old school friend but he just didn't want to to find out that he had gotten a girls number ( he had deleted all the girls off his phone a few months prior as a way to prove to me that he's serious about us, I didn't ask him to do this, he did it then told me about it afterwards )I was pissed, to say the least, now yes I'm crazy but I'm not completely crazy where I don't want him to talk to other girls. I just want him to be respectful of our relationship while talking to them, i was pissed about the fact that he lied straight to my face about it & again it turned into a fight about the fact that he did it because I don't trust him so he thought it would be better to just hide it from me. At this point, I was pretty over our relationship & over always being on edge because of him... We were in such a bad space I honestly didn't think we were going to last but we did & we spoke about it & things started getting better...
I recently found another girl that he had asked to buy nudes from on Snapchat in October and again I was pretty hurt, I brought this up to him & he said he doesn't understand why I'm so upset about it if it happened last year & we've already fought about it a few times, I explained to him that yes it happened long ago & yes we have fought about it but every time I find a new person he tried to get nudes from or that he flirted with it still hurts just the same, it's a thing of while I thought we were happy & in love, he was flirting with other girls.
Now we have spoken about this & i asked him why he did it so much & so often and he said he's never been in a serious relationship and he's always used to be having a backup girl if the relationship he's in doesn't work out but with me he doesn't have one & doesn't want one and it used to scare him so that's why he did it but as our relationship has grown he's realised he doesn't want a back up and I'm all he wants & that for a long time he struggled with the fact that I did onlyfans but that now he truly is over it & that he really struggled with the lifestyle I used to live ,I used to go out every weekend & I had a lot of male friends who have absolutely no respect for my relationship so In the beginning of our relationship Andy would always see my guy friends as his competition & as a threat so he saw it as he needs to have all these girls just incase I leave him for one of my friends ( I cut all my guy friends off pretty early on in our relationship but would still see them whenever we went out which also stopped being as frequent as we started getting more serious )
After everything that has happened, I don’t see Andy the same way I did... I don’t feel the same love for him as I did.. don’t get me wrong I still love him with my whole heart it just feels different... it feels tainted now... I feel like I can’t be as open & happy with him as I once was after him hurting me so badly.. & now I do understand that I messed up in the beginning but I tried to fix it.. he just used it as cover to do whatever he wanted... I’m now at a point where I don’t know if I want to be with him or not anymore , I do love him but I just don’t feel the same... I get annoyed with him so easily now, I prefer it when he’s at work because then I don’t have to be around him much... I have thought maybe he & I should go To counselling to try to overcome all of this but is that even worth it? He seems fine with me & still wants this relationship & recently has been putting in a lot more effort than he ever has before but I just don’t know if it’s too late & my heart has already moved on from him...
Please give me advice! I am very much in two minds about what to do because in every other aspect he is amazing, he's caring & calm with me and is patient with me when it comes to my mental health, my family loves him and he's amazing to my animals.. So for the most part is great I just don't know if the bad outweighs the good anymore
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2023.06.08 10:27 bermuda__ one of the many things I just never noticed until I moved out

Is how smelly shoes get. When I was a kid we lived in many houses but each time we always put our shoes in the mud room or the antechamber or the garage. Never in the living spaces, so we never had the chance to smell them. Plus my mom would wash them whenever they got visibly too dirty, but she never really told me the timeframe for that.
When I got to college and got in my own dorm room I never noticed just how fuckin stinky they get. I had a little closet where I put my shoes in so I wasn't tracking mud into my dorm, and one day I opened it to the most rank smell ever. I kept spraying with febreeze thinking it was a BO thing from my clothes, and washed my clothes a bunch until I realized it was my shoes! One whiff of them almost made me vomit.
I've since found a bunch of ways of combating the smell, but back then it really shocked me. There are a lot of problems I expected to run into as an independent adult what with financing and job hunting and all that, but I just never thought about stinky shoes.
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2023.06.08 10:26 gonshairlinee How many of you are living the “broke student life”?

This is really just a post for reassurance. I’m honestly well off compared to some of my peers but my normal cheque account is on the verge of entering triple figures. This would normally be alright since I’d work during the break but I got way too many assignments due on the first week back (take 4 year long courses) so fuck that shit, school comes first. I refuse to accept money from my parents, they’re already providing me with a roof to stay under. Guess I’m gonna start living on tuna and rice til the next sem break where I’ll finally be able to work. (I never work during uni, tried that in my first sem and my grades subsequently suffered). Any tips on the best ways to save money?
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2023.06.08 10:26 Thankyounext07 The PPM rates and Allowances the SBs are reporting here seem low?

Somewhat new SB here, just discovered this forum.
I have a new SD I’m going to meet up with for drinks this weekend. We’ve been talking for a few weeks and he’s super interested in me, and likewise I think he’s really handsome. He asked me what I want in terms of allowance, and wanted to know before we met because he didn’t want it to feel like a transaction me stating a number and him handing it over. I haven’t given him an answer yet.
I say I’m “somewhat” new as I have had 1 SD before who only lasted 1 month. He paid me 7k to see him 3 times a month. We ended things because he moved to another city and wanted me to travel there and I wasn’t comfortable even for that amount of money. You never know what might happen to you safety wise. Safety first always. I didn’t know him well enough.
Anyways. Reading now at the posts that SBs say what they are getting paid… I’m really confused now.
1-500$ per meet? That seems SO low to me that it’s not even worth my time? Am I being crazy and expecting too much?
Maybe I got super lucky with my first SD that I won’t find another like this.
Still debating what number to give my new SD. Not necessarily expecting 7 gs but also want significantly more than what the average SB is reporting
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2023.06.08 10:26 Brief_Milk_5385 [Tenant -US-CA] Landlord not wanting to provide a written vacate notice

We rent in Los Angeles and have been in this duplex for 7 years. On the 1st of this month the landlord called me on the phone to let me know he sold the property and will need us to move out within 30 days. He also agree to pay us $8,000 to move out for rental relocation assistance. I texted him afterwards if it was possible to get a written notice about this as well as more questions about the money being offered since the Los Angeles website descubes that it would be more since I’m disabled renting a 4 bedroom unit. A day goes by and no response. I texted him again the same thing and immediately get a phone call. First thing he says is, “wow, after everything we’ve done for you as landlords, I can’t believe you’re doing this to us” keep in mind I have NEVER been late on rent ever. He decides to come by and still collect rent, while offering us $13,000 to move out now. Something seems illegal here? Any advice on how to handle this?
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2023.06.08 10:26 King_Of_The_Munchers A Few Questions

Question 1: So I am currently doing aerospace research for my university and I figured with my relevant skills I gathered in material science and aerospace (I work in the composite research lab) I could sort of transfer my field if I sell myself right. I enjoy what I’m doing now far more than any SWE stuff I’ve done for class projects. Any advice on how to approach this or things I should know when applying for internships not directly in CS?
Question 1.5: Also, my professor is the department chair and I go to a good university so he know a lot of people, and he likes me, so I can get a letter of recommendation from him. How valuable is a letter of recommendation from him when it comes to applying to internships?
Question 2: I am currently taking Data Structures and Algorithms and I probably will pass with a C but I really don’t want that on my transcript, especially since I’m riding kinda close to a 3.0 GPA and I don’t want to drop bellow that. Would it be better to drop the class, get a W on my transcript, and then retake it in the fall for a better grade or just bite the bullet and take the C?
Question 3: How many internships do people normally apply for? I compiled a list of like 40 companies I wanna apply to however I see some people saying they applied to 200-500 companies. Do I have to be that thorough?
Question 4: When do people start applying to grad school? I don’t want to switch my major at this point as I am too far into CS, however I am considering a masters in material science. When do you normally start applying for that?
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2023.06.08 10:25 sugarlive What song has been stuck in your head these days?

Mine: PS Anthem by ARR
How it happened? - It didn’t make any sense the first time I heard it in theatre but our mari feel achu, I never bothered to think about it and left. But last week I saw PS 2 again in prime video and I sat through the end and literally forgot this song. It suddenly hit me with a gush of emotions during end credits and I got goose bumps. Then I started munu-munu-thing it with incorrect lyrics every now and then. I searched the song in Amazon music under PS2 album tracks but couldn’t find it. Then literally spend time googling to find the track name.
Why it got stuck? - I noticed this specific line where ARR pronounces the words ‘Koora VAKH’ and ‘Maa manna VAKH’ in style. (Similar to Ta-kah Ta-kah Ta-kah Kottum isayil). It is when, I started to hear it on loop while I was WFH for that unique finish, that comes at three places in the song. And now my brain started to get obsess over it and strongly trying to convince me that my code gets executed with zero errors, was due to the fact, that this song was playing in parallel while I am compiling! Lol!
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2023.06.08 10:25 The-Legendary-DONUT Friend is planning to die in a few years and I don’t know what to do

(I will refer to my friend with they/them pronouns for privacy) I have a friend who I often tell my troubles to… They occasionally show me cat stuff from the Internet, metal stuff and the like, and a LOT of dark humor. About a month ago they just told me over chat in the middle of a mini-rant that they already planned to commit suicide when they turn 24 (currently 19 as of now) for reasons they won’t tell me… They told me that they know I’ll dissuade them and told me not to do it and that “everyone tries to pull that sh*t”. Then, earlier today, they “joked” that they’ll be six feet under as a reply to a hypothetical job interview question on where will we see ourselves in five years, followed by them telling me that they originally planned to die at 21 when they were 16 years old… I want to help them out of this but I don’t know how… They will just push me away if I directly confront them about it or something (based on my attempts on asking them about it)…
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2023.06.08 10:25 greyvolcheg The Making of my First Cover - 'Wings of Heaven' by Tiamat
This was my first-ever cover, and I remember it as if it were yesterday. I was just sitting around, playing around with some tunes, when suddenly, I got an urge to play this particular song. I initially played it on an acoustic guitar. Then, the quarantine hit and we all got shifted to remote working. There wasn't much to do at work, so I was essentially messing around. That's when I spontaneously decided to perform 'Wings of Heaven' by Tiamat.
I simply dove in and played it. While sitting around playing some stuff, learning various simple melodies, and practising on the piano, I downloaded some chords of a few Tiamat songs. And that's when I thought, "Why not record this with other instruments?" So, I set a metronome, played it on the piano, and got down to work.
Gradually, I started layering in different instruments: the electric guitar and the acoustic guitar. Then, I recorded my vocals and shot a video. In just one evening, I recorded, quickly edited, mixed, and uploaded it to YouTube. Of course, there were quite a few glitches, especially with the video editing - it was a total disaster. I had no idea about colour correction back then, and even now, I don't know much about it. But I somehow managed to cobble together some footage so that it was somewhat acceptable.
The funny thing is, I was more accustomed to playing riffs on the electric guitar. So when I was holding down the chords on the acoustic guitar with my right hand, I had no problems. However, I had to pay close attention to the strings I was striking with my playing left hand. It demanded maximum concentration because I rarely fingerpick and am not used to it. Oh, and I am lefty so mirror the hands, please :)
At that time, I had been playing the piano for just under a week. I had a basic understanding of the keys' layout and knew that the 'C' note is right after a series of two black keys. But it was purely theoretical knowledge. I had started learning to play the piano just a couple of days, maybe a week, before that. And I immediately decided to shoot a video because why the hell not?
Another fun discovery I made during this cover series was the use of a program called Guitar Rig for processing guitar sounds. I began using something else later, but more on that another time. Now, when I listen to the guitar sound, I find it displeasing; it has a plastic and unnatural feel to it. Yikes!
And, if my memory serves me right, every track was recorded in one take. There were no edits- all the takes were recorded all at once.
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