How old are bachelorettes
2013.02.12 12:51 Morticide Stardew Valley
Stardew Valley is an open-ended country-life RPG with support for 1–4 players. (Multiplayer isn't supported on mobile).
2012.04.17 02:39 toothbrush123 How Old Are You?
2014.11.04 00:18 Dating Over 30: Because dating is hard, no matter how old you are.
Dating Over Thirty is a sub for discussion and advice on dating and the dating phase of relationships for people over the age of 30. **This is not a place to post personals or "looking for" or hookups.**
2023.03.20 17:02 finnsxxrs Confused tourist
Me and two friends from are looking to get tickets for Strasbourg game when we travel france from the uk. I see on the website it says pesage is only for Monaco fans but those are the tickets cheapest (or would it be better to buy in seconde stand) And In general, how easy is it to get to the stadium from the train station. Is the stadium safe for neutrals?
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2023.03.20 17:01 mnkymnk Some huge changes to APEXROLLOUTS & Looking for mods.
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TLDR: New pinned FAQ Post, Rule changes about the FAQ and to combat toxicity. We are searching for mods. https://preview.redd.it/v55hh7zp2xoa1.png?width=1500&format=png&auto=webp&s=1c85364947b98a5a99d4a750caa71ffdb7bb8d6a
I recently posted and pinned an FAQ & Resources post.
I want people to ask about and access movement no matter where they are in their journey. That was always the goal of Apexrollouts. Often they are just the same questions which was to the detriment of the quality in the sub. For now the FAQ
answers: Mantle Jump FAQ, Superglide FAQ, Console Movement, "New" Movement tech, All about CFG´s.
If you have more Things that should go in there suggest them under the FAQ Post. For common questions and daily chatter, either refer to the FAQ
or the "Apexrollouts" channel on the Mokeysniper Discord Server
With that come:
- If your Post can be answered by the FAQ your post will be removed as low effort. This is about Posts. Not comments. For comments please continue to be helpful. Answer their comment or point people to the FAQ and Discord when they ask question in the comments. DO: "You should check out this tutorial. And maybe check out the Apexrollouts channel on discord if you want quicker help along your movement journey in the future" Or "Hey this is actually being answered in the FAQ" DO NOT "Should have read the FAQ before asking such a stupid question you idiot"
- Be nice. Be a compassionate, tolerant and empathic human being . If you can’t see yourself being that. This is not the Subreddit for you. I again saw an increase in toxicity & elitism over the last months. So i implemented a new "Be nice" section in general guidelines. If you insults someone you´ll get a temp ban. If you use Slurs you´ll get a perm ban. If you use childish and condescending language or act in an elitist and gatekeeping way you´ll get a temp ban. You can have discussions, agree and disagree while still being respectful with each other. I have banned based on these principles in the past. I just wanted to put a very clear upfront statement out there. 99% of you will easily comprehend how to behave according to this Rule. It´s not that hard. The 1% that are now worried they might get banned for what they say: You are exactly who this Rule is for.
Looking for mods.
To better enforce these new Rules and help with combing through the hundreds of comments we get each day we are looking for new mods.
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If you spent a lot of time on Reddit and this Subreddit & have been a part of the Mokeysniper Community or Discord for a while and understand the way i try to build communities you are a prime candidate.
Thank you for being a part of the Apexrollouts Community and reading till the end ❤️ Here´s a Quokka
2023.03.20 17:01 YLB2000 Tess/Cecilia conclusion
I've seen a lot of people think that this issue will be resolved by either having Cecilia die or Cecilia going back to Earth. But I personally don't think so.
I might sound insane but I think both will be end up merging into the same soul somehow. Stay with me for a second if you've read this part and started writing in the comments already.
I mean there's different reasons as why I think so:
The first one is that both Cecilia and Tess have had the same dynamic with Nico and Arthur.
Add to that the fact that Cecilia hears Tess's voice sometimes as if it's a locked part of herself, as Cecilia is a version of Tess that has only one side of the story manipulated by agrona. Think of it like Nico and Elijah, where Elijah is a locked part of Nico . (This will come later also in my explanation)
Also, I think that Cecilia will not die by the end, through her character arc, turtle me made it clear that death is not a solution to her problems and suffering because she already experience it once and it wasn't a solution because if anything, it just caused more problems for her and for her peers. Cecilia dying will go against the narrative of her character arc.
With that out of the way, I also don't think Nico and Cecilia will go back to their world. Turtle me hinted at it through seris when she said that he's lying and that agrona doesn't have that Kind of power. Cecilia at this point is just an ignorant child who thinks sainta exists by believing she will go back to Earth. It's just an illusion.
So, where will Cecilia go then if she won't die and won't go back to Earth either? She can't take someone else's body and repeat the whole thing with Tess All over again but this time with someone else as the victim. And the only answer I can think of is finding a balance between her and Tess. As I've said before maybe they are the same person but with two memories. The balance is achieved by Cecilia/Tess accepting they are the same person.
I know what I will say here is not that argument but think of how in volume 9 Cecilia povs where named Tessia povs. With everything I've said before that can't be a coincidence. So what do you think?
Damn this is getting really complex if you see where I coming from 😂. What do you guys think? I know this is an unpopular theory.
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2023.03.20 17:01 Lovingbutdifferent How to give positive feedback?
I've always been a writer, I don't write much now but I read others' stories and I know how much it means to get positive comments on your work. The trouble is, my mind goes blank as soon as I go to comment, because I feel like I comment the same "this was creepy, I liked it!" on a dozen stories a week. I feel like my praise falls flat and bland and doesn't really do the story justice. What are some phrases and skeleton structures of positive feedback that I can build on?
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2023.03.20 17:01 SearchingTheWebsite How do I get the full dunk
I can do pull-ups on the rim off both and one feet buy my dunks are always rim grazers or missed how do I improve?
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2023.03.20 17:01 nevsid Can someone please help me?
Please help I feel like I’m losing my mind and there is no way out of how I’m feeling. I’ve been dealing with false memory ocd for nearly 2 years now and I don’t even know what’s real and what’s not. Im constantly scared and I don’t know how to get better anymore, I feel like the only way I can move on with my life is if I truly find out if I’ve done something horrible. Im going to therapy and taking medication, and nothing seems to be helping or making me feel better. Im scared im going to live the rest of my life like this and if that’s the case I might as well end it. I feel like I’m lying to everyone and I don’t know what my true memories are anymore and all I want is to be honest but how can I do that when I don’t know what is real and what is fake. Please can someone help.
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2023.03.20 17:00 Moonchyld22 I don’t like my hair
Well the title sums up everything. I’ve always hated my hair. I have always had 4c THIN, dry, short hair (I really want to say 5d because of how coarse it) and wore styles to cover my hair—mostly wigs. Oh and not to mention, I have a big forehead :( This was a mistake. Not only have my hair deteriorated, but because I’ve worn wigs for years upon years… my edges have thinned out. At this point, I’m tired of wigs..I’m tired of doing it every week. It’s annoying and not safe for my real hair. I want to wear other styles, but because of the state of my hair, I’m scared, discouraged and embarrassed. In December, I got medium knot less braids and I cried afterwards because of how I looked without wigs. Everybody in the salon was staring at me. I took them out a week and a half later. Can I have some advice please? Are there styles that I can wear to overcome this?
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2023.03.20 17:00 PackageSad7968 Are you curious about how NFT technology works in Runiverse?
2023.03.20 17:00 modguide ModChat - What's on your mind?
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2023.03.20 17:00 Michaelmancini 2 months into yakuza
I wanted to get into a new series and though Ishn looked good when it was released. I almost bought it, wasn't sure, then thought it looks like Yakuza, I can play all the games on game pass for free so that's what I did. For context I had played/not finished 7? Last year, I love turn based RPGs I did not know there was a connection with Yakuza.
I had heard of Yakuza but assumed it was an Asian GTA and it looked so small from the outside. Im glad I cheaped out and started at Yakuza 0. I beat that, kiwami 1 and 2, and 3 remastered last night. For context each game I do less and less substories/side quests. I played 0 on normal, did most of the quests but if I was gonna rail through them there's no way I can try that shit . In judging the series I know this was not how it was meant to play, I'm missing so much. But I fucking love it.
I bought judgement 1 and 2 on sale in some euphoric RGG blur. I was tempted to buy a PS whatever just for Fist of the north star.... Which is probably my favorite anime tied with Tiger Mask. I beat judgement, liked it a lot.
I can't add anything new about Yakuza. Tell your friends? It's a good mix of old school gameplay Double Dragon, Great but convoluted story,ton of mini games, and Kiryu is the perfect hero archetype. Classic
I'm thinking of taking a break for a bit I'm losing steam and want to give the last few a little more justice.
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2023.03.20 17:00 Pitiful_Concert_9685 Profit motive, gaming, other digital media
So welcome once again you filthy capitalist pig dogs. Today we are going to have a little talk about some observable examples of why the profit motive itself doesn't drive innovation, competition, or anything else. And I'm going to it through the lenses of games and other digital media.
We all can probably agree that many of the games that have come out or somewhat lackluster, especially the ones that are continuations or reboots of popular IPs. Mass Effect, Saints row, Fallout, total war, SWTOR vampire the masquerade, Call of Duty, etc. The newer games like Watchdogs, Stellaris, Crusader kings, fuvking Skyrim, and I'm only calling Skyrim new because they keep selling it to us. All of them follow a pattern of not even trying to add good mechanics, a coherent story, and world-building, I'm talking about the reboots because they are trying to repeat what worked for their older more successful games. They recycle good ideas and then try to sell them to you if you even get that. I'm talking about Newer IPs because of the microtransactions.
Fallout 4 is a perfect example. Fallout 4 was not a fallout game it has the same name but it wasn't fallout it was a cousin but Bethesda thinking they could make a decent return sold that meh game and it's a meh DLC one of which was just a rip off of point lookout because they weren't concerned with making a good product they were concerned about the money which they would have made more of if they made a good product. They made a good profit but they sold a shitty game.
Look at Skyrim. The only reason Skyrim has been able to get sold and resold as many times as it has been was not because of Bethesda but the modders who were unpaid but improved and lengthened the life of Skyrim. If Skyrim wasn't modder friendly it would have died out a long time ago.
Same with the sims, and the same with a lot of paradoxical interactive games. The unpaid modders improve the livability and immersion of the game more than the actual developers even want to. After the profit is made the developers don't give a shit because they don't see the point in working on something that achieved its goal to make a profit.
Think about the loot boxes, being sold half-finished games, misled about how good the game will be, and bit-sized DLC. It takes nothing to produce those items but they upsell them and then extract strange amounts of profit. It would be okay if by not buying those DLC your game wouldn't lose functionality or access to certain mods but that's what happens.
I only really play two games ESO and Rimworld. Not because they are particularly good by themselves but because of the people. Rimwold is maintained by modders the mods are what the game is. Eso is good but what attracts me are the guilds and the other people. The games themselves don't do it for me. So this forces me to ask the question "if it's the modders and the other players that keep games alive then why do many game companies not listen to the players and fuck over or not include modders?" And the answer to my question is simply profit. The profit motive.
Under the profit motive, games are always being rebooted, like movies, and shows, because they don't want to put in the work of developing better IPs. Look at how many times they sold Skyrim, Oblivion, and Morrowind through ESO. I'm not knocking ESO im just saying instead of reselling good games how about you sell DLC that adds better mechanics? These two things are options but the cheapest, and the most relatively profitable one is chosen. Same with EA and Ubisoft. Rockstar has done a pretty good job of making masterpieces without fucking everything up. They can drop bestsellers back to back. two different models of profit. One is I sell a great game that people will want to buy entirely new consoles and systems to play and will buy it for each of those systems and continue to play the game and recommend it and will buy my other games without a second thought. And then you have I'm going to sell a game that's not done until you pay me until I'm satisfied while I let the modders fix what I was supposed to and make you pay for base content and if you don't get ready for your shit to not function.
Which one do you think more companies will take? Sims 4 is now straight-up just trying to sell useless DLC.
And the point of this post is to drive home how the profit motive doesn't have to improve anything. Sure some people may use it as a way to improve games but most of it is just used to make money through shady business practices. Games are just an easy way for me to demonstrate this.
War frame, War thunder, the world of tanks, planetside. These are all solid free games that people invest in because they like the product. These people vote with their dollars but that's not the norm. Games are a prime example of how capitalism works. Predatory, unconcerned, daft, controlled by a few, and not even that good anymore. But some are okay.
But now we need to think of the modders and the people who create free games. They focus on building a better product or improving the current product which is innovation. And they listen to people. And many of the games they create are wonderful for the resources that they have. Sure the game company creates the framework but the people build the town. If they don't create the framework themselves.
Capitalist is entirely driven by profit as it should be but that doesn't mean that you're going to get better products in many instances like games it means the opposite.
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2023.03.20 17:00 AutoModerator ★OFFICIAL WEEKLY★ Day 1 Monday: Start here! March 20, 2023
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2023.03.20 17:00 tryingtomusic When does a songwriter receiver a production credit?
I’m a singer-songwriter working on an upcoming song.
Some things I’ve added from my end are: vocal chops, vocal production on harmonies, pitch correction/flexing on lead vocals, sampling of electric guitars, cellos, chopped ad-libs, and some repeating sonic elements. My producer - who is bloody fantastic - will bring all of this together, produce the lead vocals, has added beats - and probably a lot more that I don’t yet know about.
I’m a bit lost here - is any part of what I did considered ‘production’? If yes, how much production should I have done to receive a co-producer credit? I’m not just thinking for this song in particular, but for future music. I add these elements myself because communicating the ‘vibe’ of my song is important to me, and on some level that can only come from me.
My main reason for asking is just that I’m passionate about production, but have only been doing it for a short while, so I don’t want to overclaim my contribution when determining credits for future records.
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2023.03.20 16:59 dondirren Roth IRA Withdrawal Regulations
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A Roth IRA is a great way to start saving for retirement. It provides various benefits, including the option to withdraw earnings tax- and penalty-free. But you must exercise caution when withdrawing funds from a Roth IRA. To avoid penalties and taxes, you must follow certain guidelines. When evaluating Roth IRA withdrawal rules
, it is critical to remember the five-year rule.
It applies to both earnings and converted sums (contributions and conversions) and affects whether withdrawals from your Roth account are tax-free or taxed.
This five-year term begins on January 1 of the year you first made a Roth IRA contribution. Don Dirren argues that this rule does not apply to canceled Roth donations due to a change in income or other reasons.
Furthermore, if you roll a Roth employer-sponsored retirement plan into a Roth IRA, the five-year requirement does not apply. According to Treasury Regulation 1.402A-1, Q&A-4, the original five-year period is what counts.
For most people, the five-year rule never applies. Assume you are 62 years old and have $350,000 in your Roth account. Then you convert a traditional IRA to a Roth, bringing your Roth balance to $400,000.
First-time homebuyers encounter numerous challenges, such as a bad credit history, prohibitive housing prices, and a lack of down payment cash. A penalty-free withdrawal from an IRA, which can be used to purchase a primary residence, is one source of down payment funds.
However, if you decide to use your retirement account to make a down payment, keep the Roth IRA withdrawal rules in mind. The five-year rule and the first-time homebuyer distribution, for example, can have an impact on your Roth IRA withdrawal alternatives.
The first-homebuyer distribution allows a taxpayer to take up to $10,000 of profits from their Roth IRA tax-free and penalty-free to pay for the purchase of an eligible primary dwelling
. The money has to be used to buy, build, or fix up a home within 120 days of the date it was given out.
2023.03.20 16:59 Criptixx How reliable are the 2020+ models?
Hello everyone I have a question on reliability I currently have a 2020+ 1.6 turbo limited sonata I see things on this sub about how bad the engines are I need this car to last atleast 10 plus years Im really worried that this car won’t last or begin to start burning oil like most Hyundai models?
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2023.03.20 16:59 Talkamania Baseless Conspiracy Time!
This is just for fun, don’t take anything I’m saying as legit, but…
What if the whole Punk/Elite thing was a work?
Hear me out: Punk, during the match, knew he injured himself. He probably knew the severity of the injury. While he was probably pissed off, he also probably realized that his injury would keep him out for some time, leaving these storylines they’ve been building to in limbo.
Well, what better way to give yourself a creative back door than to get yourself “suspended” and seemingly “exiled” from the company? Punk coming back after making it seem like he hated AEW makes his potential return even bigger than it would have been. Nobody talked about the injury, just the story. The feuds you have built-in, with FTR and the Elite recently returning, Hangman Page being reintroduced to the Elite’s story, Jericho talking about how he’d never let Punk back in the locker, even MJF becoming champion right around the time of Punk’s possible return?
Punk, Khan and the Elite all probably recognized the fact that Punk’s absence for an extended time would likely hurt viewership, since his return was such a huge deal and he was starting to find momentum in his matches.
These guys are all pros. They’ve been in locker rooms together before, and by most accounts Punk, the Jacksons and Omega are professional in their business, which all seems out of character for them to engage in such absurdities.
IDK. It just seems weird that his rant was unprompted. His tirade almost felt… planned. Scripted. Nobody asked him about Cabana. He just launched into it seemingly without reason. It didn’t seem like he was having any issues up until then. And then Jericho whispering in Khan’s ear just loud enough for reporters to hear letting him know something was happening, and all these different conflicting accounts of the situation, to now “hey, we all want to do business again,” it feels like we could’ve been getting played this whole time and if we are, bravo TK. Bravo.
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2023.03.20 16:59 DBASRA99 You are an amazing creation
60,000 miles of blood vessels 40 trillion cells 100 billion neurons 100 trillion synapse 300 bones at birth that become about 200 48 billion miles of DNA (further than any spacecraft has traveled by multiples) About 300 billion new cells daily Error correction enzymes fixing copy errors continuously Conscious and self aware Capable of reproduction / self replication Capable of music and poetry and storytelling and love and anger and invention Fueled by hot dogs and hamburgers and snickers
You are an amazing creation regardless of how you believe that happened.
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2023.03.20 16:59 MarkFostersWhiskers My ex husband is in a serious relationship with his brother’s wife - 2 kids involved
I’ve come seeking your assistance.
I need to know if I’m crazy. I’ll try my best to be as short as possible, but being short is not in my nature, so please, bear with me.
Quick backstory: - I (40F) divorced my ex (40M) almost a year ago exactly. After several years of marriage, I decided to walk, and much of it had to do with his alcoholism. We have one kiddo together (8 - who is on the spectrum; high functioning, but has special needs).
- Ex is military; He stays with his bro when he’s in town on breaks, and our kiddo stays there with him often while he’s visiting.
- Ex and his bro (45M) don’t have the most solid history, but they’ve gotten closer over the years. Ex’s bro has been separated from his wife (45F) for a few years now.
- Ex’s bro and wife (soon to be ex) have a kiddo together (12)
Last year: Ex was deployed most of the year. Before he returned he had some sort of epiphany and apologized for being a “bad” husband and father, and admitted
the severity of his alcohol addiction (never in the 10+ years we were together had this happened). He vowed to do better to keep himself healthy/alive, and be more present with our son going forward. Awesome!
Ex comes back from deployment: Not too long after the epiphany, ex returns from his deployment and ends up “hooking up” with his bro’s wife (I didn’t realize until this happened that they weren’t legally divorced yet. No possibility for reconciliation, but just pointing this out).
How it started: While in town on break and staying with his bro, ex asked him for “permission” to date his wife (again, ex’s bro and his bro’s wife have been separated for years with no possibility of reconciliation, but they haven’t divorced yet for whatever reason). He was met with an “I don’t care, go for it” type of response (though I’m sure he was in shock and didn’t have a thoughtful response in the moment).
Ex takes that and runs with it and has an overnight rendezvous with his bro’s wife. His bro found out (supposedly had someone drive by her house to see if his car was there).
When my ex went back to his bro’s the next morning, they argued, and my ex had to pack up and leave immediately. He now stays in a hotel when he comes to town to visit our kid, and our kid stays with him there. Though he also stays at the sister-wife’s now too during his visits (without our kiddo).
Lines in the family are now drawn, relationships appear to be broken forever, and friendships I’m sure have take a toll (all 3 of them several mutual friends amongst each other as well). It’s been incredibly messy.
My main concern is for the kids. I spoke to my sister-in-law/sister-wife to gauge where her head was at, and unfortunately, she’s just as far gone.
To my knowledge their relationship only started a few months ago (Christmastime-ish).
When I spoke to the sister-wife about my concerns with this relationship for both her kiddo and mine (mentally, emotionally, socially), she expressed that she’s very happy, and that her and my ex have a very “solid“, “serious”, and “healthy” relationship that is going to be very long-term, so her thoughts are “Everyone needs to get the fuck over it and get on board”. My ex has always been a great uncle to their kid (our kid’s cousin), and she said she has no worries about their reputations or gossip at school. She doesn’t think it’ll be an issue.
My kiddo is on the spectrum (ex doesn’t really acknowledge this, despite the diagnosis), and we definitely have our challenges. I have custody 24/7 (ex lives several hours away), and now that my ex and sister-wife are in this relationship, ex is choosing to split what little time he has while he’s in town, between staying with our kiddo (in a hotel), and staying at her place. I guess because of this, they feel a sense of urgency to let the kids know so they can all start playing house together when he’s in town. I’m not ready to prepare my kid for this, and the sister-wife has already told her kid (against her stbx’s wishes), so I’m afraid I don’t have much time now, and I need to figure out how to soften the blow.
I’m truly concerned about the psychological effects this might have on the kids, and I don’t know if I’m being overly dramatic or not? But nobody seems to care. I don’t want to have to explain this to my kid right now. Our divorce is still somewhat recent, our kid is still going through transitional changes with the move, with daddy not being around as much, etc. and there’s going to be so much chaos and confusion in his head. My ex and sister-wife only seem concerned about rushing to start their lives together, and I guess they think everyone will get over it eventually.
Both my ex and the sister-wife keep saying phrases like “nothing is changing!” and “this isn’t any different, it works because we all know each other already”, etc., but to me, it’s giving Alabama.
I need to know if I’m overly worried. In my head, this is not a normal situation whatsoever. It adds so many weird, unnecessary layers to literally everything, and I just want our kids to come out of this ok.
TL;DR - My ex husband is in a serious relationship with his brother’s STBX wife, family has split apart because of this, and I’m concerned about 2 kids involved. Am I wrong for worrying?
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2023.03.20 16:59 BONERR4EVERR Why does the restaurant industry have such a problem with thier employees eating/drinking in plain view?
I know my examples I'm going to give are crappy, but it's a legitimate question. I've seen two examples on video (and many more examples from people in the respective comments section) about how apparently it's a fireable offense to eat/drink in plain view of customers.
- GORDON RAMSAY FIRED A WAITER FOR DRINKING WATER. https://youtu.be/RKjmK6h_NFM
- In Bar Rescue, Jon Taffer forced a Bar Owner to fire a waiter because he was eating food on his break. https://youtu.be/tVaTE6H1h9s
Last I checked, restaurant employees are humans. Humans need to eat.
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2023.03.20 16:59 _snack_attack_ L-Shaped Quartz Countertop Seam Splitting After Piers/Shifting
I live in a ~100 year old house, and a little while back we had to have some piers put in to reinforce some areas. Naturally, jacking the house into position caused some shifting. As a result of the shifting our L-shaped quartz countertop has started splitting at the seam between the 2 sections. It's a pretty small gap, but I'd like to seal it up before it tries to grow further. I've searched a bit online but I can't seem to find any straight answers on a product to use to fill the gap between the 2 pieces of quartz, just lots of posts about how the gap would have been sealed upon initial installation. Any ideas or suggestions here? https://imgur.com/INHT9jP
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2023.03.20 16:59 SunKissed_ox Finding a job is so hard
I am in 3rd year life sci (non-coop) but now I wish I did do a co-op. Finding a job is so difficult for me. I’ve been applying and applying for roles but I get nothing. Last summer, the same thing happened. Most of the jobs I applied to are “student summer positions” I applied for this summer government job and they just closed the position. 3900 students applied and they are only taking 45. Thats like a 3% chance.
Im getting discouraged, does anyone have any tips or tricks on how to land a summer position at a company?
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2023.03.20 16:59 Fraaj How are you using AI to make your video editing easier?
Super curious about this - feel free to link your latest stuff as an example too
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