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Small update 6/10/23: So I posted this at 3am and I was tired and upset and everything hit at once. Thank you so much for the advice! I'm going to wait a couple more days for him to reply - we hangout to play games tomorrow night, so this gives it time to settle before I confront him. If he still hasn't said anything, I think I'm going to go ahead and tell him directly what I'm feeling instead of asking if something is wrong. I haven't figured out the exact text yet but something along the lines of "I'm feeling like you're ignoring me, and it's frustrating, etc. What is happening between us?" And then go from there to probably confessing my feelings... if it feels right. I don't want to lose him, as he's someone I really want to keep in my life. But if it is what it is, that's going to suck and I'll try to move on.
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I (24f) have a friend (25m) who I thought I was close with. A year ago, we used to text and meme all of the time and conversation was free flowing with both of us able to initiate a convo and keep it up.
Now, since about a month ago, it's been strangely silent between us. We're apart of a friend group, so we'll all chat and meme on there, but the DMs have slowly trickled to a stop. I've tried to initiate conversations, but he never lets it go anywhere.
For example, I'll ask how his day is, and he'll respond "it's been good" in a happy tone and then not say anything back. We're both playing video games usually when we're on, but he just kinda... stopped talking to me a whole lot.
It's been confusing. A week ago, he asked while drunk if we were besties, and I responded with "of course!" I also revealed to him that I sometimes get nervous to talk to him when it falls into awkward silence, sort of as a way to hint that I want him to talk, initiate, and keep up a conversation with me again. He responded that he felt the same, so I thought the matter was resolved and we could go on with how we used to be. That conversation left me feeling really hopeful.
So I tried again a few days ago, and I even left a voicemail asking if something was wrong and that he could tell me anything. I also said that I really wanted to talk to him. He didn't respond, didn't even acknowledge that he got it, but he did call one of our other friend's in the group (who mentioned that they called to shoot the shit), and responded in the main group chat to a friend. So he's ignored my voicemail it seems.
What am I doing wrong? I'm trying to reach out, and see if there's something I could fix or apologize for that I didn't realize I did. I feel like he's not telling me something.
Mainly, I feel like he just sort of hates me and doesn't know how to tell me? We weren't ever flirty in our messages, and he's not seeing anyone as far as I know, so a potential girlfriend telling him to lay off doesn't seem likely. And unfortunately, I can't go see him in person as he's away on an internship for a year.
My plan is to try and wait it out, see what happens and to stop initiating a conversation on my part. I should probably move on and let it die, but I wish he would just tell me if he hates me or something. The not knowing part is hurting me.

My gf lives with a girl she used to go to high school with. In her own word, she is not too close to her. But it seems to me that she is really fond of the girl's boyfriend. I have noticed that they're always talking on social media. He sends lots of random memes and compliments her when she posts a picture of herself. I haven't seen anything overly flirty but I am starting to be annoyed by it. At first, I didn't care but seeing how much he does it, I am starting to get bothered. Plus, I don't think the girl even know that her bf has that kind of communication with my gf and I on my side definitely don't engage with the girl at all in this way. I don't have any of her social media profiles, not even her phone number.
They knew each other before my gf and I got together. The guy and I we kind look similar, similar height, similar build, similar skin tone, etc. I am starting to wonder if she didn't get with me just because she wanted a man just like her roommate's bf.
I don't want to come off as a jealous bf but I have a feeling that they may quietly like each other. My gf always talks about how a great he is. She even compared me one time to the guy, which I shut down pretty quickly.
What should I make of this?

My boyfriend works in a female dominated field. We have been together since before he started this job (2 years together, 1 at this company) he is the only man in his department of the office and has made it clear he is in a committed relationship. His is a tall and handsome with long hair and a gorgeous, friendly smile.
He has set boundaries with a few coworkers who have been a little too friendly. Examples are inviting him over to events, church and parties, which he always politely declines. His company has a work group chat so they all have his number and every once in a while some of these women will text him separately. (Sending him memes, tiktoks, asking what he wants from Starbucks, not work related stuff) this come across to me as flirty and while I’m glad he is honest enough to tell me, I can’t help but feel uncomfortable that they want him, or at the very least his attention.
The examples are all admittedly pretty small, however it still makes me upset to think about him being around these people every day.
He knows how I feel and reassures me I have nothing to worry about, he loves me and is only attracted to me. Please don’t come at him as he isn’t doing anything wrong. (He doesn’t engage in conversation at work except the bare minimum small talk to be polite) The advice I’m seeking is how do I accept the inevitable fact that other women will be attracted to him? And how do I deal with those women being people he works with and has to interact with everyday?
TLDR: women at bfs work bid for his attention and it makes me uncomfortable. He has set boundaries, what can I do to feel safe?

I've been talking to this girl I met online (not on a dating site/app) for about a month now. Since we started talking she's always been sending "sweet" and stlightly flirty DMs, but I thought this was just how she was so I played along. (I'm on the spectrum, so I have a hard time telling when people mean it or not)
However, for about a week now, she seems to be getting more serious about this. She's talking about planning dates for when we meet irl and such. I'm still not too sure if she truly means it, but I think I've received enough "couple memes" (the lovey dovey stuff couples send each other, without a punchline) for her to be serious.
I feel like I'm stuck now. It's starting to make me quite uncomfortable, as I'm afraid to "bluntly" tell her I'm not interested, in case she's actualy joking. I've even though about ghosting her out of "confusion", but she's pretty sensitive.
Please help.
(Also, sorry for the not-so-great grammar, not a native speaker here)

Hello! Looking for an attractive gentleman to charm my night with some flirting. Im looking for someone who can take charge and keep the spark alive instead of a one-sided conversation. Opening this up to the world because 1) I love accents and 2) I like to travel and hope to see more of the world some day. I'm looking for my future husband, someone with a sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, and knows what they want in life. I'm always working on myself so I'd prefer to have a partner who is of the same mindset.
· Please be 24-35
· Left leaning - transgendeLGBTQ friendly
· about you: emotionally intelligent and mature, aware of social issues, have done self improvement or therapy, ability to self reflect, can hold a conversation, I prefer assertive men, bisexual/pansexual, monogamous, physically attractive, flirty, confident, sense of humor, well mannered/respectful, genuinely interested in getting to know new people, child free, and can hold a conversation.
about me: I'm 27, afab/nonbinary, demisexual and use they/them pronouns. 5'6, dark brown skin, slim fit, septum piercing, glasses. Hope to get tattoos some day! Friends would say I'm classy, driven, kind, compassionate, funny, and intelligent. I tend to get along best with talkative types. My time zone is est and I'm open to voice chat if we vibe
other interests : fitness, fashion, painting, space, collecting random rocks, comic books, documentaries, pineapple pizza, petting dogs, uno, sushi, volunteering, memes, and going on long walks.
current fav tv shows : moon knight, bridgerton, disenchantment, Jojo's bizarre adventures, arcane, rpdr, the good place, wandavision and queer eye
Please dm me a brief description about yourself and how you can help. Add to your title the word 'moon' so that I know you read this:)

I’m at my wits end. I don’t know why I feel the need to chronicle but I feel like it’s been built up and I’m so frustrated and at my wits end I need to somehow write this all out. Maybe once it’s in text it’ll make more sense to me? Now that I wrote it out im realizing this is the longest rant I’ve ever written and it’s pretty stream of consciousness. I’ll summarize at the bottom for ease because you definitely don’t need to read my scattered frustrated tirade!
We’ve only been together 3 years (30f, him 33m). It started with multiple times a day, which I know is not sustainable and I did not expect to last after puppydog stage and that was FINE. After about 2 months it dropped to a couple times a month, with a little vibe action on the side or mutual parallel play, also very satisfying and fun and felt like a great settled-in normal. Things were fun, experimental, and we bought lots of fun toys and gear to try out and explore! It was going great and we were creating a life and home together and delving into left field sexually and it was working GREAT! From my perspective and according to all conversations (which felt honest and open the whole time) we were having fun and always excited for new things!
After the first 10 or so months, one day little did I know was the last time. Suddenly he’s “too tired” or “not in the mood”. We were on opposite shifts but every weekend I fucked up MY schedule to be on his. I was up 36 hours straight or slept 4-5 hours over 3 days so we could spend time together. He never stayed up late or got up early… how the fuck is he “too tired”? I was ready to go all the time and it was always a no. After a full day of dirty talk and expectation I’m getting all done up in something kinky and crawling into bed ready to realize a days worth of conversation and innuendo and “ahhhhh well maybe not tonight”. You can only shamefully shed a strappy skintight bodysuit so many times and stuff it back in the drawer embarrassed before you just stop trying.
But then when I try initiating in a baggy T-shirt and briefs I “never dress up” and “sometimes guys need to be courted too!”. So I dial up the dirty talk, I send little peeks from the stall at work, I flirt by text, send sexy memes. I take him out, buy him dinner and random “just cuz I love you!” Gifts. I flirt and grope and hint and it’s always met enthusiastically and positively when it’s just talk, but it goes from “let’s go shower! I’ll suck your dick!” met with grins and nods, to “hey can you move I need to wash my hair… ok all done here’s your towel”.
Multiple MULTIPLE discussions of “well work is really hard right now” or “I’m just tired” “I just haven’t been in the mood” etc. If I directly ask it’s “well I’m not in the mood but please don’t go look for sex elsewhere”
A year and a half. We had sex once last summer out of the blue. Just trying to sleep and I had hands on me and I was so excited. I don’t know what I did and that was awesome!….and next morning back to the same. We went on an extravagant vacation in December. Lots of alone time, beautiful places. We had sex once, out of the blue, so drunk I don’t know if he remembers and I hardly do. And we got home and back to the same. I beg and flirt and ask and I get “well I’m not in the mood but please don’t go look for sex elsewhere”.
Dressing up, making an effort, rejected over and over. Stop dressing up, bring up my frustrations and it’s “try dressing up and flirting more im just not in the mood TODAY”. Always that unspoken hope of maybe tomorrow? Until tomorrow I get “well I’m not in the mood but please don’t go look for sex elsewhere”.
Then in January I suffered a significant spinal injury. For the last 6 months I could hardly walk, constantly in pain. I basically just did physical therapy, slept, and suffered. And it became “I’m so sorry we can’t have sex, but with your injury I would never be able to without hurting you!”. Which was true. I couldn’t think about sex when I needed all my energy and focus to walk across the room, and even then I was in blinding pain.
During my worst pain and nerve impairment in my lower body he was so supportive! We had consistent eager sexual conversation, constant encouragement and support for masturbation because it was all I could handle. I really felt that once I healed we’d be back on track.
Then 3 weeks ago I finally hit a milestone in recovery. Thanks to the most recent treatment I have full feeling below the waist, and full mobility. I can work out, walk, lift, jog!! Everything seems perfect! My body is back! During those 5 months I gained about 10lbs because of the immobility. I’ve always been very fit, almost no jiggle and work a very physically strenuous job so I had no issues with staying trim and small. Im tall so 10lbs on my frame filled out my hips a little, a little more cellulite but no rolls, no belly, no face changes. I cannot honestly believe my body changed so significantly it’s no longer attractive and he still insists he can’t even tell. Tells me I’m still just as attractive and my body is perfect, but I touch him and it’s like I’m a hideous beluga from hell. Chaste kisses and quickly flipping to face the other way.
Verbally he seems so proud of me, so interested and so flirty ALL THE TIME, but we climb into bed and it’s “Goodnight!” Quick flip, lamp off, snoring.
The worst part is my worst day was the time we finally had sex again. Once again, out of nowhere lusty kisses, sex, everything I’ve always liked. All the details with a cherry on top! I don’t know what I did.
Now a couple weeks go by and it’s chaste closed mouth pecks, “goodnight” quick flip away, lamp off, goodnight, “too tired”.
I express how I’m finally back in my body and after so long I finally have my libido back and how amazing, exciting and wonderful this is. Every time the conversation goes “well I’m not in the mood but please don’t go look for sex elsewhere”.
How does someone with the libido I saw for those first 10 months just turn it off for YEARS? I’m struggling and he says he’s fine just whacking it out. That’s all he wants or needs. He’s not straying, we’re pretty tightly scheduled, we have shared GPS, we’re in touch pretty much all day every day. He’s not getting it elsewhere, but for me this level is not sustainable or survivable.
I always thought a DB was the sign of a relationship in decline but outside of sex our relationship is so strong and open and developing into the life I want… Except I need the physical connection like I need to breath and I’m fucking suffocating. I can’t even put myself in a headspace where you’d live like this by choice, so I simply cannot understand how this can seem ok.
TL;DR: 10 months of our 3 years was an active experimental sex life. And then like a flip of a switch one day he’s always too tired, or not on the mood. Verbally always eager, complementary, and excited for sex, but it almost never actually happens. In the last 2 years I can remember having sex 3 times, all out of the blue, no explanation or attempt on my part it just happened. But come morning we’re back to chaste kisses that get broken off if I try to turn them into anything.
I got injured and couldn’t have sex, which in retrospect seems like it was the best thing ever for him because I stopped asking. Once I healed and expressed my return to HL, I feel like I got one night of fun and now it feels like the expectation is we return to no-sex status quo.
Despite every other aspect of our relationship blooming and becoming better over time, the bedroom is dead as doornails and I feel I can’t get past it.

So... I don't know where to start but I met this girl in Oct 2021 on instagram , On a Princess Diana fan page. We used to talk about diana and her life stories. Later I got know she's from my State and my country. She speaks my mother tongue and we got along. I started to have feelings for her as we talked more. And she used to flirt with me, So that made me like her even more... We used to talk for hours, share our family tramas past tramas, We had become really good friends. one day I asked her are you sure, that you're straight and she said I wanna explore my sexuality. And on the same day after few hours I confessed my feelings to her. She gave an answer which was neither a yes or no. And after 2 days she started ignoring my texts and phone calls. I was kinda anxious. After 8 days I got admitted in the Hospital. Coz of a mild bp attack. After that she didn't talked to me for 5 months, Those 5 months were the hardest of my life. I was in severe d*pressioj, I even went to a therapist but in my country therapists doesn't value your story. After 5 months she replied to my texts saying she was sorry but she didn't know how to react... in this situation. I was admitted and she was scared coz she thought that happened coz of her, I explained that was absolutely not coz of her. We didn't talk for 3 months after that. Finally I messaged her on my birthday sayin aren't you gonna wish me? And she replied me with 20 voice messages and few paragraphs. Then we talked for hours, talked about all the misunderstandings and we reunited. Till date we talk and have a good laugh but she does flirts in between and calls me her bestie or bro. Mostly bro. 2 days ago we even talked on phone call for 3-4 hours. She keeps givin these hints that some how she likes me, Which I think I m misreading. But referring to some romantic song and sayin this reminds me of her, Or any other flirty things by send some random reel makes me feel anxious like what is up with this girl. It's been almost 3 weeks we're reunited and she has told me about her past alot, Her bf and about how abusive he was. Family matters and school life. Today when we were discussing about some meme, She said I m not a lesbian neither I m bisexual. I m way too much attached to her and can't get her outta my mind. She does cares for me and keeps asking how am doing, How am feeling but still some things she does makes me question what the hell is happening. ( I apologise for bad English, English is not my first language)

My crush might be bi amd I don't mind if she is. She hasn't straight up told me but she sends me lgbt memes and she posted a picture of her female friend, calling her "my love" . My fear right now is that I'm being led on. She's definitely been flirty with me over text, atleast I think she has. And we've gone out for lunch and I've been to her place too where we just sat and had a chat on her porch.
I really wanna know if she is into me or just sees me as a friend since she potentially has a SO in her lifealready. I wish she'd just tell me but I get why she wouldn't. I've been led on in the past where a girl I liked already had a bf and just never told despite flirting with me. So now I'm just scared of those events repeating and the pain that comes with that. To be clear, my crush is a very respectable person and I doubt she's leading me on and I know I'm just overthinking this. I just wanna know if I should ask her and how I should ask her because I don't wanna come off as insensitive.
I'm currently abroad but plan on going back home where she is later this month.

Hello! Looking for an attractive gentleman to charm my night with some flirting. Im looking for someone who can take charge and keep the spark alive instead of a one-sided conversation. Opening this up to the world because 1) I love accents and 2) I like to travel and hope to see more of the world some day. I'm looking for my future partner, someone with a sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, and knows what they want in life. I'm always working on myself so I'd prefer to have a partner who is of the same mindset.
· Please be 24-35
· Left leaning - transgendeLGBTQ friendly
· about you: emotionally intelligent and mature, aware of social issues, have done self improvement or therapy, ability to self reflect, can hold a conversation, I prefer assertive men, bisexual/pansexual, monogamous, physically attractive, flirty, confident, sense of humor, well mannered/respectful, genuinely interested in getting to know new people, child free, and can hold a conversation.
about me: I'm 27, afab/nonbinary, demisexual and use they/them pronouns. 5'6, dark brown skin, slim fit, septum piercing, glasses. Hope to get tattoos some day! Friends would say I'm classy, driven, kind, compassionate, funny, and intelligent. I tend to get along best with talkative types. My time zone is est and I'm open to voice chat if we vibe
other interests : fitness, fashion, painting, space, collecting random rocks, comic books, documentaries, pineapple pizza, petting dogs, uno, sushi, volunteering, memes, and going on long walks.
current fav tv shows : moon knight, bridgerton, disenchantment, Jojo's bizarre adventures, arcane, rpdr, the good place, wandavision
Please dm me a brief description about yourself and how you can help. Add to your title the word 'moon' so that I know you read this:)

Hello! Looking for an attractive gentleman to charm my night with some flirting. Im looking for someone who can take charge and keep the spark alive instead of a one-sided conversation. Opening this up to the world because 1) I love accents and 2) I like to travel and hope to see more of the world some day. I'm looking for my future husband, someone with a sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, and knows what they want in life. I'm always working on myself so I'd prefer to have a partner who is of the same mindset.
· Please be 24-35
· Left leaning - transgendeLGBTQ friendly
· about you: emotionally intelligent and mature, aware of social issues, have done self improvement or therapy, ability to self reflect, can hold a conversation, I prefer assertive men, bisexual/pansexual, monogamous, physically attractive, flirty, confident, sense of humor, well mannered/respectful, genuinely interested in getting to know new people, child free, and can hold a conversation.
about me: I'm 27, afab/nonbinary, demisexual and use they/them pronouns. 5'6, dark brown skin, slim fit, septum piercing, glasses. Hope to get tattoos some day! Friends would say I'm classy, driven, kind, compassionate, funny, and intelligent. I tend to get along best with talkative types. My time zone is est and I'm open to voice chat if we vibe
other interests : fitness, fashion, painting, space, collecting random rocks, comic books, documentaries, pineapple pizza, petting dogs, uno, sushi, volunteering, memes, and going on long walks.
current fav tv shows : moon knight, bridgerton, disenchantment, Jojo's bizarre adventures, arcane, rpdr, the good place, wandavision and queer eye
Please dm me a brief description about yourself and how you can help. Add to your title the word 'moon' so that I know you read this:)

I'm 35 on the East Coast of the US, just home from work and settling in for the evening as its about to rain and looking for a new friend who is a great conversationalist. Heck maybe we can talk about who we think the true Scranton Strangler is!
About me:
- Military but also volunteer firefighter
- Love to cook
- Have the idea that I want to go camping but never seem to make it happen
- Hopelessly addicted to coffee
- Expert Cuddler
- Love trading selifes, pictures and memes throughout the day
- Thunderstorms are my favorite reading weather
- Currently exploring woodwork and engraving
What I'm looking for:
- Someone who is single (can't believe I had to add that)
- Someone with a good balance of sarcasm, sweet, and flirty
- In shape or at least striving for health and fitness
- The ability to have silly, divergent conversations one minute and serious discussions the next
- Open to eventually have voice and video chat on Snap or something similar
- Willing to trade a live pic early on
I'll leave it there so we can enjoy getting to know one another one on one.
Have a good afternoon!

I'm 35 on the East Coast of the US, just home from work and settling in for the evening as its about to rain and looking for a new friend who is a great conversationalist. Heck maybe we can talk about who we think the true Scranton Strangler is!
About me:

• Military but also volunteer firefighter
  
• Love to cook
  
• Have the idea that I want to go camping but never seem to make it happen
  
• Hopelessly addicted to coffee
  
• Expert Cuddler
  
• Love trading selifes, pictures and memes throughout the day
  
• Thunderstorms are my favorite reading weather
  
• Currently exploring woodwork and engraving
  

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What I'm looking for:

• Someone who is single (can't believe I had to add that)
• Someone with a good balance of sarcasm, sweet, and flirty
• In shape or at least striving for health and fitness
• The ability to have silly, divergent conversations one minute and serious discussions the next
• Open to eventually have voice and video chat on Snap or something similar
• Willing to trade a live pic early on

I'll leave it there so we can enjoy getting to know one another one on one.
Have a good afternoon!

So.. Im not sure if im just jealous or i have a valid point for concern, thus i wanna consult with you before i confront my boyfriend
We have been together for around 1 year and 4 months. We are a bit different people. My boyfriend is very extroverted and likes texting many people, seeing people every day, etc.
Im pickier with the people i choose to hang out with, and I love my solitude, I can be alone all the time no problem. I realized my boyfriend adds girls he meets at parties right away. Exchanges literally 2-3 meaningless sentences with them and then seeks them out, follows them on Instagram, starts texting them god knows what, sends them memes, etc. I told him last week that I find it odd.
I don't want to restrict him from anything, but it sure does look suspicious from my POV. To be fair, he treats men the same and also follows most of the ones we meet. He said he's really sorry I see it that way, and asked me what I want him to do about it. I said I am not here to give him instructions, i dont wanna be a dictator, it's not something that keeps me up at night, but that i don't understand the need behind it. He is a foreigner so he said he just adds whoever makes him feel good, that he just wants to make friends in a foreign country, but he is in a committed relationship and that I'm "still his number one".
I told him its a fair point, but one time a guy was chatting with me in a party, he had his girlfriend by his side so it was nothing flirty, he asked for my instagram because he was also a foreigner and wanted me to send him addresses of techno clubs to visit or whatever. And so I reached for his phone to give him my ig, as I assessed the situation as harmless. My boyfriend was immediately like "what the fuck???" My boyfriends friends immediately came up to the guy telling him to leave me alone, that i have a boyfriend, the guy had to apologize to everybody, felt super bad and so did I.
So apparently I dont have the same rights to add whoever (it wasnt even me who suggested it or seeked him, my boyfriend actually seeks the girls). And so he said the guy seemed chatty and flirty, but that I do have a fair point, that he will keep it in mind and work on it if it concerns me. I thanked him for that
Two days ago, we met a girl. I knew her from instagram before, she was in my recommended a couple of times since she is a part of a group of mutual friends. And she caught my eye because she looks exactly like the ex of my boyfriend he dated for 7 years. I told myself its a matter of time till he follows her and texts her and literally counted down the days. So two days ago, we meet her together with my boyfriend.
My boyfriend and her exchanged 3 meaningless sentences. Nothing substantial. No reason to follow each other, in my opinion.
I took it as a test to see if my boyfriend actually meant what he said and if he actually cares, so i checked her profile after we met her to make sure he doesn't follow her. He didn't. I checked today, and lo and behold, he started following her.
I feel like i sound crazy, insecure, jealous. But hear me out.. first of all, he agreed I have a point and said he will act accordingly. Second of all, I am dating someone who will seek you out, will slide into your dms, is overly available to any and every girl, it just makes me feel like shit and a cuck. My ex did the same, even claimed the same reasons, until he cheated and left me for one of those "friends".
Should I bring this up? What would you do? Is it a fair thing to be upset about? I honestly feel like sending him her profile and texting him "you exchanged 3 sentences, dont forget to follow her and text her all the time". But thats a bit childish innit. How do I approach this?

I apologize. This might be quite long. A bit of background: I (24f) have a coworker (25m), we'll call him Bobby, that I've become friends with over the past few months. We would occasionally use whatsapp to send memes to each other.
Now for the problem: About 2 1/2 weeks ago, Bobby started messaging me more, which I thought was odd because he has a girlfriend. His messages took a turn to the flirty side, and I brought up his gf. He said she's not a Saint either, and he's just looking for some fun. In the past, and currently, I've had issues with self-esteem. So, any attention I receive is hard for me to walk away from. Especially when it's somebody I'm already familiar with and I've been attracted to. I stupidly went along with this, we switched to snapchat, and things got pretty heated for a while. There was nothing in person, nothing physical, but there was a lot of explicit messaging involved with plans to meet up. I know this was wrong.
About a week ago, he left me on delivered, and three days after that, I noticed he'd un-added me on snapchat. I was on vacation until yesterday, and our first day working together since was today. We work very closely with each other and the rest of our team, we ignored each other the entire shift. I'm not sure how to proceed at work while interacting with him. We were quite talkative and close before this. If we continue ignoring each other, I'm worried someone will notice. However, I have no idea how to simulate normalcy.
How should I continue?

Hello. Looking to meet some new people and maybe make new friends. Not looking for anything flirty or romantic.
About me: I'm pretty easy-going. I wake up at 4am to work out so I can stay in shape and eat more food because food is awesome. I like winter, big cities, a good meme dump, and tea sometimes. My controversial opinion is I prefer the metric system. I don't have a whole lot of hobbies but when I'm able to I like to go out to eat or see a musical/play.

Hey, all! It's me, back on my bs again 😅 been feeling lonely and would love to talk with people. I'm AFAB, non-binary, and bisexual; I'm usually female presenting but prefer to go by they/them, though I don't mind when people use she/her.
SFW stuff: I'm pretty quiet and very easygoing, though I can be very extroverted depending on the situation! I have a moderately dark sense of humor and live for puns and stupid dad jokes! I love talking about TV shows, movies, and books and am an avid concert-goer... when I have money. I also attend local theater productions on rare occasions! I'm not too physically active but I do like going for quiet walks! I'm currently trying to learn how to juggle, but it's not going so well.
I know looks may be important, so I'll describe myself: I have 16 tattoos scattered across my limbs, am about 5'2, have cropped hair (which is currently black), and '80s glasses, kind of similar to Janine from the original Ghostbusters. I AM a bit chubby as well, as a forewarning.
NSFW(?): I'm not picky when it comes to looks - to quote a meme, "ASS IS ASS!!" Admittedly, I'm still relatively inexperienced so I'm a switch/verse in theory? I'm more than willing to disclose more NSFW stuff in DMs/chats! I'm open to being friends with all ages but would prefer those who are approximately around my age for the romance side of things. Still open to platonic flirtiness/nsfw from any age!
I'm on the spectrum so sometimes blunt = best! If you're only looking for a friend, let me know as I absolutely love new friends! If anything more happens, well, maybe it's fate? (Slightly serious, mostly joking.) At this point I'm happy with whatever happens as long as there's at least friendship involved! Be excellent to each other and party on, dudes! 🤙🤙
Cheers!

This sub has done a good job of confusing me on how Caps feel when they like you 😂 some of you say you avoid your crush at all costs, and others of you say that avoiding the person = you are ghosting.
Help me understand my situation. We’ve had a very fun, flirty time that’s been plagued by him going thru a hard time. He’s opened up to me about it which is great. There have been times he’s not responded to my text, but I’ll just reach out again and he’s apologetic in his response.
We talked a week ago, when I was on a work trip, and everything seemed great. I asked if we could hang out when I got back and he said he hopes to, but he’s starting to get sick. I say no problem. Mind you, I have said several times to this man that I can be patient. We don’t need to hang out every week, I just enjoy his company and talking to him. We haven’t hooked up yet but we’ve talked about what that would be like (lol, earth sign foreplay)
He told me he’s getting ready to focus on getting his life together in various areas, and my response was in full support - “your dedication is so attractive” and he responded positively
He liked a selfie I posted on my story and when I told him I noticed it, his response was “yeah after I liked it, I realized how obvious I was being. Great - go me” and I said, “aw no, I liked it!” And then he changed the subject.
Sometimes he posts memes on his story that are funny, albeit self deprecating. We bond over this humor but mine is more of a secret behavior vs he shares it openly (seems very un-Cap like, but he has a fire moon & mars, I suspect air rising like me)
So when I got back I saw he posted a meme and I texted him asking, “hey how are you feeling?” And no response. I hadn’t seen him post in a few days so I look at his profile logged out, and noticed he hid his story from me. This really hurt.
I don’t get it. I’ve reassured this man that I’m into him. In return he’s said the same about me, going as far as saying he’s devoted to me. And now this?
Part of me thinks this is him overthinking about how he’s perceived by me. But the more realistic part of me thinks this is him ghosting me.
I really don’t think I did anything wrong, but my theory is that he’s not ready to continue our situation and can’t communicate that directly because he doesn’t want to ruin his chances in the long run. But whatever the reason, it’s him controlling the situation and hiding how he feels (which to me are red flags)
Either way I’ve made the decision to pull back entirely and not contact him because essentially the ball is in his court. I’m hopeful he’ll reach out when he’s ready but I also feel hurt because I like this man a lot! I have been very patient and supportive, but I’m also not letting it slow down my life.
Any advice or insight is greatly appreciated for this Virgo.

Adrielle is so selfish she doesn’t care. She doesn’t care ab animals she doesn’t help or care for animals. She’s the reason all of her pets had horrible lives and then died without having the love they deserve all while she used them for attention online.The issue isn’t the fact she’s a hairy toad. The issue is in the fact she lies so much and will throw anyone under the bus . Just like the cop. I’m not a fan of cops but the man neither cop was rude , creepy, flirty, etc .. infant she claims she was soooo afraid. She was a target. Yet , he didn’t even ticket her . If it was personal for him and he had the mindset she fabricated in her hairy small brain… he would of been the one to happily ticket her. She never wears a seatbelt and drives like she’s 15 and snuck out in the car. She uses her whiteness . She’s not oppressed. If she was she would be up every morning working her ass off and she hold of actually been treated poorly by the cops. She can lead innocent ppl to serious trouble. She is so truly removed and unaware of how the real world is outside of the realm of TikTok and Facebook. She’s not oppressed . She’s not struggling she goes to Whole Foods and buys gross overpriced stuff marketed to idiots like her . She’s unaware of how the law works . False ACCUSATIONS and claims have hundreds of thousands of people in prison and in the system- one lie ab a man ab sexual assault of any of the other lies … can ruin someone and she is truly truly just so absolutely stupid that she doesn’t understand that people every day call in with this revenge type mentality against somebody else and makes false police reports against them, and that person often is found guilty of something they did not do. She could post a video, someone else, or the police find it, she forget that her lies are exactly that ally… Uber, her phone, all have information of who took that ride and where they went. If she wanted to help so much, she could also have taken a photo of the house talk to a police officer and pointed it out but she’s a liar, and it’s absolutely sick that she claims she almost died because of domestic violence. She’s never been hospitalized because of domestic violence that man was eager for her to get the fuck out and be done with her weird ass. She was never abused by him, she’s the abuser, and if somebody broke and shoved her because she is a psychopath that’s not abuse, she’s an abuser. She abuses her own family and children her lies are an issue. All of her made up little stupid fucking stories about being bullied. Well, she’s a bully … and are also absolute bullshit. Sick freak ! Her being an obvious pedophile is also an issue somebody who goes online to go as far to post a question publicly… Means that there was some sort of exchange between her, and that child, where some sort of relationship developed for her to even say that. She felt enough for a minor that she asked that… You also noticed she’s so very often talked about her ex, and his relationship with a 16-year-old Sounds like they are both some weird sick people. One day she will see a consequence and I hope that it’s publicly posted as well as her mug shot with her hairy face now that would travel so great in her 40 mile radius of fame people would love it and laugh she would become a meme, the fact that she is so selfishly and openly humiliated her children with those vile unsexy sexual Videos that she posted of herself, licking sex toys… pedophile, much? Knowing her children’s friends see all of her posts and give her fake attention that she thinks is so flattering because some little boys are lying to her telling her that she’s so hot… She think she’s famous, and people are jealous of her so-called platform. She can’t really think she has the biggest platform in her entire area or that she ever did have that… This person is not normal it’s person as a threat to society, though she’s not so mentally sick that she has no idea what she’s doing… she certainly needs to be charged for all of these lies, and for the ambulance ride if they even went, I’m very curious. I’m surprised she even still has a job with Uber. She’s a threat to them as well as other people the writers and just people all around. She is a threat she’s a liability she’s a vial Gross beast . It’s cruel and weird to do all that she does She is a prime example of absolute white privilege and entitlement. Nothing about her is tan or dark skin. She can’t claim that nothing about her sexy like a beautiful woman with melanin or tan rich bronze skin she sits in a tanning bed and looks like leather. she cries online, begging for attention And comments she needs them about her body how beautiful she is… Oh, well, she’s ripping apart people because of their weight !! I really can’t believe the way she gets away with treating her children legally as well… They’re clearly neglected emotionally and physically because withholding food in forcing veganism is not OK not allowing them to have regular food in their house is fucking weird. She is an absolute creepy monster. It’s clear why men run from her and she has no friends. Even when she’s with her fam she’s crossed eyed , drooling into her phone , feeding her addiction, not allowing anyone to talk - she talks over them or around bc she can’t be interrupted. It’s obvious her fam is so uncomfortable around her . Can u imagine how happy and relaxed and just…. Happy her fam is when she’s gone ?? She says she can’t wait for her kids to gtfo but she can’t see that … they already are . She can post all the bs feeding her kids being so fake nice … she’s not a good liar . She can post all the lies she wants but it’s clear who she is and ppl aren’t mean to her she deserves it and also it’s all lies ppl don’t chase her down and yell at her everywhere she goes I bet there’s a small tiny group mainly kids bc of her kids. …. And a huge population who have no clue ! Parents of other kids not liking her is not surprising and good for them I’d keep her away too on top of all the shit she talks about people of that community. All while she’s absolutely and exactly what she describes the other people to be… She’s an unaccomplished, uneducated, loser. Another idiot on TikTok, who believes they’re gonna find success financially by posting all the stupid shit, she posted… She was lucky she got followers on that other account it was all based on lies… karma visit her then and she lost that account. She’s never going to make as much money as she think she is $500 in one video while… $500 is not a lot of money. Meanwhile there’s people that have salaries who have busted their asses or bust their ass every day and actually feed their kids and cook them dinner and drive them and don’t get vacation… she needs to stop !she won’t stop tho !! Let’s see what crime is against her next —- maybe the trooper will end up saving her and they fall in love !!! She is a weird liar anyone who goes as far as she goes …. !!! Deserves a cell !!

Hello friends! So I got really nostalgic for this fanfic I read ages ago, and apparently I was dumb and didn't bookmark it. Here's what I remember:

• it was a one-shot, not super long
• it was birdflash (wally/dick)
• I think it was set around s1?
• No one on the team knows Robin's secret ID except Wally
• There's some sort of incident, and the team responds to whatever it is, but Dick's there as a civilian
• Dick has to stay out of the fighting, but after the fight, he goes up to Wally, thanks him as Dick and slips him his phone number all flirty
• Meanwhile the team's like "??? how???"
• I definitely read it like pre-2018

Also, I have no clue if it was on ffnet, AO3, or even the YJ anon meme. Any and all help is greatly appreciated 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Hello there (said like obi wan Kenobi). I am a 32m looking for a female friend to talk, share memes with, tell jokes, share life together as a pen pal of sorts but thru a texting format. I'm an open book, I'll talk about anything. I am very flirty and sarcastic.
My hobbies consist of music, movies, video games, working out, home improvement stuff, and being outside. I love camping and hiking. Honestly, you don't have to share any of those things in common. As long as you're cool and looking for the same things.
Please be between 23-45 years old. I just want us to be in similar areas of life.
I look forward to hearing from you!

I (25) have a coworker (39) who what I feel is constantly hitting on me. He always says “hey pretty lady” and brings me snacks throughout the day. Somehow during all of our conversations he manages to call me cute - like today I wore shorts & he said i look like a “cute camp counselor”. He follows me online & will like my picture and message me memes and we will have quick conversations. Do you think this is just friendly? Maybe some people are naturally flirty? I hate to admit it but I love the attention I get from talking to him and it makes me feel guilty and icky. Any advice would be great maybe I should just give him the cold shoulde

I have a massive crush on my bi friend. I think I’m in love with her. We started as university classmates, worked projects together. We’re not BEST friends, so I think she might like me too based on how sweet her actions are. Might be my wishful thinking though. She’s generally a very loving person to everyone, so I can’t really tell if her actions are special or not. I’ll list some things she does - please tell me if they’re flirty!
She hugs me any chance she gets, usually deep, long hugs. Sometimes even rocking back and forth. I wouldn’t say our friendship is close enough to warrant such hugs, but I love it.
She calls me beautiful. “Hi beautiful” or “hey beautiful woman”. I once sent her a meme of someone singing “you’re so beautiful to me” to their cat and she replied “how I feel whenever [my name] passes by”. She also sends me those “your 1st person is 100% your life partner” posts on IG.
She gets happy when we bump into each other on campus. Always greets me with a cute “it’s [my name]! [My name] is a person!” or “I found a [my name] in the hallway” and wraps her arm around my shoulders.
She once reintroduced me to a classmate I already knew (she knew that lol) with “this is [my name], she is the best person in the world”. Another time, she said “I should come up with a dance to express my love for you”.
She grabs my hands a lot. Sometimes she’ll just hold them, maybe wave them around and stare. Once at a party, she grabbed my hand, kissed it and said “[my name] is so great”.
Another classmate was once trying to pinch my cheeks and I kept swatting their hand away jokingly and she came up and said “yeah, isn’t [my name] the best… she doesn’t want you poking her face, I feel like I gotta protect her” and playfully held our classmate back.
One time I was bored outside on campus, I started building a tiny little teepee out of twigs and she joined me for some reason 😭 She even went around collecting more twigs.
She once got me a cupcake when I was stressed about a project. She went out of her way to get me one <3
She once drove past on campus, stopped the car and pulled the window down just to yell “[my name] rules” at me.
A couple friends and I were over at hers for a movie night. I was sitting on the floor and she stood over me and started stroking my head (😳), asking me how I was doing. When we were sitting next to each other on the couch for the movie, she rested her head on my shoulder and my head on hers.
She’s the sweetest person I’ve ever met and I love her. I really don’t know whether this is platonic or if there’s something there. She’s generally such a loving person so I don’t know whether to take these hints as romantic or not. Is there any way I can tell if she likes me without outright asking and risking our friendship? Please please advise! Thank you!!
TLDR: I think my crush is being flirty with me but I need advice on how I can be sure!