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2023.06.08 10:12 SnooTangerines7689 [QCrit] LGBT supernatural thriller HARVEY (98K, fifth attempt)

Previous attempt
Hey everyone! I've been working on my query. Manuscript-wise I'm essentially ready to go, but the query package is continually a struggle for me. Hopefully this version is clearer than other iterations.

Also for reference, this is an adult novel. Pretty much every beta I've had told advised against toning violence/themes down for YA, saying it works better as an Adult novel even with it starting in high school. So for that reason, I'd love feedback as to whether the query sounds too YA, as past queries where I didn't specify lead to that assumption.

Dear (Agent),
(Personalization). I am seeking representation for my queer supernatural thriller, HARVEY, complete at 98,000 words. With its emphasis on the Midwestern setting, it will appeal to fans of Gothic fiction and those with Y2K nostalgia.
In the fall of 1999, someone begins terrorizing the small, remote town of Harvey, Missouri. Some residents vanish without a trace, while others are found brutally murdered, their bodies lacerated and completely drained of blood.
There’s no clear pattern linking the victims, nor any viable suspects, but eighteen-year-old Oliver Whitman isn’t frightened about his own safety. After all, with his terminal genetic heart condition, death has loomed over him since birth, and he views his life as disposable—a mindset that his clandestine boyfriend, Jace, can’t seem to understand. Plus, no one but Oliver knows from wandering into the woods one evening that the culprits are beyond anything humanly imaginable. It’s an easy decision for him to sacrifice his life to protect his love from them.
Four years later, the last thing Jace—now a college senior—wants is to return to Missouri, especially Harvey, as he’s still grieving the loss of Oliver. However, when a former classmate’s body is found on the anniversary of Oliver's disappearance, Jace finds himself unwillingly pulled back in. While he has no idea who—or what—it is that has a personal vendetta against Harvey and its residents, a string of threatening messages written in blood make one thing certain: Jace is the next target.
Following dual POVs, HARVEY is a character-driven story that explores the lengths to which individuals will go to protect those they care about. My novel will appeal to fans of vampire novels such as CERTAIN DARK THINGS by Silvia Moreno-Garcia or THE SOUTHERN BOOK CLUB’S GUIDE TO SLAYING VAMPIRES by Grady Hendrix, and fans of queer, supernatural romances such as the GREEN CREEK series by T.J. Klune or THE DEAD AND THE DARK by Courtney Gould.
(Bio)
First 300
“Bob, it seems we’re hearing no new developments on the recent missing person case coming out of Harvey, Missouri this morning. Nineteen-year-old Tyler O’Sullivan is the ninth person in Adams County to turn up missing or dead this year.”
“Truly awful, Janice. And such a terrible situation for what we hear is such a small, close-knit community. I think I speak for everyone when I say we all hope they find him safe and sound.”
“Well, the O’Sullivan family and the Adams County Police Department are asking for anyone with any information to please call the number—”
“Did you know him?” Jace’s mother asked as he wandered into the kitchen that Monday morning. She was setting the crockpot for dinner, but her tired eyes seemed unable to break from the small box TV on the linoleum counter.
Jace Silva pulled the milk carton from the fridge and stared at the image on the TV. On it was a list of Tyler’s physical attributes and clothes he last wore alongside his senior yearbook photo. His gray eyes were partially obscured by his black bangs, yet seemed to pierce into Jace’s soul.
“Not really.”
Of course, he knew of Tyler. He frequently saw him in the school halls until his graduation last year. Living in a small, rural town in fuckall nowhere, Missouri it was hard not to know everyone at least by face, especially someone one grade above. With shaggy hair and edgy black clothing in the middle of the rural bible belt, he stood out like a sore thumb.
Tyler and his family went to church every Sunday, yet people always looked at him and his equally black-clad friend, Evangeline Lark, like they were demon possessed. Not that anyone dared to say anything to Tyler’s face, given his cop father. Though after Columbine a few months ago, pressure did make him trim his hair and switch to normal blue jeans. Jace himself thought little of it.
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2023.06.08 10:08 Throwawayanon642 I'm incredibly embarrassed and ashamed to admit this, but here we go.

I need to get this off my chest, throwaway account for obvious reasons. (Looong post. Grab some wine and a snack.)
I feel like I've allowed myself to become a doormat and a fool and walked into a trap.
My DH and I have been together now for almost 12 years, got married 4 years ago. We have 1 son, 1 on the way and I am just so ashamed I even let this happen to me.
For starters, my husband and I live with my parents. My husband has a decent job, started his career while I went to college. The plan, or so I thought, was to finish college, he'd have a head start good paying career and we'd move when I graduated. Well, we got married right after I graduated college and that's when covid hit, about 6 months later. I had a small part time job at the time which ultimately I was fired from for downsizing during the covid chaos. This is when I started staying home. He swore up and down and convinced me "our" dream of me being a SAHM was a reality. I wouldn't have to work. It wouldn't effect anything for us bc my income was so incredibly low I didn't contribute financially anyway. Which was 100% true that wasn't a lie.
So, needless to say I didn't find another job and settled into at home life. Which I enjoyed 100%. I loved being in charge of the home. We did live with my parents still, I took on some of their chores and house work too. But the goal was still the same. To leave. The issue then was the market boomed (if you're from the US you know how insane it was) so we pushed back the plan to buy a home which at the time I thought was reasonable considering around the area we needed to live for his job was basically selling run down hoarder houses for no less than 250k. This was 2021.
During 2021 I fell pregnant. At the time I was thrilled despite the living situation. I was under the assumption we wouldn't be here long and tbh a FTM with a newborn, I liked the idea of having the help from my parents. I had my son, he's amazing. I love him and don't regret having him. However, as 2022 started I started pressuring my husband to move out. Get the ball rolling. To his credit he did find an agent, but started talking about how we didn't make enough. (Weird considering his job only got better during this time, housing stabilized a bit, and wtf you said we could do this?) At first I thought it might be cold feet. A newborn, turned infant, scared FTD, we got a lot of help in the early days from my parents. We had it easy to say the least.
I left the topic alone for a little, maybe a couple months and revisited it. He again started claiming we would need 200k in the bank, we would need at least 30k down, we would need this and that and basically saying it will never happen. I combats this argument. I grew up poor. Very poor actually. I'd start saying things like idk how you think my parents help us and helped my sister with her kids when they make significantly less than you do. And even my sister today has 6 kids and is a SAHM with a husband who makes 20-30k less a year. His ideas on how much people need to survive were wild to me. Of course I don't want to live poor, but we wouldn't be anyway. He had gotten a promotion. Unlimited over time whenever and if he wanted it. I was genuinely confused and he ignored my attempts at a realistic conversation about it. And again, WTF YOU SAID WE COULD DO THIS. Not only that but I do not spend money. I find deals, I shop around, etc. Again growing up poor you know how to make a dollar stretch a mile and it's just in me to do this. There is no way we can't make it work for our family. I even have a friend who has a son and her and her husband combined don't make as much as my husband. They are comfortable. Buying new cars, debt free, new cloths, trips etc.
I knew the market wasn't amazing still. I thought maybe it's bc he still sees houses for 250k+ and he just is scared to jump. I spoke to this agent and told her to send us over some houses lower than our initial target price point. There were some pretty decent houses. Cue me sending them over a few months and getting nothing but excuse after excuse. Or "I don't want to live there." Or "yeah but we'd have to renovate this or that" but also coupled with the confusing statement of "we can afford a 200k house why is she sending us these?" So it's turned into a cat and mouse game of. Can we not afford 200k? Or can we? What is going on?!?? When I asked him why he kept doing this flip flopping he used the amazingly dumb excuse of "well you deserve xyz" which is a cop-out in my opinion.
The end of 2022 hit, I started feeling stupid, defeated and worn out. I gave up. I just figured I'd learn to accept ill be the person who lives with their parents forever and my life will be hell with no privacy, nothing to call my own and in early 2023... oops. Pregnant. Again. On the pill. A cruel joke the universe had on me? Idk. I'm currently 22 weeks pregnant.
At this point we live in my parents (admittedly finished and nice) basement, no rooms. No doors. With a crib shoved in a corner for my son. No room to grow with a new baby on the way. My parents are while nice about it very much at their stage of life wanting to not have a bunch of baby things everywhere, so the basement is PACKED im constantly running into things, kicking toys around, I have no room and some how we have to fit another human being down here.
Currently my husband is STILL insisting we can't afford to move. He won't even entertain the idea of it anymore. And to top it all off, our marriage is in shambles. He routinely ignores any of my needs and wants. He constantly has a bad attitude. He is always annoyed, always running from reality and even my parents have noticed, even though I don't say anything about my marriage, how unhelpful, lazy and rude he has been. My mom has even said one night when he working overtime "well it's not like he helps you anyway." If he's home he sits on YouTube or plays video games and I'll be honest, I give up.
I feel like I have exhusted this topic to the point he refuses to engage with it. We barely speak about anything of value and I basically go about my day as If I was a single mom living with my parents and being THEIR live in maid. I feel betrayed. Like he sold me a lie. I feel stupid for even believing him. I feel trapped being unexpectedly pregnant. Idk what to do.
I have set up a therapy session for myself. I'm hoping this helps me just come to terms with everything and figure out my next steps and ultimately, idk. I just feel like I need someone to talk to about it so I signed up for it.
I feel trapped by an over grown toddler of a man who is simply living his best life rent free while his wife is miserable and cries alone at night trying not to wake her child. All bc I was too gullible in believing this man. Believed he'd be a provider. A good daddada great husbsnd. Now left with an embarrassing life and I'm so ashamed I'm bringing another child into this even if i will love them.
If you've made it this far, I appreciate you. Thank you for letting me vent. Idk anymore I feel fucking stupid. It's embarrassing to even post this anonymously.
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2023.06.08 09:59 A_horse_a_piece77 "Yesterday's Soccer Mom Is Today's Domestic Extremist": A Guide To Surviving The Culture

Author and conservative commentator Peachy Keenan is sick and tired of yesterday's soccer mom being treated as today's "domestic extremist", in public discourse by media gatekeepers and government officials alike—and all the while parents are sheepishly and too easily abdicating their natural role as captains and defenders of the household.
https://twitter.com/KeenanPeachy/status/1666121050567110656
https://preview.redd.it/kdnwwyvt1r4b1.png?width=790&format=png&auto=webp&s=7afed3bdff34a513a8b78f22fe5e37368066ecad
"They like to make us, the normal people, the moms and dads of America into extremists. But if you look around it's pretty easy to see who the real extremists are," Keenan told Harris Faulkner on Fox prime time Tuesday night. https://www.foxnews.com/video/6328922595112
She is calling for a back to the basics while writing from deep behind 'enemy lines': southern California. "Parenting is not a game. There is no do-over. You are all that stands between your small charges and the roiling storms ahead—and the band of purple-haired nonbinary pirates that’s about to storm the deck."
Keenan has written a new handbook of sorts, or a practical guide to winning the culture war and protecting your family from the ravings of "Childless weirdos have taken over every institution we look to for guidance on how to raise good citizens..."
You can find the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Domestic-Extremist-Practical-Winning-Culture/dp/1684513529/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=Domestic+Extremist%3A+A+Practical+Guide+to+Winning+the+Culture+War&s=books&sr=1-1
Keenan holds nothing back in the following blistering commentary from her book [emphasis ZH]:
It has become only too clear what this absence of parental authority has wrought. Truly insane people have taken over the American education system, Big Pharma, and Big Tech. They know the best way to reach the Final Solution of the American family is to focus on young, impressionable minds. We are enjoying the fruits of their labor now: an explosion of teen depression and suicide, an epidemic of children who are confused if they’re boys or girls, and an incredible 40 percent of Gen Z reporting that they are some letter in the ever-expanding alphabet soup known as LGBTQ+.
https://preview.redd.it/q8pbczeb2r4b1.png?width=722&format=png&auto=webp&s=fb9352ba054a4f428fe4c11fad712f52188e5bfc
https://twitter.com/CitizenFreePres/status/1666257317120323585
Who are the real extremists?
The below is an excerpt from Domestic Extremist: A Practical Guide to Winning the Culture War, by Peachy Keenan, with permission of the author. The book is now available from Regnery.
https://www.regnery.com/9781684513529/domestic-extremist/
* * *
You had a baby? Look at you—you’re the captain now!
Or are you?
The words on a poster taped to a teacher’s classroom door at a New Jersey public school expose the precarious corner American parents have been painted into. “If your parents aren’t accepting of your identity, I’m your mom now.” The poster featured a drawing of a mama bear tending to her bear cubs, who are each painted the color of a different LGBTQ flag.
Parents, I have bad news. You’ve got competition. Someone posted a job listing looking for a new authority figure in your house, and they hired everyone who applied. Lots of other adults, most of them unpleasant strangers, would like to raise your children for you—or at least get your children to hate you.
This may already be happening—and you’ll be the last to know! All your hard work to keep creeps, perverts, and kiddie-sniffers away from your kids may get reversed in an instant when you’re not looking.
Some parents are okay with this. They can barely handle “adulting” themselves and are thrilled not to make any tough parental decisions. Abdicating their natural role as master and commander of the household is lazy, but it’s a defensive posture. They live in terror of accusations from other parents of “closed-mindedness,” or worse, being a prude.
American parents have either forgotten their innate, God-given authority over their household or surrendered it in the face of relentless pressure over many years from the outside. Just as millennia of trickling snowmelt can hollow out mighty granite mountains and turn them into canyons, a half-century of unchecked influence by feminists and far-left progressives have chipped away at the role of parents in their children’s lives. What is left is a barren wasteland, a valley of shadows, where mothers and fathers have been reduced to nothing more than the oldest dependents in the house.
Your job as a parent is not easy, but it’s simple: feed, nurture, love, and protect. In the face of life-and-death danger—say, an escaped tiger or an ax-wielding lunatic—probably 100 percent of parents would risk their lives for their children, even die, without hesitation. So why are so many reluctant to defend their children from less obvious, but equally dangerous, scenarios?
You can tell when you’re about to be trampled by elephants. It’s trickier when the trampling is invisible and being committed by a young teacher with peace stickers on xe/xer’s car. I’ll grant that having pro- nouns in your bio is not quite the same red flag as cruising a playground in a car with no door handles on the inside, but it’s still a red flag parents need to fear.
People who manage to produce offspring are too often seduced into voluntarily surrendering their authority over them. They allow various “experts” to hold sway over their kids. Exhausted and confused, they willingly hand their kids off to the local public school teachers’ unions, the DEI struggle-session facilitators, the storytelling drag queens, and the sex-education consultants who arrive at school with teaching props, including wholesome kid-friendly items like dildos and anal lube.
Above: School hangs poster that says, \"I'm Your Mom Now\"
https://sanzi.substack.com/p/school-hangs-poster-on-the-door-that
They all share a common goal: to dilute your authority and increase their own. They aim to groom America’s children from birth to become compliant consumers of all they wish to sell them: bespoke genders, any-term abortion, strictly enforced racial hierarchies, a lifetime of therapy, prescription drugs, and whatever political and social ideology they choose to upload into their brains.
God forbid you are the only parent at your school who keeps your fifth grader home on Share Your Favorite Sex Toy Day. What will people say?
Allow me to remind you gently: it’s your job to steer the ship, avoid icebergs, prevent scurvy, and stave off mutinies. Parenting is not a game. There is no do-over. You are all that stands between your small charges and the roiling storms ahead—and the band of purple-haired nonbinary pirates that’s about to storm the deck.
Sexualized Early and Often
Imagine being the only one at the PTA meeting who stands up and objects to your second grader studying detailed diagrams of adult genitalia, or your middle schoolers instructed on how to grant consent to anal sex. (These are real sex ed guidelines introduced in New Jersey public schools in 2020.)
Your choices are stark: assert your authority over your children and get called a bigot or go along with the madness and let them take your child to places you don’t want them to go.
How bad is it? Bad enough that Tiara Mack, a “reproductive justice advocate” and “child sex educator” running for state senator in Rhode Island tweeted this in 2021: “Really excited for the house sex ed bill hearing later today. Teaching comprehensive, queer inclusive, pleasure-based sex ed was a highlight of my time teaching.”
This is who wants to talk to your six-year-old about how to “pleasure” themselves and their partner!
The first step in any cult, or any abusive relationship, is to get the victim to sever ties to their outside friends and family. Maybe you’ve seen this happen to people you know. They suddenly change their phone number, delete their social media, and have a new friend now—one that has them spellbound. Once children come to believe their mom and dad are clueless bigots and racists who are holding them back from being who they are, the cult leaders own them.
Government-run public schools have accomplished “regime change” in America and transformed us, slowly, from a society centered around the family, where the schools work for the parent, into a society centered around government employees, where families are required to supply the raw goods for the teachers’ unions to mold as they see fit.
Year after year, their assembly lines have been left unsupervised to churn out freshly minted graduates. These graduates move on to college, where their high school indoctrination is hardened and polished by professors. The end product is a citizen who will go to his grave believing a set of Ministry of Truth–approved lies: “whiteness” is intrinsically evil, abortion is health care, there are dozens of genders, America was founded on racism and must be dismantled, marriage is oppressive and bad for women, children hold you back, and unchecked sexual “exploration” with a variety of partners of every gender is the surest path to emotional happiness.
Sane people have a terrible choice to make: exercise parental authority over what their children are taught and risk financial ruin, social blackballing, and permanent cancellation—or allow their kids to be turned against them.
When a teacher or government official replaces the parent as the ultimate authority in the child’s life, all bets are off. Educators know that any adult with the authority to influence a child has the power to expose said child to any radical or extreme ideas they want.
To them, you are the extremist if you don’t think young children need to learn about sex and gender dysphoria yet. You are the extremist if you question a teacher or school administrator’s choice of books to read or lessons to teach. You are an extremely racist extremist if you’d rather not force a five-year-old to feel bad about the color of his skin and apologize for it.
In California, students in middle school can ask their school to change their names and genders in the school computer system, and the school is not permitted to inform the parents. The school authorities and the teachers are legally allowed to conspire with eleven-year-olds in sixth grade to induct them into a cult and keep it secret. Literally “it’ll be our secret,” a classic groomer move.
These government educational bureaucrats may not drive window-less vans and carry dirty magazines and candy bars to lure young boys (although let’s be honest, some do), but they are even more dangerous. Any parents who send a child into an environment like this, either knowingly or blindly, are forfeiting their authority over their kid.
The Regime’s child-catchers are prowling the locker rooms and cafeterias looking for lost, confused pre-teens to cart off to Pleasure Island, where they can get transformed into donkeys without their parents’ consent.
I wouldn’t be surprised if Disney is working on a new version of Pinocchio where he asks the Blue Fairy to turn him into a real girl.
Parental Surrender
Too many sentient adults seem to simply wait for a new update to the operating system to decide what to do with their kids. They unquestioningly accept the Current Parenting Thing, the rancid gruel served up as “education” at the local public school.
They surrender their kids to the authorities, in all their forms: teachers, principals, pediatricians, drag queens reading stories, social media influencers, YouTubers, Disney, Netflix, TikTok, the Kardashians—anyone who is credentialed as a “kid expert” or “important” now holds more sway over American kids than their own mothers and fathers. “Who am I to tell my kids how to behave, or what to learn, or how to think about the world? I’m just a random person who had a baby. I made plenty of mistakes in my life. How can I possibly ask my children to obey me?”
This is why we can’t have nice things. This is why healthy toddlers were kept in COVID masks for two years while they sat in sandboxes alone, outside, in rain or sleet. This is why you see massive brawls happening at middle schools, where kids punch their own teachers. This is why children are indoctrinated into the cult of trans, coached and groomed to say their pronouns, to switch genders, to explore various “sexualities” and “identities.” This is why mothers pimp out their own children as “drag kids” and put little boys in princess dresses and post the photos on Instagram while thousands of likes wash over them.
This is what abdicating the parenting throne looks like. Childless weirdos have taken over every institution we look to for guidance on how to raise good citizens, and no, I’m not talking about Catholic priests.
It has become only too clear what this absence of parental authority has wrought. Truly insane people have taken over the American education system, Big Pharma, and Big Tech. They know the best way to reach the Final Solution of the American family is to focus on young, impressionable minds.
We are enjoying the fruits of their labor now: an explosion of teen depression and suicide, an epidemic of children who are confused if they’re boys or girls, and an incredible 40 percent of Gen Z reporting that they are some letter in the ever-expanding alphabet soup known as LGBTQ+.
Everywhere, in every way, the fertile, fallow minds of children are being terraformed by people who identify as “fur baby” parents.
I wouldn’t let fur baby parents walk my dog, let alone educate my eight-year-old.
Authority Atrophied
This is why you must exercise your parental authority early and often. You must speak up!
“No, I don’t want you to ask my teenage son if he’s comfortable with his gender during his doctor visit.”
“No, you can’t wear your sister’s Elsa dress to school today, because boys don’t wear dresses, now get in the car and never ask me that again.”
“No, you can’t buy those shorts that display the entire lower half of your rear end.”
“No, you can’t have a TikTok account, and if I find it on your phone, say goodbye to the phone.”
Parental authority makes you the heavy in the house and the bouncer at the door. Pull on your big boy pants and lay down the law, or the law is going to lay down all over you.
Peachy Keenan is author of Domestic Extremist: A Practical Guide to Winning the Culture War.
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2023.06.08 09:59 A_horse_a_piece77 "Yesterday's Soccer Mom Is Today's Domestic Extremist": A Guide To Surviving The Culture

Author and conservative commentator Peachy Keenan is sick and tired of yesterday's soccer mom being treated as today's "domestic extremist" in public discourse by media gatekeepers and government officials alike—and all the while parents are sheepishly and too easily abdicating their natural role as captains and defenders of the household.
https://twitter.com/KeenanPeachy/status/1666121050567110656
https://preview.redd.it/078zp8gv1r4b1.png?width=790&format=png&auto=webp&s=f57ec8ab475fb228079af0757d6b906c49ec1b8a
"They like to make us, the normal people, the moms and dads of America into extremists. But if you look around it's pretty easy to see who the real extremists are," Keenan told Harris Faulkner on Fox prime time Tuesday night. https://www.foxnews.com/video/6328922595112
She is calling for a back to the basics while writing from deep behind 'enemy lines': southern California. "Parenting is not a game. There is no do-over. You are all that stands between your small charges and the roiling storms ahead—and the band of purple-haired nonbinary pirates that’s about to storm the deck."
Keenan has written a new handbook of sorts, or a practical guide to winning the culture war and protecting your family from the ravings of "Childless weirdos have taken over every institution we look to for guidance on how to raise good citizens..."
You can find the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Domestic-Extremist-Practical-Winning-Culture/dp/1684513529/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=Domestic+Extremist%3A+A+Practical+Guide+to+Winning+the+Culture+War&s=books&sr=1-1
Keenan holds nothing back in the following blistering commentary from her book [emphasis ZH]:
It has become only too clear what this absence of parental authority has wrought. Truly insane people have taken over the American education system, Big Pharma, and Big Tech. They know the best way to reach the Final Solution of the American family is to focus on young, impressionable minds. We are enjoying the fruits of their labor now: an explosion of teen depression and suicide, an epidemic of children who are confused if they’re boys or girls, and an incredible 40 percent of Gen Z reporting that they are some letter in the ever-expanding alphabet soup known as LGBTQ+.
https://preview.redd.it/8qucazob2r4b1.png?width=722&format=png&auto=webp&s=e2798bd1cdba17e1eb875dad8784bb2893bc2330
https://twitter.com/CitizenFreePres/status/1666257317120323585
Who are the real extremists?
The below is an excerpt from Domestic Extremist: A Practical Guide to Winning the Culture War, by Peachy Keenan, with permission of the author. The book is now available from Regnery.
https://www.regnery.com/9781684513529/domestic-extremist/
* * *
You had a baby? Look at you—you’re the captain now!
Or are you?
The words on a poster taped to a teacher’s classroom door at a New Jersey public school expose the precarious corner American parents have been painted into. “If your parents aren’t accepting of your identity, I’m your mom now.” The poster featured a drawing of a mama bear tending to her bear cubs, who are each painted the color of a different LGBTQ flag.
Parents, I have bad news. You’ve got competition. Someone posted a job listing looking for a new authority figure in your house, and they hired everyone who applied. Lots of other adults, most of them unpleasant strangers, would like to raise your children for you—or at least get your children to hate you.
This may already be happening—and you’ll be the last to know! All your hard work to keep creeps, perverts, and kiddie-sniffers away from your kids may get reversed in an instant when you’re not looking.
Some parents are okay with this. They can barely handle “adulting” themselves and are thrilled not to make any tough parental decisions. Abdicating their natural role as master and commander of the household is lazy, but it’s a defensive posture. They live in terror of accusations from other parents of “closed-mindedness,” or worse, being a prude.
American parents have either forgotten their innate, God-given authority over their household or surrendered it in the face of relentless pressure over many years from the outside. Just as millennia of trickling snowmelt can hollow out mighty granite mountains and turn them into canyons, a half-century of unchecked influence by feminists and far-left progressives have chipped away at the role of parents in their children’s lives. What is left is a barren wasteland, a valley of shadows, where mothers and fathers have been reduced to nothing more than the oldest dependents in the house.
Your job as a parent is not easy, but it’s simple: feed, nurture, love, and protect. In the face of life-and-death danger—say, an escaped tiger or an ax-wielding lunatic—probably 100 percent of parents would risk their lives for their children, even die, without hesitation. So why are so many reluctant to defend their children from less obvious, but equally dangerous, scenarios?
You can tell when you’re about to be trampled by elephants. It’s trickier when the trampling is invisible and being committed by a young teacher with peace stickers on xe/xer’s car. I’ll grant that having pro- nouns in your bio is not quite the same red flag as cruising a playground in a car with no door handles on the inside, but it’s still a red flag parents need to fear.
People who manage to produce offspring are too often seduced into voluntarily surrendering their authority over them. They allow various “experts” to hold sway over their kids. Exhausted and confused, they willingly hand their kids off to the local public school teachers’ unions, the DEI struggle-session facilitators, the storytelling drag queens, and the sex-education consultants who arrive at school with teaching props, including wholesome kid-friendly items like dildos and anal lube.
Above: School Hangs poster on the door that says, \"I'm Your Mom Now\"
https://sanzi.substack.com/p/school-hangs-poster-on-the-door-that
They all share a common goal: to dilute your authority and increase their own. They aim to groom America’s children from birth to become compliant consumers of all they wish to sell them: bespoke genders, any-term abortion, strictly enforced racial hierarchies, a lifetime of therapy, prescription drugs, and whatever political and social ideology they choose to upload into their brains.
God forbid you are the only parent at your school who keeps your fifth grader home on Share Your Favorite Sex Toy Day. What will people say?
Allow me to remind you gently: it’s your job to steer the ship, avoid icebergs, prevent scurvy, and stave off mutinies. Parenting is not a game. There is no do-over. You are all that stands between your small charges and the roiling storms ahead—and the band of purple-haired nonbinary pirates that’s about to storm the deck.
Sexualized Early and Often
Imagine being the only one at the PTA meeting who stands up and objects to your second grader studying detailed diagrams of adult genitalia, or your middle schoolers instructed on how to grant consent to anal sex. (These are real sex ed guidelines introduced in New Jersey public schools in 2020.)
Your choices are stark: assert your authority over your children and get called a bigot or go along with the madness and let them take your child to places you don’t want them to go.
How bad is it? Bad enough that Tiara Mack, a “reproductive justice advocate” and “child sex educator” running for state senator in Rhode Island tweeted this in 2021: “Really excited for the house sex ed bill hearing later today. Teaching comprehensive, queer inclusive, pleasure-based sex ed was a highlight of my time teaching.”
This is who wants to talk to your six-year-old about how to “pleasure” themselves and their partner!
The first step in any cult, or any abusive relationship, is to get the victim to sever ties to their outside friends and family. Maybe you’ve seen this happen to people you know. They suddenly change their phone number, delete their social media, and have a new friend now—one that has them spellbound. Once children come to believe their mom and dad are clueless bigots and racists who are holding them back from being who they are, the cult leaders own them.
Government-run public schools have accomplished “regime change” in America and transformed us, slowly, from a society centered around the family, where the schools work for the parent, into a society centered around government employees, where families are required to supply the raw goods for the teachers’ unions to mold as they see fit.
Year after year, their assembly lines have been left unsupervised to churn out freshly minted graduates. These graduates move on to college, where their high school indoctrination is hardened and polished by professors. The end product is a citizen who will go to his grave believing a set of Ministry of Truth–approved lies: “whiteness” is intrinsically evil, abortion is health care, there are dozens of genders, America was founded on racism and must be dismantled, marriage is oppressive and bad for women, children hold you back, and unchecked sexual “exploration” with a variety of partners of every gender is the surest path to emotional happiness.
Sane people have a terrible choice to make: exercise parental authority over what their children are taught and risk financial ruin, social blackballing, and permanent cancellation—or allow their kids to be turned against them.
When a teacher or government official replaces the parent as the ultimate authority in the child’s life, all bets are off. Educators know that any adult with the authority to influence a child has the power to expose said child to any radical or extreme ideas they want.
To them, you are the extremist if you don’t think young children need to learn about sex and gender dysphoria yet. You are the extremist if you question a teacher or school administrator’s choice of books to read or lessons to teach. You are an extremely racist extremist if you’d rather not force a five-year-old to feel bad about the color of his skin and apologize for it.
In California, students in middle school can ask their school to change their names and genders in the school computer system, and the school is not permitted to inform the parents. The school authorities and the teachers are legally allowed to conspire with eleven-year-olds in sixth grade to induct them into a cult and keep it secret. Literally “it’ll be our secret,” a classic groomer move.
These government educational bureaucrats may not drive window-less vans and carry dirty magazines and candy bars to lure young boys (although let’s be honest, some do), but they are even more dangerous. Any parents who send a child into an environment like this, either knowingly or blindly, are forfeiting their authority over their kid.
The Regime’s child-catchers are prowling the locker rooms and cafeterias looking for lost, confused pre-teens to cart off to Pleasure Island, where they can get transformed into donkeys without their parents’ consent.
I wouldn’t be surprised if Disney is working on a new version of Pinocchio where he asks the Blue Fairy to turn him into a real girl.
Parental Surrender
Too many sentient adults seem to simply wait for a new update to the operating system to decide what to do with their kids. They unquestioningly accept the Current Parenting Thing, the rancid gruel served up as “education” at the local public school.
They surrender their kids to the authorities, in all their forms: teachers, principals, pediatricians, drag queens reading stories, social media influencers, YouTubers, Disney, Netflix, TikTok, the Kardashians—anyone who is credentialed as a “kid expert” or “important” now holds more sway over American kids than their own mothers and fathers. “Who am I to tell my kids how to behave, or what to learn, or how to think about the world? I’m just a random person who had a baby. I made plenty of mistakes in my life. How can I possibly ask my children to obey me?”
This is why we can’t have nice things. This is why healthy toddlers were kept in COVID masks for two years while they sat in sandboxes alone, outside, in rain or sleet. This is why you see massive brawls happening at middle schools, where kids punch their own teachers. This is why children are indoctrinated into the cult of trans, coached and groomed to say their pronouns, to switch genders, to explore various “sexualities” and “identities.” This is why mothers pimp out their own children as “drag kids” and put little boys in princess dresses and post the photos on Instagram while thousands of likes wash over them.
This is what abdicating the parenting throne looks like. Childless weirdos have taken over every institution we look to for guidance on how to raise good citizens, and no, I’m not talking about Catholic priests.
It has become only too clear what this absence of parental authority has wrought. Truly insane people have taken over the American education system, Big Pharma, and Big Tech. They know the best way to reach the Final Solution of the American family is to focus on young, impressionable minds.
We are enjoying the fruits of their labor now: an explosion of teen depression and suicide, an epidemic of children who are confused if they’re boys or girls, and an incredible 40 percent of Gen Z reporting that they are some letter in the ever-expanding alphabet soup known as LGBTQ+.
Everywhere, in every way, the fertile, fallow minds of children are being terraformed by people who identify as “fur baby” parents.
I wouldn’t let fur baby parents walk my dog, let alone educate my eight-year-old.
Authority Atrophied
This is why you must exercise your parental authority early and often. You must speak up!
“No, I don’t want you to ask my teenage son if he’s comfortable with his gender during his doctor visit.”
“No, you can’t wear your sister’s Elsa dress to school today, because boys don’t wear dresses, now get in the car and never ask me that again.”
“No, you can’t buy those shorts that display the entire lower half of your rear end.”
“No, you can’t have a TikTok account, and if I find it on your phone, say goodbye to the phone.”
Parental authority makes you the heavy in the house and the bouncer at the door. Pull on your big boy pants and lay down the law, or the law is going to lay down all over you.
Peachy Keenan is author of Domestic Extremist: A Practical Guide to Winning the Culture War.
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2023.06.08 09:52 ThrowRAZookeeperOdd I(19M) want to start dating my best friend(18F) and I don't know how to approach her

Like the title states I(19M) want to start dating my best friend(18F). We have been friends for about 4,5 years. About 4 years ago her and her friends asked me if I would date her. This was before we we're best friends and just friends. At the time i thought about it and said no. Mainly Because I didn't like her very much simply because I didn't know her. I mean I liked her enough to be friends but not more. (I might have also had a crush at the time but I'm not 100% sure about that.) This happens once more a couple months later.
A year or two later we talked about it alone. We came to the conclusion that we would be better off as friends. However I think that the conclusion was mostly reached because I was too stubborn and also too ashamed to change my opinion about dating her.
I did come up with a couple reasons why I didn't want to date her but in hindsight none of them alone make or break the idea of us dating and most contradict one another. for example: I told her that we were friends for too long to start dating now (which was something she agreed with) yet we talked about that if we had to date someone we already knew something she was the one to talk about first. I even specifically said that if I were to date anyone it would be my best friend not realizing that that would be her. And I don't think she realized either bc she just agreed and continued the conversation like we aren't best friends and that would mean dating eachother.
Now more than 2 and a half years later we have finished school and are mostly just waiting on the result of our exams. After graduation it is very likely that we will never see eachother again. I ofcourse want to avoid this. However I don't know how to approach her with this. How do I tell her that I changed my mind.
I think the biggest problem is if she could feel the same. We haven't been talking a lot because the lack of school and we don't talk alot outside of school. I could text her but I'm always afraid to start conversations first.
Should I even ask her out and if I should how do I go about telling her that I DO want to date her now?
tl;dr I told my best friend u wouldn't date her but now I want to.
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2023.06.08 09:49 Heavy-Actuary2711 I am 24, I have failed in life and I feel like I am running out of time..

Hello everyone I am a 24M. I am about to graduate with my associates degree in business and I am about to apply for an internship at a real estate company. I am sitting here crying my eyes out because my depression will not allow me to take a breather. I sit here and constantly feel like I could have been successful yet I am not. I am graduating from a COMMUNITY COLLEGE and now I am finally getting an internship at 24! I just want to briefly rant about my life story, so here it is..
When I was 17 I had health anxiety and thought so many things were wrong with me for three years. During those three years I developed agoraphobia, an eating disorder, and various forms of OCD. It was hell waking up everyday and dealing with a new imaginary illness or bearing OCD where I would count my breaths or think everything was going to kill me. I had to pay no rent, no bills, and for money I would gamble online and made a few thousands which allowed me to buy things for my hobbies. In 2019 when I was 20 I discovered trading within the stock market. I instantly fell in love and tried to do it full time since I literally could not do anything else. My schedule was filled with doctors, therapists, and so much free time. At this time I was also trying to make youtube videos, or stream on twitch. Despite being trapped in my house I tried my hardest to make the best out of it.
I did not understand how far behind I was from kids my age. I was trapped in this high school, teenage mentality for three years straight. My brother would remind me of my 20th birthday and I would just freak out thinking I was robbed of my youth. The pandemic hit and I put loads of money and time into the stock market. The idea of the pandemic just let me give up on everything. I said fuck my anxiety, my illnesses, and everything holding me back. I did crazy things during the pandemic that I have never done. Drank a lot, took pills, basically gambled all of my covid relief checks in the stock market. It was the worst and best time of my life and I wanted to die every night.
When I turned 21 I finally started consistently taking antidepressants. This is when life changed for real. I was able to hang out with family again, talk to friends again, go outside by myself. I was taking the world again with my mom, and brother by my side. I then applied to community college because my grades were terrible in high school. During the ages 20-22 I would stock trade options all the time for income. During the pandemic 2020 I was a degenerate and did not know what I was doing. I accumulated so much wealth but since I wanted to die I just wanted to go all in everytime. I lost so much money during that year. I then tried to trade when I was 21 after the pandemic started to cool down. I was much more consistent but yet still lost so much money due to my mental and physical health. By the time I was 22 I easily lost over 50 grand trading stock options. I knew how to trade, I understood how to adjust positions and I read books, courses, and every waking moment was dedicating to learning the market.
I realized it was my life outside of trading that really needed to improve. So at the end of me turning 21 to 22 I stopped trading and had a few thousand to my name. I wanted to focus on all the things I could not have done. I was not able to eat outside in public, I was not able to go to the movie theaters, stay out late, etc. I did everything I always wanted to do. I was enjoying the normalcy. I felt normal at 22, going to college online, dating and hooking up with girls. I did what I craved to do. I just always felt like I was late in life to do these things or I was a loser for doing some things for the first time. I turned 23 and had an official girlfriend who we would spend much time together and I was just completing school.
I had no bills, no rent, and a few thousand in my portfolio and bank account so I was just going with the flow. I kept telling myself I am focusing on my mental health. Honestly I was happy, waking up, going to school, reading books, trying so many new things, enjoying a first official girlfriend. Life at 23 was a huge change for me finally. I was at my lowest financially but mentally I was recovering. Now I recently turned 24 a month ago.
At 24 I am basically done with an associates degree, I live at home with my parents, I have slept with a decent amount of girls, I drive a decent bmw, I have a few thousand to my name, I am 5'9, I am super skinny still, insanely insecure about myself, overcame my eating disorder but still battle it daily. I am insecure with my ears, my face, my skin color, my height. I hate myself and I keep reminding myself that all the things i've done in the past years do not count because I did them too late or because I am not where I want to be. I dreamed of living on my own with a nicer car and just having more financial leverage to prove to everyone I did this. I feel like I am running out of time and I am trying to be more consistent with my investments. I am doing things right again and I am aging. What if I never succeed? We all hear stories about those who have chips on their shoulders and make huge successes. Why do we never hear about those who genuinely give up on life?
I sit here and think that I should give up. Anything I do that is new or fun I erase it in my head because I am "not where I want to be." Everything feels fake and feels wrong because I am broke, living at home, and I am in a place my younger self would laugh at. I just wish I could stop thinking about all the money I have lost, the years I lost due to illnesses, and all the "What ifs." I try to workout everyday now, I finally eat everyday, I go outside a lot, I have been more social to strangers, I work on my car with other car people, and I am dating a few girls. I feel like such a fraud. Am I a fraud? I am essentially broke and struggling. I have no bills, no rent, and I have a whole floor to myself. Should I just isolate myself and not live because of how much of a loser I am? Does anyone feel like this?
ANY TIPS OR ANY ADVICE WOULD HELP. IDK IF THIS IS RUMINATION, DEPRESSION OR IDK. I WANT TO BE HAPPIER ABOUT LIFE. I HAVE A THERAPIST, I CURRENTLY HAVE SHITTY INSURANCE BUT ANYTIME I TELL MY THERAPIST THINGS THAT ARE GOING ON HE HAS NOTHING TO CHANGE MY WAY OF THINKING SADLY :/ I'VE BEEN IN AND OUT OF THERAPY FOR YEARS AND I DONT THINK ITS WORKED EVER.
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2023.06.08 09:30 A_horse_a_piece77 Mike Rowe Is On A Mission To Reverse The "Unspeakable Stupidity" Of Devaluing Work

Mike Rowe Is On A Mission To Reverse The
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A few months ago, Mike Rowe stumbled upon a 2011 video of himself speaking in front of the Senate Commerce, Science, and Transportation Committee during the Obama Administration about the mindset of government toward skilled trades. His argument was that skilled trades were the key to saving our economy, not those jobs that require a four-year degree.
His argument fell on deaf ears.
So he went again in April 2014, this time testifying before the House Committee on Natural Resources to discuss the opportunities for skilled trade workers in the energy industry. This time he brought props, specifically the poster his guidance counselor from high school pointed to when he tried to bully Rowe into picking a high-priced university over a community college his senior year.
Rowe said he had nothing against college, but the universities his counselor recommended were expensive. “I had no idea what I wanted to study. I thought a community college made more sense, but Mr. Dunbar said a two-year school was ‘beneath my potential,'” explained Rowe.
“Mr. Dunbar pointed to a poster hanging behind his desk; on one side of the poster was a beaten-down, depressed-looking blue-collar worker. On the other side was an optimistic college graduate with his eyes on the horizon. Underneath them, the text read: Work Smart NOT Hard,” Rowe told the committee.
“Mike, look at these two guys,” Mr. Dunbar said. “Which one do you want to be?”
“I had to read the caption twice. Work Smart NOT Hard?” Rowe recounted.
The visual was jarring, not to mention insulting, yet once again, nothing happened.
Rowe made his final plea to Congress in March 2017 when he once again schlepped to Capitol Hill, this time for the House Subcommittee on Early Childhood, Elementary, and Secondary Education. He discussed how career and technical education (CTE) can help close the skills gap and empower students to succeed, and he stressed the need to reform the current law.
His message was simple: CTE, and skilled trade professions, need a public relations makeover and a champion. “If you want to make America great again, you’ve got to make work cool again,” he said.
“So, my point to Congress was we just have to get people to think differently about the definition of a good job. And we need to put better examples of real people out there who are prospering as the result of learning a trade,” he said.
“We just shot seven or eight PSAs a couple months ago with people who we helped through the trade scholarship fund at the foundation. HVAC workers, plumbers, welders, all making six figures, and I am going to put these PSAs out there in the same spirit of those ads that made people think differently about conservation, and we are going to make people think differently about work,” he said.
The spots are pitch perfect. The first one with Chloe Hudson begins with Rowe dispelling the notion that you cannot make six figures working with your hands. It then cuts to Hudson, a welder who received a work ethic scholarship from mikeroweWORKS and went on to earn six figures a year, talking about the beauty of her life.
“I’m going to raise whatever I have to, I’m going to spend whatever I have to get these examples front and center. So that’s what I’ve got. In a way, it’s nothing new. In another way, it’s me finally saying, ‘Look, this was a good idea 10 years ago, and why not me?’ I’ll do it. I’m going to do it,” Rowe says with his characteristic charm that has endeared him to millions for more than 20 years.
Rowe said people really need to acknowledge the “unspeakable stupidity” of taking shop classes out of high schools 40 years ago. “The unintended consequences of that alone have been unraveling in ways that’s just mind-boggling. We effectively removed from view an entire category of vocations,” he said.
“In the long history of stupidity, you’d have to go a long way to find something dumber than universally removing shop class from high school. But of course, at the same time we did that, we started telling that same generation of kids that the best path for the most people was the most expensive path,” he said of the idea that higher education is the only path to success.
Which brings Rowe to wonder: Were they intentionally telling students who went into trades that they were achieving lower education?
It should make us wonder as well: Who did these decision-makers think was going to take care of their plumbing, fix their car, install their air conditioning, repair their furnace or rewire their house?
Rowe said he knows he is not going to open the eyes of the varsity blues crowd. “I can’t. They’re not persuadable. But there are a lot of people in the middle, a lot of people that just want to feel better about the possibility of exploring a career. So that’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to take my own advice. I’m going to stop telling Congress what to do, and I’m going to do it myself,” he said.
Authored by Salena Zito via American Greatness
https://amgreatness.com/2023/06/05/mike-rowe-is-on-a-mission-to-reverse-the-unspeakable-stupidity-of-devaluing-work/
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2023.06.08 09:30 A_horse_a_piece77 Mike Rowe Is On A Mission To Reverse The "Unspeakable Stupidity" Of Devaluing Work

Mike Rowe Is On A Mission To Reverse The
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A few months ago, Mike Rowe stumbled upon a 2011 video of himself speaking in front of the Senate Commerce, Science, and Transportation Committee during the Obama Administration about the mindset of government toward skilled trades. His argument was that skilled trades were the key to saving our economy, not those jobs that require a four-year degree.
His argument fell on deaf ears.
So he went again in April 2014, this time testifying before the House Committee on Natural Resources to discuss the opportunities for skilled trade workers in the energy industry. This time he brought props, specifically the poster his guidance counselor from high school pointed to when he tried to bully Rowe into picking a high-priced university over a community college his senior year.
Rowe said he had nothing against college, but the universities his counselor recommended were expensive. “I had no idea what I wanted to study. I thought a community college made more sense, but Mr. Dunbar said a two-year school was ‘beneath my potential,'” explained Rowe.
“Mr. Dunbar pointed to a poster hanging behind his desk; on one side of the poster was a beaten-down, depressed-looking blue-collar worker. On the other side was an optimistic college graduate with his eyes on the horizon. Underneath them, the text read: Work Smart NOT Hard,” Rowe told the committee.
“Mike, look at these two guys,” Mr. Dunbar said. “Which one do you want to be?”
“I had to read the caption twice. Work Smart NOT Hard?” Rowe recounted.
The visual was jarring, not to mention insulting, yet once again, nothing happened.
Rowe made his final plea to Congress in March 2017 when he once again schlepped to Capitol Hill, this time for the House Subcommittee on Early Childhood, Elementary, and Secondary Education. He discussed how career and technical education (CTE) can help close the skills gap and empower students to succeed, and he stressed the need to reform the current law.
His message was simple: CTE, and skilled trade professions, need a public relations makeover and a champion. “If you want to make America great again, you’ve got to make work cool again,” he said.
“So, my point to Congress was we just have to get people to think differently about the definition of a good job. And we need to put better examples of real people out there who are prospering as the result of learning a trade,” he said.
“We just shot seven or eight PSAs a couple months ago with people who we helped through the trade scholarship fund at the foundation. HVAC workers, plumbers, welders, all making six figures, and I am going to put these PSAs out there in the same spirit of those ads that made people think differently about conservation, and we are going to make people think differently about work,” he said.
The spots are pitch perfect. The first one with Chloe Hudson begins with Rowe dispelling the notion that you cannot make six figures working with your hands. It then cuts to Hudson, a welder who received a work ethic scholarship from mikeroweWORKS and went on to earn six figures a year, talking about the beauty of her life.
“I’m going to raise whatever I have to, I’m going to spend whatever I have to get these examples front and center. So that’s what I’ve got. In a way, it’s nothing new. In another way, it’s me finally saying, ‘Look, this was a good idea 10 years ago, and why not me?’ I’ll do it. I’m going to do it,” Rowe says with his characteristic charm that has endeared him to millions for more than 20 years.
Rowe said people really need to acknowledge the “unspeakable stupidity” of taking shop classes out of high schools 40 years ago. “The unintended consequences of that alone have been unraveling in ways that’s just mind-boggling. We effectively removed from view an entire category of vocations,” he said.
“In the long history of stupidity, you’d have to go a long way to find something dumber than universally removing shop class from high school. But of course, at the same time we did that, we started telling that same generation of kids that the best path for the most people was the most expensive path,” he said of the idea that higher education is the only path to success.
Which brings Rowe to wonder: Were they intentionally telling students who went into trades that they were achieving lower education?
It should make us wonder as well: Who did these decision-makers think was going to take care of their plumbing, fix their car, install their air conditioning, repair their furnace or rewire their house?
Rowe said he knows he is not going to open the eyes of the varsity blues crowd. “I can’t. They’re not persuadable. But there are a lot of people in the middle, a lot of people that just want to feel better about the possibility of exploring a career. So that’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to take my own advice. I’m going to stop telling Congress what to do, and I’m going to do it myself,” he said.
Authored by Salena Zito via American Greatness
https://amgreatness.com/2023/06/05/mike-rowe-is-on-a-mission-to-reverse-the-unspeakable-stupidity-of-devaluing-work/
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2023.06.08 09:23 wctrc What is a metal fabrication course? What is the use of sheet metal fabrication?

What is a metal fabrication course? What is the use of sheet metal fabrication?
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Exploring the World of Metal Fabrication: Unleash Your Creativity with a Metal Fabrication Course at WCTRC

Have you ever wondered what goes into creating intricate metal structures or transforming raw metal sheets into functional and aesthetically pleasing products? Metal fabrication is a fascinating process that involves cutting, bending, and assembling metal components to bring ideas to life. At www.wctrc.com (Western Canada Technical and Research College), located in Sudbury, Canada, we offer a comprehensive metal fabrication course designed to equip individuals with the skills and knowledge needed to excel in this dynamic field. In this blog post, we will delve into the world of metal fabrication, exploring what a metal fabrication course entails and the diverse applications and benefits of sheet metal fabrication.

Understanding Metal Fabrication

Metal fabrication is a versatile discipline that involves manipulating metal materials to create various structures, products, and components. A metal fabrication course provides students with a deep understanding of the techniques, tools, and processes used in this industry. From reading blueprints and interpreting technical drawings to operating fabrication equipment, students gain hands-on experience that prepares them for realworld applications.
At WCTRC, our metal fabrication course covers a wide range of essential topics, including metal cutting, bending, welding, and assembly. Students learn how to work with different types of metals, such as steel, aluminum, and stainless steel, and develop proficiency in using fabrication tools like shears, press brakes, and welding machines. Through practical exercises and projects, students gain the skills needed to fabricate metal components with precision and craftsmanship.

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The Importance of Sheet Metal Fabrication

Sheet metal fabrication is a specific branch of metal fabrication that focuses on transforming flat metal sheets into various shapes and forms. It is widely used in industries such as mining, construction, automotive, aerospace, and manufacturing.
Sheet metal fabrication offers numerous advantages, including:
  1. Versatility: Sheet metal can be easily shaped, bent, and cut into complex forms, making it a versatile material for creating a wide range of products, from cabinets and enclosures to automotive parts and ventilation systems.
  2. Strength and Durability: Metal sheets offer excellent strength and durability, making them suitable for applications that require structural integrity and resistance to wear and tear.
  3. Precision and Customization: With precise cutting and forming techniques, sheet metal fabrication allows for high levels of customization, ensuring that products meet specific design requirements and dimensions.
  4. Cost-Effectiveness: Sheet metal fabrication techniques are often cost-effective, as they minimize material waste and can be efficiently automated for mass production.
Benefits of Enrolling in a Metal Fabrication Course at WCTRC By enrolling in a metal fabrication course at WCTRC, students can unlock a world of opportunities and benefits. Our course offers several advantages, including:
  1. Comprehensive Curriculum: Our metal fabrication course provides a well-rounded education, covering fundamental concepts, practical skills, and industry best practices. Students gain the knowledge and expertise necessary to excel in the field.
  2. Hands-On Training: At WCTRC, we prioritize hands-on learning to ensure students develop practical skills and confidence in metal fabrication techniques. Our state-ofthe-art facilities and experienced instructors create a conducive learning environment.
  3. Industry-Relevant Skills: Our course is designed to align with industry standards, equipping students with the skills demanded by employers. Graduates are wellprepared to enter the workforce or pursue further specialization in the field.
  4. Career Opportunities: The field of metal fabrication offers a wide range of career opportunities, including jobs in manufacturing, construction, automotive, and more. By completing our course, students enhance their employability and open doors to fulfilling careers
  5. Supportive Learning Environment: WCTRC fosters a supportive and collaborative learning environment, where students can engage with peers, share ideas, and receive guidance from experienced instructors. This encourages growth, creativity, and teamwork.
  6. Career Services and Job Placement Support: As a reputable institution, WCTRC offers career services and job placement support to help students transition into the workforce. We assist students with resume building, interview preparation, and connecting with potential employers.
Conclusion
Embarking on a metal fabrication course at WCTRC opens the door to a world of possibilities in the field of metalworking. From gaining practical skills in cutting, bending, and welding to exploring the exciting realm of sheet metal fabrication, our comprehensive program equips students with the knowledge and experience needed to succeed. With a focus on hands-on training, industry relevance, and supportive learning, WCTRC is dedicated to empowering individuals to unleash their creativity and pursue rewarding careers in metal fabrication. Visit our website at www.wctrc.com to learn more about our metal fabrication course and take the first step towards a fulfilling and dynamic future in this exciting field.
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FAQs

What is metal sheet fabrication?

Metal sheet fabrication is a process that involves transforming flat metal sheets into various shapes and forms. It includes cutting, bending, and shaping the metal sheets to create components and products used in industries such as construction, automotive, aerospace, and manufacturing. Sheet metal fabrication offers versatility, strength, precision, and costeffectiveness, making it an essential technique in the manufacturing and production of a wide range of products.

What are the three 3 types of metal fabrication?

  1. Cutting: This involves the process of separating metal sheets or parts by using cutting tools such as saws, lasers, or plasma cutters.
  2. Forming: Forming refers to the shaping and bending of metal sheets or parts to achieve desired shapes and angles. Common techniques include bending, rolling, and stamping.
  3. Joining: Joining involves connecting separate metal parts together to create a larger structure. Welding, soldering, and fastening methods like riveting and bolting are commonly used for joining metal components.

What is difference between fabrication and sheet metal?

The main difference between fabrication and sheet metal lies in their scope and application. Fabrication refers to the overall process of creating structures or products from various materials, including metals. It involves cutting, shaping, and assembling multiple components to construct the desired item.
On the other hand, sheet metal specifically refers to the type of metal used in fabrication. Sheet metal is a thin and flat piece of metal that can be easily shaped and manipulated. It is commonly used in fabrication processes due to its versatility and malleability.
In summary, fabrication is the broader term encompassing the entire process of creating structures or products, while sheet metal is a specific type of metal often utilized in fabrication due to its formability.

What are the steps involved in sheet metal fabrication?

The steps involved in sheet metal fabrication typically include:
  1. Design: Create a detailed design or blueprint of the desired product or component.
  2. Material Selection: Choose the appropriate type and thickness of sheet metal for the project.
  3. Cutting: Use cutting tools such as shears, laser cutters, or plasma cutters to accurately cut the sheet metal into the required shape or size.
  4. Bending: Utilize press brakes or other bending equipment to bend the sheet metal along predetermined lines or angles.
  5. Forming: Employ techniques like rolling, stamping, or deep drawing to shape the sheet metal into more complex forms or contours.
  6. Joining: Join separate sheet metal pieces together using welding, riveting, soldering, or fasteners.
  7. Finishing: Apply surface treatments, such as grinding, sanding, or polishing, to achieve the desired appearance and smoothness.
  8. Assembly: Assemble the fabricated sheet metal components along with other parts to complete the final product or structure. These steps may vary depending on the complexity of the project and the specific requirements of the sheet metal fabrication process.
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2023.06.08 09:02 Complex_Matter_2775 engineering/stem majors, any advice for a freshman?

was planning on writing an update since my last post about coping before winter finals, but it ended up being too long so i'm just here to ask for advice again. if you replied under that post or pm'ed me, just know i've been coming back to your replies/messages very often bc they've brought me comfort during my struggles. i'd like to reply to everyone from that post soon, but if you see this before i do that, thank you.
gonna try to keep this as short as possible. to sum up, i'm a freshman in civil engineering, and i'm struggling about the same as, if not worse than, last quarter. been trying my best to study for my finals bc they're my last chance at passing my physics and math classes. honestly, i don't think i can get anything higher than maybe a C+ if im lucky bc i completely failed my midterms. aka, my gpa is going to tank, and if im even the slightest hopeful, my GPA might be a 2.7-2.8 by the end of my freshman year.
been looking around, hearing people's stories, and reading the advice they have. been trying to tell myself its not the end of the world if i get C's this quarter bc it truly isnt. i know i have plenty of time to bring my GPA up and plenty of time to get internships, do research, etc. to make up for my GPA. plenty of time to fix my study habits bc people said you get better and learn to work harder as you go. and plenty of time to get the help i need for my mental health.
but of course, as anyone else would, i still have my worries. and despite how i can definitely bring up my gpa, it seems to be harder to raise in comparison to how quickly it drops. im anxious about upper divs bc it doesnt seem to get easier, not unless my personal growth is faster than the rising difficulty in my classes. i've also been concerned about whether or not i'll end up switching majors too bc stem is really giving me a run for my money, but i put that thought away for a bit bc the idea of having to consider a different major when all i can imagine myself in is civil engineering was making my head spin.
i feel like i had more to say, but my brain is getting muddled, im sorry. again, i dont mean to sound like im whining if it came off that way somewhere along the line of me explaining.
so for anyone who's been able to recover from a shit freshman year, anyone who's been given advice for similar situations, etc, do you have any insight to pass down? did it get better for you during your time here? did you end up raising your GPA the way you wanted or end up switching to a major you were happier with?
and specifically for engineering/stem majors, what do you think is important towards getting a job after graduating? how much does your GPA really weigh in these situations? did you go to grad school or were you able to find a job after undergrad? all these questions are just food for thought if you do have any advice!
thank you, and wishing everyone luck on their finals!
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2023.06.08 09:01 joshmcormick Troubleshoot for DIY Fume Extractor

Troubleshoot for DIY Fume Extractor
I made this DIY fume extractor using a cardboard box, duct tape, computer fans, and a 4inch diameter - 25ft length dryer vent hose. The idea is that the fumes are sucked in by the fans, and then go out the hose, which will go out the window (about 20ft from my workspace.)
Functionally, it "works", but with the hose attached there is almost no air coming out of it, and most of the air seems to be coming back out of the fans. I can't figure out why it isn't working properly, any ideas? I'm thinking either the box is too small, or the hose is too narrow/long?
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2023.06.08 08:58 sevenandsix Best place to find jobs? (UK)

I’ve just graduated university and now I’m on the hunt for work, however I really have no idea where to start. Can anyone suggest any websites or apps that might be a good place to start looking?
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2023.06.08 08:53 ThrowAway_WishfulT Recovery Feels Never Ending

Throwaway Account because I am active on my main with my close circle & apologise for the formatting as I am on my phone (and also bc I copied n pasted after trying to post this to a vent sub but it needed a karma limit) $45 just got taken out of my bank account which at normal point in my life would have been okay but today seems like the last straw. Recently, I have moved house for study approx 13hrs from my hometown but only 6 from where i used to live as I became homeless at 15 when my alcoholic father kicked me out. I never really enjoyed school and managed to score a full time job with some really supportive adult co workers so I was mostly fine and just couch surfed with school friends and other highschool drop outs sending half of my money back to my dad so he could still eat until I decided I wanted to do more.I started studying at my local University at 17 and worked to support myself and slowly stopped supporting my father. I am now 20 and studying my honours year at a different uni- I have been offered a full time paid internship +mentorship with the potential for a job afterwards at a company for my dream career, but it required me to move closer to my campus instead of being online and at home. I did not want to miss out on this opportunity so I packed up my life at the start of this year to complete the required studies to start in Nov. The plan was to survive on my savings and government student benefits until then, which was all going perfect until a few weeks ago when I heard news my fathers cancer had gotten worse and my car broke down on the drive to see him. I knew he was diagnosed a while ago but it was never serious so I never made contact. He is pretty close to dying and I was scared I would lose him without ever having given us a chance at a healed relationship and I hoped he would be proud of the life I was starting to build for myself. Instead all he did was make me feel guilty about the cost of his medicine and ask me for money. I explained to him I couldn't give him any as I was on a tight budget because my aforementioned savings had been blown on a new car because my first one broke. Things got heated and I left. In my time away from home I have created a really close support network to the point where we all live together to save money with the rising rental costs (an idea i pitched that really hasn't made much difference to their lifestyles but is the only reason I eat enough these days). We all study and this semester some of us are graduating and others of us are just starting new things like my internship. To celebrate they have organised a week of partying before we all get back into our studies, an old tradition from when some of us were still just baby undergrads. I am a huge extrovert and there is nothing more in the world I love than spending time with this people, but as I have always been supporting myself and admittedly most of them have fairly wealthy parents I have had to create an introvert persona as an excuse to spend time with them doing low cost activities (board games nights, cooking them dinner, movies etc.). Their parents give them allowances so their nights out often consist of things like theme parks, dinners, clubbing and concerts that I will generally tag along to once every 12mnths if i can afford to save for it. I adjusted my budget this fortnight to spare myself $20 to go to dinner with them one of the nights. I am on the train home from the beach and $45 just came out from a gym membership I forgot to pause in all the mixed emotions from seeing my father. I had my rent and $37 dollars left. $20 of that was for the celebration dinner and the rest was supposed to be groceries for me and my cat. Now I can't even afford my rent let alone celebrate milestones with people i consider important. I have never been late for an expense before and my friends know I have less than them but they don't know the true extent of the generational poverty I am escaping. I managed to scrounge up some spare change and buy food for my cat and I have rice, butter, broth, eggs, coffee and milk so we will be fine. I am not asking for assistance. I have no one to blame but my frazzled state, I am just disappointed that I will have to make an excuse to miss dinner and also somehow borrow the few dollars I am now short on rent. I wish I could talk to them about it I know they wouldn't judge me but they would never understand. It just feels like I will never be able to heal or escape from the consequences of my childhood and the extremely dark times of my early through to teenage years. I have therapy this week that I luckily prepaid but until then it's cuddling my cat and comfort shows lol. thanks for reading guys i just needed to let it out instead of heading into a negative self spiral over a small mistake.
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2023.06.08 08:48 NoteNo359 I’m too stupid for college

I’m currently a sophomore in high school and every day I worry about college I have a hard time paying attention in school heck I’m surprised I passed middle school I am so stupid most of what I’m learning rn goes into one ear and leave out of the other ear I am so bad at taking notes, I have no idea what studying even means I have no idea how to study I am worried that I’m just gonna end up homeless I am autistic and very stupid.
What can I do should I just go and give up and accept the point I will end up a beggar and asking for money on the streets? I have no potential in even graduating high school I’ve been and with my grades since middle school and I am still struggling why am I so stupid I try studying I try taking notes but I end up taking the worst notes that they don’t ever help me and I’m just going back and forth to my nites to look like I’m smart and reading important details when in reality I’m procrastinating which answer I should choose.
I’m not like other people I have no potential and I’m so scared of failure what should I do before I end up with a cardboard sign on the freeway?
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2023.06.08 08:45 BaseballPanda22 What would I be able to do with a Sustainability BA?

So, I’m in my mid 20s, and i’m in need of a career path (I’ve gotten to the point in my life where I can’t just keep kicking that can down the road). I work at Starbucks, and I’ve been considering doing their free college program at ASU. Looking at some of the degree options, I saw the sustainability BA listed, and from what I saw on the website, it seems like something I’d probably be interested in.
I’ve always had an interest in environmental/sustainability issues, and being able to play some part in solving one of the world’s biggest challenges is obviously appealing.
This might be a stupid question, but would it be a good idea to get this degree? What sorts of things would a sustainability degree qualify me to do?
Is there a decent job market for graduates in sustainability? For example, is there a demand for people to work for, say, sports teams to deal with the environmental impact of their operations? Thanks for helping me out!
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2023.06.08 08:44 joshmcormick DIY Fume Extractor Troubleshoot

I made this DIY fume extractor using a cardboard box, duct tape, computer fans, and a 4inch diameter - 25ft length dryer vent hose. The idea is that the fumes are sucked in by the fans, and then go out the hose, which will go out the window (about 20ft from my workspace.)
Functionally, it “works”, but with the hose attached there is almost no air coming out of it, and most of the air seems to be coming back out of the fans. I can’t figure out why it isn’t working properly, any ideas? I’m thinking either the box is too small, or the hose is too narrow/long?
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2023.06.08 08:40 PanicParade7 AITA for telling my long time friend that I didn’t want him to date my sister.

Long time lurker, on mobile and not a great storyteller so sorry for formatting. I (f22) met my friend T (M22), 7 years ago in my freshman year of high school. We became best friends sophomore year and did everything together.
After about 2 years of friendship we decided to date (both 17). Then about 2 months later, with him moving to another state and him getting into marijuana casually(important later), we went back to being friends. The day of the breakup we talked for hours and I obviously still cared for him.
I have one sister that is dear to me. She loves music and T plays guitar and wrote songs so she adored him. Cut to after graduation, T and I are 19, still friends and sister is 16. My sister says she might have feelings for T. T was still using marijuana and has told me that he is addicted and that I was right when I said it was a snowball effect.
I told her I didn’t want her to date him. He was not only my best friend and ex but she was a minor and he wasn’t. Plus, drug use isn’t something to take lightly and I didn’t think it was a good idea. Plus, at the time I didn’t think he was interested in her. She dropped it and I never heard much about it again.
Present time, T and I are 22. My sister is 19. T and I have lost touch some with T as I have joined the military, got married and moved a couple of times. T is back in our home town, and has been hanging out with sister to write music which I of course didn’t mind. One night my sister got drunk and kissed T. I wasn’t aware until later but I wasn’t upset, after all it was a long time ago. T and I started talking recently and he mentioned that sister wouldn’t want to hang out with him because they “had an honest conversation about feelings and that she said no”.
I stated that it could be my fault and referenced the comment I had when she was 16 saying it might be my fault she said no. He says he understood and thanked me for telling him. After a few days of silence, he apologizes and then says he was a little upset about the situation but got over it. I apologized for it again and moved on.
My sister called me a few days ago and clarified the situation saying that she did not want to be with T and thanked me for “taking the blame”. She then said that T thinks I’m still in love with him even though he was at my wedding. T messaged me a few days later and asked why I said no to sister so I explained the above reasons in the most cordial way I felt possible and asked why it mattered to him.
He went off on me saying that nobody thinks him dating my sister is weird and that I’m selfish, jealous and in denial. He kept pushing this I jealousy and said I just couldn’t admit it.
We got into a big argument but I kept stressing that I said no years ago when she was a minor and that I wasn’t jealous. I might be the asshole because I called him a dick and said he was not the friend I knew in high school. He deleted me and sister from Snapchat.
So Reddit AITA?
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2023.06.08 08:40 ososoppy I just have to get through it

i basically have been forced back into the closet, which isn’t ideal. my parents will basically just go off if i do anything they consider “trans” or if i try to spend time with people they consider trans influences which was basically all my friends, not that i have much of a choice. it’s dumb, but i’m so close to graduating and being able to get a job and fend for myself.
the whole experience has really put me off on the idea of hrt unfortunately. they have made it very clear that they would consider that as a betrayal and i don’t know what would go wrong if they ever found out. so my only real goal at this point is to move out and to become physically very fem in other ways, if that’s a problem for them then they can go cry about it.
i’m really glad i’m not going through it alone too. i have my girlfriend, and though i’m not allowed to see her i still find my chances to sneak over to her city. i just can’t wait to be free of the house of people who need to be in control. i hate that i feel like i owe them, but i refuse to respect the decisions of people who never even tried to understand where i was coming from and believe that they are in the right to control my body and appearance.
i hope everyone is having a good night tonight, and i wish luck to those who are going through similar and worse experiences. maybe one day people who believe in unquestioned authority can get the sticks out of their asses.
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2023.06.08 08:19 helpless11 AuvelityDIY - dosage/frequency/side effects

Hello, recently I presented this Auvelity "DIY" idea to my doctor (Auvelity medication is not available in the EU yet), he agreed to the treatment and gave me a prescription for Wellbutrin. I had to order DXM tablets from the US (it's a nightmare to buy them in Europe).
This week, Ive started taking Wellbutrin 150mg(controlled-release version) once in the morning, and 30mg of DXM Hbr before going to bed.
Besides that, I also take escitalopram 5mg, and Ive been treated with ketamine nasal spray for the past 2 years (unfortunately it's no longer working for me).
I believe I am supposed to take DXM together with my morning dose of Wellbutrin, but since DXM makes me foggy, spaced out, forgetful, and dizzy (hopefully my body gets used to these side effects soon), then I would much rather prefer taking it at night instead.
I also suffer from sleep problems, and I have a feeling, that dxm is helping a bit with my sleep issues.
I have a few questions that I've been wondering about:
I also wonder, what protocol works best for you in terms of dosage, frequency, and time of medication intake?

Thank you!
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2023.06.08 08:14 AideConscious9516 My (25F) best friend (24M) is in immense pain because of his cheating bf (24M) and I don’t know how to help

Hi Reddit so this is my second post so l'm sorry if the structure is off or if this is in some way incoherent, English is not my first language.
I'm female 25 and my best friend since high school, male 24, is going through something with his current bf, 24-25 male, and I have no idea how to help.
Ever since we were in high school I guess you could call my friend a player or womanizer, he has absolutely no trouble pulling the cutest girl and despite this, he has had like 3 relationships each of which has lasted for many years. He is overall a great dude, he is like a brother to me and even though he is not everyones cup of tea I love him like a brother. After graduating high school he moved out of state to study medicine while I stayed home, we basically see each other maybe once or twice a month to hang out and he is always the one to come back, however this last few months he has been off.
Today we sat down and he told me he is for the first time in his life in a relationship with a guy, I have met the guy maybe twice. My friend is so in love, I have never seen him this infatuated with anyone, the way he spoke of him genuinely shocked me, however this guy is a real piece of work, from what my friend told me, he is constantly cheating on him, leaving him behind and basically using him as a doormat. My friend was very depressed talking about offing himself and telling me he had considered checking himself into a mental institution. This is all very concerning because number one, he has basically no support system where he lives, all his friends live here and he is feeling more alone than ever before, but also concerning is that he is a smart guy, he is aware of the way this guy is treating him, he knows it's wrong and he knows he is suffering more because of this guy but even though he is aware of all of this, he is in love, he can't help it, and it kills me to see him this hurt. We were watching a movie and he decided to check were his bf was and he saw his location on a guys house and he just started to cry telling me how he just knew he was cheating on him right then and there.
Now, I’m not very good at dealing with emotional stuff, I was telling him throughout all this how he deserves better and how important he was to me while hugging him and giving reassuring pets and stuff, I don’t know if I was too clingy but I just felt like I wasn’t helping at all. I know listening is very helpful but when he told me about his suicidal thoughts I felt very powerless, I don’t know how I can help him at all, I don’t know what to do to help. He is leaving back in a few days to where he lives and I’m so scared for him, I could really use some help here. I basically sent him a message after he left about how important he is to me and that I will do anything in my power to help but I feel like it’s not enough, if anyone has been through something similar I would greatly appreciate any form of advice
Thanks for reading till the end
TLDR my friend is in pain. How can I help him deal with this? What can I say to him to help him?
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2023.06.08 07:49 Marcin222111 Working in the the Gulf Countries (Qatar, Kuwait, Bahrain, UAI) from Poland after graduating from university.

So I'm trying to find my way after graduation. One year from now I will have 3 bachelor programmes completed - all business related from Warsaw University, Warsaw School of Economics and German Europa Universitat Viadrina.
One of my ideas is moving to work to one of the Gulf Countries. I would love to continue goal to reach my Master's on one of their Universities too.
I've got 2 two years of Business Experience working in the Salesforce environment as well as in Marketing, organising business conferences and demo sessions for clients.
So dear friends from Middle East, would you kindly answer to some of my questions:
  1. How do you find job in a Middle East from Europe? What are the best sites to apply for a work? Would you think that without any language skill at the biggining I would be able to obtain a consulting/marketing sector, best suited for me would be IT related work.
  2. What are the best universities to continue studying management, global business or similar courses?
  3. Should I be vary of some things as a white Polish agnostic? I would probably not engage any religious activities. Are there any negative stereotypes that can affect my life?
  4. And generaly what are the cost of life in those countries, compared to salary? I would love to save a bit and send some financial help to my family back in Poland.
Thank you for all your potential help! I had a chance to move, I would of course try to learn Arabic.
Edit/ or maybe you think I should wait a bit and finish my Masters in Europe?
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