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2023.05.29 04:31 philosopheraps i can't sleep every night because of this type of itch
please help me i really need to be able to sleep every night
you know when people say they feel itchy and describe the itch as "pins and needles" but there are no actual pins and needles it's just the feeling of the itch? well, mine doesn't feel like that. it feels more like "feathers/hair" and "ant walking on you" but without anything walking on me, including hair. in addition, it appears randomly in very random places; i could be lying down, and suddenly, without a single object coming close to me, i feel an itch in my thigh for example. i scratch it. then another one appears INSTANTLY in my head/scalp. i scratch it. then it appears instantly in my foot. i scratch and and before i get my hand back in its place, the next thing i know is it appeared in two other places in my body (arm and waist for example). very separate places as you see, and the itch comes without a clear reason hence as i said, it appears instantly after i scratch the previous one. and even if i say i will ignote it and won't scratch, it DOESN'T get better it only gets stronger and drives me more insane and can make me meltdown if not dealt with.
it's a soft-texture type of itch (doesn't feel like pins and needles nor mosquito bites), but that doesn't mean it's not intense. because that feeling can be present so long and ao strongly and will ONLY get stronger if i scratch it very hard. it's actually intense enough to make me not sleep for 4 hours while lying in bed because my choices are stay awake because you're scratching your whole body, or stay awake because the itch feeling is strong and unbearable it makes your skin feel as if it's screaming
does that have anything to do with autism? if not, which subreddit should i post this on? what is that type of itch? please help me because i really wanna have a good night's sleep for once instead of being sleep deprived in my classes and exams
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you know when people say they feel itchy and describe the itch as "pins and needles" but there are no actual pins and needles it's just the feeling of the itch? well, mine doesn't feel like that. it feels more like "feathers/hair" and "ant walking on you" but without anything walking on me, including hair. in addition, it appears randomly in very random places; i could be lying down, and suddenly, without a single object coming close to me, i feel an itch in my thigh for example. i scratch it. then another one appears INSTANTLY in my head/scalp. i scratch it. then it appears instantly in my foot. i scratch and and before i get my hand back in its place, the next thing i know is it appeared in two other places in my body (arm and waist for example). very separate places as you see, and the itch comes without a clear reason hence as i said, it appears instantly after i scratch the previous one. and even if i say i will ignote it and won't scratch, it DOESN'T get better it only gets stronger and drives me more insane and can make me meltdown if not dealt with.
it's a soft-texture type of itch (doesn't feel like pins and needles nor mosquito bites), but that doesn't mean it's not intense. because that feeling can be present so long and ao strongly and will ONLY get stronger if i scratch it very hard. it's actually intense enough to make me not sleep for 4 hours while lying in bed because my choices are stay awake because you're scratching your whole body, or stay awake because the itch feeling is strong and unbearable it makes your skin feel as if it's screaming
does that have anything to do with autism? if not, which subreddit should i post this on? what is that type of itch? please help me because i really wanna have a good night's sleep for once instead of being sleep deprived in my classes and exams
2023.05.29 04:31 UniqueUserName_93 Just found out how my mom got her masters degree and I'm PISSED
My mom was a teacher in a private school (she started teaching in the 1980s) She didn't attend college for credit - she sat in on her friends' lower level classes (mainly psychology and sociology) and did tests and assignments not for credit/grades. She wrote her own transcript when her friends graduated and applied to be a teacher's assistant and the school said that she had as many college "credits" as a graduated and certified teacher, so they GAVE HER A POSITION AS A REAL TEACHER. No certification, no pedagogy classes, no teaching experience, nothing!
Over the next few years, she'd teach during the day and sit in on her husband's night classes a few times a month (mainly health and math), wrote another transcript(!!!) and was given a master's by the school she was working for. She went on to work for another private school that acknowledged this "masters degree" and gave her a higher salary. Side note: she didn't teach any of the subjects she sat in on.
Now that I'm moving on to teach at a different school, she's bragging about how "at [my] age", she had a masters and made nearly double what I make. Um... excuse me? Listen, Boomer (yes, she is a Baby Boomer), I had to teach, unpaid, as a resident for a full school year (my university has since changed this policy so now the residents do get paid and its only 1 semester!) I paid my tuition by working, sometimes 2 jobs, over every weekend, break, vacation, and other available hour I could squeeze out of my days. I worked hard jobs with terrible people in shitty conditions for laughable pay. She retired to be a SAHM when I was born in 1993 - I will NEVER be able to retire because her generation ruined the economy!
She's not this genius that I used to think she was! She's not even a certified teacher!!! Though I'll never tell her this, she will NEVER have my respect as a professional again. I love her and I respect her as my mother, but she will not be held in such high regards again.
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Over the next few years, she'd teach during the day and sit in on her husband's night classes a few times a month (mainly health and math), wrote another transcript(!!!) and was given a master's by the school she was working for. She went on to work for another private school that acknowledged this "masters degree" and gave her a higher salary. Side note: she didn't teach any of the subjects she sat in on.
Now that I'm moving on to teach at a different school, she's bragging about how "at [my] age", she had a masters and made nearly double what I make. Um... excuse me? Listen, Boomer (yes, she is a Baby Boomer), I had to teach, unpaid, as a resident for a full school year (my university has since changed this policy so now the residents do get paid and its only 1 semester!) I paid my tuition by working, sometimes 2 jobs, over every weekend, break, vacation, and other available hour I could squeeze out of my days. I worked hard jobs with terrible people in shitty conditions for laughable pay. She retired to be a SAHM when I was born in 1993 - I will NEVER be able to retire because her generation ruined the economy!
She's not this genius that I used to think she was! She's not even a certified teacher!!! Though I'll never tell her this, she will NEVER have my respect as a professional again. I love her and I respect her as my mother, but she will not be held in such high regards again.
2023.05.29 04:31 NoMobile7426 The third temple will be built when Messiah is here in the future.
Christianity emphasizes the priesthood has been changed and that Jesus is the new high priest. Yet note no one from the tribe of Judah in the Davidic line is high priest here in the future temple. The sons of Zadok are in the levitical line from Aaron. Zadok was the first high priest of Solomon's Temple.
Eze 44:15 But the Kohenim, the Levites, the sons of Zadok, that kept the charge of My sanctuary when the children of Israel went astray from Me, they shall come near to Me to minister unto Me; and they shall stand before Me to offer unto Me the fat and the blood, saith Adonai YHWH; 16 they shall enter into My sanctuary, and they shall come near to My table, to minister unto Me, and they shall keep My charge.
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Eze 44:15 But the Kohenim, the Levites, the sons of Zadok, that kept the charge of My sanctuary when the children of Israel went astray from Me, they shall come near to Me to minister unto Me; and they shall stand before Me to offer unto Me the fat and the blood, saith Adonai YHWH; 16 they shall enter into My sanctuary, and they shall come near to My table, to minister unto Me, and they shall keep My charge.
2023.05.29 04:30 _thedogfather_ [P&P Round 2] Completely Sane Industries Reliant 'B' Light Tank
![[P&P Round 2] Completely Sane Industries Reliant 'B' Light Tank](https://b.thumbs.redditmedia.com/Lw6GGYiMdNF_Yx2COXO03WCOksBRArQ8sFwRsagiSeM.jpg "[P&P Round 2] Completely Sane Industries Reliant 'B' Light Tank") | submitted by _thedogfather_ to SprocketTankDesign [link] [comments] HEY, THIS IS NOT WHAT I MEANT WHEN I ASKED FOR A HALF TRACK! Trust me, I'm an engineer. A well-dressed kobold stands alone at the front of the room, shuffling note cards and sipping something that fizzes and smells awful. Clearing his throat, he begins: Before we get into the full presentation, I'd like to thank the organization for their feedback on our ‘Precious’ prototype. We've incorporated numerous improvements to our design process as a direct result of that feedback, most prominently the consideration of crew members larger than kobolds. We do ask, however, that you please save any questions related to the unconventional layout of the tank to the end. I believe we'll be able to answer your questions during the presentation. Our Reliant 'B' prototype. The 'A' variant has been cannibalized for parts and the engine returned to Infernal Armories after numerous complaints about it's, ah, appetite. Plus, from this view, it almost looks like a normal tank. You asked for a new light tank design with unparalleled speed, visibility, and enough armor to survive any unfortunate engagements with the enemy, while also carrying sufficient firepower to eliminate any targets of opportunity that may present themselves. With the Reliant B prototype, we feel we have the answer to your problems. No photographers were harmed in the making of this pitch. First, speed: The Reliant can reach a top speed of just over 40 mph forward and (while slow to accelerate) 36 mph backwards as well. Using the M89 engine means the Reliant accomplishes this through nonmagical methods, so that even in the case of an antimagic field, the tank remains mobile. Driving around our proving grounds. Regarding engines- this prototype is equipped with the M89 8-cylinder option. We found the slightly reduced engine power was an acceptable tradeoff after an intern on a tour with Infernal Armories was nearly consumed by their prototype. Using the lighter engine allowed us to add additional armor, resulting in better protection for minimal loss of speed. Luckily, the intern survived with no detectable loss of brainpower. Upper view- note the oversized rear engine deck, forward fuel tanks, and offset exhaust. Coupling the high speed with twin 10 speed transmissions gives the tank excellent turning performance at speed, and while the unconventional layout makes turning in place something of a misnomer, it is capable of it. 100% MORE TANK PER TRACK UNIT THAN OUR COMPETITORS As this is a scout tank, visibility is a top priority- we've set up the driver position with three linked view ports giving a 90 degree clear view to the front, supplemented by two additional side periscopes. For night driving, six lights cover the full 180 degree arc to the front. In the turret, the commander's cupola is equipped with a separate spotlight, and a further 4 lights are attached covering the front arc of the turret- the multiple lights and coverages allow the crew to look in separate directions regardless of day or night conditions. The risk of being spotted by the enemy was deemed minimal considering the engine is loud enough to be heard from nearly a mile away- this tank relies on speed, not stealth, to accomplish its mission. The tank carries a crew of only 3- a dedicated driver, a combination gunneloader, and commanderadioman. While multiple roles can be difficult in combat, we've left as much space as possible for each crewman to avoid cramping them too much. 6 hull lights, 4 turret lights, 1 cupola light. Definitely not subtle, but at least you can see where you're going, where you've been, and where your friends are. An internal 550 liter tank gives a reasonable combat radius, but the addition of 300 liters of additional fuel in quick-detachable external tanks significantly extends the range, allowing longer scout missions without increasing the size of the vehicle. Excellent view of the forward tanks, taken after a mishap during hill climb trials. To reduce the risk of being immobilized in enemy territory, a complete set of replacement road wheels and idlers are mounted on the fenders, with additional spare track links. Use of small bogie style suspension allows the crew to perform the maintenance themselves, even if they're all kobolds. Not that unlike torsion bar suspensions, ours is entirely outside the vehicle- provided you can at least get the rear of the vehicle on jacks or blocks, you can fix it without need heavy equipment. Extra road wheels/idler wheels (identically sized for supply chain commonality) Armor is still fairly thin, but for a light tank it's an efficient layout. We’ve managed to meet the 17mm protection request, at least for sides and rear of both turret and hull, without exceeding the weight limit. Hull frontal thickness is approximately 73mm all over, with side and rear armor of 18mm for both hull and turret- note that the turret front is actually slightly less well protected, at only 69mm. The bottom is protected by only 10mm plate. The hull top plate was increased to 12 mm, and the turret top increased to 18mm due to the high risk of attack by enemy aircraft. Use of the tank's incredible visibility is strongly encouraged to avoid minefields, as even light antipersonnel mines are likely to penetrate the lower hull. The turret is equipped with the ToM104 3” field gun, primarily for the versatility offered by the wide selection of ammunition types. Carrying only 55 rounds (15 in the turret ready rack, 40 in the hull) means you won't be engaging in long, drawn out fights, but gives enough capacity to pack a few of each type of round to ensure you can pick off any lightly defended targets you find- storage caches, convoys, command posts, etc. A cupola machine gun is mounted above the turret for the commander, and a coaxial machine is also fitted for cases where the main gun is low on ammo. Main gun, coax MG, and cupola MG. Now, to address the layout- yes, we're aware that tanks generally have treads running the full length of the tank, but frankly we determined through testing that it simply wasn't necessary and added too much weight to the tank. Instead, we fitted much shorter tracks to the rear section and replaced the forward portion with an extended skid plate. Interestingly, this configuration actually improved step climb performance (from almost nothing to clearing the 0.75m step) and had no impact on hill climb, keeping the original 40 degree target from our internal specifications for light tanks. Clearing the 0.75m step- a small running start is required. Not just clearing the 40 degree slope, but catching air at the top. Altogether, this tank provides the complete package- speed, visibility, protection, and enough firepower to handle light targets. Reliance on magic is minimized to avoid complicated maintenance requirements, and in fact an anti magic field will have almost no effect on the tank. Superior hill climb performance means a squadron can strike or disengage through paths many would consider impossible terrain, like this prototype cresting the steep slopes adjacent to the shore on our proving grounds. — Out of character notes: Once again, thanks to u/28th_Stab_Wound for putting on the contest, it's been a blast building these things and being able to exercise a bit of an unconventional flair on the design side. If at any time these pitches become too outlandish for the lore you're working towards, let me know and I'll tone it down. For now, though, I'm just having fun :D Thanks to u/Terianis for allowing me to include the Infernal Armories reference, and for the inspiration to attempt this absolutely ridiculous hill climb test- I'm still flabbergasted by the things we can climb with the traction changes lately, and the fact that I can make a 9 ton tank with skinny little tracks covering less than half the length of the tank climb a hill like that is just bonkers. While the Reliant can't compete with IA's entry, it can climb the lesser portion of the slopes by the waterfall at the shore. Seconds from disaster- this is what happens you challenge a tank driven by a construct engine fueled by the flesh and souls of its enemies. Disaster imminent Even inverted, the sole hatch is still accessible! |
2023.05.29 04:30 BigToeJ0e Getting started in dog sports (interested in obedience).
Hello everyone! I would really appreciate some advice on how to get started in dog sports (really interested in obedience right now). My golden retriever is 3 years old right now and I’ve always been very interested in obedience and figured you all were great people to ask! Some questions I’d appreciate some help with
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- Best place to find events near me?
- What training equipment do I need?
2023.05.29 04:30 JoshP99 Are You Smarter than a Random Picker? Race 05 Results + Race 06 Predictions
 | Results submitted by JoshP99 to JellesMarbleRuns [link] [comments] OverviewRace 05 Pick DistributionNot sure what there is to say this week. The season frontrunners are at the top, the Black Jacks (BJK) Chocolatiers (CHO) are in the basement again, and there's exactly 1 team with more than 20 doubler (2x) picks. There really are only 2 noteworthy placemenbts in this list, and they're both teams that received too many picks. Starting us off, Ecto (ECT) stumbled and could not recover, leading to yet another Overrated verdict. As for Bolt (BLT), the seasoned veteran's struggles have continued, setting the tone for their entire first half of the season. Let's instead talk about the computer. I will admit, Shimmer (SHM) gave me a huge scare at the beginning of Qualifying Round 2. But all it took was a single yellow flag to begin a collapse that lasted the entire weekend. For those of you who's Quiplash answers said "the computer knows the results beforehand", how do you explain this? Is it throwing for content? It happens almost every season. Low results in the 2nd quarter, and then everything heats up in the backstretch. Today's Top 10%Perhaps more interesting this week was the huge shake-up in the standings, and most of that is due to the high level of deviation in scores. You'll see more in the statistics section, but the point range in the top 20 alone is 40 pts. But enough about that. Let's find out who actually is in the top 10%, which also happens to be the top 10 this week (due to 95 responses).
StatisticsComputer's Score: 30 pts (3x SHM, 2x IBG, 1x CLU, 1x RAZ, 1x SWY) Survival Rate: 96.84% (92 of 95)Average Player Score: 77.33 pts Range of Scores: 130 pts (12 min, 142 max) Most Frequent Player Score: 64 pts (scored 5 times: araneaesGrasp, Adamajora, Offbeatobject, Sharkeatingleeks, & Harper) Looking Ahead49 players need a single win to clinch a silver medal. 30 players are still in the red a bit. 19 players just barely scraped by. 1 player has become a chaos casualty:
As for the rest of you? Well, I'm happy to report we've reached another important point: == CHECKPOINT: HALFTIME ==It is now halftime. A bit earlier than the last circuit series, but the same as the previous pool. With so many of you left, I think it's best if we look at the entire top 20. And before you ask, no, I'm not doing this to include myself. I'm 21st.
98 medals of bronze on the wall, 98 medals of bronze... 3 more rounds survived nets you a silver, and reaching the end with 0 or 1 strikes will award a gold! Best of luck! Unfortunately, we're about to go to a clutter circuit to a total clusterf*ck. Sleet Street is back... oh well. Here comes Race 06. https://preview.redd.it/ne6dholpjo2b1.png?width=1540&format=png&auto=webp&s=a9f6abbc3adb42fdfb46bf4a66fec04d12d120cd Things are going to get interesting now. The computer decided to make up for that time he replicated every pick aside from his tripler, having reused his tripler from last week yet again. Here's the full list: 3x Shining Swarm (SHN), sending out Glimmer (GLM) 2x Crazy Cat's Eyes (CCE), sending out Red Eye (RDI) 1x Hazers (HAZ), sending out Cloudy (CLD) 1x Pinkies (PNK), sending out Pinky Winky (WIN) 1x Thunderbolts (TBL), sending out Thunder (THD)The picks all looked decent enough.... and then I got to the bottom. It's time to see if everyone who said "the computer picking the Thunderbolts makes a round easy To submit predictions, CLICK HERE. Remember, you cannot use a team as your tripler if you've already used them there. It doesn't matter which marble was tripled; if you use 1, they're both off the table for the top spot. Using a team as a doubler or regular has no limitation. For full results, please check the scoreboard, which can be accessed by CLICKING HERE. |
2023.05.29 04:29 Ultra4irereddit I hate the lgbt community
im going to start this off by saying i dont hate people who arent straight i just hate this community. i dont know why but the community makes me feel uncomfortable and i cant stand it anymore. i joined this this community a while ago because i was confused and i didnt know who i was in this world and this place gave me comfort. but now i dont see myself as gay, bi, or anything but straight. and the more i see this community the more uncomfortable i get. im not going to be reasoned with to try and love this community, there is nothing you can do.
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2023.05.29 04:29 shipswithoutmeaning 2 months post BU
It’s no longer raw pain but dull pain. It’s boring, it’s exhausting, I’m tired of feeling it, thinking about it, processing everything.
I journal every morning and every few days do voice memos where I just say everything on my mind. All that and therapy is probably helping me move through this to some degree. Acting like he’s dead and gone is especially helpful.
I now think of myself as the prize, as the one that got away, even though I’m the dumpee. No I don’t have my life figured out but I’m way more conscious than that mf was, I’m quite sure he’s in a rebound and was weeks from the breakup.
Lots of learnings. Talking to people on apps here and there but being clear I’m in a healing place right now and looking for gentle companionship without expectations. Still, I’m not ready to meet anyone IRL.
I’ve been able to see what good my ex brought to my life even if he was immature and I bent over in all kinds of ways to make it work. I’ve been able to see it would have ended at some point, because I was the only one giving. I was always the only one, and I blinded myself to that.
It gets better. Things start to make sense. That doesn’t stop it from hurting, but it’s a different kind of pain.
I still occasionally look at one of his socials. I know it’s not doing me good, but it’s my last remaining link.
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I journal every morning and every few days do voice memos where I just say everything on my mind. All that and therapy is probably helping me move through this to some degree. Acting like he’s dead and gone is especially helpful.
I now think of myself as the prize, as the one that got away, even though I’m the dumpee. No I don’t have my life figured out but I’m way more conscious than that mf was, I’m quite sure he’s in a rebound and was weeks from the breakup.
Lots of learnings. Talking to people on apps here and there but being clear I’m in a healing place right now and looking for gentle companionship without expectations. Still, I’m not ready to meet anyone IRL.
I’ve been able to see what good my ex brought to my life even if he was immature and I bent over in all kinds of ways to make it work. I’ve been able to see it would have ended at some point, because I was the only one giving. I was always the only one, and I blinded myself to that.
It gets better. Things start to make sense. That doesn’t stop it from hurting, but it’s a different kind of pain.
I still occasionally look at one of his socials. I know it’s not doing me good, but it’s my last remaining link.
2023.05.29 04:29 Sharp_Issue_3178 AITA for wanting low contact with my MIL?
I (F25) got married to my husband (M25) this year. We got engaged on vacation in August, my husband’s grandma died as soon as got to our condo (Sunday). She had suffered with dementia and Alzheimer’s since I met her 5 years ago. My MIL told us that they planned to have the funeral that Friday, meaning we would need to leave our vacation early. Of course, we wouldn’t miss the funeral, but my MIL said they couldn’t have the funeral after we got back (we were supposed to come back Saturday) because she couldn’t take another day with her sister in town (as her sister and her family were in town to say their final goodbyes to their mom). Side note, the grandmother was cremated. Little did I know, that my now husband pre-paid for a bunch of events that we could do which his family did know about.
My husband and I discussed that we weren’t inviting his dad’s set of parents because they are very mean. My MIL and FIL tried to guilt trip us into inviting them, even though they were not financially helping us with the wedding and they thought it would be easier if they just came. Because we weren’t inviting them, my in-laws decided to throw us an “engagement party” so the grandparents who weren’t invited could feel included in wedding festivities. My in-laws wanted us to tell them that it was a small destination wedding with only close friends and family. Also, my MIL wanted us to send out the Save the Dates after their engagement party, so the grandparents wouldn’t find out the date. My MIL also didn’t want me to post photos on my Facebook as the grandma would see them and it wouldn’t play into the small wedding story. The engagement party was in October and we were getting married in April, so I didn’t want to wait and I already verbally told my friends so it wouldn’t matter if I sent out the Save the Dates or not. My MIL pushed to only have the guests be 30 guests and under to keep with the whole “small wedding” charade. This is not my ideal engagement party.
I took my MIL to see my wedding dress, she said “very nice.” Even at our venue outing she wasn’t very interested until she found out that can stay in a cabin, so now she can turn it into a mini vacation. She never asked if I needed help planning my wedding since she didn’t want ti be like her MIL who was too involved. I told them when we got our marriage license and we had two more months until the wedding and then my MIL stated that she got a new job and has unlimited PTO. She glossed over the news and just talked about herself.
For my birthday this year, received a text from her on my birthday, but she then said “sorry it was late.” She texted me at noon-ish then I got a text from my FIL explaining how much stress my MIL through and is switching jobs. I understand, but I didn’t need the explanation…you have like the entire day to just text me. I don’t expect it went you first wake up. AITA for wanting low contact with my MIL?
I (F25) got married to my husband (25 M) this year. We got engaged on vacation in August, my husband’s grandma died as soon as got to our condo (Sunday). She had suffered with dementia and Alzheimer’s since I met her 5 years ago. My MIL told us that they planned to have the funeral that Friday, meaning we would need to leave our vacation early. Of course, we wouldn’t miss the funeral, but my MIL said they couldn’t have the funeral after we got back (we were supposed to come back Saturday) because she couldn’t take another day with her sister in town (as her sister and her family were in town to say their final goodbyes to their mom). Side note, the grandmother was cremated. Little did I know, that my now husband pre-paid for a bunch of events that we could do which his family did know about.
My husband and I discussed that we weren’t inviting his dad’s set of parents because they are very mean. My MIL and FIL tried to guilt trip us into inviting them, even though they were not financially helping us with the wedding and they thought it would be easier if they just came. Because we weren’t inviting them, my in-laws decided to throw us an “engagement party” so the grandparents who weren’t invited could feel included in wedding festivities. My in-laws wanted us to tell them that it was a small destination wedding with only close friends and family. Also, my MIL wanted us to send out the Save the Dates after their engagement party, so the grandparents wouldn’t find out the date. My MIL also didn’t want me to post photos on my Facebook as the grandma would see them and it wouldn’t play into the small wedding story. The engagement party was in October and we were getting married in April, so I didn’t want to wait and I already verbally told my friends so it wouldn’t matter if I sent out the Save the Dates or not. My MIL pushed to only have the guests be 30 guests and under to keep with the whole “small wedding” charade. This is not my ideal engagement party.
My MIL doesn’t show any affection/validation. I took her to show my wedding dress, she said “very nice.” At our venue outing she wasn’t very interested until she found out that the place we can stay has cabins that she can rent out, so now she can turn it into a mini vacation. Throughout the whole planning process, she nor my FIL ask if they could help or anything. I told them when we got our marriage license and we had two more months until the wedding and then my MIL stated that she got a new job and has unlimited PTO. She glossed over the news and just talked about herself.
For my birthday this year, received a text from her on my birthday, but she then said “sorry it was late.” She texted me at noon-ish then I got a text from my FIL explaining how much stress my MIL through and is switching jobs. I understand, but I didn’t need the explanation…you have like the entire day to just text me. I don’t expect it went you first wake up.
My MIL also said there was no place for reservations for a “rehearsal dinner” since it no place near took a reservation for a large party or it would cost more. She only looked at the lodge we were staying at the the restaurant we got our wedding catered. I ended up booking a reservation for a place 20 minutes away that took a big party. I didn’t invite my husbands side of the family since my MIL reserved a brunch place for the Sunday after and only invited their friends and not my family (even though we were all staying the night at the same lodge).
On the wedding day, she then asked what time she needed to be there and if there was anything we needed.
I recently received my wedding photos and sent my MIL and FIL all of the photos. I received a text from my FIL two days later saying “great pics.”
I’m just annoyed and frustrated. My husband has talked to them about how they need to give me affirmations, but clearly that did not stick. His parents also just seem to care about his older brother and push my husband to the back burner. His brother lacks basic adulting skills and I think his parents help him to complain about him later. AITA?
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My husband and I discussed that we weren’t inviting his dad’s set of parents because they are very mean. My MIL and FIL tried to guilt trip us into inviting them, even though they were not financially helping us with the wedding and they thought it would be easier if they just came. Because we weren’t inviting them, my in-laws decided to throw us an “engagement party” so the grandparents who weren’t invited could feel included in wedding festivities. My in-laws wanted us to tell them that it was a small destination wedding with only close friends and family. Also, my MIL wanted us to send out the Save the Dates after their engagement party, so the grandparents wouldn’t find out the date. My MIL also didn’t want me to post photos on my Facebook as the grandma would see them and it wouldn’t play into the small wedding story. The engagement party was in October and we were getting married in April, so I didn’t want to wait and I already verbally told my friends so it wouldn’t matter if I sent out the Save the Dates or not. My MIL pushed to only have the guests be 30 guests and under to keep with the whole “small wedding” charade. This is not my ideal engagement party.
I took my MIL to see my wedding dress, she said “very nice.” Even at our venue outing she wasn’t very interested until she found out that can stay in a cabin, so now she can turn it into a mini vacation. She never asked if I needed help planning my wedding since she didn’t want ti be like her MIL who was too involved. I told them when we got our marriage license and we had two more months until the wedding and then my MIL stated that she got a new job and has unlimited PTO. She glossed over the news and just talked about herself.
For my birthday this year, received a text from her on my birthday, but she then said “sorry it was late.” She texted me at noon-ish then I got a text from my FIL explaining how much stress my MIL through and is switching jobs. I understand, but I didn’t need the explanation…you have like the entire day to just text me. I don’t expect it went you first wake up. AITA for wanting low contact with my MIL?
I (F25) got married to my husband (25 M) this year. We got engaged on vacation in August, my husband’s grandma died as soon as got to our condo (Sunday). She had suffered with dementia and Alzheimer’s since I met her 5 years ago. My MIL told us that they planned to have the funeral that Friday, meaning we would need to leave our vacation early. Of course, we wouldn’t miss the funeral, but my MIL said they couldn’t have the funeral after we got back (we were supposed to come back Saturday) because she couldn’t take another day with her sister in town (as her sister and her family were in town to say their final goodbyes to their mom). Side note, the grandmother was cremated. Little did I know, that my now husband pre-paid for a bunch of events that we could do which his family did know about.
My husband and I discussed that we weren’t inviting his dad’s set of parents because they are very mean. My MIL and FIL tried to guilt trip us into inviting them, even though they were not financially helping us with the wedding and they thought it would be easier if they just came. Because we weren’t inviting them, my in-laws decided to throw us an “engagement party” so the grandparents who weren’t invited could feel included in wedding festivities. My in-laws wanted us to tell them that it was a small destination wedding with only close friends and family. Also, my MIL wanted us to send out the Save the Dates after their engagement party, so the grandparents wouldn’t find out the date. My MIL also didn’t want me to post photos on my Facebook as the grandma would see them and it wouldn’t play into the small wedding story. The engagement party was in October and we were getting married in April, so I didn’t want to wait and I already verbally told my friends so it wouldn’t matter if I sent out the Save the Dates or not. My MIL pushed to only have the guests be 30 guests and under to keep with the whole “small wedding” charade. This is not my ideal engagement party.
My MIL doesn’t show any affection/validation. I took her to show my wedding dress, she said “very nice.” At our venue outing she wasn’t very interested until she found out that the place we can stay has cabins that she can rent out, so now she can turn it into a mini vacation. Throughout the whole planning process, she nor my FIL ask if they could help or anything. I told them when we got our marriage license and we had two more months until the wedding and then my MIL stated that she got a new job and has unlimited PTO. She glossed over the news and just talked about herself.
For my birthday this year, received a text from her on my birthday, but she then said “sorry it was late.” She texted me at noon-ish then I got a text from my FIL explaining how much stress my MIL through and is switching jobs. I understand, but I didn’t need the explanation…you have like the entire day to just text me. I don’t expect it went you first wake up.
My MIL also said there was no place for reservations for a “rehearsal dinner” since it no place near took a reservation for a large party or it would cost more. She only looked at the lodge we were staying at the the restaurant we got our wedding catered. I ended up booking a reservation for a place 20 minutes away that took a big party. I didn’t invite my husbands side of the family since my MIL reserved a brunch place for the Sunday after and only invited their friends and not my family (even though we were all staying the night at the same lodge).
On the wedding day, she then asked what time she needed to be there and if there was anything we needed.
I recently received my wedding photos and sent my MIL and FIL all of the photos. I received a text from my FIL two days later saying “great pics.”
I’m just annoyed and frustrated. My husband has talked to them about how they need to give me affirmations, but clearly that did not stick. His parents also just seem to care about his older brother and push my husband to the back burner. His brother lacks basic adulting skills and I think his parents help him to complain about him later. AITA?
2023.05.29 04:28 layersofglass Dear music
Dear music
Thank you for allowing me to leave my body
To detach from it so fully I forget it even exists
To escape from the disturbing vast mystery that it is
To not have to see all its flaws , but to instead see the mental projection of how I would want it to be
All with the support of you, dear music
It’s not possible without you
It’s not the same
Without you I suddenly feel everything
All the sensations , all the asymmetries, the heaviness in my limbs, the tension in my muscles , the pressures , the warmth and the cold
All these things which I feel so fully
It overwhelms me
Clouds my perception
But you clear it all out, dear music
You allow me to go into you fully , so that all I sense is you, and nothing else
You bring me that smoothness I’m trying so hard to create by my seemingly futile effort
Why try so hard
When all I need to do is to put on my headphones and click on play and there you are
Taking me in with open arms
Coddling me like a little baby
Who cannot even sense it’s body
You take me back to that place
Before the chaos started to take place
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Thank you for allowing me to leave my body
To detach from it so fully I forget it even exists
To escape from the disturbing vast mystery that it is
To not have to see all its flaws , but to instead see the mental projection of how I would want it to be
All with the support of you, dear music
It’s not possible without you
It’s not the same
Without you I suddenly feel everything
All the sensations , all the asymmetries, the heaviness in my limbs, the tension in my muscles , the pressures , the warmth and the cold
All these things which I feel so fully
It overwhelms me
Clouds my perception
But you clear it all out, dear music
You allow me to go into you fully , so that all I sense is you, and nothing else
You bring me that smoothness I’m trying so hard to create by my seemingly futile effort
Why try so hard
When all I need to do is to put on my headphones and click on play and there you are
Taking me in with open arms
Coddling me like a little baby
Who cannot even sense it’s body
You take me back to that place
Before the chaos started to take place
2023.05.29 04:28 pistachiovegan Healthy/Quality Food On UWS?
Looking for places with quality ingredients, fresh and healthyish whole food options, and also some healthyish desserts too! Near Lincoln center preferably
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2023.05.29 04:28 diesnix I'm always behind my favorite person
Hi, first time posting in here, don't know if the right place, but I don't, need to talk.
Do you feels that you are always behind/delayed about your favorite person?
It's like we are playing the same game, some kind of MMORPG (example), we are from the same guild, they always party with me to help fight my bosses, clean the dungeos, give me tips about which missions to make and which itens to catch, but never the other way around. I never can help them with their bosses or their dungeos, I never know about their missions and itens. Because I never have de xp/experience, they are always ahead of me, we are always on different levels. And as much as I level up in the game, that I get better skills, rush the missions, master whatever it is, they will always ahead of me, because the game continues to them too. And in the end it's just this feeling, you know? That I never can be by their side about their "life". I will be never on the right level that is necessary to follow them on their mission and bosses.
Me (NB22 she/her), They (NB24 any pronouns).
Ps.: English is not my first language, sorry for any mistakes;
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Do you feels that you are always behind/delayed about your favorite person?
It's like we are playing the same game, some kind of MMORPG (example), we are from the same guild, they always party with me to help fight my bosses, clean the dungeos, give me tips about which missions to make and which itens to catch, but never the other way around. I never can help them with their bosses or their dungeos, I never know about their missions and itens. Because I never have de xp/experience, they are always ahead of me, we are always on different levels. And as much as I level up in the game, that I get better skills, rush the missions, master whatever it is, they will always ahead of me, because the game continues to them too. And in the end it's just this feeling, you know? That I never can be by their side about their "life". I will be never on the right level that is necessary to follow them on their mission and bosses.
Me (NB22 she/her), They (NB24 any pronouns).
Ps.: English is not my first language, sorry for any mistakes;
2023.05.29 04:27 cyclebreaker12 My dad is dying and suddenly my family had amnesia to all of the abuse?
Tw: overdose, abuse, death.
Both of my parents are addicts and were abusive my entire life including into adulthood. My younger brother lived with me when I finally got out. It escalated so badly police had to be involved due to their criminal activity against me. When my brother graduated high school he moved across the country for school and never came back. I moved as well changed my phone number.
We were both no contact for 10 years with them. I broke it twice for health scares. But after the last time I broke no contact the abuse was worse then ever before.
In March my mom died she had cancer refused all help/treatment abused nurses when they tried to help her and drank herself to death.
I’m not sure this matters to mention but my brother broke no contact with my parents to do their will. Which they left everything to him. He didn’t tell me either of them had cancer and were dying. Or about the will. Until he told me my mom died.
This caused me to be very upset with my brother to hide all of this from me. To which we’ve tried to move past because my dad changed the Will to be 50/50 saying it was just only mom who wanted that and she refused to sign. Which was another reason my family said to forgive give him a chance. That my mom was the problem.
My dad returned that chance by overdosing in front of my brother and I the first time I saw him in years. He had a feeding tube and crushed up his pills and stuffed them in it. He did survive we called 911 in time. I went back to no contact but my brother didn’t.
I put up strong boundaries not to contact me with info I was done because I had complete mental breakdown . The toll it took on my mental health put me back years of recovery I had done in therapy. Suddenly I was a kid again back into the abuse.
My family didn’t respect these boundaries. They keep making excuses for my dad. Telling me I need to be more positive it’s all in the past. He’s dying now he’s sorry for what he did, he asked about me alot and loves me. My dad claims he doesn’t remember any of the abuse. He is unable to drink anymore because he has a feeding tube. So him or drinking was not his choice. He’s still has a pill addiction and addiction problems .
They told me his overdose was an accident. That he got nervous to see me for first time in years and messed up his meds. Which made me feel responsible. They said 1000% this is what happened.
I let this guilt and pain sit on me and when he was transferred to hospice I decided for my sake to go and get closure say goodbye. The visit went ok. He was in bed on very high dose of meds and loopy but he did say he was sorry and that he loved me. I told him I loved him and I forgave him (even though I really don’t know if I do or not) I wanted him to have peace. I brought him a picture of my brother and I tried to make the visit nice. I tried so hard. That was my goodbye.
Now the part with my brother and family. They have literally forgotten all abuse and it’s a complete taboo subject for me to even speak about the overdose or anything negative against my dad or mom. I understand he’s dying but not even my brother we talk about what we went through recently.
It’s like they have amnesia. Suddenly I’m the bad one if I bring it up. If I say I can’t go back again to see him. It’s guilt that I didn’t come back immediately .
Nothing I do is right or enough. I don’t think I can handle seeing him again. But everyone I speak to in my family is painting my dad to be this saint? Suddenly I’m in the wrong for not letting the past go. I’ve been lectured I’ve had the positivity talk so many times.
Because of all of these things I’m having a really hard time with my brother and family. My family says I can’t be upset with my brother for not telling me or with them as they all did the best they could and they all made a decision it was best for me to not know.
This is all too much to handle and I’m really trying to balance their needs but I can’t keep putting myself into harm as this is really putting me in a dark place.
I don’t know how to navigate these relationships. I feel like I’m drowning. I don’t want to hurt anyone in my family so I just agree with them. I shut up push it all down.
TLDR: my dad is dying and my family has amnesia to all of this abuse. I broke NC because of this for him to overdose in front of me. I keep being told me positive forget the past don’t bring things up. I’m lost depressed and hopeless.
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Both of my parents are addicts and were abusive my entire life including into adulthood. My younger brother lived with me when I finally got out. It escalated so badly police had to be involved due to their criminal activity against me. When my brother graduated high school he moved across the country for school and never came back. I moved as well changed my phone number.
We were both no contact for 10 years with them. I broke it twice for health scares. But after the last time I broke no contact the abuse was worse then ever before.
In March my mom died she had cancer refused all help/treatment abused nurses when they tried to help her and drank herself to death.
I’m not sure this matters to mention but my brother broke no contact with my parents to do their will. Which they left everything to him. He didn’t tell me either of them had cancer and were dying. Or about the will. Until he told me my mom died.
This caused me to be very upset with my brother to hide all of this from me. To which we’ve tried to move past because my dad changed the Will to be 50/50 saying it was just only mom who wanted that and she refused to sign. Which was another reason my family said to forgive give him a chance. That my mom was the problem.
My dad returned that chance by overdosing in front of my brother and I the first time I saw him in years. He had a feeding tube and crushed up his pills and stuffed them in it. He did survive we called 911 in time. I went back to no contact but my brother didn’t.
I put up strong boundaries not to contact me with info I was done because I had complete mental breakdown . The toll it took on my mental health put me back years of recovery I had done in therapy. Suddenly I was a kid again back into the abuse.
My family didn’t respect these boundaries. They keep making excuses for my dad. Telling me I need to be more positive it’s all in the past. He’s dying now he’s sorry for what he did, he asked about me alot and loves me. My dad claims he doesn’t remember any of the abuse. He is unable to drink anymore because he has a feeding tube. So him or drinking was not his choice. He’s still has a pill addiction and addiction problems .
They told me his overdose was an accident. That he got nervous to see me for first time in years and messed up his meds. Which made me feel responsible. They said 1000% this is what happened.
I let this guilt and pain sit on me and when he was transferred to hospice I decided for my sake to go and get closure say goodbye. The visit went ok. He was in bed on very high dose of meds and loopy but he did say he was sorry and that he loved me. I told him I loved him and I forgave him (even though I really don’t know if I do or not) I wanted him to have peace. I brought him a picture of my brother and I tried to make the visit nice. I tried so hard. That was my goodbye.
Now the part with my brother and family. They have literally forgotten all abuse and it’s a complete taboo subject for me to even speak about the overdose or anything negative against my dad or mom. I understand he’s dying but not even my brother we talk about what we went through recently.
It’s like they have amnesia. Suddenly I’m the bad one if I bring it up. If I say I can’t go back again to see him. It’s guilt that I didn’t come back immediately .
Nothing I do is right or enough. I don’t think I can handle seeing him again. But everyone I speak to in my family is painting my dad to be this saint? Suddenly I’m in the wrong for not letting the past go. I’ve been lectured I’ve had the positivity talk so many times.
Because of all of these things I’m having a really hard time with my brother and family. My family says I can’t be upset with my brother for not telling me or with them as they all did the best they could and they all made a decision it was best for me to not know.
This is all too much to handle and I’m really trying to balance their needs but I can’t keep putting myself into harm as this is really putting me in a dark place.
I don’t know how to navigate these relationships. I feel like I’m drowning. I don’t want to hurt anyone in my family so I just agree with them. I shut up push it all down.
TLDR: my dad is dying and my family has amnesia to all of this abuse. I broke NC because of this for him to overdose in front of me. I keep being told me positive forget the past don’t bring things up. I’m lost depressed and hopeless.
2023.05.29 04:27 Deprece Can you compete with practically any weapon with enough practice?
I know this is an odd question but I figured it’s worth asking. There is a clear tier list of weapons/weapon archetypes in the game. This obviously shifts from meta to meta.
Let’s say you love a weapon. It’s your favorite in the game but it’s mid to below average. Can you compete against players at the highest level (by that I mean top of Comp and Trials) if you learn the ends and outs of your weapon to a degree that you almost master it combined with a build that supports it? Let me throw out some mid tier exotic weapons as examples:
-Bad Juju
-Hardlight
-Outbreak Perfected
-Collective Obligation
-Tommy’s Matchbook
There are plenty of mid exotic weapons. If you put the time in, perfect the build around a mid weapon and learn all of your matchups, can you compete at the highest level? I feel like I shouldn’t invest into weapons I really like if they aren’t great because you are obviously putting yourself at a big disadvantage.
Then I started to think about Overwatch. Players in that game were able to leverage a bad heroes strengths and learn their matchups to reach as high as Top 500. We clearly don’t have a system nearly that good in Destiny but maybe the overall concept applies? Obviously both games are very different but I think it’s a interesting question to ask regardless of that fact.
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Let’s say you love a weapon. It’s your favorite in the game but it’s mid to below average. Can you compete against players at the highest level (by that I mean top of Comp and Trials) if you learn the ends and outs of your weapon to a degree that you almost master it combined with a build that supports it? Let me throw out some mid tier exotic weapons as examples:
-Bad Juju
-Hardlight
-Outbreak Perfected
-Collective Obligation
-Tommy’s Matchbook
There are plenty of mid exotic weapons. If you put the time in, perfect the build around a mid weapon and learn all of your matchups, can you compete at the highest level? I feel like I shouldn’t invest into weapons I really like if they aren’t great because you are obviously putting yourself at a big disadvantage.
Then I started to think about Overwatch. Players in that game were able to leverage a bad heroes strengths and learn their matchups to reach as high as Top 500. We clearly don’t have a system nearly that good in Destiny but maybe the overall concept applies? Obviously both games are very different but I think it’s a interesting question to ask regardless of that fact.
2023.05.29 04:27 Key_Media8930 Vegas FFM
Me and my husband will be in Vegas next week. What are some places we can go to find another girl for me? I’m bi and we will finally be away from our kids for a while. I’m ready to put on a show for my husband 😌🫰🏽
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2023.05.29 04:27 SnikkerLikker 21m-Year-Old Dutch Architecture Student with a Passion for Gaming, Nightlife, and Travel!
Hey fellow Redditors!
My name is Lars, a 21-year-old architecture student hailing from the beautiful Netherlands. I have been an avid Redditor for quite some time, and I am looking for some interesting people.
As an architecture enthusiast, my journey into this field has been nothing short of fascinating. The interplay of design, functionality, and aesthetics captivates me, and I love exploring the endless possibilities that this discipline offers. If you have any questions about architecture, design principles, or even tips for aspiring architects, feel free to hit me up!
I also enjoy the vibrant energy of the nightlife scene. Exploring new clubs, bars, and music festivals has become somewhat of a hobby. If you have any recommendations or stories to share about your own nightlife adventures, I'm all ears!
Lastly, traveling holds a special place in my heart. The thrill of discovering new cultures, cuisines, and breathtaking landscapes is an unparalleled experience. I've been fortunate enough to explore several countries so far, but my wanderlust remains insatiable. If you're a travel enthusiast or have some remarkable travel tales, I would love to connect and swap stories!
Feel free to drop a comment, share your thoughts, or ask me anything 🤗
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My name is Lars, a 21-year-old architecture student hailing from the beautiful Netherlands. I have been an avid Redditor for quite some time, and I am looking for some interesting people.
As an architecture enthusiast, my journey into this field has been nothing short of fascinating. The interplay of design, functionality, and aesthetics captivates me, and I love exploring the endless possibilities that this discipline offers. If you have any questions about architecture, design principles, or even tips for aspiring architects, feel free to hit me up!
I also enjoy the vibrant energy of the nightlife scene. Exploring new clubs, bars, and music festivals has become somewhat of a hobby. If you have any recommendations or stories to share about your own nightlife adventures, I'm all ears!
Lastly, traveling holds a special place in my heart. The thrill of discovering new cultures, cuisines, and breathtaking landscapes is an unparalleled experience. I've been fortunate enough to explore several countries so far, but my wanderlust remains insatiable. If you're a travel enthusiast or have some remarkable travel tales, I would love to connect and swap stories!
Feel free to drop a comment, share your thoughts, or ask me anything 🤗
2023.05.29 04:27 ThrowRa1234543219876 Found tinder on my Dad’s (52M) phone. Is this considered cheating on my Mom (53F)?
So, idk if this is the right subreddit cos I’ve never posted here, so sorry if it’s not. This is not an ask for advice regarding my relationship, but rather that of my parents. Basically, im a 22 F and I’ve come back to stay with my parents for the summer. Due to covid and stuff my dad has been out of the country for the past year and a half, unable to travel back home until recently. Things have been rocky between my mom and dad given the long separation and the fact that they’ve both changed a lot during that time apart, but I can tell they’re still trying to make things work and I do believe they love each other a lot. They’ve been together since 1996 with no separations or anything.
However, today I was messing around with an app on my dads phone (with his permission) and I saw that he has tinder downloaded. I was curious, so I looked and saw he was had one current conversation with a random woman I don’t recognize. It wasn’t anything inappropriate or that romantic, just three or so messages total saying something generic. Honestly, I barely remember what it said or when the convo was from because I panicked, but I’m hoping that given I don’t remember it it wasn’t anything incriminating. Regardless though, just knowing he’s on tinder is really upsetting. I don’t know why he’d need it.
The second thing is that I accidentally caught a glimpse of a video on his camera roll. I only saw the thumbnail, but it was enough to make me vomit in my mouth. It was a dick, probably his. That sounds dramatic but like I don’t think any sane person wants to see that. Anyway, I know this could have been sent to my mum, or maybe even just a personal video but I still find it weird.
I want to be understanding because both of them have been apart so long and I know that must have been frustrating and lonely, and I don’t want to meddle in their business since we’re all adults, but I just feel sick at the thought of keeping something like this from my mom, and at the prospect of him cheating in the first place.
Anyway, I’m not even sure if this is enough to count as cheating, I’ve never been in a serious relationship so I don’t have a lot of experience to go on. Could anyone else give me their perspective on this? Thank you
TLDR: Found tinder on my dad’s phone, don’t know if it’s considered cheating and would like advice on what to do/different perspectives
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However, today I was messing around with an app on my dads phone (with his permission) and I saw that he has tinder downloaded. I was curious, so I looked and saw he was had one current conversation with a random woman I don’t recognize. It wasn’t anything inappropriate or that romantic, just three or so messages total saying something generic. Honestly, I barely remember what it said or when the convo was from because I panicked, but I’m hoping that given I don’t remember it it wasn’t anything incriminating. Regardless though, just knowing he’s on tinder is really upsetting. I don’t know why he’d need it.
The second thing is that I accidentally caught a glimpse of a video on his camera roll. I only saw the thumbnail, but it was enough to make me vomit in my mouth. It was a dick, probably his. That sounds dramatic but like I don’t think any sane person wants to see that. Anyway, I know this could have been sent to my mum, or maybe even just a personal video but I still find it weird.
I want to be understanding because both of them have been apart so long and I know that must have been frustrating and lonely, and I don’t want to meddle in their business since we’re all adults, but I just feel sick at the thought of keeping something like this from my mom, and at the prospect of him cheating in the first place.
Anyway, I’m not even sure if this is enough to count as cheating, I’ve never been in a serious relationship so I don’t have a lot of experience to go on. Could anyone else give me their perspective on this? Thank you
TLDR: Found tinder on my dad’s phone, don’t know if it’s considered cheating and would like advice on what to do/different perspectives
2023.05.29 04:26 meimei213 Mounjaro or Ozempic?
Is anyone taking Mounjaro or ozempic? I was taking Mounjaro back in September, my egfr dipped to 32, so my endo stopped it. Then referred me to a nephrologist. Nephrologist said he’s not going to change any of my meds. He just added iron and vitamin d pills. Now my egfr is 43. I want to go back in MJ or Ozempic because my sugars has been all over the place. But I’m not sure if MJ was the cause of the dip.
I did change my diet drastically since stopping MJ.
I read you shouldn’t take MJ if you have kidney issues BUT I also read it protects kidneys.
Anyone experience anything similar? Thanks!
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I did change my diet drastically since stopping MJ.
I read you shouldn’t take MJ if you have kidney issues BUT I also read it protects kidneys.
Anyone experience anything similar? Thanks!
2023.05.29 04:26 Cory79110 [Friendship] Looking forward to meeting you! 28M
Hello! As the end of the weekend draws near I'm excited to spend it with you:) message me anything and everything. Let's discover the world's secrets within our conversation.
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2023.05.29 04:26 j_stanley Delayed social overwhelm?
I've had this happen to me several times recently: I'll be in some heavily-social situation, enjoy myself, and generally do fine, and not feel any urge to leave early. Things are exciting and interesting. However, once I go home, I crash hard within an hour or two, and feel exhausted. Often I will have a social hangover the next day — even for a few days after.
I know lots of autistic/HSP folks have an overwhelmed reaction to social situations. But the typical story I read is people feeling overwhelmed during the event: they reach a point where they they feel "done," and make moves to leave and go home or to a quiet place.
That doesn't seem to happen to me. I can often stay at parties, etc., until very late, sometimes being one of the last ones to leave.
I wonder if it's a sort of alexithymia: that I can't really feel the overwhelm building in the moment, but only later when the brain chemical really kicks in.
Or perhaps it's an exhaustion from masking? But this even happens in situations where I feel very comfortable, with friends, and not feeling that I'm masking all that hard (except the general work to be human).
Or is it just brain chemicals doing their happy dance while I'm socializing, then getting drained into exhaustion?
I'd like to understand this better, and maybe find some coping skills or mitigation techniques to avoid the heavy crash.
Any ideas or avenues of research you'd recommend?
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I know lots of autistic/HSP folks have an overwhelmed reaction to social situations. But the typical story I read is people feeling overwhelmed during the event: they reach a point where they they feel "done," and make moves to leave and go home or to a quiet place.
That doesn't seem to happen to me. I can often stay at parties, etc., until very late, sometimes being one of the last ones to leave.
I wonder if it's a sort of alexithymia: that I can't really feel the overwhelm building in the moment, but only later when the brain chemical really kicks in.
Or perhaps it's an exhaustion from masking? But this even happens in situations where I feel very comfortable, with friends, and not feeling that I'm masking all that hard (except the general work to be human).
Or is it just brain chemicals doing their happy dance while I'm socializing, then getting drained into exhaustion?
I'd like to understand this better, and maybe find some coping skills or mitigation techniques to avoid the heavy crash.
Any ideas or avenues of research you'd recommend?
2023.05.29 04:25 Low-Sorbet-5945 [TOMT] TikTok account of kids running away from abusive parents. One goes missing
In 2019ish before Covid I believe. Three girls made an account documenting them running away. I don’t know if they were sisters or not but they made videos of them walking most of the time just their shoes showing as they talked. One video was about trying to find an outlet in a public bathroom to charge their phone.One video freaked me out. The girl who did more of the talking and owned the account was panicked. The three of them decided to spilt up using their phones to communicate. I don’t know why they split probably to find a place to sleep or food. One of the girls stopped replying and they couldn’t find her. I can’t remember if that’s the last video they made or if they made others about trying to find her.The kids were probably about 14 but being a kid myself I didn’t do anything about it I mean they were in a whole differnt country! (America I’m Candain) I assumed the kids went home Or caught by there parents. I forgot all about it until recently when it popped into my mind.I had followed the account so I went back through my follows. I have followed over 800 accounts so many have been since deleted so I could be incorrect but I believe this was the account: pleasehelpsorryfirwaThere are a lot of followers so maybe someone here remembers this or there was a conclusion I missed. This could have been fake as well but if so they were really good at making it look real.
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2023.05.29 04:25 the_art_of_the_taco [30F] What might cause a several-years-healed (biopsy) scar to suddenly open and bleed?
Photos of the current situation as well as the pre- and post-biopsy. I found the May 2020 photo after already making the other collages, whoops! I feel like there's some other weirdness going on with my skin around it but that might not be related.
In 2020 had a blue (?) mole biopsied after it went from a slight discoloration to a substantial entity in about two and a half years (doubling in size over the year leading up to the punch). As far as I know it was benign.
I've scrounged up a few pictures to try and show how it progressed, I'm sorry they're shitty quality. I ended up covering it with my hand or my sleeve most of the time, it had grown both around and "out" by the time finally had it yoinked.
After the procedure it healed normally, less noticable than most of my scars, and I put it out of my head for the first time in years. Last march it was nearly invisible.
Several days ago, I felt something on my arm and reached under my sweater to scratch it (I know, I know, but thought it was just a hair or something), when pulled my hand back there was blood on my fingers. It was a few hours later, while getting ready for bed, that I realized the biopsy scar itself had been bleeding and opened up.
It's now been like 5 days and there's a scab but it's still irritated and tends to almost flake blood off over the day and night, the scab looks "fresh". It doesn't seem like it's healing super well.
I do have an appointment with a new dermatologist late June, but I'm honestly more confused than anything. Google kept giving me information about how scabs take a while to scar, instead of old scars scabbing. I'm sure it's nothing serious, I've just never had it happen before and I'm a curious person.
Per the rules, here's what's been going on elsewise medically (I won't drag out the symptoms unless someone requests it):
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Thanks to anyone who can give me some sort of insight while wait for my appointment!
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In 2020 had a blue (?) mole biopsied after it went from a slight discoloration to a substantial entity in about two and a half years (doubling in size over the year leading up to the punch). As far as I know it was benign.
I've scrounged up a few pictures to try and show how it progressed, I'm sorry they're shitty quality. I ended up covering it with my hand or my sleeve most of the time, it had grown both around and "out" by the time finally had it yoinked.
After the procedure it healed normally, less noticable than most of my scars, and I put it out of my head for the first time in years. Last march it was nearly invisible.
Several days ago, I felt something on my arm and reached under my sweater to scratch it (I know, I know, but thought it was just a hair or something), when pulled my hand back there was blood on my fingers. It was a few hours later, while getting ready for bed, that I realized the biopsy scar itself had been bleeding and opened up.
It's now been like 5 days and there's a scab but it's still irritated and tends to almost flake blood off over the day and night, the scab looks "fresh". It doesn't seem like it's healing super well.
I do have an appointment with a new dermatologist late June, but I'm honestly more confused than anything. Google kept giving me information about how scabs take a while to scar, instead of old scars scabbing. I'm sure it's nothing serious, I've just never had it happen before and I'm a curious person.
Per the rules, here's what's been going on elsewise medically (I won't drag out the symptoms unless someone requests it):
- I have recurring ferritin and vitamin D deficiency (despite IV infusion and high dose treatments and daily supplementation, normal diet, etc). As of now the reason is unknown. (Any recommendations to bring up with my doctor? Genetic analyses for acquired mutations?)
- I have been seeing a rheumatologist, my titers have been consistently positive with a nucleolar immunofluorescence but the ANA panel/screen is negative.
- I've had some weird metanephrines/catecholamine/hormone levels that I had been referred to an endocrinologist for. My plasma + 24h urine metanephrines and 24h catecholamines were mildly elevated last August. When the endo did another plasma test in September (no follow-up to the pee jug chronicles at this point) they were high end of normal and I was sent away.
- I have recently seen an immunologist/allergist and after some blood work we're doing the SAD vaccine test (no response to pneumococcal antibodies). My 24h urine histamine was 132 ug/d, the results for other tests were sent out of state and haven't populated.
- The immunologist added metanephrines and catecholamines with my 24 hour urine again. These were my levels:
- metanephrine 519 ug/d (compared to 267 ug/d last year)
- normetanephrine 1018 ug/d (compared to 255 ug/d last year)
- epinephrine 39 ug/d (compared to 15 ug/d last year)
- norepinephrine 141 ug/d (compared to 53 ug/d last year)
- dopamine 475 ug/d (compared to 187 ug/d last year)
- I have made an appointment with endocrinology again, but the soonest appointment was March of next year. I doubt anything will come of it, but might as well.
- I am HLA-B27 positive. I have POTS and OH and my cardiac workups have been suggestive of ischemia, though it has not been diagnosed. My complements C3 and C4 have been wishy-washy slightly low and borderline low for a while. I have had a low beta protein level. Normal thyroid tests, low sed rate, low CRP.
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Thanks to anyone who can give me some sort of insight while wait for my appointment!