About the server:
Our upcoming Season 10, starting March 25th, focuses on a vanilla feel with some minor quality of life tweaks.
The DragonBorn SMP server is a small and tightly knit group of passionate miners and crafters. Our main focus lies on building a strong family friendly community and exploring the endless possibilities of this blocky world together. It doesn't matter if you are a newbie or a veteran, we welcome you to join us and carve out a small place to call home on our server. We have dedicated staff that work tirelessly for the goal of creating a protected space that exists separate from the real world. A place where you can just relax and mine away. A place where you can simply forget about everyday life and have a fun time.
Our community works together a lot but if you want to participate, it is up to you. We usually build a spawn village, share certain public farms and just help each other out. But you can choose to play solitary and live in a remote corner of the map if you want, pretending you are in a single player world! We offer you full creative freedom.
We use a per player mob cap so spawn rates are well balanced guaranteeing that mob farms have great rates. Vanilla simulation distance and higher render distance than most servers creates a feel that the world is a good size and ready for exploration! The End is locked for the first month to allow players time to prepare to face the dragon and to encourage exploration and use of other methods of transportation such as horses.
No “keep inventory“. We don't have a land claim system either so claiming land works on trust and respect which has worked out great in the past. We do allow players to set a home to teleport to, and a teleport to spawn, but you can only use either one, once per hour. Everything players do is logged, so it's impossible to steal or grief without the staff noticing. There wouldn't be a point to doing so either since everything can be reset.
The server has been running since March 17, 2020 and we usually have 3-4 seasons (world resets) every year. The server is hosted professionally on top of the line hardware with 20GB of RAM and runs pretty much lag free. We run the game in hard difficulty and you can join both with Java & Bedrock. We don't have any type of premium or pay to win systems in place. You are free to build whatever you want and afk for as long as you want at your own farms, however, the server has daily reboots twice a day to maintain server performance.
How to join:

There is a small application to fill out on discord that takes about 5 minutes. Please follow this process first, then we will continue the process of whitelisting you. Follow directions shown in the opening welcome channel message.
You must own a LEGAL copy of the game. No cracked copies, we do not support piracy.
Server IP: play.dragonbornserver.com
Must be 16 years old or older.
Discord: https://dragonbornserver.com/discord
Important: if you leave the discord the server automatically removes you from being whitelisted.

The Wise Old Man Bot in our discord seems to have some how switched to a different group and is providing updates on people that we don't know. How can I reset Wise Old Man in our discord fix this issue. We weren't really tracking anything so completely okay if it wipes all accounts associated with this group.

My 11 mos old Corgi has developed a fear of wipers. Unsure how, or why, it started but he cannot even see a car approaching with them on because he starts barking/howling, lunging and whimpering, etc. I cannot have in the car because the same happens. At first it wasn't too bad but it is progressively getting worse and it is raining more on the West coast. Does anyone have experience with this issue or have any suggestions? Thank you in advance!

Hi,
I wasn't sure if it's the best subreddit for that, but since it's related my way of thinking, I thought it was the best I found.
Back on topic, I'm 29 and I have no idea why mentally, I can't take impactful decision. Like I can take decision at work on how to improve things or multitasking, but I just can't pass over my fear when it's related to life changing decision. I'm conscious of that, but at the same time something is blocking in my head.
I've been searching for a professional job for years now. Got some contract there and there, but overall, I'm still working in retail... I'm so desperate that I started to just send resume to anything related to my field almost everywhere in the world. However, two months ago, I received an interview invite for an amazing European company (I'm Canadian) and I just blocked... Didn't interview... Didn't get the job. Now I'm in a similar situation. I got an invite for an Australian company, the other side of the planet and I'm still stuck in this overthinking loop.
- Why a local company doesn't want me and other place in the world are taking a chance to get me?
- I just got promoted at my job to be dept. manager, why must I leave now?
- I'm living n my parent house since rents are too expensive, but how do I announce them that I applied abroad and got an interview invite? I know we talked about that earlier on and they are not supporting the idea of moving abroad for a job.
- How do I manage moving abroad? When should I move? When do they want me?
- It's not a job I want to do for years, but only to kickstart my career. How does it works with Visa and stuffs?
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I think I've always were an overprotected child with strict parenting. Consciously, I'm aware of the fact that I'm old enough to take my decision, just move the other side of the world, but I guess there is something I need to heal in my subconscious. Fear of deception, fear of loosing friends and family, etc.
I also know interview doesn't mean getting a job, but for some reason I always think too far ahead and creating my own fear blocking me.

"be cool and fun to hang out with, your true colors will come out later and he'll be in love with you at that point" she's talking about someone who doesn't want to drink alcohol. oh so lie and dont show your true personality and thoughts so you look like a dumb fuck but you act "cool" so he'll be in love with you???
alex is always saying she doesnt give a shit about what other people think, please, if you didnt care you would drink whatever the fuck you want and not try to make up excuses for it. if they dont like you because you dont drink they can fuck off immeaditely, what the fuck are we 16 year olds? some people dont drink. its not a big deal, god
and thats why you're on your second marriage lets see how much it lasts for u hunnnnnnn your true colors will show soon

Ok so me and my family are from an immigrant background that i won’t specify but i will say it’s from a latin american country that people don’t really think of as latin america. I’m not really sure how my mother grew up i pretty much stopped asking at a certain age but i know some of the stuff and it was pretty rough but overall she’s a sweetheart with some flaws. Because of this, she doesn’t speak the best english but you can still understand her which brings me to my issues. Ever since i could remember she has ALWAYS asked me to do stuff for her. I’m talking take pictures of her tax forms to send to her tax lady (which made me extremely angry as she could’ve done them herself) made me fill out multiple important documents like job application, pay her bills , call credit card companies rent applications, just simply anything an adult wouldn’t ask their 12-16 yr old child to do for them. Then she got pregnant which made everything worse because of sisters father who is not my dad which is a story for another day. Having my sister increased it tenfold and now i was doing stuff for my sister and my mother and my father on top of that. I don’t really have an issue with my father in that regard because he only really asks me to do stuff for him occasionally which i don’t really mind.
As I grew older and older I hated her more and more i feel sick for feeling this way and every time i tried to explain how i’m tired of doing everything for her she laughs in my face and basically tells me how ungrateful i am and how she wouldn’t ask me if she knew how to do whatever request she asked me for. The thing is she doesn’t even think twice about it i’m her first call for everything she doesn’t even try before asking me, i feel dehumanized like i’m simply alive to help her in life . she knows nothing about me she doesn’t even ask her excuse is always that i never tell her or that i push her away (which i do). I hate being in my home, i hate when she’s home i never get reprieve she’s always in my space trying to be my friend but i hate her. I don’t want to but i do, please i need advice am i horrible misunderstanding daughter . there’s so much more but the fight that triggered this post was her asking me to call a number to help her get a 1095 tax form which she yelled my name from downstairs expecting me to go down there and when i didn’t she came up and not even with a hello went into her spewl about what she needed me to do.
My room was a mess i’ve been deeply depressed and lonely for weeks and i found the motivation to clean today and she ruined it . she even saw me cleaning and got angry when i told her to wait and picked a fight with me . i don’t really remember what happened but i told her that i hate how i do everything for her and she went into her same old excuses again and told me i was yelling at her and i told her i just wanted to clean and i told her to get out. she stayed i my room where i ignored her while i cleaned. she said she wanted an apology and ‘how do i feel about speaking to my mother this way’ that convo was not pleasant and i kept telling myself that my feelings were valid . my day was already going horribly and i got into a fight with my coworker the other day over stupid stuff and it’s just been messing with me since and so i wasn’t the nicest

Sorry to be cringe and share this random idea here but I find it too interesting
I think that a very small animation and weapon change to doomfist's primary fire would radically aid doomfist in his gamefeel change from dps to tank.
Doomfist's primary fire should be changed from a slow projectile shotgun to an energy punch, not dissimilar from Ramattra's.
Allow doomfist to perform a 4-hit combo on the enemy that alternates between Left hand, Fist, Left Hand, Fist. A sort of, " 'Quickmelee(30 dmg), Ramattra punch(50dmg), 'quickmelee', rammatra punch". This can be easily implemented by borrowing rammatra's arm animations for his second strike, and using the existing DF quick melee animation for his first light strike. These would be limited to 4-hit bursts, using the same time coding of the existing fist shotgun, and alternating about twice as quickly as Ramattra's fists swing, so that Doomfist fires two energy punches at the same rate Ramattra does, but with two light quick melee's in the middle.
This will all total to equal 180 damage, if the doomfist is within quick melee range, or 100 if the doomfist is a little further away but still somewhat close. Since doomfist will have this high damage limited by a reload, it will be similar in dps to Ramattra's alt form but not identical, and can be limited by raising/lowering his reload time.
Since unhealed and unsupported enemies will be left with low health, it provides a perfect opportunity to use an ability that used to feel weak: Rocket Punch. After landing all 4 hits, you get to land the finishing blow with rocket punch! How climatic! This will help shift the gamefeel of rocket punch being the big boy killer, to the finisher move.
I believe that originally, the overwatch team was trying to make Doomfist feel like an omage to tekkin-mortal-combat-esk fighting games. His uppercut move and fist and voicelines like "Combo breaker!' I think show that the stereotype fits him well and would feel very novel. Changing his primary fire away from a generic shampoo shotgun into a hitscan melee attack that alternates between Light Punch+Heavy Punch+Light Punch+Heavy Punch gives him character that would be a major uplift for him and fitting him with this unique gamefeel.
Not to mention, it allows you to really put the "Doomfist" back into Doomfist by letting him constantly use it! And this interpretation of Doomfist's primary would make much more sense with the wondeful Animation doomfist has on the Overwatch page. Him breaking a wall with his bare hands would make a much stronger gameplay allegory. It would also be a buff to Ramattra's background, as now we see that Ramattra has similar punching tech to Doomfist... how did he get it?
It would allow all of his current abilities and damage values to stay unchanged, as his primary fire now aids them more. The small damage that his abilities sometimes feel to do now matters so much more to the Doomfist.
I feel that this idea is especially viable for lowering the skill floor on Doomfist. With how slow the projectiles are, it feels extremely diffcult for casual players to land effective damage. This is why doomfist is so lamented as weak by the mid-to-low ranks. Making his primary fire a short range hitscan, like Reaper for example, would make it much more straightforward for casual players to land effective hits.
Moreover, I believe that making a character more easy to play effectively matches Blizzard's statements about accessibility equality, in some way. Many of us, especially after the One Punch update, feel inadequate to play doomfist now more than ever before.
In conclusion, I feel that this detailed Street-Fighter Primary Fire change to Doomfist would be:
=== [ Easy to Implement ] This change can be done with very little use of coding to produce a dramatically better result. All of the coding around ability and reload timings can be kept identical, and animations that are pre-existing can be used to replace the old ones, at least in trial testing stages. Visual coding for the new Punch-projectile can be borrowed from Ramattra.
=== [ Improving the accessibility of Doomfist ] Hitscan attacks and range values are more straightforward, especially with close range melee strikes similar to Ramattra's.
=== [ Improving the marketability of Doomfist ] Doomfist having a unique and interesting gameplay feel that adheres to an 'arcade fighter' style and pacing will improve his character appeal.
=== [ Improving the maintenance of Doomfist ] With Doomfist having more implied defined roles, more players will understand how doomfist should be played. With his primary fire being easier to hit, it will be easier to know if it is too strong or too weak.
=== [ Improving relations with the Overwatch community ] Listening to community feedback and openly applying it is a great way to show your genuine side as a company :)
I hope they read this. This would genuinely dramatically fix Doomfist in my opinion. Thank you for your time.

Seems like the Mods and CM are hiding the Nasty Toxic Element of the game, which sadly still exists, Big Time. The only way the real nasty part of the game was shown, and also showed the real Toxic players, the Multi's, the shells, the total A Oles, was through the Forums, the GB being the worst by far. Although it did show who to watch, and what was going on in bogus alliances and shell accounts.
So what has happened? the mods and the CM have edited the forum and basically cleaned it of all normal player's views, and complaints, regarding those Mods, CM, and bad players. The game went toxic at the end of 2021, and they knew it was on its last legs. Through 2022 many good players left, the game totally, most blamed the same groups for the demise, Mods, CM, Support, and toxic players. The Toxic players migrated to other servers to play and wait.
Now the Forum has been cleaned we see old Toxic names re-appearing Imperius, Kariakos, and many more, alliances filling up and toxic players moving into good alliances from which they used to bring in more of their kind, and then take over the alliance. Will it happen again, Of course, it will, most of the evidence of how they did, and who they were, has gone from the forum. All good players in the game knew that the Mods and CM were in it up to the neck with the Toxic, and were even protecting them by banning good players who complained, and support was ignoring those same players.
BEWARE of so-called returning Vets to the game, with built-up castles and accounts, if you're a new alliance leader, check out requests, and use the knowledge of longer-playing people to check them out. If you get it wrong you'll lose your alliance. Don't promote to deputy unless you are sure and know them. Mods won't help you and the main one in GB forum is a GGE employee Mod, he does get paid to be a MOD, and quell any disturbances, as does the CM.

Mom's very materialistic, dad works 80hrs/week to meet her standards, except they need $1m to pay back their loans. Mom works 70/hrs//week. Mom's an entrepreneur, decided to open up another business after her last one died down. Dad's an alcoholic, takes his anger out on us. Mom does too, they're only nice when they need us to do chores for them. My sister (14) and I (20F) want to vanish away from here ASAP. I left home once but came back for my sister. My sister has a set mindset that she'd rather live in this beautiful home than a 1-room apartment. I pray she realizes one day how lonely and dark this beautiful home is. We're being forced to be put in charge of managing the new business, with very little pay. You're probably going to tell me that I'm not being forced.. Well, I was manipulated, and I'm in too deep now. The job's easy, I could do it, but I don't have the spirit to. My parents gave birth to 2 children, gave them a big house, but had to work our entire lives to afford it. Due to the stress, we would get abused psychically, but now we just get verbally abused daily, being controlled. I'm grateful they gave up the rest of their lives after 30 to afford our future. But, I just feel so unloved and invisible here. They just don't see how horrible they've neglected and abused us. I just can't love them, I'm mostly just scared to be around them. Every encounter with them is another escape to figure out. It's like being thrown inside a game where bullets are being shot at you and you have to figure out how to take them without bleeding or dying. All my dreams have been destroyed by my parents. I could leave right now, but the pain in my heart would be permanent, knowing I'd be leaving my sister to manage the entire business on her own, and she's a minor. There's this 34 year old guy I have to train soon, he wants to become manager but my parents want my sister and I to be the manager's because they wouldn't have to pay as much money, which is what aches my chest. We want nothing to do with the business. Parents said they'd leave us the house and business, they want us to open many more businesses. My sister and I have been neglected our entire lives, except my sister got to go to private school. She should stay because she is doing well in school and might be able to go to college, paid for. I've no hope, just a burnt out adult that's barely started life. I know I need to get out first so I can help my sister, because she doesn't really see any needs to escape. Often, being so alone, I tell her how much time I feel is being wasted being here, how severely suicidal I am due to our parents, and she tells me we are well off here, it's not that bad. I know if I leave, guilt will follow me everywhere. I don't know what to do.

During the winter, the North gets it the worse with old men going off into the wilderness to die so that they’re not a burden, and even instances of cannibalism. But how do people survive?
I understand that they store food from the long summer, with grains and such being able to last decades and that they can salt, freeze, dry, pickle etc. foods. And that Ice fishing is an option.
But in particularly bad winters where no crops can survive what exactly happens? Surely the ecosystem must suffer with people hunting animals into near extinction.
Whilst the North could survive whilst facing a lot of losses, how in the fuck do the free folk survive? Do they farm?
I thought a lot of the free folk were nomadic people so how could they store food?
Also why do we not hear of more glass gardens? When you can’t grow food for literal years because of the climate, you’d think more lords would have bought Myrish glass.

So I’d just like to start that I have already seen a cardiologist and they found nothing wrong with my heart. I did stress test and had a monitor on it for 3 days and they didn’t catch anything. But my problem is I’ve been having heart palpitations for a little over two months now. They sometimes get a little better and then they get bad again. I also have a very strong pulse in my neck and abdomen like just a strong pulsing sensation through my body that makes it so I can’t relax. I on and off get an achey pain under my left boob in my ribs. I also get very fatigued, weak, and off balance feeling sometimes even a little nauseous. My blood sugar level was 67 which I don’t know if that’s even low enough to cause these symptoms and my doctor didn’t seem to think that was the issue. He prescribed me anxiety meds but I do not want to take them because I’ve had anxiety my whole life but I have found my limits and how to keep myself in check without meds. I don’t feel it’s a heart issue as im 23 yrs old and have no family history of heart issues but honestly I’m just really frustrated with these symptoms and I feel that my doctor isn’t understanding how much these symptoms are making me frustrated!
Idk if it helps but I’m also a female 5’5 108 lbs and I’ve 1 child about two years ago.

So I’m 20 years old and just passed my CDL A permit,combination, and Air brakes written exams. I also got my DOT physical completed and gave it to the DMV. But I made an issue and accidentally put down “exempted intrastate” instead of non exempted intrastate which is what I should’ve chosen since I got the DOT physical done (idk how the dmv guy didn’t catch onto the mistake) Can I go back to the FMV tomorrow and have that amended or am I screwed? Also is it normal for the DMV to keep the dot health card? I thought that was something I keep with me.

Hi there! I'm glad I caught your attention.
Here's a brief summary:
End goal: relationship
Stats: 33, from Sask, Canada.
Relationship: ENM, Partnered, Parent
And the expanded version:
What I'm looking for:
I would like to just start off as friends, but I hope we would click enough that it could turn into something more. That being said, I'm never going to force anything if it doesn't form naturally. Preferably, you are somewhat local, but with how slim those chances are, I'm also fine with LDR as long as there is the opportunity to actually meet in person eventually. I don't do drugs and rarely drink, and that's only ever social drinking.
About me:
I am a 33 year old male. I was born in Saskatchewan, Canada, and still live in the same city. I've got a cushy office job, for which I went to school. I am slowly getting back into casually gaming. Typically, you can find me catching up on my "to watch" list, which always seems to grow faster than I can watch. I do want to start getting back into outdoor activities, though! In person, I tend to be quite shy until I get comfortable. I've also come to the realization that I match effort, especially when it comes to texting. I also tend to be slightly demisexual and open-minded
Relationship status:
As mentioned, I am in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. We have been together for 14 years and have a toddler together. We prefer practicing kitchen table style. That being said, you don't have to interact with my wife. We just prefer that everyone is able to at least be cordial. I do not have any other partners besides my wife. We lean more to non hierarchical between me and my wife, but our kid comes first in all regards.
If I have kept your attention and have intrigued you, please reach out! I do prefer chat, but feel free to send a message if that's what you prefer. But please include the swordfish in your message so I know you've read everything!
I am truly an open book, and I love to answer any and all questions, so ask away!
I also enjoy the icebreaker type games like 20 questions, would you rather, 2 truth and a lie, etc... So you can choose one of those if you need help!
PS: If physical looks are important, feel free to ask what I look like. I am open to sharing pictures after chatting a bit.

Hi there! I'm glad I caught your attention.
Here's a brief summary:
End goal: relationship
Stats: 33, from Sask, Canada.
Relationship: ENM, Partnered, Parent
And the expanded version:
What I'm looking for:
I would like to just start off as friends, but I hope we would click enough that it could turn into something more. That being said, I'm never going to force anything if it doesn't form naturally. Preferably, you are somewhat local, but with how slim those chances are, I'm also fine with LDR as long as there is the opportunity to actually meet in person eventually. I don't do drugs and rarely drink, and that's only ever social drinking.
About me:
I am a 33 year old male. I was born in Saskatchewan, Canada, and still live in the same city. I've got a cushy office job, for which I went to school. I am slowly getting back into casually gaming. Typically, you can find me catching up on my "to watch" list, which always seems to grow faster than I can watch. I do want to start getting back into outdoor activities, though! In person, I tend to be quite shy until I get comfortable. I've also come to the realization that I match effort, especially when it comes to texting. I also tend to be slightly demisexual and open-minded
Relationship status:
As mentioned, I am in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. We have been together for 14 years and have a toddler together. We prefer practicing kitchen table style. That being said, you don't have to interact with my wife. We just prefer that everyone is able to at least be cordial. I do not have any other partners besides my wife. We lean more to non hierarchical between me and my wife, but our kid comes first in all regards.
If I have kept your attention and have intrigued you, please reach out! I do prefer chat, but feel free to send a message if that's what you prefer. But please include the swordfish in your message so I know you've read everything!
I am truly an open book, and I love to answer any and all questions, so ask away!
I also enjoy the icebreaker type games like 20 questions, would you rather, 2 truth and a lie, etc... So you can choose one of those if you need help!
PS: If physical looks are important, feel free to ask what I look like. I am open to sharing pictures after chatting a bit.

You can have an orgasm to "explode through" some energetic barriers, so that you get to the ideal "homogeneous energy flux" throughout your system.
But; the best orgasms happen when it's an actual overflow of energy, after you have already achieved that level of homogeneous/freely-circulating energy".
In other words; I think having powerful explosive orgasms can get you to that ideal state, but the actual profound and most complete orgasms are the ones where you are already relaxing and overflowing on top of that state of being.
In the latter case, you should just relax and let the energy keep expanding and you will have/experience great waves of overflowing energy throughout your whole body, but, if you need it, have some old school "Full Force" Explosive orgasms first, so that you can achieve that inner balance by removing the blockages and getting the energy flowing first.
At the beginning, though, you Will fuck up anyway and either way, so it doesn't matter if you ejaculate.
At the same time; after a while; you will be able to keep having either strong explosive orgasms or the fully expansive and relaxed ones, and still not ejaculate in either situation.
It's a matter of keeping practicing and the ejaculation's chemical mechanism will be deprogrammed; and eventually you won't have "to do things right" - because the new mechanism will already be trained and engrained in you.
The most important, at this point, is how you feel about yourself and how you feel the moment! Be happy and enjoy the fucking sensations! (: Training is good but we have to forget about the technique eventually and deliver ourselves to free happy pleasure. 😁 That's what it's all about.
At beginner level, it doesn't matter what you do, you will ejaculate a lot of times until you get there! That's just the way it goes (: no worries, keep training and keep observing your inner self attentively, and keep 'em cumming!
Eventually you will get there and it's just about how freely can you deliver yourself to this wonderful living power of Orgasm. ☺️

I would drive my and it started throwing a code for low coolant light, but every time I would go to add coolant to the reservoir it would be full and the light would disappear. While driving the light would go on and off intermittently but It never overheated or reached the H mark. Also my heat worked. So I recently drained the coolant, replaced the water pump along with the thermostat, and the upper radiator hose. After filling reservoir I ran the car for a bit with the heat blowing like I had read to do. The heater worked before and now it doesn’t. The coolant gauge reached pass the red line and I started having smoke come from my ac compressor. The low coolant light is now more persistent and doesn’t go off. I spilled coolant on the serpentine belt and possibly the compressor so the smoke could be from that cause when I tried this morning the only thing I heard was a hissing when turning the car off. The air compressor spins and I think the Smoking could have been the fan working harder to compensate some how? The coolant reservoir stays full and sometimes bubbles over like it’s boiling. I put the old thermostat back on to see if the coolant gauge would read differently but because of the low coolant I don’t want to run engine that long to find out. So now my reservoir is full and I think it won’t drain into the radiator cause I tried running the car with the radiator plug open and I was not getting any if much at all coolant draining through but kept getting low coolant warning. Please help what do you think the issue could be and how would I check?

Before messaging on Chat or DM's, please be able to hold a conversation as it's not nice to be ghosted within the first few messages, it ain't nice and you should have some actual decent social skills to just be upfront about this with someone... Anyway, with that out of the way let's continue.

Introduction

Well hello there! (General Kenobi!). I'm Snoky also known as you'll find out when we get to know eachother
I’m a 25 year old English/Norwegian guy from the U of K! I currently work in the IT Sector within the Local Government and my god I forgot how hectic the public sector was after i left it roughly 4 years ago. I did indeed have quite a shock coming back 😅

Apperance

I'm on the bigger side but am looking to get that changed with some help due to i'm not very happy with the way thing's are currently. Minus that I'm 6'1/6'2, depends on which doctor you ask! I have short-ish hair dark blonde hair? I think? I'm not very good with colors so you'll have to tell me whenever we decide to exchange pictures.
Which i will be more than happy to exchange later on once we get to know eachother!

Main Intrests/Hobbies

My main interests are either playing games with some friends on the PC, studying for future certifications and mainly what I do after work just kicking back and watching whatever random things I can find on YouTube (I aren’t a big TV person). I used to watch a lot of anime but I tend to drop out of it for a year and then I get back in to it then I lose interest again heh, it’s just a thing that I’ve been doing for years on end.
I am somewhat in to movies but I haven’t really properly watched any within the last year or so but if I was to give a rough genre, I’d say dark-ish movies with a grabbing story i.e. DC films and a here and there Marvel film (IW ftw!) I much more prefer it when the bad guy gets the upper hand and basically wins as close to that of Thanos basically.
My main music choices? Everywhere and everything. If my ears like it, then chances are I’ll most likely like it. I’d write down all the artists I follow right now but trust me it’d take too long to go over so it’d probs better to just share my Spotify playlist lmao. But to give a quick sum up I’d say its more around mixed genre, alt-rock basically.
I do also write my own stuff as well, but again like anime I do it for like 6 months then stop, then start a year later so eh it’s a pretty hit and miss hobby for me 😅

Future Prospects?

As mentioned in my apperance section i'm in the process of trying to get fit with weight loss as I’m not very happy with how I am at the moment especially when it comes to health after a incident a few years ago but that’s neither here nor the future as I’m looking to change it with the help of the NHS and people around me. I'd be more than happy to join forces together with someone who's trying to do the same thing!
I currently own my own company which is currently under going some development but hasn't actually started as of yet (still looking in that area) but it will get there at somepoint!
Alongside my own company I’m also undergoing a project with a close friend of mine that we’re trying to pursue which is actually happening alongside the org itself so it's all looping together slowly but surely.

What am i looking for?

I'm looking for someone who's intrested in getting to know eachother, someone who's got my back and i've got theres, someone i can well essentially "grow" with and get to know, someone who's willing to put the effort in to get to know me and vice versa.I'd like said person to be able to hold a convoersation with me as i've been in too many instances where it's all been one sided convos with me basically putting in more effort than the other person but alas that's neither here nor there and hopfully I'll maybe find the person who would share that equal effort with me. And trust me I've been ghosted loads of times to the point it's like "bruh, just why?" but anyway!
I'm open to long distant's so long as there's a goal to meet eachother in the somewhat near future!

The End?

If you've made it this far after this somewhat long post then i must congradulate you!
I now have a small question for you to send me the answer too when you message me.
On what date and or month was a i born? hint I was born on the month of a certain red birthstone on a international memorial day
p.s, if you don't get it it doesn't matter it's worth a try regardless!

Long post incoming, sorry in advance
My best friend (26yo F) and I (25yo F) met in junior high. We clicked instantly and were inseparable for years. We practically lived together all throughout high school.
In 2020, we both found out that we were pregnant around the same time (she was a few months ahead of me in pregnancy). We were both so excited. I envisioned our friendship growing even stronger once both of our babies were born, since we would both be navigating new motherhood together. But really, it feels like we’ve only grown further and further apart since. My daughter (now 2yo) is recently diagnosed with autism, and her daughter does not have autism. Her daughter is very playful, energetic, and outgoing. My daughter is the exact opposite. She doesn’t like being around other children at ALL, she gets overwhelmed easily in new environments and prefers to stay home most of the time. While I do think that challenging my daughter to an extent is good for her, I also think that respecting her boundaries is important. If she is not up for having a play date, I am not going to force her to do so. Therefore, my best friend and I haven’t spent much time together over the past few years.
Not long after we both had our daughters, my best friend began growing closer to other people in our friend group. They started planning camping trips and other outings together and not inviting me. It hurt my feelings, but I let it go. Then in 2021, my best friend got engaged. She told me it was just going to be a small ceremony two hours away at the coast, with only close friends and family. I kept waiting for her to invite me, but she never did. Last minute, she told me that she decided not to invite me because my daughter was only 2 months old (at the time) and she figured I wouldn’t go. I played it off like it was totally fine and that I understood. But really, my feelings were SO hurt. She’s my best friend of 12 years, why would I not be there for her wedding?! My husband could have stayed home with our daughter, we could have found a babysitter, I could have brought my daughter with me and I’m sure it would have been fine (she was only 2 months old at the time and autism wasn’t really noticeable yet). I would have found a way. At the very least, an invite would have been nice, even if she thought I wouldn’t go. Seeing photos of other people from our friend group there, and not me, really hurt. But again, I let it go.
A few months ago, her daughter turned 2yo and had a birthday party. I decided not to go to the birthday party because I knew it would be stressful for my daughter and she would be miserable the entire time. I figured my best friend would be sad to not have us there, but she would understand given the circumstances. A few days later, she called me and she was pissed. She said that that was the last straw, and that I don’t come around enough. She was ready to end our friendship right there. We ended up talking through it and she forgave me for not going to the party. I finally brought up her wedding, and how my feelings were hurt that she didn’t invite me. She said she was sorry, and I forgave her. But honestly, deep down, I didn’t forgive her. And I still don’t. My feelings are still hurt, and I can’t get past it.
A few weeks ago, I found out that she’s pregnant again through Facebook. I was the first person that she told aside from her husband with her last pregnancy. So I guess I was just shocked and kinda sad that she didn’t tell me before announcing on social media.
What would you do in this situation? How would you feel? Would it be enough for you to end the friendship overall? Or am I overreacting? Any advice is appreciated. And thank you for reading if you made it this far.

Before messaging on Chat or DM's, please be able to hold a conversation as it's not nice to be ghosted within the first few messages, it ain't nice and you should have some actual decent social skills to just be upfront about this with someone... Anyway, with that out of the way let's continue.

Introduction

Well hello there! (General Kenobi!). I'm Snoky also known as you'll find out when we get to know eachother
I’m a 25 year old English/Norwegian guy from the U of K! I currently work in the IT Sector within the Local Government and my god I forgot how hectic the public sector was after i left it roughly 4 years ago. I did indeed have quite a shock coming back 😅

Apperance

I'm on the bigger side but am looking to get that changed with some help due to i'm not very happy with the way thing's are currently. Minus that I'm 6'1/6'2, depends on which doctor you ask! I have short-ish hair dark blonde hair? I think? I'm not very good with colors so you'll have to tell me whenever we decide to exchange pictures.
Which i will be more than happy to exchange later on once we get to know eachother!

Main Intrests/Hobbies

My main interests are either playing games with some friends on the PC, studying for future certifications and mainly what I do after work just kicking back and watching whatever random things I can find on YouTube (I aren’t a big TV person). I used to watch a lot of anime but I tend to drop out of it for a year and then I get back in to it then I lose interest again heh, it’s just a thing that I’ve been doing for years on end.
I am somewhat in to movies but I haven’t really properly watched any within the last year or so but if I was to give a rough genre, I’d say dark-ish movies with a grabbing story i.e. DC films and a here and there Marvel film (IW ftw!) I much more prefer it when the bad guy gets the upper hand and basically wins as close to that of Thanos basically.
My main music choices? Everywhere and everything. If my ears like it, then chances are I’ll most likely like it. I’d write down all the artists I follow right now but trust me it’d take too long to go over so it’d probs better to just share my Spotify playlist lmao. But to give a quick sum up I’d say its more around mixed genre, alt-rock basically.
I do also write my own stuff as well, but again like anime I do it for like 6 months then stop, then start a year later so eh it’s a pretty hit and miss hobby for me 😅

Future Prospects?

As mentioned in my apperance section i'm in the process of trying to get fit with weight loss as I’m not very happy with how I am at the moment especially when it comes to health after a incident a few years ago but that’s neither here nor the future as I’m looking to change it with the help of the NHS and people around me. I'd be more than happy to join forces together with someone who's trying to do the same thing!
I currently own my own company which is currently under going some development but hasn't actually started as of yet (still looking in that area) but it will get there at somepoint!
Alongside my own company I’m also undergoing a project with a close friend of mine that we’re trying to pursue which is actually happening alongside the org itself so it's all looping together slowly but surely.

What am i looking for?

I'm looking for someone who's intrested in getting to know eachother, someone who's got my back and i've got theres, someone i can well essentially "grow" with and get to know, someone who's willing to put the effort in to get to know me and vice versa.I'd like said person to be able to hold a convoersation with me as i've been in too many instances where it's all been one sided convos with me basically putting in more effort than the other person but alas that's neither here nor there and hopfully I'll maybe find the person who would share that equal effort with me. And trust me I've been ghosted loads of times to the point it's like "bruh, just why?" but anyway!
I'm open to long distant's so long as there's a goal to meet eachother in the somewhat near future!

The End?

If you've made it this far after this somewhat long post then i must congradulate you!
I now have a small question for you to send me the answer too when you message me.
On what date and or month was a i born? hint I was born on the month of a certain red birthstone on a international memorial day
p.s, if you don't get it it doesn't matter it's worth a try regardless!

Hi there! I'm glad I caught your attention.
Here's a brief summary:
End goal: relationship
Stats: 33, from Sask, Canada.
Relationship: ENM, Partnered, Parent
And the expanded version:
What I'm looking for:
I would like to just start off as friends, but I hope we would click enough that it could turn into something more. That being said, I'm never going to force anything if it doesn't form naturally. Preferably, you are somewhat local, but with how slim those chances are, I'm also fine with LDR as long as there is the opportunity to actually meet in person eventually. I don't do drugs and rarely drink, and that's only ever social drinking.
About me:
I am a 33 year old male. I was born in Saskatchewan, Canada, and still live in the same city. I've got a cushy office job, for which I went to school. I am slowly getting back into casually gaming. Typically, you can find me catching up on my "to watch" list, which always seems to grow faster than I can watch. I do want to start getting back into outdoor activities, though! In person, I tend to be quite shy until I get comfortable. I've also come to the realization that I match effort, especially when it comes to texting. I also tend to be slightly demisexual and open-minded
Relationship status:
As mentioned, I am in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. We have been together for 14 years and have a toddler together. We prefer practicing kitchen table style. That being said, you don't have to interact with my wife. We just prefer that everyone is able to at least be cordial. I do not have any other partners besides my wife. We lean more to non hierarchical between me and my wife, but our kid comes first in all regards.
If I have kept your attention and have intrigued you, please reach out! I do prefer chat, but feel free to send a message if that's what you prefer. But please include the swordfish in your message so I know you've read everything!
I am truly an open book, and I love to answer any and all questions, so ask away!
I also enjoy the icebreaker type games like 20 questions, would you rather, 2 truth and a lie, etc... So you can choose one of those if you need help!
PS: If physical looks are important, feel free to ask what I look like. I am open to sharing pictures after chatting a bit.