Dragon kite pet not showing up

Pictures of dogs!

2009.08.27 22:50 Pictures of dogs!

Pictures of dogs!
[link]


2011.06.13 02:31 DJMeowMax Dragon Nest - Welcome to Saint Haven!

Subreddit to post and discuss content about the free-to-play MMORPG Dragon Nest (PC Version).
[link]


2012.10.27 21:31 Eat_Bacon_nomnomnom The best things in life are chubby!

All things cute, adorable, and chubby. We mostly feature animals, but all delightfully chubby content is welcome! This is including, but not limited to: pics, images, memes, animations, gifs, videos, and artwork. Help us grow our collection! **No NSFW**
[link]


2023.04.01 16:20 restfulsoftmachine How would you explain (or defend) the art of drag?

I came across a post in Philippines that suggests that there's a pipeline of right-wing ideas from the U.S. to the Philippines.
As you probably now, drag bans in the U.S. are big news at the moment. In the post, the OP was stirring up a moral panic over this video, claiming that this was the result of people being "woke". (Side note: If you're using "woke" as a pejorative label for things that you happen to disapprove of, then you need to see the actual definition of the term.
I challenged the OP, saying that the video shows people in costumes who are dancing, doing a little bit of gymnastics, and lipsyncing. The children are clearly accompanied by parents or other adults with responsibility over them.
The OP replied with even more heightened language; they:
The comments were locked, and the post deleted, before I could reply, but the situation did get me wondering how to engage with people who think this way about drag (or indeed any other queer topic).
I realize that, on the one hand, it's probably pointless to enter into discussions with people who have already made up their minds, are approaching the subject in bad faith, or are sealioning or otherwise trolling. On the other hand, some of these conversations probably do need to be had if we're going to push back on ignorance and hate.
Hence, this post: how would you explain (or defend) the art of drag?
Sharing here the points that I would've raised with OP if I had had a chance to do so.
submitted by restfulsoftmachine to phlgbt [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:20 Wan_Haole_Faka Restarting at 32 in Plumbing, Left Cult, Overcoming Self-Harm

This is sort of a broad post with many facets and I don't have a TLDR. I was in a high-control "spiritual" group from age 21-30 and am having some challenges readjusting to many of the "realities" of life. I don't know where to go to for help and would greatly appreciate outside perspectives.
I'm starting my 2nd year as an apprentice plumber after finishing first in my trade school (once I decided to leave said group).
I believe that one of the triggers for addictive/self-destructive behavior is trying to avoid challenging emotions. I struggle with binge eating maybe 50% of evenings and I live with my mother. She has been wonderfully supportive since I decided to make my own decisions in life and doesn't charge me rent, never will and will allow me to stay as long as I want to.
Last year I paid off $7,000 of credit card debt and maxed my new Roth IRA. The year before I paid $6,000 of delinquent capital gains tax. All these debts were due to squandering an inheritance from my grandfather due to me having a good heart, being gullible perhaps and not having any financial literacy until I decided that personal sovereignty was very important to me.
Anyways, living with my mother has allowed me to save a little money, but I'm not happy with the emotional/social dynamic. I don't want to speculate too much, but I think I reject the kind of love my mother wants to give me. She's getting better about seeing me as an adult, but still does things like trying to speak for me to others while in my presence, kind of normal mothering stuff for a little boy, I guess. She's retired and I think sort of has a tendency to live vicariously through others. I don't think it's healthy and so I don't really talk about my life much or communicate much with her at all. I respect her, but we're into different things and frankly, as adults, don't have a lot of common interests, which is fine. Me living with her is putting a fair strain on both of us I think, but she'll never ask me to leave.
We don't eat together for various reasons. Partially it's scheduling, she's more into snacking and I don't like talking while eating. Also, although I don't show it outwardly, I think I get triggered by her questions. I feel like I'm being interrogated and as an adult, I don't owe her any answers.
I think one of my triggers for binge eating is feeling trapped and not in control of my life. I'm wondering if living on my own will help me to "man up" for lack of a better phrase and just make my life work. I've lived alone and with roommates before in many different situations. However I also struggled with binge eating/drinking while living alone in situations where I didn't feel in control, or I didn't like my life circumstances, such as my boss being my landlord, etc. I did learn some independence even though I was in a cult lol. I was told what part of the work to go to, what country to go to, then left and forgotten about. I had to find odd jobs with limited handman/farm skills and couldn't make any commitments. I had to make it work.
I'm hedging my bets that being more independent will help me to overcome my self-destructive habits. Frankly, I've struggled with food addiction before I even got involved in the high-control group. I'm not overweight and am actually very fit, but you know when you have a problem.
I haven't confessed this to anyone in my life, but I started seeing a therapist a couple months ago and have talked about using food to cope. I have a good relationship with some of my family members but I guess I just don't want sympathy. There was a time maybe 12-13 years ago I had a major eczema issue with my skin, lived with my mother and told my sisters I wasn't interested in going to see a Western medical practitioner. Frankly, the crying, begging and emotional strain of having people care about me with good intentions can be a lot to bear. It doesn't always make things better.
I have hobbies, but I don't fully express myself and my interests around my mother and family members. I'm hoping that living on my own (even with roommates), I can focus on increasing my earning potential, work occasional side jobs and focus on my hobbies (singing, Spanish language, martial arts, yoga, etc.) and that this purpose will help me to face uncomfortable emotions and not rely on coping in negative ways.
I'd like to move out of the house and keep reworking my budget, but it's tough. I currently make $21.50/hr. but if I go to another company, I may be taking a pay cut. Although currently, I don't have any benefit package from my job and with a different company, I'd have a package. I currently have about $21,000 in a HYSA that is a combination of an emergency fund and new catruck savings.
I drive a Toyota Solara with 246,000 miles that's been well-cared for. I just put in a new alternator and new tires. Part of my hesitation in leaving my company and current city is that I don't know how much longer this car will last. I don't want to be somewhere I don't know anybody and have to deal with towing a scrap car, potentially missing work at a new company, getting a rental car and finding something reliable with Uber's and whatnot. I don't necessarily NEED a truck but am looking at everything from Tundras to Rangers because it will help me keep options open for weekend side jobs and also to move living situations if I need to.
At my current job, I'm not getting the best training (but it's okay and I can make it work), but I have a company van, they may have given me a little too early (7 months in). So, if my personal car breaks down on a weekend while I have a work van and I'm living with my mother, it's not a huge deal. Problem is, I live in a HCOL area, but I could probably find a roommate and keep my housing/utility costs under $850/mo.
My credit is 694 and I don't want to have a car loan that is less than 91.5% paid off while potentially needing to have a landlord run my credit. 694 should be fine for an apartment, but not if I add a mostly unpaid car loan.
My buddy's mother and her partner have a mother-in-law suite they are trying to rent out in a major city 1 hour away from me. They would charge below market value and there is a good plumbing company in the area I would try to get in with. They are known for having a wonderful paid training program (they actually subcontract out their training). I'd likely take a pay cut but get benefits I'm currently paying for myself (dental, health, retirement). I would probably be someone's helper for 2-6 months before getting my own work vehicle. This is an option.
I guess there's a part of me that feels bad to leave my current company. There is sideways and upward mobility, I have enough say (due to my work ethic and intellect) that I can mostly work with who I want to. They took a chance on me, pay me decently (started me at $20 and now got an additional $1.50 after 10 months) and they make a decent effort to teach me stuff. Problem is they aren't organized with how they bill jobs, among other thing. Some jobs are time and materials, some things are flat rate, some things are a total toss up and some are charity for the church, which takes money out of the employees pockets. At the risk of sounding like I'm slandering them, a good few of the guys are pot heads and even smoke at work. Warnings have been given, but nobody gets fired. If you splash too much water out of a small puddle, I guess you're only left with mud. But I still believe that a company should have standards. Small family company and management doesn't really command respect. We lose money on efficiency and productivity. Guys 6 years in still don't know how to solder and make what I make, some less. One of our lead plumbers makes $.50 an hour more than I do.
So my point is that I could do okay if I stayed in this city with my current job, for now, but I wouldn't be relying on being around people with a growth mindset. I would be relying on my own drive, which is fickle. I'm driven, but I feel like I'm also influenced by my environment. If I stay here, I'd continue seeing my therapist, but if I move to the larger city with arguably the better company, I'd probably find another therapist and would also have access to a couple different men's groups, but nothing like Overeaters Anonymous or Smart Recovery. There are options though for help if I need it, more so in the larger city.
I'll add that my former cult is based out of the larger city with these opportunities. They aren't like a major Church, but are low-key, Christian-influenced Andean Shamanic type people who are followers of someone very charismatic with a few allegations of sexual harassment, although nothing is concrete so far (I think). If I moved there, I may run into the people I left who I was very close to for 9 years. Wouldn't be a big deal I don't think, but I might have to face that.
Budget: $2,900 monthly net income
$693 food (inflated due to not feeling comfortable in my mom's kitchen to cook healthy/cheap)
$541 IRA contributions
$150 catruck savings
$100 gas
$80 clothes/shoe allowance
$80 counseling copayments
$70 health insurance
$70 Verizon bill
$55 car maintenance
$50 supplements
$35 dental insurance
$25 cleaning/maintenance
That leaves me with $951 for rent/utilities, but perhaps more. My food spending should go down substantially if I live alone, but it might not go down if I have to share a kitchen with someone.
I get bonuses at work but don't build my budget around that or anything I make from side jobs.
My mother has decided to pay my car insurance and I won't necessarily complain about that.
Currently Reading:
"The Four Agreements" Don Miguel Ruiz
"Break the Binge Eating Cycle" Sylvana Siskov
The last thing I'll add is that I'm learning to enjoy taking ice baths and am trying to pursue difficult things in order to build up my discipline. If you've read all that, thank you and I hope you can offer some insight that maybe I'm missing. Also, if there's another sub I should post this expression, suggestions are welcome and appreciated. Have a great weekend!
submitted by Wan_Haole_Faka to AddictionAdvice [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:20 AutoModerator [Get] Leevi Eerola – Lead Gen 2.0 University

[Get] Leevi Eerola – Lead Gen 2.0 University

https://preview.redd.it/kbr9pa6eo8ra1.jpg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=114bfeefe43fa7f6ccddee279a5823ef124737b6

Description

Are you ready to make more sales, land more clients, and become one of the most stress-free people on the planet? If so, then you’re in the right place. In this blog post, we’re going to reveal the exact steps you need to take to make all of that happen.First, let’s talk about setting up your email accounts the right way. You don’t want to risk losing your emails due to a faulty setup, right? We’ll cover the most important aspects of setting up your email accounts, so you can make sure everything is in order. Once you have your email accounts set up, it’s time to find laser-targeted leads for your campaigns. We’ll discuss the best ways to find qualified prospects, so you can maximize your outreach efforts and maximize your ROI. Next, we’ll discuss our “3-Step Email Copywriting Structure.” This simple yet effective structure will help you get a +10% reply rate on your cold emails in as little as 4 days. We’ll show you how to craft compelling emails that draw prospects in and compel them to take action. Last but not least, we’ll discuss how to close your dream clients using a simple 6-step process. This process will make you one of the most stress free people on the planet, no matter what field you’re in. We’ll walk you through all the steps, so you can get the results you want in no time. By following our advice, you’ll be able to make more sales and land more clients. You’ll also be able to relieve yourself of stress and become one of the most stress-free people on the planet. So, what are you waiting for? Let’s get started!
What You’ll Get When You Join
1. The Foundations ($997 Value) QUICKLY BUILD A PROFITABLE LEAD GEN AGENCY Most SMMA programs are just marketing ‘new tricks’ or ‘secret hacks’ to close big deals. Based on building a real profitable agency, we can tell you that these never work. What you need is a deep understanding of the fundamentals of an agency and how to create an offer and pick a niche so you can actually get insane client results (and get paid $$$).
2. A-Z Cold Email Guide ($1,997 Value) LEARN HOW TO WRITE EFFECTIVE COLD EMAILS Most agency programs don’t teach you anything on high-value skills or how to get results for clients. In the Lead Gen 2.0 University, the cold email module is the longest. Leevi and his team combined everything there is to know about cold emails, from technical setup to writing effective copy. Being able to write simple 140 word emails to get CEOs of billion dollar companies on the phone is one of the highest value skills you can learn.
3. SERVICE DELIVERY TEMPLATES ($597 Value) EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO OFFER A WHITE GLOVE SERVICE The #1 reason why most agencies fail is simply offering a bad experience to their clients. They sign a client, onboard them unprofessionally and fail to get great results. And then the clients either fire you or ask for a refund. We’ve combined everything you need to offer a professional experience for your clients, from onboarding to weekly reporting to using cold emails to get them insane results. This way you’ll keep your clients for longer and in turn, make more money.
YOUR FREE BONUSES Join Now And You’ll Also Get…
BONUS #1: Creating A Landing Page & A Video Sales Letter ($997 Value) EARN HOW TO CREATE HIGH CONVERTING AGENCY LANDING PAGES Most agencies have useless websites that prospects leave in a couple of seconds. You’ll learn exactly how to design and write a landing page for your agency that captures your ideal clients’ attention. You’ll also get access to the exact Video Sales Letter template that convinces your prospects to invest in your service even before jumping on a sales call.
BONUS #2: 2-Step Sales System ($2,000 Value) LEARN HOW TO CLOSE HIGH TICKET DEALS Pitching and closing clients on $3,000+ deals requires specific sales training. You’ll learn the exact 2-Step Sales System that let us close deals as high as $8,000 and leaves prospects begging to work with you. While we use this system mainly to close lead generation deals, you’ll be able to replicate this skill for any deal.
BONUS #3: Hiring & Automating Your Agency (Priceless) LEARN HOW TO HIRE THE RIGHT PEOPLE AND AUTOMATE YOUR AGENCY As long as you’re working on your agency every day, you’re not a real business owner. You need to hire the right people and automate the right tasks so your agency is generating cash flow whether you’re sleeping, travelling or taking a day off.
submitted by AutoModerator to CoursesBestOf2023 [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:20 AutoModerator [Get] Dan Koe – Digital Economics Masters Degree Full Course Download

[Get] Dan Koe – Digital Economics Masters Degree Full Course Download
Get the course here: https://www.genkicourses.com/product/dan-koe-digital-economics-masters-degree/ Dan Koe – Digital Economics Masters Degree
https://preview.redd.it/e5bm5i19z5pa1.jpg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b38f3d722558909f9bfa22127af1347efd52b4ef
What You Get Phase 0) Digital Economics 101 The Digital Economics 101 module will open 1 week prior to the cohort start date.This is an onboarding module that will get you up to speed so we can get straight into the material.This will be required to finish before the start date.
  • Gain a deep understanding of all of the pieces in the digital economy.
  • Learn about the future of media and code — the front-end and backend of the internet — so you can focus your efforts.
  • Understand digital leverage, distribution, no-code tools, and digital assets so you can take part in the mental & financial wealth transfer.
Phase 1) Creating A Meaningful Niche Every day I hear people going on and on about trying to find their niche.I also hear people talking about how they don’t know how to combine what they love talking about with *what will sell.*You already have the answer. You just don’t have the clarity.
  • Develop a long-term strategy to create your own niche — meaning you don’t have to worry about your “competition” playing status games.
  • Discover your life’s work, curiosities, and obsessions. I see too many people that are uncertain about this for years.
  • Cultivate and turn your vision, goals, and values into a brand that attracts an audience you love interacting with (and that will buy from you, and only you).
Phase 2) Content Strategy There is one thing that separates those who make it in the digital economy and those who don’t.It’s the quality, articulation, and perceived originality of their content.The content you post has to make sense to the people you attract.Everyone has a different voice and tone that they resonate with. **That they are congruent with and trust.**It has to change their thought patterns or behavior — that’s what makes you memorable.That’s what separates you from the sea of people posting surface-level copy-cat style posts.Example and putting my money where my mouth is:
  • Become an expert-level speaker or writer on the topics you care about.
  • Never run out of content ideas for your posts or promotions (without using content templates — that’s how you stay a commodity).
  • Create posts, blogs, tweets, images, and videos that resonate with other’s on a deep level. People will actually ask you how you got so good at what you do.
  • Separate yourself from the ocean of B-tier creators that struggle to sell their products, services, andhave their ideas stick in the head of their audience.
  • Implement our Epistemic Research Method — which is just a fancy way of saying scientific research method… but it’s for researching your mind to craft brilliant content and product ideas.
Phase 3) Crafting Your Offer Most people are sitting on a goldmine of skills, experience, and knowledge (that they can use to help people 1-2 steps behind them).That is what people pay for.Considering 95% of the market are beginners… if you are good at something, you can help them get to your level (no matter how “basic” you think the information is).Do you not watch basic content all day anyway? People don’t want new information, they want to be reminded of what works.
  • Use our Minimum Viable Offer strategy to start monetizing immediately (and have something to improve over time, rather than procrastinating until it’s perfect).
  • Have a strategy for reducing the time you spend working over time (as you build leverage and improve your offer).
  • Know how to create your own customers from the audience you are building, instead of “finding” the right customer for your offer.
  • Take the guesswork out of building coaching, consulting, or digital product offers.
Phase 4) Marketing Strategy You aren’t making money because you aren’t promoting yourself or your offer.That is literally the only way to make money. Have something desirable and consistently put it in front of peoples’ faces.In Phase 4, I will show you how to systemize, automate, and be consistent with simple will be able to make money without having the chance of forgetting to do it (or letting fear of failure get in the way).
  • Learn to sell on social media, in your writing, and across different platforms.
  • Have consistent sales coming in while focusing on your meaningful message (no need to sound salesy all the time).
  • Learn advanced automation strategies that you can implement at your own pace, especially once you validate your offer.
Bonus) The Creator Command Center The Creator Command Center is a Notion template that houses all of the systems.This is how you will manage your brand, content, offer creation, marketing strategy, and systemized promotions for consistent sales. Bonus) Live Product Build & Launch In the first Digital Economics Cohort, I built out my course The 2 Hour Writer.I have videos showing how I build it with the strategies in phase 3 and 4.There is a bonus module that shows how I had an $85,000 launch that resulted in my first $100K month.I did this to prove the strategies inside Digital Economics work if you stick to the plan.***And, this past Black Friday, I blew my that monthly high out of the water in 4 days.***That’s the power of these strategies if you stay consistent with your life’s work.
submitted by AutoModerator to Affordable_Courses [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:20 Joe_Monahan Whats wrong with herp thermostats?

Mostly we don’t need them —
Most every care sheet you read will instruct you to incorporate a thermostat of some sort into your vivarium design. So maybe its surprising to read here that I think they are often worthless and even dangerous.
Probably because there was no such thing during the first 20 years of my herp keeping career, we had no choice but to live without them. And when they first showed up on the scene I thought of them mostly as more pet store junk. Later I realized just how dangerous they were!
The rest of the story ...
https://herpetocultureinc.com/2023/03/29/whats-wrong-with-thermostats/
submitted by Joe_Monahan to NaturallyKeepingHerps [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:20 Wan_Haole_Faka Restarting at 32 in Plumbing, Left Cult, Overcoming Self-Harm

This is sort of a broad post with many facets and I don't have a TLDR. I was in a high-control "spiritual" group from age 21-30 and am having some challenges readjusting to many of the "realities" of life. I don't know where to go to for help and would greatly appreciate outside perspectives.
I'm starting my 2nd year as an apprentice plumber after finishing first in my trade school (once I decided to leave said group).
I believe that one of the triggers for addictive/self-destructive behavior is trying to avoid challenging emotions. I struggle with binge eating maybe 50% of evenings and I live with my mother. She has been wonderfully supportive since I decided to make my own decisions in life and doesn't charge me rent, never will and will allow me to stay as long as I want to.
Last year I paid off $7,000 of credit card debt and maxed my new Roth IRA. The year before I paid $6,000 of delinquent capital gains tax. All these debts were due to squandering an inheritance from my grandfather due to me having a good heart, being gullible perhaps and not having any financial literacy until I decided that personal sovereignty was very important to me.
Anyways, living with my mother has allowed me to save a little money, but I'm not happy with the emotional/social dynamic. I don't want to speculate too much, but I think I reject the kind of love my mother wants to give me. She's getting better about seeing me as an adult, but still does things like trying to speak for me to others while in my presence, kind of normal mothering stuff for a little boy, I guess. She's retired and I think sort of has a tendency to live vicariously through others. I don't think it's healthy and so I don't really talk about my life much or communicate much with her at all. I respect her, but we're into different things and frankly, as adults, don't have a lot of common interests, which is fine. Me living with her is putting a fair strain on both of us I think, but she'll never ask me to leave.
We don't eat together for various reasons. Partially it's scheduling, she's more into snacking and I don't like talking while eating. Also, although I don't show it outwardly, I think I get triggered by her questions. I feel like I'm being interrogated and as an adult, I don't owe her any answers.
I think one of my triggers for binge eating is feeling trapped and not in control of my life. I'm wondering if living on my own will help me to "man up" for lack of a better phrase and just make my life work. I've lived alone and with roommates before in many different situations. However I also struggled with binge eating/drinking while living alone in situations where I didn't feel in control, or I didn't like my life circumstances, such as my boss being my landlord, etc. I did learn some independence even though I was in a cult lol. I was told what part of the work to go to, what country to go to, then left and forgotten about. I had to find odd jobs with limited handman/farm skills and couldn't make any commitments. I had to make it work.
I'm hedging my bets that being more independent will help me to overcome my self-destructive habits. Frankly, I've struggled with food addiction before I even got involved in the high-control group. I'm not overweight and am actually very fit, but you know when you have a problem.
I haven't confessed this to anyone in my life, but I started seeing a therapist a couple months ago and have talked about using food to cope. I have a good relationship with some of my family members but I guess I just don't want sympathy. There was a time maybe 12-13 years ago I had a major eczema issue with my skin, lived with my mother and told my sisters I wasn't interested in going to see a Western medical practitioner. Frankly, the crying, begging and emotional strain of having people care about me with good intentions can be a lot to bear. It doesn't always make things better.
I have hobbies, but I don't fully express myself and my interests around my mother and family members. I'm hoping that living on my own (even with roommates), I can focus on increasing my earning potential, work occasional side jobs and focus on my hobbies (singing, Spanish language, martial arts, yoga, etc.) and that this purpose will help me to face uncomfortable emotions and not rely on coping in negative ways.
I'd like to move out of the house and keep reworking my budget, but it's tough. I currently make $21.50/hr. but if I go to another company, I may be taking a pay cut. Although currently, I don't have any benefit package from my job and with a different company, I'd have a package. I currently have about $21,000 in a HYSA that is a combination of an emergency fund and new catruck savings.
I drive a Toyota Solara with 246,000 miles that's been well-cared for. I just put in a new alternator and new tires. Part of my hesitation in leaving my company and current city is that I don't know how much longer this car will last. I don't want to be somewhere I don't know anybody and have to deal with towing a scrap car, potentially missing work at a new company, getting a rental car and finding something reliable with Uber's and whatnot. I don't necessarily NEED a truck but am looking at everything from Tundras to Rangers because it will help me keep options open for weekend side jobs and also to move living situations if I need to.
At my current job, I'm not getting the best training (but it's okay and I can make it work), but I have a company van, they may have given me a little too early (7 months in). So, if my personal car breaks down on a weekend while I have a work van and I'm living with my mother, it's not a huge deal. Problem is, I live in a HCOL area, but I could probably find a roommate and keep my housing/utility costs under $850/mo.
My credit is 694 and I don't want to have a car loan that is less than 91.5% paid off while potentially needing to have a landlord run my credit. 694 should be fine for an apartment, but not if I add a mostly unpaid car loan.
My buddy's mother and her partner have a mother-in-law suite they are trying to rent out in a major city 1 hour away from me. They would charge below market value and there is a good plumbing company in the area I would try to get in with. They are known for having a wonderful paid training program (they actually subcontract out their training). I'd likely take a pay cut but get benefits I'm currently paying for myself (dental, health, retirement). I would probably be someone's helper for 2-6 months before getting my own work vehicle. This is an option.
I guess there's a part of me that feels bad to leave my current company. There is sideways and upward mobility, I have enough say (due to my work ethic and intellect) that I can mostly work with who I want to. They took a chance on me, pay me decently (started me at $20 and now got an additional $1.50 after 10 months) and they make a decent effort to teach me stuff. Problem is they aren't organized with how they bill jobs, among other thing. Some jobs are time and materials, some things are flat rate, some things are a total toss up and some are charity for the church, which takes money out of the employees pockets. At the risk of sounding like I'm slandering them, a good few of the guys are pot heads and even smoke at work. Warnings have been given, but nobody gets fired. If you splash too much water out of a small puddle, I guess you're only left with mud. But I still believe that a company should have standards. Small family company and management doesn't really command respect. We lose money on efficiency and productivity. Guys 6 years in still don't know how to solder and make what I make, some less. One of our lead plumbers makes $.50 an hour more than I do.
So my point is that I could do okay if I stayed in this city with my current job, for now, but I wouldn't be relying on being around people with a growth mindset. I would be relying on my own drive, which is fickle. I'm driven, but I feel like I'm also influenced by my environment. If I stay here, I'd continue seeing my therapist, but if I move to the larger city with arguably the better company, I'd probably find another therapist and would also have access to a couple different men's groups, but nothing like Overeaters Anonymous or Smart Recovery. There are options though for help if I need it, more so in the larger city.
I'll add that my former cult is based out of the larger city with these opportunities. They aren't like a major Church, but are low-key, Christian-influenced Andean Shamanic type people who are followers of someone very charismatic with a few allegations of sexual harassment, although nothing is concrete so far (I think). If I moved there, I may run into the people I left who I was very close to for 9 years. Wouldn't be a big deal I don't think, but I might have to face that.
Budget: $2,900 monthly net income
$693 food (inflated due to not feeling comfortable in my mom's kitchen to cook healthy/cheap)
$541 IRA contributions
$150 catruck savings
$100 gas
$80 clothes/shoe allowance
$80 counseling copayments
$70 health insurance
$70 Verizon bill
$55 car maintenance
$50 supplements
$35 dental insurance
$25 cleaning/maintenance
That leaves me with $951 for rent/utilities, but perhaps more. My food spending should go down substantially if I live alone, but it might not go down if I have to share a kitchen with someone.
I get bonuses at work but don't build my budget around that or anything I make from side jobs.
My mother has decided to pay my car insurance and I won't necessarily complain about that.
Currently Reading:
"The Four Agreements" Don Miguel Ruiz
"Break the Binge Eating Cycle" Sylvana Siskov
The last thing I'll add is that I'm learning to enjoy taking ice baths and am trying to pursue difficult things in order to build up my discipline. If you've read all that, thank you and I hope you can offer some insight that maybe I'm missing. Also, if there's another sub I should post this expression, suggestions are welcome and appreciated. Have a great weekend!
submitted by Wan_Haole_Faka to addiction [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:20 AuthorRKeene [The Primeval Apocalypse] - Chapter Thirteen (collaboration with u/hydrael)

[The Primeval Apocalypse] - Chapter Thirteen (collaboration with u/hydrael)

The Primeval Apocalypse by Robert Keene and Alex Raizman
Cover Image Robert's Published Books Hydrael's Published Books Robert's Patreon Hydrael's Patreon Get updates on Discord!
Start Here (Prologue) Previous Next
***
Author's Note:
It is completely coincidental that today, April 1, 2023, I am posting Chapter 13 of this book. However, it's also completely hilarious if it's not coincidental, so I absolutely did it on purpose and you should all play along.
Also don't forget to downvote this post because April Fools Day is opposite day, right?
***
I took the lead creeping through the tunnel back into Jamestown. I didn’t want to admit that I didn’t really have a plan, but there’s not a good way to explain to a giant dog-crocodile-dinosaur that I was just going to improvise your way past the guard. And I didn’t really want to explain how I knew her well enough to trust that I could pull it off.
“Where the hell have you been?” Jenna hissed when I finally emerged from the tunnel. She pointed at the wooden case I had crudely strapped to my back. “And where did you get that? I thought you were joking about being out there so long!”
“I never joke,” I said with a smirk. “I lack the cognitive capacity for it.”
“You’re not going to charm your way out of this,” she snapped at me. “I was about ready to go fetch James and get a search party going. I was… I was trying to get into a frame of mind where I’d be identifying your body before dawn, you dumbass!”
“Don’t you trust me?” I asked, trying to pretend to be hurt. Her concern was honestly pretty touching. I had expected her to be pissed because I could have gotten her in trouble, so it was surprising that she was concerned for my well-being. “I’ve been hurling myself into danger for months—years, even, if you count working retail during a pandemic—and I know perfectly well how to get back out again.”
Jenna sighed.
I could see in her eyes that she was warring with herself between holding on to her irritation and being relieved that I was alright. Her anger was starting to win, which wasn’t a good sign for what was coming next.
“Speaking of trusting me,” I said before she could put words to her thoughts, “I really need you to not freak out, okay?”
Noaich emerged from the tunnel behind me, leading with his big toothy snout.
To her credit, Jenna didn’t scream or shriek. Instead, she drew her sword in a flash and lunged. I considered it a minor miracle that I managed to pounce on her before she struck, grabbing her around the wrist with one hand and around the waist with the other. The offensive focus of her build meant that she was numerically stronger than me, and could have broken my grip easily, but the hand on her waist was enough to know that this wasn’t a fight.
“Easy, Jenna,” I said quickly, “it’s okay, he’s with me.”
“What the hell is it?” she demanded, shaking me off. She didn’t put her sword away, but she didn’t strike as the giant lizard finished squeezing through the opening in the brambles.
“He’s my new friend,” I said, not fighting to keep my grip on her. I moved to kneel down beside the critter and put a hand on his scaled neck, just behind his downy feather crest. “His name is Noaich and he’s going to grow up to be a big scary wizard someday.”
“How is that supposed to be comforting?” Jenna snapped, the tip of her sword moving to line up a deadly thrust if Noaich made one wrong move. “He looks like he’s gonna eat you in your sleep!”
“I told you I leveled up, right?” I said. “I picked my subclass. I’m a Beastmaster now, and this is my pet.”
Noaich gave me a sidelong glance. Wild Empathy conveyed to me that he didn’t really like the connotation of the word ‘pet.’
“Sorry,” I said quickly. “That’s just the word the system uses for the feature. I think of you as more of a sidekick than a pet.”
Noaich didn’t like ‘sidekick’ any more than he liked ‘pet.’
“Listen, as soon as you’re big and strong and doing all the work, you can call me the sidekick,” I said. “Until then, I’m the one putting my neck on the line so you can grow up big and strong.”
That seemed to mollify the critter. And when I looked back at Jenna, I could tell that the sidebar had actually helped my case. The conversation had humanized Noaich a little bit. The tip of her sword had dipped a few inches as she peered at the creature with a bit more curiosity than anger now.
“As a Beastmaster, I’m a support class now,” I explained. “Noaich’s abilities will help make everyone more powerful. And he can watch my back while I’m out causing trouble.” I scratched at the scales behind his feather crest.
Despite himself, he leaned into the touch, enjoying the attention.
“I thought you were melee, like me,” Jenna said. She pointed to the hand axes on my hips. “I thought Beastmaster would be a ranged class thing.”
“I guess it isn’t,” I said. “All my new unique abilities seem proof of that.”
Though now that I thought about it, it seemed possible that the same subclasses might be available to multiple base classes. I had, after all, gained Bow as a class skill. Perhaps there was a ranged base class that could take Beastmaster as a subclass and gain melee skills in the same way that Marauder had gained scout skills. Though a beastmaster with that base class would have much different core abilities.
Weird, Noaich conveyed to me, looking back and forth between Jenna and me.
“What’s weird?” I asked him, giving Jenna a glance to make sure she knew I was talking to the reptile.
Understand you. Don’t understand her.
“Yeah, that’s the other side of Wild Empathy,” I explained. “You understand when I’m talking the same way I understand you. But without you having a similar ability, you can’t understand anyone else any more than they understand you.”
“We need to talk to James about this,” Jenna interrupted as she finally sheathed her sword. “I don’t know if we can have him just wandering the town. He’ll cause a panic.”
I realized that she was right, of course. While I was interpreting Noaich’s grunts and body language as something roughly approximating words, it must not have looked quite so innocent to someone who was hearing the low growl in his throat and watching the narrowing of his slit-pupiled eyes.
“First thing in the morning,” I said. With my latest achievement upgrade, my detection radius now encompassed the whole town even from the edge here. I didn’t even have to concentrate to find James’s centralized wooden hut and identify his current state. “He’s asleep right now. And I imagine if we barged in on him, he’d be mortified to be caught as he is.”
“How do you—” Jenna began, before stopping and instead asking: “what do you mean about being caught as he is?”
“New Beastmaster toys,” I said, tapping my temple. “My Detection skill is absolutely insane now. And trust me, you don’t want to know. I don’t want to know, but my new detection radius didn’t give me a choice. And I bet he’ll be happier if I don’t go around gossiping about it.”
“I don’t think I can let you in, then,” Jenna said at last, seeming to ignore the fact that we were already in. “Like I said, you’re going to cause a panic, and I don’t think you’re going to get as lucky with every other guard as you’ve been with me.”
I almost blurted out something inappropriate, but in a display of incredible strength of character, I chose to keep the comment to myself. After all, Noaich could understand me, and I didn’t want the embarrassment of explaining to a tiny little lizard guy the particulars of human courtship.
“You have a point,” I said instead. “I think we should be fine in the morning, though, when it’s light out and people can clearly see he’s with me. We just need to avoid a panic, right?”
“I don’t think that’s enough,” Jenna said, her voice taking on a hedging tone. “I think we should talk to James before we bring your new buddy into town. Rick will be looking for an excuse to get rid of you, and this might be just the chance he needs. So you will have to—”
“Wait, what?” I interrupted. “Rick? You mean Richard? Why would Richard want to get rid of me?”
“Because…” Jenna blinked at me for a second. “Because he hates you? You know that, right? He hates your guts, Colin. Like, a lot.”
“Shit,” I muttered, shaking my head. “What did I ever do to him?”
“You’re a sarcastic asshole,” Jenna said with a smirk. “I might think it’s cute, but Rick can’t stand you for it. And you’re always second-guessing him in front of James and making him look bad. I honestly think he might straight-up murder you if James starts listening to you instead of him.”
It wasn’t a surprise for her to point out that I’d always been a bit snarky with Richard. His dour demeanor made it feel natural to pick on him.
The results of that did come as a shock, however. I thought I was building a begrudgingly friendly rivalry dynamic, and not making him into a dangerous mortal enemy. Besides, James was too skilled of a leader to obviously choose sides firmly enough that it would escalate that far.
Personally, I’d always thought that he was siding with Richard instead of me more often, but now that I re-examined it, James had always been carefully neutral. It’d just always felt like he’d been ignoring my side of it when he’d just been sidestepping a conflict. It seemed like Richard had come away with the same impression.
I had just never taken it that personally, and I felt like it was weird that Richard had.
“Yeah, that reframes a few things,” I grumbled. “The last thing I want is to cause that much trouble.” I nodded my head to Noaich towards the tunnel through the town’s protective bramble wall. “Let’s get out of here, buddy. Jenna and I will make a plan in the morning, and we’ll handle this like mature adults and avoid getting stabbed in the back.”
Spending the night in the dirt outside town wasn’t ideal, but Noiach didn’t seem to be put out by it at all, and happily turned around and started to crawl back out. Before I could kneel down to follow, Jenna grabbed my hand. Her other hand comfortably fit along my jawline, her thumb on my cheek. I was surprised to find that her hands were warm.
She turned my head to look her in the eyes.
“Be careful out there, alright?” she said, suddenly very serious. “You know what kind of things hunt out in the woods at night.”
“Of course,” I said instantly. “Don’t worry about me, babe. I’ve got a Beastmaster radar now.” I tapped my temple. “I can hear danger coming from a mile away.”
submitted by AuthorRKeene to redditserials [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:20 smithd98 GPT4 Analysis of my data! Stress is the biggest thing for me to focus on.

GPT4 Analysis of my data! Stress is the biggest thing for me to focus on.
I bought an Oura Ring because I want to improve my health. I knew my sleep was garbage and for 2 years Oura has been telling me that everyday along with the standard recommendations that I've read in blogs and the book Sleep.
What I REALLY wanted from Oura was to get specific recommendations on making changes to improve my sleep and health.
Last week I read about someone who saved their dogs life by plugging their vet's blood test results directly into ChatGPT4 along with symptoms.
I thought.... What would ChatGPT tell me with my data?
Downloaded my JSON data, CSV probably would have worked but I thought Json is probably better for ChatGPT to read.
https://preview.redd.it/97g7ly116ara1.png?width=1706&format=png&auto=webp&s=2b6df3603c391b7b974bd0678d6c6e49a55737d5
Truncated my data to the last 30 days for files that I could. The files were way too big for ChatGPT to take in. Actually now that I'm typing that out, CSV would probably have made that process easier. Some of the files were too big anyways like daily activity and daytime The JSON files I truncated and then copied and pasted the data into ChatGPT were: march bedtime, march daily readiness, and daily sleep
OK the data was in! What should I ask?
ME: Based on this data what recommendations do you have for me?
ChatGPT: Based on the data provided, here are some recommendations to improve your sleep quality:
Sleep consistency: Try to maintain a consistent sleep schedule by going to bed and waking up around the same time each day, even on weekends. This will help regulate your internal clock and improve your sleep quality.
Sleep duration: Your total sleep duration varies significantly throughout the month. Aim for 7-9 hours of sleep per night, as this is the recommended amount for most adults.
Sleep latency: On some days, your sleep latency (time it takes to fall asleep) is quite high. To improve this, create a relaxing bedtime routine and avoid stimulating activities before bed, such as screen time or intense exercise.
Sleep efficiency: Some days show low sleep efficiency (time spent asleep compared to time spent in bed). To improve this, ensure your sleep environment is comfortable, dark, quiet, and at a cool temperature. Avoid consuming caffeine or alcohol close to bedtime, and limit naps during the day.
Restfulness: Your restfulness scores vary throughout the month. Regular exercise and stress reduction techniques, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help improve restfulness.
Sleep quality: Your deep sleep and REM sleep percentages fluctuate. Both are essential for overall health and well-being. To improve deep sleep, maintain a consistent sleep schedule, create a comfortable sleep environment, and avoid heavy meals close to bedtime. For better REM sleep, reduce alcohol consumption and avoid sleep disruptions by minimizing noise and light in your bedroom.
Remember, these recommendations are based on the data provided and may not cover every aspect of your sleep habits. It's essential to listen to your body and consult with a healthcare professional if you continue to experience sleep issues.
Those seemed generic to me so I asked:
ME: I don't drink alcohol. What other data would help you provide good answers?
ChatGPT:
I apologize for the assumption about alcohol consumption. To provide more accurate and personalized recommendations, additional data about your lifestyle and habits would be helpful. Consider sharing information about:
Exercise habits: The frequency, intensity, and timing of your exercise routines can impact sleep quality. Regular physical activity can improve sleep, but exercising too close to bedtime might disrupt it.
Diet: Your overall diet, including the timing of meals and the types of food you consume, can affect sleep quality. Details about your caffeine and sugar intake, as well as your eating schedule, will help provide more targeted advice.
Stress and anxiety levels: High levels of stress and anxiety can negatively impact sleep. Sharing information about your daily stressors and how you manage them can help tailor recommendations for improving sleep quality.
Sleep environment: The conditions of your sleep environment, such as room temperature, noise levels, and light exposure, can influence sleep quality. Providing details about your bedroom setup can help identify areas for improvement.
Bedtime routine: Your habits before bed, such as screen time, reading, or relaxation techniques, can affect how quickly you fall asleep and the quality of your sleep. Sharing your bedtime routine will help create personalized suggestions.
Daytime habits: Your daily routine, including work schedule, exposure to natural light, and nap habits, can influence your sleep patterns. Providing this information will help create a more comprehensive understanding of your sleep needs.
Medical history and medications: Any relevant medical history or medications you are taking can impact sleep quality. If you are comfortable sharing this information, it can help provide more accurate recommendations.
By providing more comprehensive information about your lifestyle and habits, I can offer more tailored and accurate recommendations to improve your sleep quality. However, please note that I am an AI language model, and my advice should not replace the guidance of a healthcare professional.
I responded:
ME: I used to exercise often but I broke my foot in January and now exercise much less than I used to. For my overall diet I try eating mostly meats and vegetables. There are many stressful things going on in my life right now including a lawsuit, complex taxes, and I feel overwhelemed. The bedroom is mostly dark. We have an air purifier running that also provides white noise. I try to read before bed, but don't always do that. I typically work from when I wake up until 2:00 monday, wednesday, and Friday. Tuesday and Thursday I usually work from when I wake up until 6PM but sometimes later. I don't take any medications.
ChatGPT
Thank you for providing more information about your lifestyle and habits. Based on the information you've shared, here are some recommendations that may help improve your sleep quality:
Gradual return to exercise: Once your foot heals and you get clearance from your doctor, gradually reintroduce physical activity into your routine. Exercise can help reduce stress, improve mood, and promote better sleep. Begin with low-impact activities like swimming, cycling, or yoga, and gradually increase intensity as your foot heals and allows.
Maintain a balanced diet: It's great that you're focusing on meats and vegetables. Ensure that your meals are well-balanced and include complex carbohydrates, lean protein, healthy fats, and plenty of fruits and vegetables. Limit caffeine intake, especially later in the day, as it can interfere with sleep.
Manage stress and anxiety: Consider incorporating stress management techniques into your daily routine, such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or progressive muscle relaxation. These practices can help you unwind and may improve sleep quality. If stress and anxiety continue to impact your sleep, consider seeking guidance from a mental health professional.
Maintain a consistent sleep schedule: Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, including weekends. This can help regulate your internal clock and improve sleep quality.
Establish a relaxing bedtime routine: Reading before bed is a good way to relax, but try to make it a consistent part of your nightly routine. You may also consider adding other relaxing activities, such as taking a warm bath, listening to soothing music, or practicing gentle stretches.
Limit screen time before bed: Minimize exposure to screens (computers, phones, tablets) at least an hour before bedtime, as the blue light emitted from these devices can disrupt your sleep.
Optimize your sleep environment: It's good that your bedroom is dark and you have white noise from the air purifier. Make sure your room temperature is comfortable (around 65°F or 18°C) and your mattress and pillows are supportive.
Please remember that I am an AI language model and my advice should not replace the guidance of a healthcare professional. If your sleep issues persist or worsen, consider consulting a sleep specialist or your primary care physician for further evaluation and personalized recommendations.
OK now we are getting somewhere!
Me: What is the most important thing for me to focus on right now?
ChatGPT:
Based on the information you've provided, the most important thing for you to focus on right now is managing your stress and anxiety. High stress levels can significantly impact sleep quality and overall well-being. Here are some steps you can take to manage stress more effectively:
Develop a stress management plan: Identify your main stressors and develop strategies to cope with them. This could include delegating tasks, setting realistic expectations, and prioritizing self-care.
Practice relaxation techniques: Incorporate activities such as deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation, or mindfulness meditation into your daily routine to help reduce stress levels.
Exercise regularly: As mentioned earlier, once your foot heals and you receive clearance from your doctor, gradually reintroduce exercise into your routine. Physical activity can help relieve stress, improve mood, and contribute to better sleep.
Seek social support: Stay connected with friends and family, and consider discussing your stressors with them. They might offer helpful advice or simply lend a listening ear. If needed, consider seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor.
Maintain a consistent sleep schedule and establish a relaxing bedtime routine: Prioritize sleep by sticking to a regular schedule and creating a calming pre-sleep routine to help signal to your body that it's time to unwind.
While managing stress is important, it's also essential to pay attention to other aspects of your life, such as diet, exercise, and sleep hygiene, to promote overall well-being and improve sleep quality. Remember that I am an AI language model and my advice should not replace the guidance of a healthcare professional. If your stress or sleep issues persist or worsen, consider consulting a mental health professional or sleep specialist for further evaluation and personalized recommendations.
submitted by smithd98 to ouraring [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:19 AutoModerator Welcome to the vh info Megathread!

Welcome!

Welcome to VaultHuntersMinecraft, the subreddit dedicated to all things Vault Hunters, including Sky Vaults, casual mode, fan art, lore and gameplay.

What is Vault Hunters?

Vault Hunters (VH) is a Minecraft modpack created by Iskall85 and his dev team. It’s a different take on modded Minecraft that uses features and game mechanics from PvE style games like, for example, Diablo and Path of Exile to create a completely new Minecraft experience.
Vault Hunters is structured around running Vaults: monster-filled caverns which the player must enter, loot, and exit or complete the objective before the time runs out.
The ultimate goal of the modpack is to collect all 25 unique Vault Artifacts and use them to run and complete the Final Vault. The main way of getting these Artifacts is finding them in the Reward Crates which you can get by completing the objective in a normal vault.
Because of this, the main gameplay element of VH is running Vaults. By doing so, the player will obtain not only Artifacts but also more and better loot. This loot will enable you to obtain better tools, weapons and gear which makes you run faster, loot more efficiently, hit harder and take less damage. It also enables the player to build farms and other contraptions which will improve everyday life outside of the Vault.
Furthermore Vault Hunters has what you can call a tech tree where you have to collect certain items to unlock new Researches (mods like Refined Storage or Create) and a Skill system that lets you unlock new Abilities and Talents as you level up.

Subreddit rules

The rules for VaultHuntersMinecraft can be found in the About section which is located in the navigation bar at the top and/or in the sidebar. As a visitor or member of this subreddit you are expected to follow these rules to keep the subreddit a positive, friendly, fun and helpful place where we all can enjoy, share and discuss many things related to Vault Hunters.

Useful links

🔹 Official Vault Hunters Website
🔹 Official Vault Hunters Patch Notes
🔹 Official Vault Hunters Discord Server
🔹 Official Vault Hunters Reddit
🔹 Vault Hunters Wiki (Note: not up-to-date for VH3)
🔹 VH3 CurseForge Download
🔹 VH3 Self Hosting Server Guide (Discord)
🔹 VH3 Server Update Guide (Discord)
🔹 VH3 How to set up a Sky Vaults server (Discord)
🔹 VH3 Starter Guide - Info, tips & tricks for beginning players
🔹 VH3 Community Info Document
🔹 VH3 Optimization Mods (Discord)
🔹 VH3 Performance and Utility Mods Document
🔹 VH3 Item Automatability Document

Vault Hunters SMP

The Vault Hunters SMP was created to test, show off and promote the Vault Hunters modpack. It is a whitelisted server (meaning that people who aren’t invited can’t join) where several popular Minecraft streamers play the modpack together in the same world. Some players have been on the VHSMP for all 3 seasons while others only were part of the group for one or two seasons.
 
Hunter Season(s) Channels
Iskall85 1, 2, 3 Twitch, Youtube, VH Vods
CaptainSparklez 1, 2, 3 Twitch, Youtube, VH Vods
HBomb94 1, 2, 3 Twitch, Youtube
Stressmonster 1, 2, 3 Twitch, Youtube, VH Vods
FalseSymmetry 2½, 3 Twitch, Youtube, VH Vods
PeteZahHutt 2½, 3 Twitch, Youtube
SeaPeeKay 2½, 3 Twitch, Youtube
X33N 2½, 3 Twitch, Youtube, VH Vods
Abe 3 Twitch, Youtube
ChosenArchitect 3 Twitch, Youtube, VH Vods
Hrry 3 Twitch, Youtube
itsRyanHiga 3 Twitch, Youtube
KaraCorvus 3 Twitch, Youtube, VH Vods
5up 2, 3 Twitch, Youtube, VH Vods
CaptainPuffy 2, 3 Twitch, Youtube
Fundy 2 Twitch, Youtube
Tubbo 2 Twitch, Youtube
AntonioAsh 1, 2 Twitch, Youtube
Rendog 1 Twitch, Youtube

Subreddit agenda

submitted by AutoModerator to VaultHuntersMinecraft [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:19 Imustknowy Is this Jocasta complex?? Or BPD?

My MIL is one of the weirdest people I have ever met. Ever since I met my husband she is obsessed with her sons sex life. For context she grew up communist and in a boarding school. She never dated. She ended up marrying the only unmarried boy in her town. They moved to the US. She fell pregnant her husband who started to decline with MS at 30. He could not longer function and has been in a nursing home since the 90s. She ended up raising my husband alone. Long story short I met my husband during the pandemic. Since the very beginning she has been manipulative and try to break us apart. She has no filter. One of the first times I met her she came into my room and went into my underwear drawer and pulled out a thong. She told me I was a whore for wearing that. She would constantly calls me fat and ugly and say I’m surprised my son is into you because you are not skinny and blonde (I’m Latina). My husband is always sticking up for me and yelling at her. She reply’s with “I’m the mother and you’re the son”. At a point she was completely finiacally dependent on my husband. He was paying for her rent, phone, car, cable etc. We decided to move out of state. And he cut her off. That’s when she become crazy. She gifted me lingerie and said this is for you to have sex with my son. I thought it was weird. A few months later I fell pregnant and had a miscarriage and she told me she was glad because she wishes her son married a Russian woman and now since I had a miscarriage he has a chance again. A few months later we got married. She showed up late to the wedding and told me right before pictures I looked fat. I’ve tried to stay civil with this woman after all of these horrible things and these are just the slight few. She never makes any attempt to see her grandchild or even ask about her. My baby is 9 months and she has only seen her maybe 8 times. We moved back and We do not live far at all. The last time I went to her house she had hung up a picture that my husband sent her of all of us. But she cropped me out framed it and hung it up. I asked her why. She said she loved how her son looked and didn’t think it was weird. On the latest occasion. She gifted me lube and said it was to have sex with her son. I was so offended I cut her off. She is harassing my husband saying that I need to talk with her. Once again she is trying to manipulate the situation and is trying to gas light me. The lube she bought me was the brand chivaye. She says it’s for taming skin and a moisturizer. She sent me countless messages how I am misunderstanding and she loves me like a daughter. I told her I am done with her behavior and haven’t answered any of her texts to me. She’s now threatening to put her self into the hospital to my husband. It’s causing lots of stress in our marriage. What would you do ?
submitted by Imustknowy to JUSTNOMIL [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:18 ChickenGasMachine 27 [M4F][M4T] Montreal - Tall alt guy seeking cute and level-headed partner.

I want to preface this by mentioning it's important for me that you be in the general area, just to be realistic. I'm not willing to do LDR.
I'd like to meet someone that's down to do stuff couples do, like laughing at horror movies together, attending concerts and events, eat out, try making a new recipe together and fucking it up, etc. You know, the regular.
I value mutual respect, honesty, straightforwardness, and the ability to agree to disagree on non impactful things.
Kinda got a thing for boyish girls, alt people, shorter people, taller than average women. None of that is a must, I like all kinds of people.
About myself: Physically speaking I am tall, brown haired with blue/green eyes. I wear glasses and sport a handful of tattoos.
I'm a apprentice of the trades while also being employed part time.
Interests vary depending on my latest hyper fixation. I dabble in digital art, am learning how to tattoo, and I repaimod electronics. I like to attend music shows on the weekend.
I speak both French and English.
If after you've read this thing I seem like a good time to you, don't hesitate to shoot a DM.
submitted by ChickenGasMachine to ForeverAloneDating [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:18 No_Tea6239 I need pro tips on avoiding knots/tangles/matting. Please and thank you!

I need pro tips on avoiding knots/tangles/matting. Please and thank you!
First time owning a long-haired cat, we’ve been together for two years and I’m just not keeping up with his fur in the way that he deserves. We brush every day but I guess I’m not being as thorough as I think I am, because huge notes keep showing up so suddenly on his lower chest and belly. I think he’ll have a better quality of living when I figure out how to prevent this from happening. I’m getting to good at getting the knots out and we’re both tired of it.
I’m sure this question has been asked and answered a thousand times, but I would appreciate any pointers. Thank you.
submitted by No_Tea6239 to mainecoons [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:18 Cultural-Error-3744 Amazon fire HD 10.1 9th generation won't power up

Good afternoon and apologies for the length of this post but this problem is now driving me mad, I took my fire tablet off charge to use one morning after it had been on charge all night but it was dead, would not power up at all, I plugged it into a different socket, used a different lead but nothing. I plugged it into my PC and heard the connection sound but nothing came up and nothing showed on the fire screen, then I heard the disconnect sound, then it just kept doing that over again. I have tried the usual holding the power button down and the volume buttons but still nothing. I bought a new battery thinking that was the problem but it didn't change anything, I checked the voltage in the new battery and it shows 4.1v so that is ok, it is showing 5v coming into the board from the charging port when I plug it in so I know it's getting power but that is the extent of my technical knowledge. I reached out to Amazon tech and after an hour being passed around the best they could do was offer me 15% off a new one. I don't want to fork out for a new one until I have exhausted all avenues so any advice would be gratefully received.
submitted by Cultural-Error-3744 to techsupport [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:18 Soeffingdiabetic Eviction notice rant.

Small rant. Just failed my probably 4th eviction notice this week because people go for kills instead of doing the objectives. There's no reason anyone should be 10 minutes into the event and still not have all the meat bags broken, out of the 8 to 10 people there there was one other in person besides myself trying to repair the rad scrubber or do the objectives. I'm getting to the point where I'm about to even start skipping mutated eviction notices because it's a 50/50% chance of failing, and not because of the event itself, bc people don't know how to play it. It wasn't even a bad mutation, it was the explosive one.
If you show up to eviction notice do the objectives, or you're going to help your team fail.
Rant over.
submitted by Soeffingdiabetic to fo76 [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:17 TantraMantraYantra Hudson bay deal was canceled. Warrant shares were still sold and outstanding?

According to 8k, company is holding 400k+ of outstanding stock. But until the $300 mil offering showed up, float numbers were not updated.
So what happened to those shares in Hudson warrant deal? Are they still outstanding or cancelled? Doesn't look like they are cancelled since those funds have been used to pay off debt.
So float doesn't include those shares and can show up potentially later?
This would only mean, all the drop in price was preemptive (with naked shorts) and now the public float with $300 mil sale is what those shorts get to close out if there's reverse split/M&A/buyout/takeover? With 1:20, at 0.5, it's $10 a share and 30 mil shares?
Can someone share thoughts on this?
submitted by TantraMantraYantra to bbby_remastered [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:17 Ozmahli Me (46F) my husband (44M) Just got married. What do I do??? TLDR

In last few months, I have become more and more aware of just how little my husband actually knows me. We have been together for 4 years, and spend every waking minute together when we are not at work. We decided to tie the knot last October when his job was relocating him to another state, and we thought it would be less stressful. We just did a quick visit to the courthouse. (We were both previously married for over 15 years to other ppl, but his wife passed and my ex-husband and I split amicably.)
Recently, when I bring up ANYTHING I am interested in or have a passion for, he just completely ignores me. I am a very co-operative person and I have always hated conflict. (I know. not healthy.) He goes on and on and on and on about his work day, at lunch when he is home, and after work, and even into the night. I go out of my way to be supportive and actively listen and ask questions. He is the only one working right now, as we share a car, so I am at home, in a new state, trying to navigate my own life. I have a thousand examples of him not caring about what makes me tick, or even how my day is. (He asks sometimes, but then walks away while I am talking, and doesn't respond.) I have been so patient blaming myself for not having more to say about what he likes, but last night was the last straw. He listens to heavy metal only. I love metal, but it is not the extent of my musical prowess. We watch movies every night that he picks, and I am pretty quick witted when it comes to discussing anything music and movies. I told him while we were watching "Yellowjackets," that ppl are saying this show is going to do for Tori Amos, what "Stranger Things," did for Kate Bush. He said, "Who?" I said, "Tori Amos." He said, "Never heard of it." Yeah, he said, "IT."
I AM OBSESSED WITH TORI AMOS. I brought my kids up on her, and my 28 year old son is even going to a concert of hers here pretty quick, which I told him about months ago. I sing her in the bathroom ALL THE TIME! And I have been to numerous concerts to see her. My daughter is named "CORI," because I didn't want to be too weird and call her Tori, but still like a tribute. He knows all of this. Like I said, this is one example, but at this point, it is like he is going out of his way to "NOT CARE." I am at my wits end, and there are so many other things wrong with this situation, I could write a friggin' dissertation on the matter. This example is probably futile, but it was like, REALLY? You haven't listened to me talk, like EVER? I am trying to get my socialization online, and go to social gatherings in the community when I can, so I am not bombarding him with MY crap all the time, but it is severely one sided, and my involvement in any relationships is discouraged, or ignored. I even bring up a variety of topics that he may find interest in, and it is like, "Talking to a Wall," as my junior high algebra teacher would put it. Any suggestions on how to navigate this without coming across like a whiny baby who wants her way. Pay Attention to Me!!! That is what I feel like when I think about bringing anything up. I am totally blaming myself for something ridiculous, right? Should I just ignore him and find friends online and in my community to socialize with? I am an idiot for even posting this. I feel so dumb, but it is an everyday occurrence, and seems to be getting worse. Thanks. :)
submitted by Ozmahli to relationships_advice [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:17 SecureEducation9651 Wifi problem with key light

Hey,
I hope that you can help me: I bought 2 new key lights from Elgato and I tried to set they up but I failed.
My first attempt was via the Elgato Control Center and my pc but during the connection process, where I have to select ne wifi network, my wifi didn't showed up. I restarted the router, I checked the 2,4 Ghz module but nothing changed.

After that I tried it with my smartphone and the Elgato app but that also failed. I select one of the key lights, I select connect but then several things can happen:
a) the loading circle is circling for ever and nothing else happen
b) It asks me for the right network but my network is not shown and on top of that, the shown networks are changing from attempt to attempt.
c) b) It asks me for the right network and I select my network but the loading circle is circling for ever and nothing else happen.

What should I do?
submitted by SecureEducation9651 to elgato [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:16 Adventurous-Ear9433 The Serapeum at Saqqara: Center for the Serpent Wisdom,

A Serapeum was any temple/sanatorium dedicated to rhe God Serapis. Like the House of Spirit located not far, but utilized by only initiates of the Serpent cults. They had lots of "healing centers" or Pr-ANKH (house of Life), as it was an important part of everyday life. The latest proper usage was by Im-Hotep the greatest physician to date, and the Cult of Imhotep-Asclepius This photo . Le Serapeum de Memphis shows stones stacked on top of the massive granite boxes ...
During The discovery of the Zawyet pyramid by Alessandro Barsanti- zawyet pyramid he found the very same & had this to say "They had spread over the lid a layer of lime, and over the lime a thick bed of well-spread clay, which entirely prevented it from contact with the limestone blocks stacked over it. I only noticed that the side walls were lined with a black band that was 0 meter and 10 centimeters in height. It is probably the very light deposit of some liquid enclosed in the vat as an offering or libation, and which would have evaporated over the years. It has been hypothesized that this tank was an unused sarcophagus, but I do not think so. The care with which it was protected, proves that it contained something, and the blackish deposit indicates the nature of this content. One would not have taken the precaution of concealing it under an enormous mass of blocks if it had been empty at that time."
You can see the Crystal in this photo taken from the area, these boxes were not for burying anyone or anything. They symbolised life. Photographic evidence of luminescent granite 2010 Granite under stress builds voltage potential on its surface. If the voltage is high enough, it ionizes the air around the surface, creating a glow. To show how the geophysical locations of megalithic architecture wasn't a coincidence , heres an example of harnessing energy from the serpentine lines of the mother Earth (Gaia). Kenya Geothermal -Phys EaLights
Ramses 2nd son Khaemwaset who was responsible for restoration of the Serapeum was a constant researcher of the hidden principle of divine intelligence and the human capacity to rediscover it. Khaemweset ordered that a tunnel be excavated through the solid limestone bedrock, with side chambers designed to contain large granite "sarcophagi "weighing at least 70 tons.
I won't pretend to have any knowledge about construction whatsoever, our lineage have always been healers. the Engineers were the Serpent Priest of the Shakti Cult. Theres a reason India is recognized as the center of knowledge & the last remaining term from the once universal language 'Naga' is associated with India specifically. Today there are a handful of locations one can recieve the rites of initiation in the mystery schools (Khep-Ra In Burkina faso , West Africa, the Tibetan, Australian, and Malavali, India ) Naga are divided into four classes: heavenly, divine, earthly or hidden, depending upon their function.
Something interesting to note that im 1983 a Tru Stone Granite manufacturer acknowledged not having the capability to reproduce the boxes. Tru stone Capability interview Worlds leading Granite manufacturer The Serapeum has always been my favorite site in all of Egypt. Angkor Wat & Maltas Hypogeum are the 3 sites most fascinating because they were basically regional centers for learning the serpent wisdom. Naturally , they would also be healing centers which explains the research Dr Devereaux did in archeaoacoustics. He found the interior or 'Navel' resonates at a frequency of 111hz, which is shown to induce trance like-meditative states.
Ptah -A chthonic god, he reigns over the minerals in the depths of the Earth..With healing, of course is The use of monoatomic gold popularly known as Ormus. The use of the Elixir of Life, (Also 'shewbread, the ' sustenance of the Gods' ' said to promote 'life , longevity & immortality' is to be found anywhere in Egypt that you find the granite boxes. Barsanti pointed out the bottom of the vat had a black ring around it theorizing it once contained some type of liquid that was obviously worth preserving, Kings Chamber is no different. The Maya would call them 'Celestial Waters', its in the Pyramid of Fire Codex. Project Stargates Joe McMoneagle if youre familiar mentioned his OBE sessions would require laying 'in a black cube , on a bed of salts' , some of the large boxes in the Serapeum were for this very purpose.
I wont elaborate on this here im just gonna leave some research i think you'll find interesting. Unzipping DNA gold These granite boxes were functional, as you can tell by the lid being so heavy, it was to prevent breakage. Mirror like finish The inside of the boxes were so level that they their accuracy was within 0.00005 inch, or 0.00127 mm, at least at the length of the gauge which was 14 inches long. he also found that the radius of the corners was very small: 5/32 inch, or 4 millimeters. Acoustic Harmonic resonance. .
People saying "they just stacked rocks' couldn't be more clueless. These people would speak of the spirits in the stones, because they understood nature unlike today. Our spirituality speak of 5 elements, but instead of Earth we have 'mineral'.. like the Inca, we understand that our bones, not our brains, are the storage place of memory. In the West we have a saying: "I knew it in my bones", which refers to a deeper, more elemental knowing than is possible through rational thought. I wonder if those in Silicon Valley, who shave stones to their essence and put them in machines of memory, already know that stones have always managed information. Perhaps the modern world's fascination with the internet can be traced to this vast memory gap. Indigenous people don't look outside themselves they look within. Mineral people are story tellers. Our gift to society is that of remembering, through words and stories, one's origins and purpose
ImHotep founded a medical school in Memphis named Asklepion. Here his cult would entertain the patients who would often stay for weeks. All of this was done in the belief that healing was a sacred art and that people’s souls needed to be mended as well as their bodies.Treatments included psychotherapy, massage, herbal remedies, mud and bathing treatments, surgeries and the drinking of water from the Springs. Energy healing only can be accomplished by the component healer, in harmony with the patient. This is the most difficult aspect of holistic healing practices.
The bull in connection with the heavens have been found, for example the palette from the pre-dynastic period of Naqada (4000-3000 BC). It was believed that the Apis contained the divine manifestation of the god Ptah, and later of Osiris. The Apis bull was the actual receptacle selected by the soul of Ptah to come and incarnate in our Earth density. When Osiris later absorbed the identity of Ptah, he symbolised life in death, that is to say, resurrection. The Osiris living in the underworld is also the Osiris of fertile vegetation, he who has conquered evil and death. . Thus the Babylonian god Ea was called "Serapsi", that is to say "King of the Depths", which also relates to our Egyptian Serapis.OSIRIS - four chief aspects of Osiris were – Osiris-Phtah (Light), the spiritual aspect; Osiris-Horus (Mind), the intellectual manasic aspect; Osiris-Lunus, the “Lunar” or psychic, astral aspect; Osiris-Typhon, Diamonic, or physical, material, therefore passional turbulent aspect. In these for aspects he symbolizes the dual Ego – the divine and the human, the cosmico-spiritual and the terrestrial."
Ive never read much of H.P. Blavatsky but i agree with this sentiment "Egyptian conception is the most suggestive and the grandest, as it embraces the whole range of physical and metaphysical thought…Thus the god is blended in man, and the man is deified into a god.”God Ptah the Blue on top of head later was adopted by blacksmiths. The earliest legends of the history of India mention two dynasties now lost in the night of time; the first was the dynasty of kings, of “the race of the sun”, who reigned in Ayodhia (now Oude); the second that of the “race of the moon”, who reigned Pruyag (Allahabad).
Apis - sign of Tanit - from the front represents the crescent moon (the horns), the sun (the disc that he was always adorned with) and the pyramid (his triangular snout). According to my favorite historian Sanchuniathon "the whole thing was represented by a person raising his arms in prayer to the heavens." The rites surrounding the Apis were considerable. There was even a rite of baptism practiced in Rome much later, when the cult of Apis gained much success. This ritual was very similar to the Christian one. Serapis-Jesus 9 times out of 10, the Jesus Christ depiction you see is actually Serapis Emperor Hadrian, while traveling in Egypt in A.D. 24, declared in a letter to Servianus that the worshipers of Serapis were Christians and that the Bishops of the church also worshiped at his shrine. He even declared that the Patriarch himself, when in Egypt, was forced to adore Serapis as well as Christ.”
In Luxor, Serapis and his brothers, erected a new Temple of the Ascension, which was for endowing us with the “spark” of Christ Self, a divine particle of Fire - part of ourselves Ptah, the former Atum, demiurge, "creator of the World", "the one who shapes", who builds, "the Divine Architect of heaven and earth", "the possessor of creative fire." This is very simply the Kundalini serpent energy within the human body. Enoch said it, in Egypt Jesus obviously studied the mysteries(his teachings), seeing as though he quoted him quite heavily. the Shabaka Stone it is said that Ptah "brought the world into existence." Worship of Serapis
FYI: ImHotep(Hotep- Peace & Food) & Asclepius were the same person. While gathering sources for this post, I found out that this is actually debated by academia today. The Greek knew the sanctity of Sounds & the power of language, more importantly they actually respected the rites taken
Asclepius revered for his oracles at Abydos, was also known to be a magician of dreams - that's to say he inspired dreams that could then be interpreted. Egyptians were big on stylized representations of dieties, Shabti accompanied kings in death & most would have Bes in their bedroom. At the time dreams were seen as an important means of therapy, a fact that is essential for understanding the meaning of the Serapeum. In ancient times dreams were associated with healing and medicine Design was the Ankh cross with the central line split in two at the base, which some believe could be the Ankh sign of life in its very distant original form. A bull then as the symbol of life linked with the sky, linked with resurrection and better still, with ascension.
Dreams were important because this is when the astral returns to the higher self, "Night brings council " is a French saying that sums up the belief here. They considered that a dream symbol gave rise to a different meaning depending on the person. Each person was considered to have their own dream language and detailed work was done on the images and emotions of the patient. But Asclepius did not work only with the priests of his cult, he was assisted by a horde of snakes. Non-venomous snakes slithered all over the floor of the dormitories during the night and were believed to be divinities who mediated between Asclepius and the patient.
Because of the way they shed their skins, snakes were a symbol of rebirth and resurrection. ( word "life" in Chaldean is the same as for "snake", and in Arabic) It was rule, the snake had the reputation of being "invigorating" and bringing eternal youth and immortality. Not just the act itself but Asclepius had a reputation for knowing how to administer doses of poison and antidote, including snake venom, with such skill that he was able to bring the dead back to life. He was known in antiquity to be a master of resurrection thanks to his snakes. The Hopi & Dogon both use snakes in various ritual today when he was transformed into a constellation it was that of Ophiuchus, the serpent bearer.
The symbolism of snake is wisdom, health, and esoteric knowledge.
Ive spoken already about the dolichocephalous skulls found within Mayan temples, and in the ancient Mesopotamia and Egypt. These are the Shining Ones. They had the Knowledge. At Council of Nicea that ‘the powers of gods came from Egypt’. There was a Great White Brotherhood (named for their raiment), a prominent mystery school in Karnak. A branch of it became the Egyptian Therapeutate who in Judea were known as the Essenes. Jesus, being an Essene, most likely was initiated in Egypt at this mystery school, rising up the levels until he became a ‘Master’.
There were hundreds discovered in the Hypogeum, later they were stolen from the Maltese museum. Yet again, desecration of our ancestors to protect a narrative. Maltas elongated Skullsthese skulls belonged to a profoundly wise culture of ‘serpent priests’. The long head must have given a serpent like appearance stretching the eyes and skin. Personally, I think people should stay away from sites such as this which still are held sacred to this day.
Professor Walter B. Emery, an Egyptologist, discovered some dolichocephalous skulls, in Egypt. Emery believed that this ‘race’ was highly dominant aristocracy that governed entire Egypt, mixing only with the aristocratic classes and the scholar associated them with the Shemsu Hor, the disciples of Horus.
ALL Plumed serpents come from the Kushite -Apedemak lion -Serpent-Wings *the Inca Trinity puma, condor, serpent These three animals, sky, earth, and the underworld are represented. Condor, we learn, is the only bird strong enough to fly up to the heavens and deliver messages to God. Also, condor does not hunt and only eats the dead. What condor eats comes harmlessly from the earth and goes back to it. Puma has patience and strength. The snake travels to the underworld, and when it sheds its skin, is reborn, transformed.
"Plumed Serpent is born when that which slithers over the Earth grows wings to be elevated to Heaven. Quetzalcóatl is a superior man, the inner circle of humanity, the link between gods and men. All men are made of earth, air, water, and fire ... But in their hearts and in their semen, each man has his own coatl, his own serpent, the energy of Tonatiuh, the power of the sun itself. And in this serpent sleeps consciousness, in this serpent is hidden his divinity. From this serpent his wings will grow"
Snakes in all forms. The feet of a statue of Imhotep posed on beautiful painted snakes, carved cobras that covered the enclosure walls around the pyramid of Djoser(Truth, Balance) massive friezes of snakes in bas-relief found above the Serapeum, and so on - snakes everywhere. Dendera was another location that youd have found these practices, during this time it was actually called Enet-ta-ntr Temple. inscriptions Serpent Consciousness
submitted by Adventurous-Ear9433 to Echerdex [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:16 United_Holiday_7413 i confirmed my LD boyfriend has been cheating on me

We started dating June 2022. Met him here on reddit.
I posted here like 2 weeks ago that Im thinking my ex bf was cheatin on me, deleted that post already tho.
TLDR: Found out bf made a reddit throwaway account to find a local date. He has been posting on dating subreddits since last November till march.
Long story How i found out: friend told me she found a post on a dating subreddit about a guy who sounds like my Bf based on his post. Read the post, yep it really seems like it's him (the acc used was a throwaway/newly created one). The account has been looking for a date since November 2022. Confronted bf, he denied it, i brokeup w/ him. We remained in contact after that. He kept denying it. I was starting to believe him but then he mentioned the name of the throwaway acc, which was WEIRD because i never showed nor mentioned the account's username. Confronted him again, he denied it. He says he just happens to see the post on reddit and he remembered the username. Shit excuse, i wasnt fully convinced, but we remained in contact since there is no solid proof. Gaslighted me, that i dont trust him, im crazy, im a psycho. So movin on, i did some digging on that account, it seems like it made a post that has a link to an image and video of dogs. Guess whose dogs those are. My boyfriend's own dogs. He also made a post with a link that leads to an image of his discord profile picture. Lol. It was the most solid evidence. Confronted him about. Told him 'hey you said the account wasnt yours right? Why the fuck did he post pictures of your dogs tho? Why does he have a picture of ur discord profile picture?' I thought he would admit it this time actually, nope still denied it. Gaslit me till the end. Says i dont trust him, then i should just fuck off, im crazy, 'believe what u want'. I did fuck off. We cut contacts after that. 2 weeks of no contact right now. I have accepted the fact that he will never admit it.
It's my first time being cheated on. It's funny that you laid down all the evidence in front of them and they still deny it.
It sucks. I thought he would be the one for me. I was excited to meetup. Already planned a future with him. Im still healing right now, it still hurts a bit whenever i try to think about it. But the fact that I confirmed the cheating makes it easier for me to move on. Been trying to learn new things to help distract myself, spend time with friends. I have been played by him since last November. All this time he keeps telling me he loves me but at the same time looking for a local date on reddit. It's wild.
He broke up w/ me middle of november but remained in contact. He would still say he loves me even after the breakup. I told him i love him too and i would want the relationship again. Early January we stopped messaging each other. I finally accepted that he must really not want me. After weeks, he messaged me again late January and asked to date and I agreed. I ask myself why did he even return to me that time when he would just be looking for local girls anyway? He was posting almost every week starting nov till march on dating subs. What am i? Entertainment while he finds someone near him? It's so cruel.
There were signs that 'something was wrong' the whole time. But i chose to ignore it. I guess Gut feeling really never lies.
I had fun scrolling in this sub when we were together. Looking at happy couple's posts meeting up, hoping one day it would be our turn.
My first Long Distance relationship ends here.
submitted by United_Holiday_7413 to LongDistance [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:16 CovfefeNetwork Covfefe [SMP] {Whitelist} {Shopping District} {New Season} {18+}{1.19.4}

IP: play.boxxymc.fun

NEW SEASON IS OUT!
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
Hello! Thank you for clicking on our page!
Do you like survival? Do you enjoy SMP? Do you love Hermitcraft? We do too! Join our Hermitcraft-inspired vanilla server, CovfefeCraft! New things happen on the server every minute. Trading, dragon fights, new redstone inventions, competitions, events, making friends, and many more!
If you are in a rush, feel free to click the links below to get started, or, you could allow us to tell more about ourselves before making your decision.
━━━━━━━━━━━
▶ Quick Links
━━━━━━━━━━━
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
▶ About Us & Values
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
We play in a beautiful minecraft world that is designed specifically for our needs, by our own staff and players. Player built shopping district with diamond based economy, creating possibly the most immersive experience you can have in a SMP.
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
▶ What's in 1.19 CovfefeCraft?
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
━━━━━━━━━━━━
▶ Applications
━━━━━━━━━━━━
CovfefeCraft employs a thorough whitelist process because we cultivate our community right out the gate. We've been successful in curating a community that is friendly, interesting, and overall a joy to be a part of. Our whitelist process is as follows:
JOIN OUR DISCORD TO APPLY!
━━━━━━━
▶ Rules
━━━━━━━
These are the two most important rules that we value. More rules can be found in our discord.
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━
We take each of our applicants seriously and wish to everyone the best in the process. Applications are reviewed daily so applying now is never too late!
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ignore this :p
Java and Bedrock Crossplay Server IP - Play Custom Item Survival and Diamond Economy Vanilla SMP Looking for a Minecraft server that supports both Java and Bedrock editions, allowing you to play with friends no matter which version they're using? Look no further than our server! Our server offers two exciting game modes to choose from: Custom Item Survival: A unique survival experience where you can obtain custom items and gear to enhance your gameplay. Diamond Economy Vanilla SMP: A classic survival experience with an added twist - diamonds are the currency! Our server also features a variety of mini-games and community events, including Minecraft Realms, Hivemc, Minecraft Maniacs, Minecraft Skyblock, Minecraft Faction, Minecraft Parkour, and more! With regular updates and an active community, there's always something new to discover on our server. Join our Discord community (https://discord.gg/h7rs4jjff5/) to stay up-to-date and connect with other players. So, what are you waiting for? Come play with us and experience the best of both Java and Bedrock editions on one server!
Click here to join our Discord!
submitted by CovfefeNetwork to mcservers [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:16 ssfsx17 One fan's report of the LA show

The show itself was nothing less than incredible. Nothing especially new in-ring. Rather, it was about the energy created between the wrestlers and the crowd. Sayuri Namba was consistently an extremely cool person, and was vital to directing the crowd. Also in general, when TJPW is in go mode they become superhuman. Seeing them do their thing up close gave me a new level of appreciation for their balance of gaining energy from the crowd, while still having excellent execution.
submitted by ssfsx17 to TJPW [link] [comments]


2023.04.01 16:14 between_pauses Can't tell if I'm being slow-faded while match is on vacation

Hey everyone,
I matched with a girl on hinge around a month ago. We texted for about a week after meeting up, every time she'd send me multi-line responses and ask questions at the end but I noticed she always took 24 hours or so to respond. Since this was pretty consistent from when we first started texting I figured it's just her communication style as opposed to not showing interest. Date rolls around and it goes great, started with coffee and we both seemed to be clicking so I suggested to extend the date by checking out a small museum nearby and then later grabbing lunch. She paid for the meal and turned down my multiple attempts to try and split it which I thought was a nice gesture. We kissed before parting ways, all in all it was a pretty good first date. I texted her the usual "lmk when you have made it home safe" afterwards and then asked her out again for the following weekend.
She takes a day to respond to this, saying she'd love to but is traveling to Mexico for the next week and would be down after returning (which she told me that she gets back today, her trip was last weekend through all of this past week). Knowing that either side traveling is usually a good catalyst for losing interest or ghosting I asked her out to just watch the sunset on the Friday before her trip but prefaced it with "totally get it if you're busy packing then or have an early flight". She turned it down saying she was going to be packing then but reaffirmed interest in meeting up when she's back.
I continued texting her during the period she was supposed to be in Mexico (been more or less matching her energy by sending messages once a day or so), not knowing if she's able to send/receive actual texts in another country since it depends on carrier, foreign phone plans and whatnot. We had exchanged instagrams during the first date and I noticed that she was posting vacation pics to her story however. She responded to my text about 2.5 days later which was Tuesday, indicating that she does have cell service out there or at least texting capability in some form. I responded Wednesday night and also asked her out for Sunday (again mentioning "no worries if you're tired from the return trip" to show that I respect her time/other commitments and avoid coming off as a little pushy or desperate to meetup). Since then it's been crickets for about 60 hours.
The thing is she was posting vacation stuff on her IG story almost every day at first but not since Wednesday before I texted her. This makes me think that since then she's just gone somewhere remote and doesn't have reliable service, or just blocked me from viewing her story (highly unlikely scenario that my anxious-attachment style mind cooked up lol, chance that someone who's basically a stranger would live rentfree in her head enough to take the effort to do that is slim, also if she was going to do that it'd just make a lot more sense to block or remove me from insta entirely at that point).
So yeah idk if I am being slow faded/breadcrumbed or if I should give it a couple more days and reach out again and see if she wants to do something next weekend (at least it will be a more clear answer depending on if she responds, since as a rule of thumb in online dating "if it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"). I feel like me asking her out twice now on a more tight notice might have made me come off as too pushy and made her lose interest :/
submitted by between_pauses to dating_advice [link] [comments]